FabSwingers.com forum: Tell me the truth, I won't take offence

By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!

Ya get me?

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

No replies on a post from a single lady, folk must fear your sharp tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

Too subtle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I'll be brutally honest if that's what you want.

That sounds like hard work to me. I'm just a simple boy and I'd be too afraid to say something that could be interpreted slightly wrong and out of context and then get the full volley of verbals

Which is a shame as your pics look damn hot!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I get ya But I'm A northener to. Don't want the truth don't ask. So yes your arse does look big in that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I join in? Fat people piss me the fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I'll be brutally honest if that's what you want.

That sounds like hard work to me. I'm just a simple boy and I'd be too afraid to say something that could be interpreted slightly wrong and out of context and then get the full volley of verbals

Which is a shame as your pics look damn hot!

if you keep saying you are simple often enough, people might start believing you

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Are you asking for brutal honesty about your profile?

MrB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was always taught you've got to be very careful you don't cut yourself with a sharp tongue,,,,,

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By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

"Ok I'll be brutally honest if that's what you want.

That sounds like hard work to me. I'm just a simple boy and I'd be too afraid to say something that could be interpreted slightly wrong and out of context and then get the full volley of verbals

Which is a shame as your pics look damn hot!

Don't get my wrong, I'm lovely but when someone messages me asking for an honest opinion on something then I'll give it and I don't expect sulking in return.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MMzd40i8TfA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!

Ya get me? "

Even with your husband?

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By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!

Ya get me?

Even with your husband?"

I'm not married

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I tend to find people that go on about being brutally honest are the first to whine when people do it back to them.

Just makes me laugh to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya get me? "

Yeah bruv! Braaaap

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By *uzi Jones 26Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

"Can I join in? Fat people piss me the fuck off."

Glad to be of service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I join in? Fat people piss me the fuck off."

Why? And what has this to do with the OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you want help with? I'll see what I can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grrrrr love a sharp tongue

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Ya get me?

Yeah bruv! Braaaap "

Can always rely on yourselves or Jon snow for the street lingo angle/input.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I join in? Fat people piss me the fuck off."
. Bit harsh but everyone is entitled to their own opinion (Kat)xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya get me?

Yeah bruv! Braaaap

Can always rely on yourselves or Jon snow for the street lingo angle/input."

Word

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

your not brutally honast with your partner about being on here though op eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I join in? Fat people piss me the fuck off.

Glad to be of service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get you, and I'm the exact same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I'll be brutally honest if that's what you want.

That sounds like hard work to me. I'm just a simple boy and I'd be too afraid to say something that could be interpreted slightly wrong and out of context and then get the full volley of verbals

Which is a shame as your pics look damn hot!

Don't get my wrong, I'm lovely but when someone messages me asking for an honest opinion on something then I'll give it and I don't expect sulking in return. "

So, it was a statement, not a request.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!

Ya get me?

Even with your husband?

I'm not married "

But you're in a relationship, are you brutally honest with them.

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Out of curiosity, why has this turned into a snide-fest at the OP? Admittedly I've never really understood forum politics ever since the old days of free WAP on o2 and the unbridled hostility deeply ingrained in the various mobile chat sites, but lurking around here I always got the impression she was pretty much in with the in crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you like Nutella ?

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Me? It's alright, yeah. Goes straight to my hips though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like Nutella ? "

On fruity Ryvita? It's a thing of wonder

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By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Quit getting your knickers in a twist (those who're banging on about my partner). I was honest to someone who asked me to be. He then went in a mood over it. That's the whole premise. If you'd like to know the ins and outs of my private life then tough titties. I'm not offended by your comments, I can just see the same one being rolled out by someone else until I reference it.

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By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

"Do you like Nutella ? "

Only on my breasts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quit getting your knickers in a twist (those who're banging on about my partner). I was honest to someone who asked me to be. He then went in a mood over it. That's the whole premise. If you'd like to know the ins and outs of my private life then tough titties. I'm not offended by your comments, I can just see the same one being rolled out by someone else until I reference it.

You should have made that clear in your OP. I'm indifferent about what happened. It's not really thread worthy in my opinion, but then I post some utter crap myself. You're honesty to him pissed him off. Worse things can happen in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like Nutella ?

Only on my breasts..."

