FabSwingers.com forum: What do you see in a guy??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi what do you see in a certain guy, what makes you want to fuck one guy and not the other??

cheers

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Good question! No, I really mean it is a good one as it is a personal thing. For me confidence and intelligence are the two main factors, then sense of humour, banter and then that certain vibe that 2he" knows what is doing.... all those rank well before a certain look although I have nothing against sexy hunks

Does that answer the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A massive Cock!!!

lol..kidding, they have to be on the same wavelength, polite, same sense of humour helps, sometimes you just click with someone sometimes you dont, even if you find them physically attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good question! No, I really mean it is a good one as it is a personal thing. For me confidence and intelligence are the two main factors, then sense of humour, banter and then that certain vibe that 2he" knows what is doing.... all those rank well before a certain look although I have nothing against sexy hunks

Does that answer the question?

thanks thats a great reply! Yes i think it's more of a mental thing for women, but they obviously has to be physical chemistry!... great reply, thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A massive Cock!!!

lol..kidding, they have to be on the same wavelength, polite, same sense of humour helps, sometimes you just click with someone sometimes you dont, even if you find them physically attractive "

great reply, thanks!!! x

yes i was thinking the same!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do I see in one guy that makes me have sex with him instead of another guy?

Well,,,,erm…. Its usually a simple case that the one I end up having sex with, is the only one of the two who is interested in having sex with me….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What do I see in one guy that makes me have sex with him instead of another guy?

Well,,,,erm…. Its usually a simple case that the one I end up having sex with, is the only one of the two who is interested in having sex with me….

lol cool, btw you 3 ladies look amazing... god i love women, you are all amazing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you babe xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Confidence xx"

yes great, i have that lol... i think reading the replies, it was what i was initially thinking!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"hi what do you see in a certain guy, "

You don't want to know what Sassy has seen going into guys

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Suggest a private inter_iew of the OP... the inter_iewers are the ladies who posted on this thread... mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thank you babe xxx

i would love a peice of that ass lol you look amazing xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Suggest a private inter_iew of the OP... the inter_iewers are the ladies who posted on this thread... mmmmmm

what a great idea, why dont you all apply with in, you will all "get the job" lol

wow youre all amazing! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this like a job share???

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Just that je ne se quoi. It could be in there confidence, personality, intelligence or look

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By *unlovers2009Couple
over a year ago

chester

I have to find a guy attractive so face pics are a must and I dont find men who are overweight attractive either (sorry personal preference). His initial message matters too. If its a 'woah I wanna fuck you' type message then he aint got a chance!

I agree with the other girls in that confidence is a big factor and I also like a guy who doesnt take life (or swinging) too seriously so a good sense of humour is important. In fact, making me laugh is one of the best ways into my pants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to find a guy attractive so face pics are a must and I dont find men who are overweight attractive either (sorry personal preference). His initial message matters too. If its a 'woah I wanna fuck you' type message then he aint got a chance!

Bang-on ... great answer , love a guy who can laugh me into bed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shallow, it's looks and body first, age then personality

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

For me it's a combination of looks and personality...to get in my knickers you have to be able to make me laugh!

One thing that turns me off however sexy or fit, is arrogance.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

1 - For them to be single, unless they are bringing their wife/partner/significant other along.

2 – They will need to be easy on the eye, preferably with a blokey bloke look.

3 – A nice body, often more on the lean side of athletic rather than chunky rugby type, but the face can make up for a lot….. but they need top be tall.

4 – A functioning brain above the shoulders and the ability to hold a regular conversation.

5 – A sense of humour.

6 – A filthy imagination.

7 – A few Matrix quotes never go amiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny, laid back, polite, considerate, not pushy, attractive, able to use his brain as well as his cock

Main thing for me though is chemistry... If it ain't there I won't be getting down and dirty so some guys will tick all of the above but won't be right for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i just can't believe it... what all you lovely ladies have said... im exactly what you want in a guy... honestly lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

*** Can any of you ladies email me and i want to send my body picture, would you let me know what my body is like, im not a model but starting to work on it, its about 6 month old ***

Would love your feedback, but please be gentle lol xxx mail me please!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bang-on ... great answer , love a guy who can laugh me into bed xx"

Ohhh I see it now,,,, so that’s what’s really happening when women see me naked,,,,, their hysterical laughing is actually a secret signal they want to get me in bed ,,,,, omg.... So many wasted chances....So much battering of my self-esteem ,,,,yikes….and so many inexplicable random naked situation to now explain away,,,,,,, flipp'in heck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bang-on ... great answer , love a guy who can laugh me into bed xx

hahahah good one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*** Can any of you ladies email me and i want to send my body picture, would you let me know what my body is like, im not a model but starting to work on it, its about 6 month old ***

Would love your feedback, but please be gentle lol xxx mail me please!!"

