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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it when you would like to have a private word with someone you can't due to their privacy setting.

this is just an observation by the way, I have my settings too and respect other people wishes.

I just sometimes don't want to air all my washing in public.

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth


"Why is it when you would like to have a private word with someone you can't due to their privacy setting.

this is just an observation by the way, I have my settings too and respect other people wishes.

I just sometimes don't want to air all my washing in public."

sorry are you offering to do my washing now...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A solution could be:

to reply in the forum saying you'd like a private chat and ask to be friends

They invite you as a friend,you accept and then can have a chat

Bit convoluted but I think it would work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry...I don't understand what your problem is. You have your settings, "respect" others having theirs, but complaining because you can't contact them because of them?!!

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By *yson38GWoman
over a year ago

Tyne and Wear

For me personally, it more about the fact that I get inundated otherwise with messages. I talk to people in chat and if I think I might like them, I send them a message if they have asked to send me one, that way the message barrier is removed for that individual. I have never just messaged a random person. I agree though, there are things that are best said in private but if I was going to say something private, I would hope that the message recipient knew me well enough to either have messaged previously or be on my friends list. When in chat - I have pm's set to friends only as well. Hope this gives you another viewpoint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A solution could be:

to reply in the forum saying you'd like a private chat and ask to be friends

They invite you as a friend,you accept and then can have a chat

Bit convoluted but I think it would work"

Why?!! Suppose the person he wants to contact doesn't want to be his friend? People have filters for a reason otherwise they wouldn't set them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have also thought of that too, but as i said I also respect what it states on their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A solution could be:

to reply in the forum saying you'd like a private chat and ask to be friends

They invite you as a friend,you accept and then can have a chat

Bit convoluted but I think it would work

Why?!! Suppose the person he wants to contact doesn't want to be his friend? People have filters for a reason otherwise they wouldn't set them! "

If the person to whom he wishes to speak doesnt want to they can simply give a polite no in the forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry...I don't understand what your problem is. You have your settings, "respect" others having theirs, but complaining because you can't contact them because of them?!!

"
I don't have a problem, neither am I complaining I am just making an observation that at times I would like to say something without the entire world knowing and other people passing their judgements where they are not welcome or needed.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"A solution could be:

to reply in the forum saying you'd like a private chat and ask to be friends

They invite you as a friend,you accept and then can have a chat

Bit convoluted but I think it would work"

That would get the person a ban from the forums.

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

you could use semifore.. put a flag on your c**k and wave it. a white dove with a note tied to its leg... ,

morse code.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So.... Im in a pub, with me mates... Crackin lass on other side of room... I cant say hello { bein the shy retirin type...}

What do I do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorted "

Bugger....

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth


"So.... Im in a pub, with me mates... Crackin lass on other side of room... I cant say hello { bein the shy retirin type...}

What do I do..."

ummm get your best mate to go up to her and say " my mate fancys you""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So.... Im in a pub, with me mates... Crackin lass on other side of room... I cant say hello { bein the shy retirin type...}

What do I do..."

I wouldn't use the semifore idea it may get you barred

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So.... Im in a pub, with me mates... Crackin lass on other side of room... I cant say hello { bein the shy retirin type...}

What do I do...

I wouldn't use the semifore idea it may get you barred "
It would get her attention though as you were dragged out of the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So.... Im in a pub, with me mates... Crackin lass on other side of room... I cant say hello { bein the shy retirin type...}

What do I do...

ummm get your best mate to go up to her and say " my mate fancys you""

"

*Simples*;-);-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry...I don't understand what your problem is. You have your settings, "respect" others having theirs, but complaining because you can't contact them because of them?!!

I don't have a problem, neither am I complaining I am just making an observation that at times I would like to say something without the entire world knowing and other people passing their judgements where they are not welcome or needed."

Aaaaah...now your threads make sense to me!

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