FabSwingers.com forum: Worst time waster excuses???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've now had - on two seperate occasions- a loved one ( sister and son) being in a car accident that's life threatening! Hence no contact or messages before planned meet

Yet the next day asking for another chance to meet? Ummmmmmm!!!!

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Periods. It's always periods.

Unless it's a sick kid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby's sick and off work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nicked there balls whilst shaving

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Someone a few weeks ago had a meet that cancelled bwcause their wall fell down

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

'I lost my phone and couldn't contact you to cancel' seems to be a favourite

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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Thankfully I haven't had much time wasted. I tend to have a gut feeling about people and stop it before they have the chance.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

The last two have both said their grandad was ill coincidentally. He's just messaged me again for a meet explaining his grandad is terminal. I am very gullible I know. I would feel horrible if it were true. So giving him another chance. But no more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've called off for periods before. I'm not a time waster, I just have an irregular and unpredictable cycle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ohhh yeah forgot the leak in the bathroom and the plumber was late!!!!

I've heard it alll x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've called off for periods before. I'm not a time waster, I just have an irregular and unpredictable cycle."

Same here..completely bolloxed up my week off and every single play plan I had made.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies! "

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to call off twice because of bereavement and unexpected bleeding.

I don't feel much like having sex, when someone dies and period play is not my thing.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

"I've called off for periods before. I'm not a time waster, I just have an irregular and unpredictable cycle.

Same here..completely bolloxed up my week off and every single play plan I had made."

Same here. Even worse is if you've booked hotel, got babysitter and so on. I'm just as pissed off as the guy I'll bet. At least he hasn't got to deal with a period on top of it.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I've called off for periods before. I'm not a time waster, I just have an irregular and unpredictable cycle.

Same here..completely bolloxed up my week off and every single play plan I had made."

Me three, rather fucked up Manchester last weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had the one, but it was priceless! He fell over and scrapped his arm over the weekend. He send photographic evidence too. I've seen worse scrapes on my niece's knee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only 5.7 after 3 weeks of chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fancy you!

Yeh. Right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They said they got lost.... Then they got lost again( after I gave them a second chance at a meet)... I blocked them after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds. "

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had a time-waster or failed meet..... what are you people up to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both their internet and phone signal failed and could not contact me to confirm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds.

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts! "

Only if they have a regular cycle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds.

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts! "

Not if they don't have a regular cycle. It's fucking annoying.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds.

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts! "

Not all the time! I have the implant and hardly ever have a period, doesn't mean some spotting may occur at any point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds.

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts! "

Not always. I have implant in so I don't have a regular period I can have months of no period then I can have it on and off for weeks or I can bleed 1 day and not nxt

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"I've called off for periods before. I'm not a time waster, I just have an irregular and unpredictable cycle."

This.

Felt awful about it too as sure the dates were absolutely correct, Infact they were but the body said otherwise. We take arranged meets very seriously and never cancel, unless......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cat got ran over.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've also had to cancel for a coldsore and because my husband had crashed the car. I'm definitely timewaster material then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone started one of these the other day, he had been cancelled on because his meet had forgot the coca cola truck was in Carlisle now that's a belter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone started one of these the other day, he had been cancelled on because his meet had forgot the coca cola truck was in Carlisle now that's a belter"

That's understandable if the meet had kids though.. They do love the coca cola truck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to feed my horses

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I've called off for periods before. I'm not a time waster, I just have an irregular and unpredictable cycle."

Same. I do always let them know as soon as I do but I can go for a few months not having one and then... I have to admit to sending a rather graphic photo to the last couple who accused me of time wasting and told me I was just a man looking for a wank.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I've called off for periods before. I'm not a time waster, I just have an irregular and unpredictable cycle."

Thank you, I am in exactly the same position as you and I know guys don't believe me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've called off for periods before. I'm not a time waster, I just have an irregular and unpredictable cycle.

Haha! The men in question have always been really understanding about it with me, sounds like I've got off lightly

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies! "

We have on a couple of occasions had to cancel because of periods, Alexis went through a couple of years of unpredictable periods it happens but once they hit then we know we are free for a few weeks at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds.

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts! "

I don't in recent months. They have been all over the place.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I've called off for periods before. I'm not a time waster, I just have an irregular and unpredictable cycle.

