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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A conversation with a female friend on here sparked this question.

Would women prefer to meet a guy, let him take her out for a few cocktails, a meal, even a show*, before they retired to his place for fun (the bfe if you like) or just meet and get straight down to it?

I think I'd quite like the first but then I'm not a woman...

[*By show I don't mean a West End musical. It could be anything; music, comedy, casino, any form of 'entertainment']

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol,,this is a swinging site not a dating site.

I,ll be fascinated by the replies you get.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

For the first meet I would not go to such attempts... we may not click.. and the last thing I want is for an uncomfortable evenings.

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By *arlee72Couple
over a year ago

Ewell

Seems more like dating than swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first one, though not everything you've said. A drink is fine, though I have met men on here for a meal first before anything sexual took place.

I get a lot more sexual satisfaction when I've met someone socially first. This doesn't mean it's the right way for everyone but it is the right way for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people do this on here..

drinks, dinner etc can all be classed as having a social..

it's entirely up to them whether they then go on to have some fun or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people do this on here..

drinks, dinner etc can all be classed as having a social..

it's entirely up to them whether they then go on to have some fun or not "

I'd draw the line at going to the theatre though

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"A conversation with a female friend on here sparked this question.

Would women prefer to meet a guy, let him take her out for a few cocktails, a meal, even a show*, before they retired to his place for fun (the bfe if you like) or just meet and get straight down to it?

I think I'd quite like the first but then I'm not a woman...

[*By show I don't mean a West End musical. It could be anything; music, comedy, casino, any form of 'entertainment']"

It depends if they are fwb or fb material. There are people I enjoy spending time with as well as having sex, and there are those with whom that just doesn't work.

Both are valued in their own right - horses for courses!

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

A drink first to see if there is any attraction before anything else please x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lol,,this is a swinging site not a dating site."

Except it's not really as black and white as that. Many people on here are also on dating sites for example. I don't think you are either just looking for a relationship or a fuck. There's plenty of grey in the middle...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A conversation with a female friend on here sparked this question.

Would women prefer to meet a guy, let him take her out for a few cocktails, a meal, even a show*, before they retired to his place for fun (the bfe if you like) or just meet and get straight down to it?

I think I'd quite like the first but then I'm not a woman...

[*By show I don't mean a West End musical. It could be anything; music, comedy, casino, any form of 'entertainment']"

You mean you can enjoy each other's company and enjoy the sex together? Far out man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I don't get a lot of time for meets so I like to make a night of it drinks, meal, hotel but with costs shared evenly. Possibly more like a date than a meet, but I've not come across anyone that's found it a problem so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A drink and/or a meal, fine. A show or a film would push it too much into date territory for me.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We always have socials ,we have been for a meal with one couple.

Nothing wrong with getting to know the people you play with first.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer a social first, drink or a bite to eat. See how we get on.

But agree with others, a show or cinema etc starts getting a bit too 'datey'

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

nothing beats a date op for getting one into the right frame of mind for doing ones best work between the sheets .

emotions heighten sex so if there's genuine attraction emotionally as well as physically then that's even better in my opinion .

all the best sex I've ever had has been when I'm emotionally as well as physically attracted to the woman so taking her out for a meal dating style or even better going away for a naughty weekend with her is guaranteed to deliver a truly unforgettable memory . which is what I'm looking for memories that will last something fucking for fucking sake never delivers in my experience .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try and meet for a drink or two beforehand. Just makes for a better meet overall, your both more relaxed, any awkwardness is gone and just makes the whole thing more enjoyable.

Plus it's nice spending time with someone and getting to know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd like the sex first, then go out, then some more sex.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"people do this on here..

drinks, dinner etc can all be classed as having a social..

it's entirely up to them whether they then go on to have some fun or not "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds pretty awful to me.

Maybe get ratted and have mad d*unk sex but the rest is dating to me

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

I would start with just a drink. A meal could be endless if you don't click on meeting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A drink is fine...anything more I'd class as a date and I have no interest in that

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