Too sticky for my liking. Much better on toast.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Do you like Nutella ?

Only on my breasts...

Too sticky for my liking. Much better on toast. "

You put your breasts on toast?? Doesn't it make them itchy??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like Nutella ?

Only on my breasts..."

Noted...

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Honesty is the best way and your lips are gorgeous btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shallow people piss me the fuck off

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Do let me get this straight, cos I'm a simpleton too..

Is honesty the same as abuse?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Shallow people piss me the fuck off

Incontinent people piss me the fuck off!

No wait!! I think they piss themselves off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often find that those that use the term 'brutally honest' have a tendency to use that as way of being cruel and callous. There's a way of being honest without brutality being involved

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By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

"I often find that those that use the term 'brutally honest' have a tendency to use that as way of being cruel and callous. There's a way of being honest without brutality being involved"

Well I wasn't that ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often find that those that use the term 'brutally honest' have a tendency to use that as way of being cruel and callous. There's a way of being honest without brutality being involved

Well I wasn't that ok? "

Here, have a snickers

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By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

"I often find that those that use the term 'brutally honest' have a tendency to use that as way of being cruel and callous. There's a way of being honest without brutality being involved

Well I wasn't that ok?

Here, have a snickers"

Can I have a flake instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a thinly veiled look at me thread

*I've put a

at the end in case your brutally honest tongue gives me a lashing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!

Ya get me?

Even with your husband?

I'm not married "

Well you're obviously not brutally honest with whoever you're in a relationship with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a thinly veiled look at me thread

*I've put a

at the end in case your brutally honest tongue gives me a lashing."

Ace flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I see I should have known.

"Fab-book".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This op makes my head hurt and confuzzles me therefore I am starting to get a bit pissed off with it

And if brutally honest is what the op wants, then I think she has body odour and yes, her bum probably does look big in that!

Lash away with that sharp oral protrusion!

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By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

There's no need for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a joke!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"It was a joke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I join in? Fat people piss me the fuck off."

Hold tight... the new forum fatty haters are in the building

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I join in? Fat people piss me the fuck off.

Hold tight... the new forum fatty haters are in the building"
. Hahahaaaa yes I thought that too (Kat) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very confusing thread to say the very least

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By *razyhWoman
over a year ago

thorrington

I'm so glad I'm not the only one who says it as it is x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I join in? Fat people piss me the fuck off.

Hold tight... the new forum fatty haters are in the building. Hahahaaaa yes I thought that too (Kat) xx"

Just pretend you can't see them, and maybe they'll go away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I join in? Fat people piss me the fuck off.

Hold tight... the new forum fatty haters are in the building"

I think you'll find they've been here for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I join in? Fat people piss me the fuck off.

Hold tight... the new forum fatty haters are in the building. Hahahaaaa yes I thought that too (Kat) xx

Just pretend you can't see them, and maybe they'll go away

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Do let me get this straight, cos I'm a simpleton too..

Is honesty the same as abuse? "

only for the utterly confused

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'm so glad I'm not the only one who says it as it is x "

No one says it as it is. They can only say things as they see it. Or lie. Which most graceless, egotistical, socially inept folk pass off as honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!

Ya get me? "

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe in honesty, but I also believe in sprinkling a little sugar on top. I'd prefer to be kind honest, rather than brutally honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little sugar on top works for me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I'm so glad I'm not the only one who says it as it is x

No one says it as it is. They can only say things as they see it. Or lie. Which most graceless, egotistical, socially inept folk pass off as honesty. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe in honesty, but I also believe in sprinkling a little sugar on top. I'd prefer to be kind honest, rather than brutally honest. "

I agree with that. In all honesty, people who are mean and dress it up as being honest, just annoy me. Fair enough, if someone has asked for complete honesty, then you should give it, but you can still be diplomatic...

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!