Haha! The men in question have always been really understanding about it with me, sounds like I've got off lightly

You have. I'd even spoken to them on the phone and skyped them. I'm not sure if I should be flattered that I have such a husky voice or sad that my face is so mannish...

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I tend to think "get over it".

If I arrange to meet someone to fuck them (which is rare to be honest) but that's what this is right.... You're not to be my new best friend or anything. If something real life comes up (friends, family, dog, hamster) then chances are I'll prioritise real life over a fab meet.

If that makes me a time waster. I won't lose sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair any excuse that somebody comes up with will always be suspect however, I would rather have that than a wasted journey or being stood up.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds.

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts! "

Have to disagree with you there. At one point I was having a period every two weeks!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

One cancellation (by somebody I have carefully selected as wanting to meet) is ok

Two cancellations (by same) is suspicious.

Three is an instant dismissal and block!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds.

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts! "

Due yes, exactly when, absolutely no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds.

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts!

Not if they don't have a regular cycle. It's fucking annoying."

Exactly..I should have been able to play from midweek..came on 5 days late so cancelled plans..then finished early so could have played! (Grrrrrr)

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By *ympho7Couple
over a year ago

swansea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only had the one, but it was priceless! He fell over and scrapped his arm over the weekend. He send photographic evidence too. I've seen worse scrapes on my niece's knee

What a fool. I certainly wouldn't cancel on any meet with you. Even if my arm was in plaster.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Meanest reason given for no show: he was still in bed with the woman he'd met the night before.

I seem to pick some real heroes on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meanest reason given for no show: he was still in bed with the woman he'd met the night before.

I seem to pick some real heroes on here."

I had exactly this reason last week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meanest reason given for no show: he was still in bed with the woman he'd met the night before.

I seem to pick some real heroes on here."

You could of offered to join them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meanest reason given for no show: he was still in bed with the woman he'd met the night before.

I seem to pick some real heroes on here.

I had exactly this reason last week!

thats terrible

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds.

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts! "

Some do. I don't. They are absolutely all over the place. I can go anything from two weeks in between to two months. It's a right pain. I've never missed a meet though luckily. Just clubs.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

"I've called off for periods before. I'm not a time waster, I just have an irregular and unpredictable cycle."

Same here, I don't really know when I'm due so have had to cancel in the past

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Meanest reason given for no show: he was still in bed with the woman he'd met the night before.

I seem to pick some real heroes on here.

You could of offered to join them

Thats not my thing.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds.

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts! "

Not when you've spent half your adult life 5'7" & weighing less than 7st you don't!! Plays merry hell with your insides

I can have a period every 2-3 weeks and then only have mild pmt & nothing for months..

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By *nterracial2Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley

"Bought a puppy!"

(Forgot to mention it the week prior when arranging)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies! "

Ive uses the stuck in work one but I was genuinely stuck in work, she was a fucking better as Well.

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By *uncouple31Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

We've had a few but my favourite. ..

"I'm waiting in for four new tyres"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was her rabbit had died not sure if it was the real thing or the battery kind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've had a few but my favourite. ..

"I'm waiting in for four new tyres""

He should of walked there

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Do we have a new definition of time waster?

I thought that anyone was free to cancel at any time, it doesn't make you a time waster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry we cant make it today , the Bin Lorry has broken down and we can't get the car off the drive

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Do we have a new definition of time waster?

I thought that anyone was free to cancel at any time, it doesn't make you a time waster"

When they let me know why they've not turned up half an hour after I got to the meet then they've wasted my time.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts!

Some do. I don't. They are absolutely all over the place. I can go anything from two weeks in between to two months. It's a right pain. I've never missed a meet though luckily. Just clubs. "

I'm a bit shocked that a women posted the "offending" comment.

I'm totally irregular, have no warning and have been like that for about 10 years. I've just had nothing for 3 months then 3 in 6 weeks

Fortunately so far I've somehow managed to time them between meets / clubs.

Nita

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I've been left waiting at a prearranged venue and they haven't turned up. One even messaged to say he was on his way! But never showed, no excuses, no message nothing!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Sorry we cant make it today , the Bin Lorry has broken down and we can't get the car off the drive

Credit for originality. Actually, it's so random it's probably true.

Nita

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By *nterracial2Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley

"We've had a few but my favourite. ..

"I'm waiting in for four new tyres""

That's a thing, they're like half the price buying them online than rolling up at a garage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry we cant make it today , the Bin Lorry has broken down and we can't get the car off the drive

Credit for originality. Actually, it's so random it's probably true.

