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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi pretty new to this, looking for first meet. not through lack of trying, don't seem to get any replies though, a simple no thanks would be nice or a hello back. are all people so ignorant. I find it so rude, or does it just show you that they aren't really genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually takes us girlys a long time 2 wade thru all our mail so on my part no not due to ignorance nor not being genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and nice ass btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it could mean that they are not interested and have not replied cos they get sooo many messages that they only reply to those of interest. It probably doesn't mean they are not genuine, make sure you read their profile properly to ensure that you match what they're looking for too. I have had many messages from people asking to go on msn or cam and I clearly state on my profile that I don't have either so if I get messages asking that I tend not to reply as the messager obviously hasn't read my profile properly.

Hope this is of some help! And do persevere, I'm sure you'll get some fun in no time.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"....or does it just show you that they aren't really genuine."

I think you hit the nail on the head right there.

I mean, this is a swinging site after all! You'd think they'd all be gagging for it when an offer comes their way

It really does make you wonder doesn't it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

very very nice arse lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Hi,

There are loads of genuine people on here but as with anything, you will always get your fair share of ignorant and rude people as well.

I would suggest that you read carefully the profile of the people you want to message to ensure that you're all on the same wavelength and after the same things. Nothing worse than getting a message of some one who is wholly inappropriate - however, that's no excuse for rudeness!!

I wish you all the best, take care and have fun! xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers thanks babe, bet yours is much nicer though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....or does it just show you that they aren't really genuine.

I think you hit the nail on the head right there.

I mean, this is a swinging site after all! You'd think they'd all be gagging for it when an offer comes their way

It really does make you wonder doesn't it "

a lot of folk on here might be horny and gagging for it....but aint going to jump at just ANY offer that comes their way....lmao.........maybe the OP has just got really unlucky and PM all the fakes!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"hi pretty new to this, looking for first meet. not through lack of trying, don't seem to get any replies though, a simple no thanks would be nice or a hello back. are all people so ignorant. I find it so rude, or does it just show you that they aren't really genuine."

Are you putting your name down for socials?? Lots of people at socials, even if you just make friends.

So many single guys complain yet never make the effort to get themselves known

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


" ... a lot of folk on here might be horny and gagging for it....but aint going to jump at just ANY offer that comes their way...."

Really????

Shit! I've been doing it wrong then

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Also it says on your profile your only looking for women. Nothing else so that may limit your options somewhat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ... a lot of folk on here might be horny and gagging for it....but aint going to jump at just ANY offer that comes their way....

Really????

Shit! I've been doing it wrong then

"

u saying you jump at ANY offer?????

(thinking out loud....please say yes...please say yes)

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Just see no point in answering yet another mail, saying "Hi wanna fuck" or "Like your profile" with yet another pic of a cock attached...

pluss we find if we entertain a single guy with a reply even if it says "No thanks" they just can't seem to resist messeging us even more!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


" ... a lot of folk on here might be horny and gagging for it....but aint going to jump at just ANY offer that comes their way....

Really????

Shit! I've been doing it wrong then

u saying you jump at ANY offer?????

(thinking out loud....please say yes...please say yes)

"

Not anymore... you have shown me the error of my ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ... a lot of folk on here might be horny and gagging for it....but aint going to jump at just ANY offer that comes their way....

Really????

Shit! I've been doing it wrong then

u saying you jump at ANY offer?????

(thinking out loud....please say yes...please say yes)

Not anymore... you have shown me the error of my ways "

lmao.....all that training at college on psychology re behaviour modification does work after all......

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


" ... a lot of folk on here might be horny and gagging for it....but aint going to jump at just ANY offer that comes their way....

Really????

Shit! I've been doing it wrong then

u saying you jump at ANY offer?????

(thinking out loud....please say yes...please say yes)

Not anymore... you have shown me the error of my ways

lmao.....all that training at college on psychology re behaviour modification does work after all......"

Ring a bell and I'll drool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ... a lot of folk on here might be horny and gagging for it....but aint going to jump at just ANY offer that comes their way....

Really????

Shit! I've been doing it wrong then

u saying you jump at ANY offer?????

(thinking out loud....please say yes...please say yes)

Not anymore... you have shown me the error of my ways

lmao.....all that training at college on psychology re behaviour modification does work after all......

Ring a bell and I'll drool "

ding....dong.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ... a lot of folk on here might be horny and gagging for it....but aint going to jump at just ANY offer that comes their way....

Really????

Shit! I've been doing it wrong then

u saying you jump at ANY offer?????

