FabSwingers.com forum: Girl at work

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There a girl at work that I like but not so sure she likes me she hugs me but her head again my chest when we do she told me she gett none at all what could I do to make sure I'm not reading this wrong

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough

Talk to her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have I think she likes me but don't want to mess things up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're an adult, she's an adult. Have a conversation. It's as straightforward as that really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel this is something my wean wud be saying.if you dont tell her you'll never know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I don't get to talk to her much as it a warehouse and there lots of drivers around loading

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Next time say 'let's have a coffee' and see what she says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pull your trousers down and chase her round. She's bound to fall over eventually.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Pull your trousers down and chase her round. She's bound to fall over eventually."

That's dreadful advice!

it's a warehouse full of things that stick out over yellow lines and such

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She fell over in front of me before and I picked her up

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Pull your trousers down and chase her round. She's bound to fall over eventually."

Although thinking about it - I've got the Benny Hill chase music in my head.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"She fell over in front of me before and I picked her up"

I hope you reported it to the health and safety officer. Hey....do you think she pretended to fall so you could 'rescue' her? I'd make that coffee a glass of wine after work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pull your trousers down and chase her round. She's bound to fall over eventually."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I will try to talk to her next time I see her and ask if she want some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's dreadful advice!

it's a warehouse full of things that stick out over yellow lines and such

In which case his chances of getting inside her have increased exponentially

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"There a girl at work that I like but not so sure she likes me she hugs me but her head again my chest when we do she told me she gett none at all what could I do to make sure I'm not reading this wrong "

Does she have a partner? If yes, leave it. If no, ask her for her number or out for a drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I don't get to talk to her much as it a warehouse and there lots of drivers around loading "

That's a shit excuse, you're not a teenager. They're not gonna take the piss out of you for asking a woman out.

Why put obstacles up for yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I will try to talk to her next time I see her and ask if she want some

... Aaaaand you blew it.

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By *evbirmingham21Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

All u can say is would u be intrested in going out for lunch a drink etc good luck m8

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I think I will try to talk to her next time I see her and ask if she want some

"
coffee or wine? There's a subtle difference apart from the actual drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I will try to talk to her next time I see her and ask if she want some

Maybe just start with seeing if she'd like an after work coffee instead eh? Stop thinking with your cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I will try to talk to her next time I see her and ask if she want some

Ask her out for a drink first lol!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I think I will try to talk to her next time I see her and ask if she want some

... Aaaaand you blew it."

....if she want some.....coffee

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By *aerphilly85Man
over a year ago

caerphilly

Just get your cock out and see what she does

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

OP, if you want sex with her don't ask her for sex. Especially not at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this is genuine and you're seeking advice, ask her for a coffee. Treat her respectfully, if that goes well then try and see if she'll see you again.

If it's just a wank fantasy, yeah just ask her next time if 'she wants some'

Good luck my friend!

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"I think I will try to talk to her next time I see her and ask if she want some

... Aaaaand you blew it."

Yep! My thoughts exactly...

But OP will be saving £2.50 on a cup of coffee

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If I got my cock out she would run a miles I ask her if she want to meet up for a drink sometime

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"If I got my cock out she would run a miles I ask her if she want to meet up for a drink sometime "

Be more assertive: name a place and say after work - put the idea into her head that it will be happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's probably on fab reading this thread, thinking for that sounds like my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just try it. She'll either hop on or we save you money. It's a win win situation. Better than money supermarket. Then you can have a wank and you're guaranteed an orgasm unless your arm goes dead.

That's the ultimate feeling of rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I got my cock out she would run a miles I ask her if she want to meet up for a drink sometime "

I have a feeling the 'get your cock out and chase her' advice may have been a little tongue in cheek. So, yeah, don't do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure she will want to meet and I know she single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I will try to talk to her next time I see her and ask if she want some

If she wants some?

Wow. Classy!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm pretty sure she will want to meet and I know she single "

Is it that you're unsure if she wants sex with you?

Tread warily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get a grip pal and stop being a fanny

roll the dice and ask her to cook you a meal or clean your house

firm but fair is the way forward

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Get a friend to say ´my friend likes you´.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget to piss on her to assert your dominance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't have friends

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I don't have friends "

You can have lots of pretend ones being on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I will try to talk to her next time I see her and ask if she want some

Hope you enjoyed the cuddles while they lasted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yea seems that way anyone what to be my friend lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Yea seems that way anyone what to be my friend lol"

No, ask the tripping girl at work.....via an invite to a coffee. I dare you to ask her for a coffee by midday today.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Man up man and ask her if she wants to grab a drink sometime

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Man up man and ask her if she wants to grab a drink sometime "

Are you suggesting he thwraps his cock out and says that?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not working today so asking her today would be hard

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Man up man and ask her if she wants to grab a drink sometime

Are you suggesting he thwraps his cock out and says that?!

