FabSwingers.com forum: Was it you

By *ire_blade OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I've no idea who you are but as I only use the forum I'm sure you'll read this. If you couldn't tell from my face it is not OK to walk up to somebody in the Trafford centre and say "oh I know you your bladey aren't you" and continue to say "yes you know off fab" the girl with me was my daughter you not right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WTF?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg!!!

that is not good! People need to engage their brains!

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Ffs are you kidding me?

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By *ire_blade OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Ffs are you kidding me?

I wish I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omfg that is so out of order

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By *he Big Five OhhMan
over a year ago

bristol

What a complete tw*t..

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

And some people think having some sort of item to indicate you're a swinger would be a good idea?

Sorry that happened, it's crap when it does. People are stupid at times.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

"Ffs are you kidding me?

I wish I was"

Shit not good, hope no repercussions with your daughter X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely out of order....

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

There are some right tw**s on here, that's awful!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

. How did your daughter react, did she twig?

Sorry this happened it must have been horrible.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

There are certainly some idiots about who lack discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trouble is that there will always be idiots who do this sort of thing so maybe it's best to have hidden face pics if it's something you want to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of dickheads about, that's for sure. Creepy and horrible experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#awkward

and that's why it's not good imo to have public face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some fuckin bellends out there,should have slapped them

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By *ooking for bbwsCouple
over a year ago

secret garden chilling, always something to do in the garden

"And some people think having some sort of item to indicate you're a swinger would be a good idea?

Sorry that happened, it's crap when it does. People are stupid at times."

let's just hope it stopped at fab, an ur daughter is not old enough to understand!

It's so insensitive to say that! Mrs, hense when I meet people that only get i work on the till, an not where ir which shop! No-one can be trusted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday whilst in the city centre I saw a women I'd met, we both recognised each other but didn't let on, she was with people (family I'm guessing), I'd never let on to anyone in public who I knew off fab, whoever it was that did that is a brainless moron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has this person never heard of discretion

what a numpty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disgusting that is, few words I'd use to describe them but won't put them on here

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By *ire_blade OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

If I'd had anyone else with me I'd not be happy but not really that bothered hence I have fave pics but my daughter come on ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Disgusting that is, few words I'd use to describe them but won't put them on here "

i'll say it for you,fuckin silly cunts

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Fuck sake, have some tact people, sup with ya, harranging folk going about their daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I'd had anyone else with me I'd not be happy but not really that bothered hence I have fave pics but my daughter come on ffs"

Well whoever it was will see this and hopefully PM you an apology after realising how stupid they were to do what they did.

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By *ooking for bbwsCouple
over a year ago

secret garden chilling, always something to do in the garden

"Yesterday whilst in the city centre I saw a women I'd met, we both recognised each other but didn't let on, she was with people (family I'm guessing), I'd never let on to anyone in public who I knew off fab, whoever it was that did that is a brainless moron

Same was walking through town,an saw a fuck buddy, think I most of gone a bit red, but only nodded at him, she only guessed as she was on ere too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've no idea who you are but as I only use the forum I'm sure you'll read this. If you couldn't tell from my face it is not OK to walk up to somebody in the Trafford centre and say "oh I know you your bladey aren't you" and continue to say "yes you know off fab" the girl with me was my daughter you not right

No no no. Jesus. Get a clue!

That just soo bad. Hiding your face has its benefits.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

That is totally unacceptable! What did you say? If anything....

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Unbelievable!!!

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

Sorry to hear that. Some people think that fab is their entire world. You are lucky daughter will not sway with how she thinks of you if she decides to Google fab. You are a great dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People never cease to amaze me, the phrase "how stupid can you be?" Seems to becoming more of a challenge than a question to some people these days.

Ess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What. The. Actual. Fuck!!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

That is shocking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it a man or a woman who did this?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Male or female?? Bloody idiot either way!

