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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*Warning - super deep for a Sunday*

I keep coming across this in my conversations with men and women over a few sites.

It appears that women go on sex sites looking for love and men go on love sites looking for sex. Not all of course but a hell of a lot.

Why set yourself up to hurt or be hurt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we are weird creatures

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think it's a gender thing. I do think that some people struggle to separate love and sex and problems arise from that. I also think that some people aren't cynical enough when it comes to flattery.

Of course there are also people who use others and will say and do anything to get what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only in it, for what's in it for me..

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"*Warning - super deep for a Sunday*

I keep coming across this in my conversations with men and women over a few sites.

It appears that women go on sex sites looking for love and men go on love sites looking for sex. Not all of course but a hell of a lot.

Why set yourself up to hurt or be hurt?"

Not quite sure it's as simple as each gender is one way inclined. I'm not looking for love, several of my male friends are. I do feel that there are those who will take advantage of others in order to get a fuck on a dating site. I don't think this site is a sex site - it's a swinger site. How people use it can vary but as long as there is honesty on what they are looking for there's no harm on either method. Also, there tends to be more women on dating, more men on 'sex' so it can work to their advantage to seek what they want on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i came here for sex, had plenty of that. want more regular and better sex now.

i meet way less than i used to and ideally i would like a relationship so i know where i am with that person and have someone to look forward to. NSA will do but i'm really more fussy now than i used to be. will be reinstating my POF profile after christmas probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda get that impression from a lot of the status' I see.

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