Nita"

Probably.......... Knowing scunny council

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

He got this life-threatening flu first thing in the morning. Good thing that I only meet in clubs so no big loss. Next day he wanted to know what the club was like; no different from the toss-pots who ask "what are you wearing tonight?" "PJs; what else did you think I would in bed". Idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've called off for periods before. I'm not a time waster, I just have an irregular and unpredictable cycle.

I have the implant and when I first had it I bled for months, i also admit I sent a pic to someone as 'proof' because I was apparently timewasting. Never heard from him again

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I was once let down three times by the same woman....someone I already knew outside of the scene. if I remember correctly on the first occasion she caught a cold, on the second occasion she caught another cold and on the third she crashed her car.

I gave up. And then oddly we me came across each other at a sex party and spent a lovely two hours in bed together.

Maybe all the "excuses" were genuine. Seeing her next week socially for the first time in years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts!

Some do. I don't. They are absolutely all over the place. I can go anything from two weeks in between to two months. It's a right pain. I've never missed a meet though luckily. Just clubs.

I'm a bit shocked that a women posted the "offending" comment.

I'm totally irregular, have no warning and have been like that for about 10 years. I've just had nothing for 3 months then 3 in 6 weeks

Fortunately so far I've somehow managed to time them between meets / clubs.

Nita"

I was the same right until I went on birth control! It's a 3 weeks on one week off one, so now I know down to within a couple of hours when it should start! God knows what would happen if I went back off it though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't sleep with gods!! Sick of that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stranger than fiction

Bare arse lying I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one tonight as text me saying she got arrested for speeding on the way to my house and was currently in a police cell.

I didn't know they threw you in the cells for speeding.

Oh and they obvously let you have your phone in there with you now too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'I lost my phone and couldn't contact you to cancel' seems to be a favourite

So many phones go missing don't they????

pathetic

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies! "

Period play never bothers me..the time I really like a good tonguing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meanest reason given for no show: he was still in bed with the woman he'd met the night before.

I seem to pick some real heroes on here.

I had exactly this reason last week!

Some men on here are obviously getting far more than their fair share!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excuses?

You should all consider yourself fortunate that your timewasters have been so courteous.

I've never been given an excuse - they just don't show up

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Women do not always know when periods are due. They're not like clockwork!

My wife has genuinely had to cancel meets and club visits when a period has started a few days earlier than expected, or lingered on longer than expected.

Also some women seem to get super horny a day or two before their period, which can lead to arranging a meet that has to be cancelled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Periods. It's always periods.

Unless it's a sick kid."

It's not an excuse when it's a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure it counts as time wasting but..."You were right! I've just been to specsavers and I've changed my mind"

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

We.ve had them all over the years

Family dying

Pets dying

Car breaking down

Etc etc

Luckily in the past we always had a plan B

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By *ild-1Woman
over a year ago

york

My 1st experience of a meet was a no show and no explanation that evening. Then the following day received a message with 3 kisses (xxx) when asked why he didn't show I got that again so blocked him! Great start to my fab experience

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Nicked there balls whilst shaving

A friend of ours actually did this before a meet only it was more than just a 'nick'. Trimming the hairs with a sharp kitchen knife he managed to slice into his nutsack so badly you could actually see one of his bollocks. He ended up in A&E and phoned us begging us to explain to his meet that he wasn't a time waster (we knew her as well).

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By *ild-1Woman
over a year ago

york

"Nicked there balls whilst shaving

Oh my god! Poor man!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Periods. It's always periods.

Unless it's a sick kid."

Yeah the two things women can't do much about.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Nicked there balls whilst shaving

You've just made up my mind to stay "Neatly trimmed"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot on honey, instead of letting you drive 35 miles, telling you where to wait, then asking you to install kik whilst waiting, had to go get cash out for more data, did as asked, then got ignored, nearly 40 miles from home, months later get told, was bad timing, then months later when I say, I would love to meet you still, but in not gonna ask, I get asked "why not ask" only to get ignored again, is this what mist people would call a timewaster? so I'm gonna say bad timing is the worst excuse I've heard, however simple a statement, best bit about it is, really wanted to meet the girl so much. And people wonder why they get grief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had that before too lovely, scroll down for my best ever letdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha sounds like some of the bollocks I've recieved

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds.

