FabSwingers.com forum: Does where you live disappoint you fab wise?

By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

I feel like I can't find anyone I like in this area. Every man I look at is just not my type.

When I talk to someone who ticks my boxes they're always at least 2 hours away.

What's your area like? Are the people their suited to your tastes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to not look locally. Prefer to meet people from further afield. It gives us an excuse to grab a weekend away somewhere new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like I can't find anyone I like in this area. Every man I look at is just not my type.

When I talk to someone who ticks my boxes they're always at least 2 hours away.

What's your area like? Are the people their suited to your tastes? "

My area is quite decent if you know where to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the single guys around here are army and are not suitable for the way I like to meet. I prefer meeting away from home anyway, so I tend to ignore my local area.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Considering someone once told me I lived in the epicentre of swinging and after being on here for 2ish years I still can't see why he said that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local updates depresses the shit out of me, and the women are even worse, but I've found some absolute gems close to me lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually very good for couples, I meet quite a few of those, but single females I have to travel out of county, problem with Devon is that we have a lot of buff army/navy types and the girls round here seem to go for them, which is cool, preferences and all that,

I don't find many single women locally that like a good old natter before we get busy and to be honest my local status updates are fill of angst and a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some sexy women around here not my type though

ok ok im not theres me

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By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

"Most of the single guys around here are army and are not suitable for the way I like to meet. I prefer meeting away from home anyway, so I tend to ignore my local area. "

I get that a lot too. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, I get the feeling that there's something in the water in South Wales - seems to be a bit of a swinging hub, some really lovely ladies here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually very good for couples, I meet quite a few of those, but single females I have to travel out of county, problem with Devon is that we have a lot of buff army/navy types and the girls round here seem to go for them, which is cool, preferences and all that,

I don't find many single women locally that like a good old natter before we get busy and to be honest my local status updates are fill of angst and a turn off"

Not just me that gets the impression the boys at Lympstone would be knee deep then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find many single women locally that like a good old natter before we get busy and to be honest my local status updates are fill of angst and a turn off

Not just me that gets the impression the boys at Lympstone would be knee deep then..."

But then you get the moaning status when they go back home to their partners and wives... seriously judging by my local status updates there's a lot of promises going unfulfilled...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Do what I do. Have a job that requires you to work around the country and then you can fuck a myriad of people.

I don't have the same problem as you OP, I can imagine it must be frustrating. I'm not sure if you can travel or not but that might be the way forward.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Southampton isn't bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any trouble, quite the opposite but with the naval base, uni and other military men nearby I guess that's helpful. Apart from that there's some lovely locals here too.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Yeah a bit but I tend to have more fun when in Manc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of men on here in South Wales area and West Wales. I stay clear of meeting too close to home.

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Nothing in my neck of woods

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

God yes, all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, there are noone in my area, it is like timbuktu lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If all the women had welsh accents it would be fine... I live near Newcastle tho so they don't. A good reason for a road trip me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like I can't find anyone I like in this area. Every man I look at is just not my type.

When I talk to someone who ticks my boxes they're always at least 2 hours away.

What's your area like? Are the people their suited to your tastes? "

Whatever area you live in, it will only ever be a minority that pique your interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great where we live, we have several 'friends' that live close and therefore it makes it easy for us to meet up. We have 2 guys within a mile of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

I'm the same as the OP ....all locals to me either aren't intrested or maybe there's a fear of being found out as it's a small place where I come from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Birmingham is a swingers paradise, and the fishing village is a hotbed of sexual promiscuity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My actual local area is shite for meeting so I've cast my net further with a larger area

Luckily the men I've met have all be prepared to travel / here on business or we've managed to meet at a convenient point.

If I relied on local I'd be a nun

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

No it's all good

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

it dus up to a point cos im as far southeast as you can get and everyone els seems to be miles away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprisingly rhyl isn't too bad for choice.

xxx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Brighton can be a hotbed of swapping and it seems we are all 5 people away from having sex with others. I tend to look local but am willing to travel for the right person. By 'right' that's assuming the meet includes sex. It's a relatively small group but I guess it's quite an active group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's plenty of attractive people in our area, it's finding people on the same wavelength that's the issue. That could be the same everywhere but we think the region does make a difference.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Only ever found one really good one local to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do what I do. Have a job that requires you to work around the country and then you can fuck a myriad of people.

I don't have the same problem as you OP, I can imagine it must be frustrating. I'm not sure if you can travel or not but that might be the way forward."

Any jobs going at your place

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

I think guys seem more attractive the further away they are. I moved halfway across the country and the guys over this side seems really good until I got here and seriously considered meeting them.

