FabSwingers.com forum: Where do you work?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pet peeve. As soon as I say I'm a nurse certain gguys want to play a guessing game where I work. I don't ask you where you work. Imagine if someone from Fab rolled up at your place of employ! Awkward . Actually, has this ever happened to anyone? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work all over Europe and the middle east!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, someone once said 'fab day' but that was it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hard to pin you down then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I like this answer and shall use it ha

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By *s cynicalWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I work in a place. Several places. That are big places. And small places. And places where people are.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I work in a restaurant. On the rare occasion i wait tables i always personalise the bills where I can and write on the top 'have a fab day/weekend'

Somehow it seems so inappropriate now hahhaaa

Yes, I have had someone I recognised eat there.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I never discuss my job here. I may tell someone if I meet them, but not always. Too much hassle, too much risk...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always wondered how many people from my work place are on here or go too clubs.

We meet some one from my wife's work place at a club once.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I work in a restaurant. On the rare occasion i wait tables i always personalise the bills where I can and write on the top 'have a fab day/weekend'

Somehow it seems so inappropriate now hahhaaa

Yes, I have had someone I recognised eat there."

That's really funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work for the world's leading global food service

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

During the summer I work in fields that usually have about 10-30k others in them too... If I recognise anyone it would be a miracle... But people do organise meets at them... Just too busy to join in

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I work in a restaurant. On the rare occasion i wait tables i always personalise the bills where I can and write on the top 'have a fab day/weekend'

Somehow it seems so inappropriate now hahhaaa

Yes, I have had someone I recognised eat there.

That's really funny

Yet true...I had used the word fab for years and years and was always my 'go to word' short, sweet and to the point.

It did it the other day, handed them the bill and thought 'oh shit, I wonder if....'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Down the street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the space between reality and fantasy, where visions are born, creativity abounds and the impossible becomes possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the space between reality and fantasy, where visions are born, creativity abounds and the impossible becomes possible

Fuckers are always turning up uninvited

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By *ike00465Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Self employed,

Work anywhere am needed even worked for fab members

Joiner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately everyone on Fab now knows your a nurse...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have temped in various places and bumped into a guy I was meeting one lunchtime in the canteen. To be fair, we both knew beforehand that we had a chance of bumping into each other at work. We ignored each other, but sent some rather inappropriate texts later! It shouldn't have happened, as I worked in the HR dept and had access to every personal detail about him. Fortunately, I am not a bunny boiler, but given the circumstances, we shouldn't have, (or at least he shouldn't have) met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BabyGirl had a disagreement with someone and they threatened to show up at her place of work and tell everyone.

They have not done it (yet)

She's learnt to be more discreet now.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I work with a agentcey as a chef so I tend to work in lots of difrount places unless I get a rolling contract with 1 place....

I say wot town/citty im working in but won't say ezakley wear I work cos at times I work in schools and cear homes with vonarball people.

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde

All over the U.K. US and Europe. Usually London though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unfortunately everyone on Fab now knows your a nurse... "

Unfortunately?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as I'm nurse and lad I met on here actually did turn up at my work once.I went mental at him after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately everyone on Fab now knows your a nurse...

Unfortunately? "

Unfortunately for you I meant

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By *iffraffMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

I'm a painter an decorator. I tell everyone - it's good for business

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unfortunately everyone on Fab now knows your a nurse...

Unfortunately?

Unfortunately for you I meant"

Not at all. I now know other people are chefs and painter and decorators.. it's not a problem lol. Chill ya beans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On another swinging site a guy messeged me and decided he knew who i was and what job i did. He informed me (in a chat room and via private messeges) that he had phoned my workplace and spoke to my deputy etc etc. He was very wrong with my type of work and he got banned by that site. Sadly he has turned up on here with the same threats !

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Unfortunately everyone on Fab now knows your a nurse...

Unfortunately?

Unfortunately for you I meant"

You really shouldn't disclose that kind of information about yourself. Leaves you open to lots of potential trouble...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same as I'm nurse and lad I met on here actually did turn up at my work once.I went mental at him after "

uhhh.. how did that go ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On another swinging site a guy messeged me and decided he knew who i was and what job i did. He informed me (in a chat room and via private messeges) that he had phoned my workplace and spoke to my deputy etc etc. He was very wrong with my type of work and he got banned by that site. Sadly he has turned up on here with the same threats !"

