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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had my 6 monthly whatsapp last night I tend to get them around my birthday in June and in December. It's been like this for 2 years, they always say I'm in the uk, how are you, you seeing anyone yet! It's the guy I dated (or was shagging) for around 4 months in 2014. Reckon it's a familiarity thing? I know he's not sniffing for a rub because he never asks for one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he must be sniffing must just be you dont show him the green light to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha I have one of them. I loved him when I was a teenager. He was only interested in the blow jobs. Now he's single n wanting me I'm like to little too late. Busted him out last week cos he wanted to ring me for just a chat....OK si and you honestly won't be wankin at the same time. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"he must be sniffing must just be you dont show him the green light to ask"

I know he's not sniffing, I've offered in the past and he's said it's not a good idea. Like when he first went away in Oct 2014 he came back at Xmas and said he was back safe but went away in jan 2015 and came back in June and got in touch. I made every suggestion that I wanted and was up for a fuck but he's always said he's just checking how I am and if I've found anyone yet, we've met for coffee and a catch up and had cwtches but that's it. Apart from June this year which was the first time I didn't ask to see him and then he said he wanted to come down and we did have sex but this most recent message is genuinely just asking how I am and what's going on.

It just puzzles me what he wants or is thinking, as he never asks for anything. If it was trying to get a fuck I'd understand but it's not, he knows I'd have sex with him (I think he does) so I dunno. I'm not arsed or bothered, I just always have a moment of wondering what his intentions are when he does these 6 monthly check ins!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he must be sniffing must just be you dont show him the green light to ask

I know he's not sniffing, I've offered in the past and he's said it's not a good idea. Like when he first went away in Oct 2014 he came back at Xmas and said he was back safe but went away in jan 2015 and came back in June and got in touch. I made every suggestion that I wanted and was up for a fuck but he's always said he's just checking how I am and if I've found anyone yet, we've met for coffee and a catch up and had cwtches but that's it. Apart from June this year which was the first time I didn't ask to see him and then he said he wanted to come down and we did have sex but this most recent message is genuinely just asking how I am and what's going on.

It just puzzles me what he wants or is thinking, as he never asks for anything. If it was trying to get a fuck I'd understand but it's not, he knows I'd have sex with him (I think he does) so I dunno. I'm not arsed or bothered, I just always have a moment of wondering what his intentions are when he does these 6 monthly check ins! "

Then he just sounds like he cares for you must of really loved you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"he must be sniffing must just be you dont show him the green light to ask

I know he's not sniffing, I've offered in the past and he's said it's not a good idea. Like when he first went away in Oct 2014 he came back at Xmas and said he was back safe but went away in jan 2015 and came back in June and got in touch. I made every suggestion that I wanted and was up for a fuck but he's always said he's just checking how I am and if I've found anyone yet, we've met for coffee and a catch up and had cwtches but that's it. Apart from June this year which was the first time I didn't ask to see him and then he said he wanted to come down and we did have sex but this most recent message is genuinely just asking how I am and what's going on.

It just puzzles me what he wants or is thinking, as he never asks for anything. If it was trying to get a fuck I'd understand but it's not, he knows I'd have sex with him (I think he does) so I dunno. I'm not arsed or bothered, I just always have a moment of wondering what his intentions are when he does these 6 monthly check ins!

Then he just sounds like he cares for you must of really loved you."

Definitely not but that's a nice thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's deffo sniffing...and can't blame him! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he must be sniffing must just be you dont show him the green light to ask

I know he's not sniffing, I've offered in the past and he's said it's not a good idea. Like when he first went away in Oct 2014 he came back at Xmas and said he was back safe but went away in jan 2015 and came back in June and got in touch. I made every suggestion that I wanted and was up for a fuck but he's always said he's just checking how I am and if I've found anyone yet, we've met for coffee and a catch up and had cwtches but that's it. Apart from June this year which was the first time I didn't ask to see him and then he said he wanted to come down and we did have sex but this most recent message is genuinely just asking how I am and what's going on.

It just puzzles me what he wants or is thinking, as he never asks for anything. If it was trying to get a fuck I'd understand but it's not, he knows I'd have sex with him (I think he does) so I dunno. I'm not arsed or bothered, I just always have a moment of wondering what his intentions are when he does these 6 monthly check ins!

Then he just sounds like he cares for you must of really loved you.

Definitely not but that's a nice thought! "

Doesnt make sense only reason he phones is hes thinking of you and in a good way sounds like he misses you but realises you dont work but wishes you did and just holding on with the last thread looked at your profile and again why wouldnt he want your body come on your fit Maybe its you that are dismissing what his true intentions are

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Have you asked him directly?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I think he is just being a nice guy, he obviously likes you but maybe more as a mate, I have a similar friend who I hear from now and again, just a quick hi how's things, I wouldn't try to analyse it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I get one about every six months from my last boyfriend. Been going on nearly 12 years, we pass a few texts then thats it for another six months.

No need to over think it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he must be sniffing must just be you dont show him the green light to ask

I know he's not sniffing, I've offered in the past and he's said it's not a good idea. Like when he first went away in Oct 2014 he came back at Xmas and said he was back safe but went away in jan 2015 and came back in June and got in touch. I made every suggestion that I wanted and was up for a fuck but he's always said he's just checking how I am and if I've found anyone yet, we've met for coffee and a catch up and had cwtches but that's it. Apart from June this year which was the first time I didn't ask to see him and then he said he wanted to come down and we did have sex but this most recent message is genuinely just asking how I am and what's going on.

It just puzzles me what he wants or is thinking, as he never asks for anything. If it was trying to get a fuck I'd understand but it's not, he knows I'd have sex with him (I think he does) so I dunno. I'm not arsed or bothered, I just always have a moment of wondering what his intentions are when he does these 6 monthly check ins!

Then he just sounds like he cares for you must of really loved you.

Definitely not but that's a nice thought! "

I agree with him fas. I have the same thing with Simon. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

l was seeing a woman on another site and we spoke from time to time just for a catch up. l'm sure he's just being friendly and curious.

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester


"he must be sniffing must just be you dont show him the green light to ask

I know he's not sniffing, I've offered in the past and he's said it's not a good idea. Like when he first went away in Oct 2014 he came back at Xmas and said he was back safe but went away in jan 2015 and came back in June and got in touch. I made every suggestion that I wanted and was up for a fuck but he's always said he's just checking how I am and if I've found anyone yet, we've met for coffee and a catch up and had cwtches but that's it. Apart from June this year which was the first time I didn't ask to see him and then he said he wanted to come down and we did have sex but this most recent message is genuinely just asking how I am and what's going on.

It just puzzles me what he wants or is thinking, as he never asks for anything. If it was trying to get a fuck I'd understand but it's not, he knows I'd have sex with him (I think he does) so I dunno. I'm not arsed or bothered, I just always have a moment of wondering what his intentions are when he does these 6 monthly check ins! "
. Why does he have to want something? It's not always about fucking, maybe just maybe, he actually thinks about you and wonders how you are, no hidden agenda, just because you end up fucking once in a while doesn't mean he just wants sex.

Take for what it might just be, and enjoy and feel loved by the fact that he just likes to check in and see how you are you know fag, at some point in your life you are going to realise that you are worth the world to someone and not everyone around you wants something from you or is going to mess with your head just a thought, Mrs blue eyes

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