I dunno, maybe reality is always less attractive than unobtainable fantasy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha very

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spoilt for choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think, because I'm not looking for anything specific, don't need an ego boost and have a diverse taste in men, I find it easier to find people to get naked with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very good out here, as people don't want to travel out to the back of beyond lol. I have a house to myself and no luck.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The grass is always greener...

Maybe, subconsciously, you don't really want to meet anyone too local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Manchester.

Only because few women in the forum are close by.

So you should all think about moving up here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all the years I've lived here, I have only ever met one local man..

I'd rather travel or meet someone from elsewhere...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely yes very little happens at all around here post meets get little if no response other from those a long way away a lost cause maybe

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

Only sheep here....

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't like to meet locally and have my looking for options all switched off so I haven't a clue what it's really like where I live since I don't see local updates. It also means I don't meet that often since I only tend to meet when I have time off work. There are people I have met before and would love to meet again and people I haven't met and know I want to but the logistics are a bitch.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes. Manchester.

Only because few women in the forum are close by.

So you should all think about moving up here.

How about you move down here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The short answer is yes.

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10

"I feel like I can't find anyone I like in this area. Every man I look at is just not my type.

When I talk to someone who ticks my boxes they're always at least 2 hours away.

What's your area like? Are the people their suited to your tastes? "

Central London! What you think? Lots of ladies but to much competition for me? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like I can't find anyone I like in this area. Every man I look at is just not my type.

When I talk to someone who ticks my boxes they're always at least 2 hours away.

What's your area like? Are the people their suited to your tastes? "

They are building a new free school down this way soon. Just for info

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

most usually live too far away, and as i live in a village not so easy to get to or for me to meet people as it would be if i was in city. A lot live in ireland, scotland or just in another part of the country who i like the thought of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often think I'm definitely in the wrong area for the quality I'd like to meet

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By *gentlovedayWoman
over a year ago

Tranmere

Oh no I seem to be in a goldmine o Naughtyness there is a lot of fun available by me unfortunately not enough free time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads of mail from local guys, some too local, if they come up as being within a mile I won't meet and there are a lot of guys on here that close to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think most of the women on here that I'm friends with live miles away. So yes it is disappointing but like my privacy where I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We live in County Durham and we have met a lot of fantastic sexy people. We have met a lot of people at the Newcastle Socials and have a club close by x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes not many in my area looking for my age smoking status in first place

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"I feel like I can't find anyone I like in this area. Every man I look at is just not my type.

When I talk to someone who ticks my boxes they're always at least 2 hours away.

What's your area like? Are the people their suited to your tastes? "

I live near Leeds, It's rare I see a local profile that ticks my boxes.. I'm happy to travel for the ladies that tick those boxes.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Most of the 'single' men in York aren't single, aren't my type, or aren't interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah it's not too bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit, yeah. Leeds definitely had more choice. We tend to travel for our meets anyway, but we've barely met since we moved here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no complaints where I live but obviously there are gorgeous guys I want to meet all over the country. Distance is not really an issue as I don't mind travelling.. it's an adventure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope -

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

No, its where everyone else lives that's the problem

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"No, its where everyone else lives that's the problem

100% agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few nice guys in the North east but the majority of hot guys live down south so yes i sometimes wish i was a southener

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"No, its where everyone else lives that's the problem

100% agree. "

Evening trouble

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"No, its where everyone else lives that's the problem

100% agree.

Evening trouble

I'm drinking...you know what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love where I live and well if nobody here fancies me who cares .

I have the best playground in the world North Wales

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

ive met a few local but i prefer a bit further away

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

There have been a few - there are a lot of millitary types roumd here, and I seem to do well by not b eing one of them, if you see what I mean.

There have been some messages from some absolutely loveley/gourgeous women who live a bit far - I don't get that much time, so I really wouldn't go more than about 40 minutes away. I keep meaning to, but I know beter than to promise these days.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

South Wales is definitely good - loads of great socials too, including the big Christmas one in Newport next weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, its where everyone else lives that's the problem

Love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The short answer is yes. "

The long answer is everyone else is in the wrong place and needs to move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose I expected Brighton to be a little livelier, but perhaps that's because I hadn't checked my expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive actually blocked most in my area.so many have proved to be time-wasters over the years

my patience is pretty thin with them now.

so i dont have many options ...i mostly meet a few regulars nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh yeah, I blocked a load so I don't have to see them on my homepage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I live next to the airport I seem to get all the strays staying there for the night messaging me a as I come up local.

Even now put on my profile no hotels.

Not that they read it

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It's the shallow end of the gene pool yet somehow I manage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quite a bit of eyecandy in the south west... doubt id appeal to much of it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm looking I have to be honest and say there are loads of good looking guys in my area.

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By *ntellectualBBCMan
over a year ago

sacramento

Northern California seems rather desolate to me. Either that or I am not as attractive as I would like to believe.lol

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