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By *ornylady71Woman
over a year ago

near Bury

I'm sooooo sorry for you, no wonder your understandably unset & angry. In my eyes normal life & wot goes on in Fab are separate. I saw a guy in pub off Fab, wud never even dream of letting on to him & vice versa, discretion is the key & always will be !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously? How does natural selection not deal with these aberrations? Feel for you there Bladey Geezer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. Really sorry to hear this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that sucks beyond belief!! Hope whoever it was reads this and realises what a huge cock up they made and apologises to ya Bladey x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There are absolutely no circumstances whatsoever where something like this is acceptable in those circumstances, hopefully the culprit will see this and not only realise the error of their ways, but have the decency to apologise without question.

Sorry you had to go through that Bladey.

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By *ire_blade OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

It was a guy. Younger than me but to be honest I was more interested in moving away before he said out else. I just wish I knew who it was but I've not a clue. He must have got it wasn't happy from my face. I just to my daughter it was a customer of mine

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Seriously?! Bloody hell if someone did that to me when I was with my family I'd quietly go berserk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone loves a fireblade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god, that's awful.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I hope the twat who did that reads this thread and feels thoroughly ashamed of themselves. I don't know how old your daughter is, but if she's still a child it's beyond belief that anyone would think confronting you like that is appropriate in any way at all. I hope it went over her head. Something of that nature happening is my worst nightmare ....

.... but regardless, *whoever* you were with, it's utterly wrong to compromise your privacy. Whoever it was must be incredibly insensitive and stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is just about as far removed from appropriate as you can get. Wow. What a numpty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was a guy. Younger than me but to be honest I was more interested in moving away before he said out else. I just wish I knew who it was but I've not a clue. He must have got it wasn't happy from my face. I just to my daughter it was a customer of mine "

I really wish you had off baited this person out rather than telling us first!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

at least he didnt say fab swingers i never say hello to anyone i meet outside cos you never know who they are with

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

That's shocking

Some people don't have brains they were born with!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Some people really have the discretion of a charging bull elephant. I am glad you managed to salvage the situation.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

This happened to me in August, when I was with my ex and sprogs

Took some explaining to do

That's why I went UNLOS all of a sudden and took some time out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WTF?????

Wasn't me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I get that it's bad that the person recognised you, and said something in front of your daughter, but we are all on this site for the same reason, we are consenting adults and not doing anything wrong! Are you embarrassed to be on this site or embarrassed that your a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0mg some people have no brains! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WTF?????

Wasn't me...

xx"

LOL

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

"WTF?????

Wasn't me...

xx"
oh yes it was hehe xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's awful

So sorry for that OP. Some seriously disrespectful people on here

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a tad crass and very disrespectful

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By *ire_blade OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Ok I get that it's bad that the person recognised you, and said something in front of your daughter, but we are all on this site for the same reason, we are consenting adults and not doing anything wrong! Are you embarrassed to be on this site or embarrassed that your a swinger? "

I'm embarrassed about nothing if I was I'd not have face pics up. The point is I had a child with me

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

Are you kidding with this response omg

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Some people prefer to keep their hobbies a secret, regardless of whether it can be considered embarrassing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WTF?????

Wasn't me...

LOL"

No wasn't her either...

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Sorry that this happened in the presence of your daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm embarrassed about nothing if I was I'd not have face pics up. The point is I had a child with me

Exactly!! Time and place and this situation that happened to the OP was neither

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How come you don't have face pics then?

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

"WTF?????

Wasn't me...

LOL

No wasn't her either...

xx"
i swear it was you two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me n taff bumped into each other in a restaurant last Christmas. We were both with family we just made eye contact with each other in the mirror.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He had his daughter with him?? So you are out with your children and someone comments about you being on fab, you'd be happy with that?

It's not about being embarrassed it's about time and place and that wasn't it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not saying it's right 'cos it's clearly not but don't you think the amount of time people spend on here they get rather familiar & forget what's acceptable in the outside world.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WTF?????

Wasn't me...

LOL

No wasn't her either...

xx i swear it was you two

Lucky we already know Bladey or you'd get us in trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not saying it's right 'cos it's clearly not but don't you think the amount of time people spend on here they get rather familiar & forget what's acceptable in the outside world.....