Very very bad. Disgraceful behaviour from him. nightmare X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately everyone on Fab now knows your a nurse...

Unfortunately?

Unfortunately for you I meant

Not at all. I now know other people are chefs and painter and decorators.. it's not a problem lol. Chill ya beans

Is chilling beans advisable... I'm sure just storing in a cool dry place would suffice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I work with a agentcey as a chef so I tend to work in lots of difrount places unless I get a rolling contract with 1 place....

I say wot town/citty im working in but won't say ezakley wear I work cos at times I work in schools and cear homes with vonarball people."

realest

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By *oy man 2Man
over a year ago

i work in rainham. vist me if you wont. lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

People turn up to Dicks work and recognise all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy of a couple we met many times actually got me my job.....still working with him now

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By *earded villainsMan
over a year ago

Epping

I work all over the place I'm a gas engineer and Electrian working for a major company installing home appliances. I won't be surprised if I've come to some of your homes and installed a gas cooker or electric oven. When leaving I always say have a fab day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in an office and yeah I have worked somewhere in the past where a fellow fabster worked.

No probs; we're adults

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"Pet peeve. As soon as I say I'm a nurse certain gguys want to play a guessing game where I work. I don't ask you where you work. Imagine if someone from Fab rolled up at your place of employ! Awkward . Actually, has this ever happened to anyone? Xx "

In your line of work, I dare say you will come across them at some point or other.

To answer your question, I have seen people I chat to on here in work, but they are too busy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was having an intimate examination with the gynaecologist last week and he said to me 'don't I recognise you from fab?',he wasn't looking at my face at the time.

(this didn't really happen but it would have been funny if it had.)

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

I am sorry but I don't care where you work but I do love your sports clothing picture. Can you wear that when we meet.

Back to the question I hope i dont bump into anyone from here at work. As that would be bloody awkward to say the least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same as I'm nurse and lad I met on here actually did turn up at my work once.I went mental at him after

uhhh.. how did that go ?"

Last time I seen him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work on the indian ocean so anyone is welcome to try find me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, if it's a pet peeve then maybe don't tell them what you do...

I usually only tell those who I'm in contact with on a regular basis. No one else needs to know.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I'd shut that down quite quickly and say they don't need to know or say you have a 50 mile commute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined I made a newbie mistake of disclosing the area I worked in, the guy started hanging about the vicinity to 'catch' me at lunchtimes. He was put in his place but some people have no concept of boundaries or discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys usually think I'm a teacher...I'm not. When I tell them what I actually do they always want to know who I work for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell Fab friends what I do for a living, but I don't go shouting about it on the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work at home, so technically it has happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nightclub and a strip club

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Not happened yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a job...... nuts and bolts I'm ya man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

easy to know what I do. Billyx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This did happen to me, i am not a nurse but a healthcare professional and someone i had met on here turned up at work, getting his care transferred to my clinic. Awkward does not even begin to describe it and its out of order

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"This did happen to me, i am not a nurse but a healthcare professional and someone i had met on here turned up at work, getting his care transferred to my clinic. Awkward does not even begin to describe it and its out of order"

That is taking the piss !!!

Luckily I have an office job but if I knew someone was Ina shop I would actually avoid that shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work where it appears that everyone is on acid but they're not

Some days it's a good trip ...

Some days it's bad!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Someone off here turned up to my workplace not once, but twice!!! It was awkward and embarrassing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately everyone on Fab now knows your a nurse...

Unfortunately?

Unfortunately for you I meant

Not at all. I now know other people are chefs and painter and decorators.. it's not a problem lol. Chill ya beans

As a nurse you pay your yearly subscription to the nmc, a higher governing body that monitors professional conduct. Yes I am aware that your life on here has nothing at all to do with your professional conduct at work etc but as the nmc has strict policies on social media you should be careful about disclosing this information on a public swingers forum. The code of conduct for nurses and midwives also states that you should uphold a professional image at all times - announcing to the fab forum that you are a nurse and obviously whatever photos you have on your profile (I haven't looked) could put you in breach of these guidelines, just saying.

