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Do you count soft play as sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was reading the other thread about how many people you've had sex with this year. I've just soft played with a couple so no actual penetration. Now is that still having sex? I can't decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its still sex -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont personally count it as sex no

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By *avrobrobMan
over a year ago

colne

Well is it....fore play ...is sex all to do with ..haveing a cock in a fanny ......

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Ask Hilary Clinton

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By *AK74Man
over a year ago

Warwick


"Ask Hilary Clinton

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Ask bill Clinton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its sexual contact..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think of it as sex if it's sexual and involves physical contact. Is it sex if it's a guy wanking who briefly gropes your body? Tough one, I'd like to think not, if I didn't like him but it sort of meets my definition.

Overall I think of those people who I've had sustained pleasure with as my sexual partners and remember them fondly.

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By *ustaceSmithMan
over a year ago

Woodbridge

In the USA, oral sex is not considered to be sex. When Bill Clinton asserted, "I did not have sex with that woman", he was being truthful, but contemptible in his reference to her.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Was reading the other thread about how many people you've had sex with this year. I've just soft played with a couple so no actual penetration. Now is that still having sex? I can't decide. "

I wouldn't count it as sex, surely sex is the actual act of penetration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was reading the other thread about how many people you've had sex with this year. I've just soft played with a couple so no actual penetration. Now is that still having sex? I can't decide. "

if its not that means all lesbians have never had sex

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Yes. If your 16 and want to appear a stud to your mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Was reading the other thread about how many people you've had sex with this year. I've just soft played with a couple so no actual penetration. Now is that still having sex? I can't decide.

if its not that means all lesbians have never had sex "

I was about to say this and didn't post on the other thread as "full sex" 1...soft play...hundreds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would say soft play is still having sex just not penatrive sex but there is so much more to sex than penetration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd count it as foreplay

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Was reading the other thread about how many people you've had sex with this year. I've just soft played with a couple so no actual penetration. Now is that still having sex? I can't decide.

if its not that means all lesbians have never had sex "

And does a strap on count? I feel a need to know the small print as I may have done a reverse Bill Clinton in my answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was reading the other thread about how many people you've had sex with this year. I've just soft played with a couple so no actual penetration. Now is that still having sex? I can't decide.

if its not that means all lesbians have never had sex

And does a strap on count? I feel a need to know the small print as I may have done a reverse Bill Clinton in my answer "

And are all women straight because bi sex isnt sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my mind, there are many types of sex, penetrative sex is just one of them. It is called oral sex because it is a form of sexual intercourse. It all comes down to how you define it.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Was reading the other thread about how many people you've had sex with this year. I've just soft played with a couple so no actual penetration. Now is that still having sex? I can't decide.

if its not that means all lesbians have never had sex

And does a strap on count? I feel a need to know the small print as I may have done a reverse Bill Clinton in my answer

And are all women straight because bi sex isnt sex "

So does this make me an out and out virgin?! Ok too much a stretch that one...

Most straight women find they aren't when I'm around but I can now assure them they're still straight and not afflicted by the curse of fab straightness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call it foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't count it as sex.

It's foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it counts as sex if climax is achieved, other wise it's fore play xx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes, it's just a different type of sex. I think orientation can affect how you view it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Being sexual with someone doesn't have to mean penetrative.

I think I would feel somehow lessened if I was very sexual with someone but because they hadn't penetrated me could dismiss it as not being sex.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Of course its sex, sex is not only about penetration..

'soft play' can be very erotic, intimate contact with another can be as satisfying and even more so than penetration..

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's sex , as the kissing , caressing , and everything involved bring feelings and physical effects from the actions just the same as intercourse .

Ok , by dictionary definition without penetration you may not have had sex if you don't have penetration , but to suggest that everything other than penetration isn't sex is nonsense .

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk


"Was reading the other thread about how many people you've had sex with this year. I've just soft played with a couple so no actual penetration. Now is that still having sex? I can't decide. "

Sexual contact but that's all... Can't get pregnant as not penetrative sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is whatever you want it to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i feel like im almost a born again virgin most of my meets are not penatrive so its been about 5 years since ive had sex

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By *fterYouMan
over a year ago

Cookstown

Ahhh sooo

Having sex requires sexual contact

So you use a sheet, poke a hole in the middle and use a condom.......like bill c ??

Nope you did not have sex !!

BUT.......did you have safe sex

It depends on your point of view

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

soft play is under-rated.......i have had more fun with soft play than proper sex sometimes........absolutely love soft play x

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By *parkle LoungeWoman
over a year ago

Cornwall

Soft play is amazing. I don't count it as sex

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

its not sex to me,

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