Why don't you just stick your public profile?

....oh I get it LOL!!! Sneaky way of getting round the message filters

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"*** Can any of you ladies email me and i want to send my body picture, would you let me know what my body is like, im not a model but starting to work on it, its about 6 month old ***

Would love your feedback, but please be gentle lol xxx mail me please!!"

Your a 33 year old guy with the body of a 6 month old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*** Can any of you ladies email me and i want to send my body picture, would you let me know what my body is like, im not a model but starting to work on it, its about 6 month old ***

Would love your feedback, but please be gentle lol xxx mail me please!!

Your a 33 year old guy with the body of a 6 month old

Ya saved me typing it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"*** Can any of you ladies email me and i want to send my body picture, would you let me know what my body is like, im not a model but starting to work on it, its about 6 month old ***

Would love your feedback, but please be gentle lol xxx mail me please!!

Your a 33 year old guy with the body of a 6 month old

Ya saved me typing it

AGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol how do you mean?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*** Can any of you ladies email me and i want to send my body picture, would you let me know what my body is like, im not a model but starting to work on it, its about 6 month old ***

Would love your feedback, but please be gentle lol xxx mail me please!!

Your a 33 year old guy with the body of a 6 month old

Ya saved me typing it

AGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH"

I love you

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"*** Can any of you ladies email me and i want to send my body picture, would you let me know what my body is like, im not a model but starting to work on it, its about 6 month old ***

Would love your feedback, but please be gentle lol xxx mail me please!!

Your a 33 year old guy with the body of a 6 month old

Ya saved me typing it

AGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

I love you

AWW i love you too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

you all fancy me don't you...!!! lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

a means to an end... COCK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you all fancy me don't you...!!! lol"

I don't quite think I could say I fancy you by just looking at a picture of your cock... I've never looked at a penis and thought... corrr, I fancy that bloke!

However there are times (lots of!) when I think... corrr, I fancy some cock ....only attached to someone I errr.... fancy though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ability to banter and give as good as he gets. A sense of humour and intelligence. Physically, I don't like pretty boys but got to be some attraction - I tend to go for blokes with short hair/shaved heads, toned but not necessarily beefed up. Tattoos are an extra added bonus...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

heheh i cant send you a pic though your profile wont let me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

cool im not a pretty boy, but have the rest! My job didn't allow me to be a pretty boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"heheh i cant send you a pic though your profile wont let me

xx"

It doesn't accept messages from males under the age of 35

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"heheh i cant send you a pic though your profile wont let me

It doesn't accept messages from males under the age of 35

ohh sorry hun x please accept my apologies X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"heheh i cant send you a pic though your profile wont let me

It doesn't accept messages from males under the age of 35

ohh sorry hun x please accept my apologies X

No worries lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi what do you see in a certain guy,

You don't want to know what Sassy has seen going into guys

I go through more wasabi than Yo Sushi! If only friends knew why I smile when they order a tossed salad!

I've met some stunning looking men and I've felt nothing and some plainer looking men and I've couldn't wait to get them naked!

It's hard to define as what attracts is often contradictory: confidence with shyness etc. I've known twins: although both friends, one I'd have shagged the other I wouldn't.

As someone said: j'nais se quoi!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I go through more wasabi than Yo Sushi! "

You scare me more and more each day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go through more wasabi than Yo Sushi!

You scare me more and more each day!

You sound like Invictus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The man who can seduce me with his charms, wit and good humour. One with THAT twinkle in his eye that promises more

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"The man who can seduce me with his charms, wit and good humour. One with THAT twinkle in his eye that promises more

Peaches I couldn't have said it better myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The man who can seduce me with his charms, wit and good humour. One with THAT twinkle in his eye that promises more

you see i can do that, but better in speach rather than write it

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