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts! "

Not necessarily! Naturally, mine could sometimes still turn up a whole week early.

I now have a contraceptive implant in my arm which mostly means no periods but they can and do still show up with absolutely NO regular pattern - Could be 6 months, could be two, could be nothing for a whole year.

I'll be damned if I'm expected to know when it's going to happen!

- Amy. x

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By *BW star and DocCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I wish I was given an excuse. Had planned a meet with a certain gent about 3 times now. Always about a day or two before said meet he would just go quiet on me. Not read messages etc. Drives me mad. Oh actually his first excuse was that he was worried he wasn't ready (was an out there kinky meet which was his idea) he's always online. Maybe he just likes the chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having read most of the thread, the thing that strikes me is that the large majority of those of you complaining about these dodgy excuses are absolutely stunning and beautiful ladies! WtF is going on? I'd give my right arm for a meet with many of you! Why the heck would ppl not honour an agreement to meet? Unless they've got really genuine problems or are cheating off a partner or work or something?

Having said that, last week I learned the lesson to see a pic of your meet before arranging a meet. It proved one can't always trust verifications. Sometimes what is not said is more important than what IS said!

But that's about choosing whether or not to meet. This thread is about choosing not to after agreeing to meet!

That for me is just mind-boggling!

Ladies who've been let down, I apologise to you on behalf of the cretins of my sex who've let you down! I'm at a loss for words! (Scratching head!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nicked there balls whilst shaving

You've just made up my mind to stay "Neatly trimmed"

Sorry but wasn't that asking for trouble? I mean, a sharp kitchen knife is for cutting steak or something, not shaving your balls! Methinks a little common sense might have stood your friend in good stead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some men don't get that.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Nicked there balls whilst shaving

You've just made up my mind to stay "Neatly trimmed"

I was thinking that too, but plenty have "nicked" themselves with a razor..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've now had - on two seperate occasions- a loved one ( sister and son) being in a car accident that's life threatening! Hence no contact or messages before planned meet

Yet the next day asking for another chance to meet? Ummmmmmm!!!! "

proper Jonah you babe

am keeping well away

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

Their dog had died or other members of the family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very often get called a timewaster

I care for mum full time and often has bouts of illness, mini strokes, fits and often rushed into hospital

Sod's law this happens when I've a meet arranged

On a few occasions had to cancel at last minute

It can't be helped

Most are understanding but a few still deem me as a timewaster although when chatting I do explain my situation

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"I very often get called a timewaster

I care for mum full time and often has bouts of illness, mini strokes, fits and often rushed into hospital

Sod's law this happens when I've a meet arranged

On a few occasions had to cancel at last minute

It can't be helped

Most are understanding but a few still deem me as a timewaster although when chatting I do explain my situation "

This for us too. Our little boy is severely mentally and physically disabled along with epilepsy, other health issues and a poor immune system, and he can take a bad turn at any moment.

We try to let potential meets know that we may have to cancel last minute but some will still spit their dummy out or call you a liar.

But hey ho, being called a "timewaster" (although our opinion differs as to what a timewaster is) is the least of our worries!

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By *anthesinglemanMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I had a meet arranged Friday night, and I the most unfortunate of circumstances after actually meeting nearby to the club and agreeing to go (well her follow me to be precice), her grandson managed to fall down the stairs and she had to go to hospital.

Whilst I initially respected what could have been a tragic family accident, and wished him a speedy recovery, I was somewhat bemused to be blocked by the person a few minutes later.

The whole world would be a much simpler place if we all had the metaphorical testicles to just said what the case was, instead of inventing crazy stories and then hiding from reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd don't see it as time wasting if the person tells you in advance.

It maybe a tad annoying but I'm prepared to give them the benefit of the doubt, as for me real life will always come before anyone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had to cancel for loads of reasons before, believe it or not real life events happen! I know shock horror right?

If we cancel on someone and give as much notice as possible, if they want to get pissy about it and see us as timewasters, that's there problem not ours

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Ive had a fair few crashed into neighbour coming out there drive. Dog bit someone when on walk. Got lost. Battery died wish people would just be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've called off for periods before. I'm not a time waster, I just have an irregular and unpredictable cycle.

Same here..completely bolloxed up my week off and every single play plan I had made."

Me too! Mine are completely random. Some months I won't get one, others I will. Sometimes they last a day, sometimes they last 10 days.