Ya get me? "

I hear ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A little sugar on top works for me

Liking the new avatar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

I get told I'm brutal an blunt a lot, I see it as being honest. I'm not going to say what they want to hear, or sugar coat it, I'll say what they've asked for in the way it needs to be said. If they take offence then that's their problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well at least we all know where we stand

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"A little sugar on top works for me

Liking the new avatar

Thanks. I'm looking a bit old now tho.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A little sugar on top works for me

Liking the new avatar

More to come over the next couple of weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A little sugar on top works for me

Liking the new avatar

Thanks. I'm looking a bit old now tho....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A little sugar on top works for me

Liking the new avatar

More to come over the next couple of weeks

Oooh nice! I'll look forward to seeing them

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Challenge accepted

A person can be honest with grace and empathy, or they can ride roughshod over others and call it 'being honest'. Its best to work out the difference early.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest yes, where it gets to the point where you are just being an arse about it. Then no sorry, people in glass houses and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy once messaged me picking apart my grammar on my profile. I gave him a bit of a round of it, calmed down and saw he had a point (albeit a very small one). We had been chatting really well up until that point so I took it on the chin and apologized for the tirade. I now see him (and his super awesome gf) regularly and I'm probably the happiest I've been in a long while. And to think, I could have missed out on all of that, based on one snap judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A little sugar on top works for me

Liking the new avatar

More to come over the next couple of weeks

Oooh nice! I'll look forward to seeing them

Not as much as I look forward to whatever you add to your portfolio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe in honesty, but I also believe in sprinkling a little sugar on top. I'd prefer to be kind honest, rather than brutally honest.

Very true. I wouldn't want to hurt someone's feelings. There's a way to say something truthful, without having to make the other person feel bad about themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like Nutella ?

On fruity Ryvita? It's a thing of wonder"

You eat fruity Ryvita? You've just gone down in my estimation young Sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'' very good at dancing around a subject. If you want your insults sugar coated then I'm your gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like Nutella ?

On fruity Ryvita? It's a thing of wonder

You eat fruity Ryvita? You've just gone down in my estimation young Sir.

Nutella and freshly sliced Tiger baguette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Challenge accepted

A person can be honest with grace and empathy, or they can ride roughshod over others and call it 'being honest'. Its best to work out the difference early."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy once messaged me picking apart my grammar on my profile. I gave him a bit of a round of it, calmed down and saw he had a point (albeit a very small one). We had been chatting really well up until that point so I took it on the chin and apologized for the tirade. I now see him (and his super awesome gf) regularly and I'm probably the happiest I've been in a long while. And to think, I could have missed out on all of that, based on one snap judgement. "

Always suspected grammar correction made the ladys moist

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Ok time out.....what the hell is this thread about......Nutella......sharp tongued northern birds or people not liking us fatties???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok time out.....what the hell is this thread about......Nutella......sharp tongued northern birds or people not liking us fatties???"

All of the above?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok time out.....what the hell is this thread about......Nutella......sharp tongued northern birds or people not liking us fatties???"

Nutella its so much nicer

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Challenge accepted

A person can be honest with grace and empathy, or they can ride roughshod over others and call it 'being honest'. Its best to work out the difference early.

+1 it takes guts to be gentle and kind.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!

Ya get me? "

Yes I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!

Ya get me?

Yes I do."

Can you explain it to me then?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!

Ya get me?

Yes I do.

Can you explain it to me then?"

Ssssh, I was just making pretend...

How are you my forum friend?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!

Ya get me?

Yes I do.

Can you explain it to me then?

Ssssh, I was just making pretend...

How are you my forum friend?..

I'm good thanks.....you?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!

Ya get me?

Yes I do.

Can you explain it to me then?

Ssssh, I was just making pretend...

How are you my forum friend?..

I'm good thanks.....you?"

Good thanks..had a busy day in the forums, really must get a hobby..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!

Ya get me?

Yes I do.

Can you explain it to me then?

Ssssh, I was just making pretend...

How are you my forum friend?..

I'm good thanks.....you?

Good thanks..had a busy day in the forums, really must get a hobby..

There's always the chat rooms too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends would say I'm brutally honest, I'd just say I was honest but I only give it when I'm asked directly my opinion on something. I expect the same in return, I prefer to know everything about anything even if it's bad or upsetting. I don't like being caught off guard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like Nutella ?

On fruity Ryvita? It's a thing of wonder

You eat fruity Ryvita? You've just gone down in my estimation young Sir.

Perfect snack madam. I defy you to try it and not be delighted.

Alternative being chilli Ryvita and peanut butter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread.

Is that sugar coated enough for you all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Challenge accepted

A person can be honest with grace and empathy, or they can ride roughshod over others and call it 'being honest'. Its best to work out the difference early."

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