Mrs SnT

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By *ooking for bbwsCouple
over a year ago

secret garden chilling, always something to do in the garden

"Unfortunately everyone on Fab now knows your a nurse...

Unfortunately?

Unfortunately for you I meant

Not at all. I now know other people are chefs and painter and decorators.. it's not a problem lol. Chill ya beans

Mrs SnT "

Yes but ur also allowed to av a life too, cause I'm known, even (where I've moved too) i can't tell people where I work, as got family, an was christened at the local church so av to be really carefull wot I say, an also, with my fuck buddy, so people we play with we av to be really carefull, with face pic! So just don't put ur town, use a different word ie in my secret garden!

mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't understand what someone would gain from doing such a thing. It's not going to stand you in good light and you're name would soon get around as a weirdo.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I work wherever I'm booked. Mostly clubs in London

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

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We meet quite a few off Fab in our day job lol.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

I am Boris Johnsons private secretary!

Oh! Shit! Sorry Boris, are we back in the papers again?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's private and I'd not continue a dialogue or meet with someone who continued after I'd made it clear for them to shut up.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"I work in a restaurant. On the rare occasion i wait tables i always personalise the bills where I can and write on the top 'have a fab day/weekend'

Somehow it seems so inappropriate now hahhaaa

Yes, I have had someone I recognised eat there."

I'd love a plate of chips. And a cuppa would be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scaffolder

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"I work with a agentcey as a chef so I tend to work in lots of difrount places unless I get a rolling contract with 1 place....

I say wot town/citty im working in but won't say ezakley wear I work cos at times I work in schools and cear homes with vonarball people."

I wouldn't advertise this fact, the same as I would advertise if I were a nurse. You know people trawl these websites and it would look great in the papers.....'pervert' working with school kids/vulnerable peopel or the nhs. It's not worth the hassle.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"Unfortunately everyone on Fab now knows your a nurse...

Unfortunately?

Unfortunately for you I meant

Not at all. I now know other people are chefs and painter and decorators.. it's not a problem lol. Chill ya beans

It kinda is....code of conduct and all that....

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"Unfortunately everyone on Fab now knows your a nurse...

Unfortunately?

Unfortunately for you I meant

Not at all. I now know other people are chefs and painter and decorators.. it's not a problem lol. Chill ya beans

Mrs SnT

mrs"

Technically you are always potentially putting your professional at risk of disgrace. Not fair maybe but you know the risks when you train.

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By *ooking for bbwsCouple
over a year ago

secret garden chilling, always something to do in the garden

"Unfortunately everyone on Fab now knows your a nurse...

Unfortunately?

Unfortunately for you I meant

Not at all. I now know other people are chefs and painter and decorators.. it's not a problem lol. Chill ya beans

Mrs SnT

mrs

Technically you are always potentially putting your professional at risk of disgrace. Not fair maybe but you know the risks when you train. "

True, hence to close to home as well. Hence Bournemouth, Heathrow, but can't afford that, an can't get home in time, next club to try is the Midlands! Mrs

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

"Unfortunately everyone on Fab now knows your a nurse...

Unfortunately?

Unfortunately for you I meant

Not at all. I now know other people are chefs and painter and decorators.. it's not a problem lol. Chill ya beans

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and more nurses??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a woman on a different site, and went out with her twice. She seemed really nice and I probably let my guard down a little. Unfortunately she turned out to be A little bit crazy, and started to stalk me at my work. I would see her sitting in her car outside watching me, and sometimes she would come in to my place of work and just sort of hangi around. I did my best to be diplomatic with her And she did get the message, but it has made me realise how important it is to understand who you are dealing with before you give too much information. Listen learned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once attended a gangbang and it turned out the mature lady at the centre of attention worked at same place as me. Her hubby who organised the gangbang also worked there, in quite a senior job. Luckily workplace is big enough that our paths crossed very very rarely. Also the lady was blindfolded during the gangbang so she had no idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Had guys asking where we work and a few guys say they recognised Me at work. And saying where I worked. Was proper creepy. Rather people didn't mention if they recognised me at work.

~Mia

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