Shit happens, it shouldn't make me a time waster. I have been lucky so far but I'm sure I won't always be.

Eve. X

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds.

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts! "

I went through several months of havin a period every two weeks or so. Then had a coil fitted and never know when or if I'll take a period. Not everyone has regular cycles.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I've given people second chances at times and occasionally it's worked out. As for excuses I used to have a list of about ten excuses and some I know were genuine.

Excuses received:

Guy hurt his back moving office furniture and ended up in hospital - true

Same guy cancelled another time as he ended up working as an extra on WWZ the Brad Pitt movie. Also true as he was one of the SWAT team and had a firearms licence.

Different guy had a firework thrown in his car

I've had the usual sick child/parent excuse

Called in to work - works in emergency services

Best one was that it had been raining heavily and the roads were flooded.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

Partner and I waiting in hotel bar for a single woman, who first she said she was going to be late, then had car trouble and waiting for the AA to show. So she cancelled. However, my partner swears that he saw her walk through the bar at some stage...

Technically, not a timewaster, as we were there anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been let down a few times ...best one we've had was off a single guy, chatted a few times through the day of the meet, then 10 minutes before he was due to arrive, he text to say, "his horse was ill and he could not meet as he was waiting for the vet". No ride for him that night lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy once got me to travel to his house under the impression his gf was their about 4 year ago. Got there expecting the two of them he said she is on her way so benifit ov doubt n all that a starter getting ready

Kept asking him to ring her when I was dressing n he just kept on stalling He pretended then started talking on gone So sneakily I rang his phone n he answered I walked into room still talking n he fkn shit himself He didn't know what to say n said his lass has been arrested for jail walking. I couldn't help myself but to laugh at the lying twat he didn't have a clue what he was saying n started sitting on the settee crying. Fkn prick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her cat was ill!

Think that was the 2nd excuse,can't remember what the 1st n 3rd were but I remember I quickly lost interest in being pen pals after that!

A poorly pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Her cat was ill!

Think that was the 2nd excuse,can't remember what the 1st n 3rd were but I remember I quickly lost interest in being pen pals after that!

A poorly pussy

To be fair though,I was wasting my own time when I bothered to continue communication.

So I'm the time waster in this tale!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've called off for periods before. I'm not a time waster, I just have an irregular and unpredictable cycle."

Same here, in fact it really upsets me terribly to have to cancel a play date if my period starts early, I've had to do this twice now, and I feel really bad especially when a guy has had to reorganize his work schedule to meet me, and then we can't

I am certainly not a time waster, in fact periods suck really bad as I am always more horny at that time of the month yet am unable to do anything about it!

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By *easidemischiefWoman
over a year ago

Brighton

...mum died, dad is in hospital heart attack on deaths door, fell off a roof onto nails and in hospital, had to wait for an architect on a Sunday!!!!

Got a bad feeling every time before the actual excuse and had already made other plans. Unbelievably one person gave 2 of the above responses. I don't think I'm gullible but obviously I am

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By *easidemischiefWoman
over a year ago

Brighton

"They said they got lost.... Then they got lost again( after I gave them a second chance at a meet)... I blocked them after that. "

Haha you don't want someone who can't find their way

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By *easidemischiefWoman
over a year ago

Brighton

I've moved meet cos of periods. Mine can be 1 in 3 weeks...unpredictable and I don't feel like meeting someone with one but will always rearrange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one who said they were stuck in traffic on the motorway and going to be there awhile.

I asked which motorway and jct they gave one so i then went on to the live traffic cams and could see it was clear and open .. when i said the traffic cams showed nothing they blocked me!!

Have to say live motorway cams do come in handy now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time waster over here. Twice had to cancel, once for a period and once for a nap. But I was honest and it was a great nap!! Re arranged though

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Havent had one yet but i am sure ill get one at some point

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Nicked there balls whilst shaving

You've just made up my mind to stay "Neatly trimmed"

I was thinking that too, but plenty have "nicked" themselves with a razor..

