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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok spoken to a few ladies who said they have stalkers on here and ask if i message them say she's taken ect , i don't understand why they would want me too or surely just block they guy right.?

Or is it a sexual thing i'm not aware off.?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Very disturbing to some, probably a sense of achievement to a few.

Nutters won't be gender specific

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very disturbing to some, probably a sense of achievement to a few.

Nutters won't be gender specific

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Yeah i think when i click on the guy not being nasty but hes not gym fit and think these women get off on it ect.

I'm aware of what i look like but not a bully not my style.

Was just curious if other guys been asked to warn others off ect. ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because blocking doesn't always work they leave and come back with new profiles. Most are harmless and more serial lookers than stalkers as such. If they look in stealth mode some you don't even know about.

The lovely world of being online comes at price.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive heard stories like.

Guys hanging about outside the house and all would freak me clean out!!!!

Wackos like that are capable of anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been "lucky" enough and have met couple of stalkers. Usually they haven't achieved anything decent in real life and trying to achieve something by being bully. Desperate and unsuccessful guys I would say.

Blocking button doesn't work as they are usually discover address.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok spoken to a few ladies who said they have stalkers on here and ask if i message them say she's taken ect , i don't understand why they would want me too or surely just block they guy right.?

Or is it a sexual thing i'm not aware off.?"

Don't involve yourself in other people's drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok spoken to a few ladies who said they have stalkers on here and ask if i message them say she's taken ect , i don't understand why they would want me too or surely just block they guy right.?

Or is it a sexual thing i'm not aware off.?

Don't involve yourself in other people's drama. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've saw one of my neighbors on here...and I'm aware she knows of it!

I'm cool with it, but if I've never fancied her when she lives down the road, I'm not gonna fancy her now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drama attracts drama on occasions, steer clear unless you like that kind of hassle.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

A few ladies have asked you to do this? The reason you think they are asking you is because you say you are fit?

If a stranger came into our mailbox and told us to steer clear of someone I would tell them where to go, no matter what they looked like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds fucked up a lot of men on here retaliate when they get the knock back but block the cock simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few ladies have asked you to do this? The reason you think they are asking you is because you say you are fit?

If a stranger came into our mailbox and told us to steer clear of someone I would tell them where to go, no matter what they looked like."

Have to say we agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another white knight in shining armour ???

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Ok spoken to a few ladies who said they have stalkers on here and ask if i message them say she's taken ect , i don't understand why they would want me too or surely just block they guy right.?

Or is it a sexual thing i'm not aware off.?

Don't involve yourself in other people's drama. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few ladies have asked you to do this? The reason you think they are asking you is because you say you are fit?

If a stranger came into our mailbox and told us to steer clear of someone I would tell them where to go, no matter what they looked like."

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few ladies have asked you to do this? The reason you think they are asking you is because you say you are fit?

If a stranger came into our mailbox and told us to steer clear of someone I would tell them where to go, no matter what they looked like."

a lot of men only listen to other men when it comes to not harassing women.

sad but true.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

op think about it, if it was that bad they would block the persona and use the filters from now on..if it is that bad then they have authorities to report them to.

if they say you don't care enough to do this for them..blah blah ....that's blackmail..

so maybe what one accuses another of, is often what they are themselves, hmm?

don't get involved, not your monkey, not your circus x

advise yes, get yourself neck deep in something that should be dealt with with other 'authorities'...no x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Ok spoken to a few ladies who said they have stalkers on here and ask if i message them say she's taken ect , i don't understand why they would want me too or surely just block they guy right.?

Or is it a sexual thing i'm not aware off.?

Don't involve yourself in other people's drama. "

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By *liciaKLWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

i seem to have a fair few stalkers....i don't know if this is normal on here for everyone

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"i seem to have a fair few stalkers....i don't know if this is normal on here for everyone"
define 'stalker'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my eyes its when you've met them, they then start driving past your home and texting saying I see your in can I cum visit. One of the reasons I stopped accommodating

Otherwise I just consider them serial lurkers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although not so much a stalker I had a nutter of an ex than would bad mouth me to people on fab, she even contacted a couple that held parties and told them I wouldn't be suitable when she saw I was going. What goes around comes around to those sad people though. I have awesome fab friends and they helped me out and she is looking a proper saddo these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I googled it theres 5 different types of stalker

1 type is dangerous the ex partner type the others think its romantic.

1 thing they all have in common is psycological issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I googled it theres 5 different types of stalker

1 type is dangerous the ex partner type the others think its romantic.

1 thing they all have in common is psycological issues"

I think you are right. They all have psychological issues. I can see them mile ahead.

Well luckily we will not experience them anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this bloke who like looks at my profile like every day maybe like even three or four times , he keeps banging on about his dog like and wandering about in the woods and saying things like jolly and spiffing ,,, oh hang on its me Phew !

in all seriousness

stalking is wrong and an offence , most blokes on here know that if you get no reply or turned down you pass and move on . some chaps cant stop them selves and its so wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another white knight in shining armour ??? "

Nah. Just another 'look at me' thread.

I don't actually believe OP has had such messages. This is a swinging/sex site. We're not here for dramas and the single ladies are not stupid or even need a minder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another white knight in shining armour ???

Nah. Just another 'look at me' thread.

I don't actually believe OP has had such messages. This is a swinging/sex site. We're not here for dramas and the single ladies are not stupid or even need a minder. "

Fully agreet. Attention seeking to get his profile _iews up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend on fab who is married and her husband doesn't know she's on here. A guy she chatted to on fab tracked her down on Facebook and threatened to expose her to her family if she didn't sleep with him, he created new accounts to get past her blocks so that kind of shit does happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend on fab who is married and her husband doesn't know she's on here. A guy she chatted to on fab tracked her down on Facebook and threatened to expose her to her family if she didn't sleep with him, he created new accounts to get past her blocks so that kind of shit does happen. "

Very close to my story. Normal blokes just don't understand. Only victims feel threatened and volnurable. I nearly have gone to the police.

What i am hoping is to understand that the lesson has been learnt move on. At the end of the day he is just a sad cock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend on fab who is married and her husband doesn't know she's on here. A guy she chatted to on fab tracked her down on Facebook and threatened to expose her to her family if she didn't sleep with him, he created new accounts to get past her blocks so that kind of shit does happen.

Very close to my story. Normal blokes just don't understand. Only victims feel threatened and volnurable. I nearly have gone to the police.

What i am hoping is to understand that the lesson has been learnt move on. At the end of the day he is just a sad cock lol "

You're right that to someone like me the idea of it is so alien that it's hard to get your head around somebody being able to do that to someone else.

I tried to get her to go to the police too as low life's like that need to be stood up to at some point, she's shaken him off now fortunately and is more careful.

You are fookin gorgeous BTW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend on fab who is married and her husband doesn't know she's on here. A guy she chatted to on fab tracked her down on Facebook and threatened to expose her to her family if she didn't sleep with him, he created new accounts to get past her blocks so that kind of shit does happen.

Very close to my story. Normal blokes just don't understand. Only victims feel threatened and volnurable. I nearly have gone to the police.

What i am hoping is to understand that the lesson has been learnt move on. At the end of the day he is just a sad cock lol

You're right that to someone like me the idea of it is so alien that it's hard to get your head around somebody being able to do that to someone else.

I tried to get her to go to the police too as low life's like that need to be stood up to at some point, she's shaken him off now fortunately and is more careful.

You are fookin gorgeous BTW "

Thank you for the compliment. I love your pictures too

Shame you haven't persuaded me too lol

Do you feel sometimes that forums are like kind of therapeutic? I never have been taken part before but kind of drawn now and again

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