(thinking out loud....please say yes...please say yes)

Not anymore... you have shown me the error of my ways

lmao.....all that training at college on psychology re behaviour modification does work after all......

Ring a bell and I'll drool "

u aint a dog......cos thats pavlov's theory....drooling when the dog hears the bell....lmfao

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

Ring a bell and I'll drool

ding....dong....."

Oddly now I feel the urge to run around in circles before wiping my arse across the carpet ... damn that Ivan Pavlov!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ring a bell and I'll drool

ding....dong.....

Oddly now I feel the urge to run around in circles before wiping my arse across the carpet ... damn that Ivan Pavlov!"

Thank f*ck i have laminate flooring!!!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

Ring a bell and I'll drool

ding....dong.....

Oddly now I feel the urge to run around in circles before wiping my arse across the carpet ... damn that Ivan Pavlov!

Thank f*ck i have laminate flooring!!!!"

That's easy for you to say... you're not the one getting splinters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gotta agree

"lovely ass"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very very nice arse...kisses all over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMSFL...a guy with a cute ass posts a winge thread about no replies...and cos of said cute ass doesnt get shreaded to bits...interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now how can ya shred an ass like that

wouldnt be seemly

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"PMSFL...a guy with a cute ass posts a winge thread about no replies...and cos of said cute ass doesnt get shreaded to bits...interesting "

hahaha i was thinking just the same thing! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PMSFL...a guy with a cute ass posts a winge thread about no replies...and cos of said cute ass doesnt get shreaded to bits...interesting

hahaha i was thinking just the same thing! xx"

this is the mutual ass appreciation society.....all who agree say aye!!!!

bout time we had a bit of eye candy for the girlies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi pretty new to this, looking for first meet. not through lack of trying, don't seem to get any replies though, a simple no thanks would be nice or a hello back. are all people so ignorant. I find it so rude, or does it just show you that they aren't really genuine."

It doesn't show that they aren't genuine or that they are ignorant.

Quite the contrary

It shows that neither you or I are entitled to a reply from anyone. People come onto this site of their own free will and are at liberty to reply to, or ignore, any message that they see fit without having to explain themselves to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PMSFL...a guy with a cute ass posts a winge thread about no replies...and cos of said cute ass doesnt get shreaded to bits...interesting

hahaha i was thinking just the same thing! xx"

i have come to the conclusion we are a fickle bunch...so im going to break away and shout

"oy hairy butt, stop moaning, no reply means no, simples"

ahhhh that feels better

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"PMSFL...a guy with a cute ass posts a winge thread about no replies...and cos of said cute ass doesnt get shreaded to bits...interesting "

Double standards... on a forum you say.... well I never, what is the world coming to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only been here eight weeks, same as you, but it seems to work for me. I've had few few none replies, but then I've only sent out a handful of e-mails anyway.

The thing is single women on here get shed loads of mail everyday, and they can't reply to all of them. You just have to make sure you say something in your mail, or profile appeals to a woman.

But your off to a reasonable start, you don't have a cock shot. If you did you wouldn't have got off so lightly with this thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

great guys, thanks for replies, as for nice arse comments much appreciated at least ive got something right. thanks again and if any of you want to put your hands on my arse feel free.

xx jon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"great guys, thanks for replies, as for nice arse comments much appreciated at least ive got something right. thanks again and if any of you want to put your hands on my arse feel free.

xx jon"

well seeing as you dont charge...can i have first dibs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

actually i think you got it right by going on the forums and interacting with people.

i personally dont seek out single guys at the moment on this site. but getting to know them first on the forum is different.

so keep on posting and may the force be with you....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL I agree pussy both sexys n well yourself to as now I know for sure your nutts it just makes things all better Hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey you, ya only get away with it with me coz i have a soft wet spot for ya lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....or does it just show you that they aren't really genuine.

I think you hit the nail on the head right there.

I mean, this is a swinging site after all! You'd think they'd all be gagging for it when an offer comes their way

It really does make you wonder doesn't it "

Yes, your right, does make you wonder, after all they must be, if they are on FAB as they must be gagging for it.

Or looking for a specific type of fun...;-)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"great guys, thanks for replies, as for nice arse comments much appreciated at least ive got something right. thanks again and if any of you want to put your hands on my arse feel free.

xx jon

well seeing as you dont charge...can i have first dibs.... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"great guys, thanks for replies, as for nice arse comments much appreciated at least ive got something right. thanks again and if any of you want to put your hands on my arse feel free.

xx jon

well seeing as you dont charge...can i have first dibs.... "

anytime babe, just name it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....or does it just show you that they aren't really genuine.