OOps my mistake, that should have read scissors, you know, the ones with the yellow handle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best 1 was.. "We will be 5 min just round the corner" half hour later still nothing.. a hour later still nothing... 3 hour later... "Sorry guy I threw up and went home when we got out side yours"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shitter x he probably did, I hate to say it, just probably not with you, I went for a meet in the week, first in a month, all the flirting, good signs, getting on good, sexual tension, am certain she got an offer mid meeting as she just went cold, so I left, new veri 3 hrs later, some random in a hotel, on the profile says no hotels etc, when questioned, I had got her so horny she fucked someone else, and I was in the wrong for being bothered,should i even bother with her again? Was a 70 mile round trip,and I feel took for a complete twat, but she actually seems like a nice girl, instinct says forget it, so I'm not gonna ask again, its upto her, if she is as genuine as she claims, happy to meet but getting a muffled,saying forget it, what to do??? I don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad vibe now* ... Muffled* how did that predict muffled haha

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I'm lucky enough not to have fallen foul of timewasters, so apologise for the fact I'm crying laughing reading this thread pmsl

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By *ouiseeWoman
over a year ago

andover

"Shitter x he probably did, I hate to say it, just probably not with you, I went for a meet in the week, first in a month, all the flirting, good signs, getting on good, sexual tension, am certain she got an offer mid meeting as she just went cold, so I left, new veri 3 hrs later, some random in a hotel, on the profile says no hotels etc, when questioned, I had got her so horny she fucked someone else, and I was in the wrong for being bothered,should i even bother with her again? Was a 70 mile round trip,and I feel took for a complete twat, but she actually seems like a nice girl, instinct says forget it, so I'm not gonna ask again, its upto her, if she is as genuine as she claims, happy to meet but getting a muffled,saying forget it, what to do??? I don't know"

You most definitely should not contact her again. Clearly u did not do it for her or she would not have left you for some other guy. Keep your pride & keep away from her

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By *ouiseeWoman
over a year ago

andover

I have not been able to make any meets for 4 weeks because I have been genuinely ill. Ended up in hospital in the week and it turned out I had Valium withdrawal ( I had been taking it along with pain killers - I have an op coming up soon) and have been really really rough but I am not sure anybody actually believed me

but I was genuine.

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

Dead relative, dog walking injury and feeling ill.

Out of those the most believable one was the one that was verified by another user the next day opening with "met this lady last night..."

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By *ordon88Man
over a year ago

town

I was going to meet you. But I got addicted to heroin

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds.

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts! "

Not if they are in the menopause!!!!!!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Stuck at work & periods!!!

Pisses me off, if they can't arsed of had a change of heart then man the fuck up & just say ....far more respect for honesty than lies!

Maybe they have got a period. It's like one whole week out of every four. One in four chance is pretty high odds.

Women know when periods are due or there round abouts! "

Not if they are in the menopause!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks lovely x any reply on fab is a bonus for me, don't even get that, some really ignorant arseholes on here tbh, a simple thanks, but no gets much more respect than an ignorant twat does x

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I'm not feeling well"

Single guys get a bad rep on here and elsewhere for being time wasters but fuck me the women and couples are every bit as bad if not worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lucky it seems. Not had a meet cancel and I've not canceled one so far

Some funny stories though

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

"We.ve had them all over the years

Family dying

Pets dying

Car breaking down

Etc etc

Luckily in the past we always had a plan B"

My last 2 meets have both had grandparents die and had to cancel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So my top 3 are..

In at

3. I didn't think it was set in stone

New entry at

2. Complete silence day before day of and day after and then no excuses at all

And the number 1

Didn't think you were interested so didn't show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's a few excuses of why they need to cancel that are used frequently.

Had to go collect child from school as they are unwell or fallen over?

Baby sitter cancelled ?

Called into work all of a sudden?

Not sure car will make the journey

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

"One cancellation (by somebody I have carefully selected as wanting to meet) is ok

Two cancellations (by same) is suspicious.

Three is an instant dismissal and block!

Wow you're forgiving. I give one chance then they're blocked

I've had fibre engineer called out on emergency and had no way of contacting me as he had no signal

Swinging Girlfriend wouldn't let him out but he could get away from wife

Son was depressed

Power steering seals needed replacing

I've still gone on a meet with a broken leg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had, I have to go miles away to see my auntie because I just got a call that she's dying. Next day she wasn't dying after all.

I also had, I left my mobile at my dad's miles away, I have to go and get it. Never heard from man again.

I had the period excuse too, but I pointed out that men don't get them. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to feed my horses

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Not sure car will make the journey

I get that one a lot. Some dodgy cars out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago i had a couple of meets with a guy. He said he was single. However one time he didnt turn up and didnt messege me to let me know he wasnt coming. Eventually a few weeks after he messeged me to say his wife had just had a baby !!!

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