Well yeah I suppose I am if the coffee approach doesn't work

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wish she was here now

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Not working today so asking her today would be hard"

Sounds like my cock. *ahem*

Cough cough

Ask her for a coffee tomorrow - if she likes you she will say yes and if she doesn't she will say no. Although, she might say no but like you anyway.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

You've been put in the friend zone mate, that safe space she feels comfy as friends

You've fucked it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just got to ask her 2 questions.

1 do you fuck on first dates.

2 does you dad own a brewery.

Lol

Serious note ask her. Out for a drink/meal. She can yes or no. If you don't ask it's no.

The old saying if you don't ask you don't get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right, enough with being silly now. What you really need to do, you've seen Grease right? The movie?

John Travolta in Grease. The coolest dude you've ever seen. Chicks just fall for him and he's drowning in pussy. What you need to do is base your style on that bad boy. Women love it, go crazy for it. So get yourself one of those bad boy leather jackets, make sure it's 2 sizes too small so you can't button it up. Grab some nice tight fitting jeans and rock the slick back hair look using at least 4 different types of hair gel at once.

Next time you see her, just give her the smoothest, sexiest wink you can - pointing both fingers at her with thumbs up a'la Fonze from happy days.

"Hey baby, wanna come for a ride on my motorcycle?"

Guarantee her knickers will be soaking.

You could even consider growing in an amazing moustache like Freddie Mercury. He also rocked the leather jacket look and had many, many sexual partners.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Not working today so asking her today would be hard

Sounds like my cock. *ahem*

Cough cough

Ask her for a coffee tomorrow - if she likes you she will say yes and if she doesn't she will say no. Although, she might say no but like you anyway. "

Although she may say yes because she likes him as a friend,tricky one eh! A glass of wine sound's a bit more datey rather than a coffee which can be more chummy. Anyway leave it to long and someone else get in there before you.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"You could even consider growing in an amazing moustache like Freddie Mercury. He also rocked the leather jacket look and had many, many sexual partners."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will ask her next time I get a chance

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

When you do The Fonz thumbs up, then turn them slowly down so they are pointing at your crotch. If you see her pupils dilate then wriggle them, if she looks disgusted change the manoeuvre into a 'where's me wallet?' move.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"You've been put in the friend zone mate, that safe space she feels comfy as friends

You've fucked it."

You know you may be right

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"You've been put in the friend zone mate, that safe space she feels comfy as friends

You've fucked it.

You know you may be right"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will soon find out and I will let you all know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in the same boat but since visiting a club i have decided a relationship just isn't for me at the minute

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I not thinking that's far ahead yet got to she if she interested first she said she happy being single so maybe just a fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you tapped it yet kid or you bottled it ?

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

Goodluck then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're an adult, she's an adult. Have a conversation. It's as straightforward as that really. "

It's do NOT this straight forward.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Talked to she want to go out for a drink sometime but she work when I'm not and I work when she off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talked to she want to go out for a drink sometime but she work when I'm not and I work when she off "

Well at least you asked and now you know where you stand.

Imagine the regrets if you never asked at all and it was left as a 'what if..'

Plenty more fish out there my friend. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talked to she want to go out for a drink sometime but she work when I'm not and I work when she off "

How do you see her if you don't work at the same time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's the next problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bin her off pal

onwards n forwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds more like an excuse.....you must have mutual free time....weekends?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Talked to she want to go out for a drink sometime but she work when I'm not and I work when she off

How do you see her if you don't work at the same time?"

Yes, how does that work?

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Hello, helps

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Talked to she want to go out for a drink sometime but she work when I'm not and I work when she off "

Is there no time at all when you're both off?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Talked to she want to go out for a drink sometime but she work when I'm not and I work when she off

Is there no time at all when you're both off?"

It doesnt make sense. They have to be at work at the same time, that's how he knows her, so should have some common time off?

Did she just use 'no time off' as an excuse OP? If so, time to move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well she seem excited to meet up just have to find a time to suit us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Well she seem excited to meet up just have to find a time to suit us both"

Well you're one step nearer I suppose.

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