I think you hit the nail on the head right there.

I mean, this is a swinging site after all! You'd think they'd all be gagging for it when an offer comes their way

It really does make you wonder doesn't it

Yes, your right, does make you wonder, after all they must be, if they are on FAB as they must be gagging for it.

Or looking for a specific type of fun...;-)"

oh hun u are sooooo deep at times....perhaps one time in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....or does it just show you that they aren't really genuine.

I think you hit the nail on the head right there.

I mean, this is a swinging site after all! You'd think they'd all be gagging for it when an offer comes their way

It really does make you wonder doesn't it

Yes, your right, does make you wonder, after all they must be, if they are on FAB as they must be gagging for it.

Or looking for a specific type of fun...;-)

oh hun u are sooooo deep at times....perhaps one time in me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao so who ya wet n got soft spot for Hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lmao so who ya wet n got soft spot for Hun "

u ya daft fecking scottish hairy arse jock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey you insult I don't gave hairy ass anyway as it's you let's say ill let ya off mwahhhh .What you been up to the day how you feeling ? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a thread like this before somewhere...

That bloke has been shagged sensless now poor fella... Opened a right pandoras box he did..

Hope your ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

as

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aha secret codes on several threads...join the words together i wonder

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"aha secret codes on several threads...join the words together i wonder"

Or praps can't string a sentence together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"aha secret codes on several threads...join the words together i wonder

Or praps can't string a sentence together "

u talking about me??? trying to say am fick....ok hands up...am fick....but who gives a shit when i have fuck off boots on

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"aha secret codes on several threads...join the words together i wonder

Or praps can't string a sentence together

u talking about me??? trying to say am fick....ok hands up...am fick....but who gives a shit when i have fuck off boots on"

Would iI dare say that about you

Nah is all these one word posts, waste of space or what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"aha secret codes on several threads...join the words together i wonder

Or praps can't string a sentence together

u talking about me??? trying to say am fick....ok hands up...am fick....but who gives a shit when i have fuck off boots on

Would iI dare say that about you

Nah is all these one word posts, waste of space or what?"

yep

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone


"aha secret codes on several threads...join the words together i wonder

Or praps can't string a sentence together

u talking about me??? trying to say am fick....ok hands up...am fick....but who gives a shit when i have fuck off boots on

Would iI dare say that about you

Nah is all these one word posts, waste of space or what?

yep"

Ehh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cannot accommodate

puts a lot of people off babe but very nice buns btw xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot accommodate

puts a lot of people off babe but very nice buns btw xxxxx "

whose got nice buns

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Cannot accommodate

puts a lot of people off babe but very nice buns btw xxxxx

whose got nice buns"

The OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"who"

don;t you start with one word posts pmsl

the guy who started this he got lovely buns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yol got nice buns ok now stop your bickeri g girls honestly what ya like LOL

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"yol got nice buns ok now stop your bickeri g girls honestly what ya like LOL "

Just discussing Aesthetics, we never bicker do we Pussy, we are lovers not fighters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Aqua hows you Hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm ok I believe ya until tiger comes along then every woman for themselves lmfao

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"aha secret codes on several threads...join the words together i wonder

Or praps can't string a sentence together

u talking about me??? trying to say am fick....ok hands up...am fick....but who gives a shit when i have fuck off boots on

Would iI dare say that about you

Nah is all these one word posts, waste of space or what?

yep

Ehh? "

What!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"aha secret codes on several threads...join the words together i wonder

Or praps can't string a sentence together

u talking about me??? trying to say am fick....ok hands up...am fick....but who gives a shit when i have fuck off boots on

Would iI dare say that about you

Nah is all these one word posts, waste of space or what?

yep

Ehh?

What!!"

yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wotsit thats wot LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wotsit thats wot LOL "

bollix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wotsit thats wot LOL "
??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wotsit thats wot LOL ?? "

hairy bollix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wotsit thats wot LOL ??

hairy bollix"

fecking boots have got tourettes again

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Pavlov's dog? What about Schroedingers cat then?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"hi pretty new to this, looking for first meet. not through lack of trying, don't seem to get any replies though, a simple no thanks would be nice or a hello back. are all people so ignorant. I find it so rude, or does it just show you that they aren't really genuine."

Some girls have said we are not getting through all the emails whcih may be true for some of us..but I think the main reason... (and I am guilty of that, too) when despite my assertive and specific profile giys ignore my requests... eg I get married ones, below 30 year olds, unimginative one liners etc... so.. I simply delete. If you cannot be asked to read my profile, I cannot be bovvered to reply...

Nice derriere!!!

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