Anyone with any sense doesn't aproach someone with a minor and be blatantly so stupid to start talking about fab however familiar things are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had that on my 40th whilst out with my mother, so I feel for you xx

Some people don't know the meaning of discretion.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

That's just not rite.

I no I've had a tether in the parst about meeting at random on the street but that's on a 1 to 1 basies if both sides are on Thar own not if your with sumone els to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not saying it's right 'cos it's clearly not but don't you think the amount of time people spend on here they get rather familiar & forget what's acceptable in the outside world.....

Anyone with any sense doesn't aproach someone with a minor and be blatantly so stupid to start talking about fab however familiar things are..."

Who said everyone on here has sense?! The everydayness on here is anything but sane on occasions.

Unfortunately you can't control what others do, if you don't want to be 'outed' don't have public face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He had his daughter with him?? So you are out with your children and someone comments about you being on fab, you'd be

It's not about being embarrassed it's about time and place and that wasn't it! "

Different strokes for different folks I suppose, coz it wouldn't really bother me, I just class fab as another dating site I'm on! My son who is 9 would have no idea what the person was speaking about and if he asked I would just say it's a dating site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is so creepy!

I'm sorry that happened to you with your daughter!

It makes me want to take myour pictures down.

There are so many creepy idiots on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unbelievable what a mindless idiot. Just so out of order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see 2 fabbers nearly every day walking down our main st. One a TV the other a woman. . Never said a word to them

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Sorry hear this some idiots not infront of daughter.

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

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what am idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Bladey you are obviously far too happy and approachable when out shopping

No one with an ounce of self preservation would come near me while I'm being dragged round Lakeside as a human shopping trolley

Wonder if they'll leave a veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasnt me ....would just stare if i noticed someone off fab ...with my mouth wide open

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Some folks just have no idea how to behave in a public place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're becoming a celebrity in Manchester.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What on earth are you doing in that hell hole in the first place?

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By *esiderataWoman
over a year ago

St Helier

That is so disgraceful. What is so wrong with twats like that. Hope all is well x

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

So sorry to hear this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you find our who did it. It's completely disrespectful and idiotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wasnt me ....would just stare if i noticed someone off fab ...with my mouth wide open

Watch out or they might think that was an invitation

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By *ral DMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Ive had this happen to me twice!!! Once when i was at a business meeting and once when i was shopping with my kids. By blokes each time!!! Since then i quit fab and came back with an aka name. So when they shout my name i know where they have got it from and ignore them.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Ffs!! What's wrong with some folk!

Love your posts but to see you and approach you in public, no, just no! Smh!

There's a person in particular we just know won't be able to help themselves if we see them in public, won't be happy at all.

Madness OP. Glad all is okay with your daughter about this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unforgivable x

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Bang out of order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wasnt me ....would just stare if i noticed someone off fab ...with my mouth wide open

Watch out or they might think that was an invitation

Closing mouth ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not good im out with. My kids sometime and would not be happy if that happened

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By *ire_blade OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"What on earth are you doing in that hell hole in the first place? "

My daughter wanted crimbo prezzies for her mum and half brother or I'd not be near the place

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

He had his daughter with him?? So you are out with your children and someone comments about you being on fab, you'd be

It's not about being embarrassed it's about time and place and that wasn't it!

His daughter might be a little shocked to find out her father is being approached by men from a dating site.

You are clearly OK with your children being there if you are approached, in theory. Let's hope it never happens in practice. Nine year olds can be quite curious and computer savvy.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

That's out of order.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Ive had this happen to me twice!!! Once when i was at a business meeting and once when i was shopping with my kids. By blokes each time!!! Since then i quit fab and came back with an aka name. So when they shout my name i know where they have got it from and ignore them."

Lets hope they dont find your new name and shout that one out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What on earth are you doing in that hell hole in the first place?

My daughter wanted crimbo prezzies for her mum and half brother or I'd not be near the place

Order online from the comfort of the pub....

Oh and it wasn't me!!

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