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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Twenty minutes left for a Thursday rant so here goes....Strange thing happened to me recently on here. Was happily messaging away with a lady on this site when she requested my mobile number, which I obliged with. She sent a shorthand text to say hello and I immediately texted a (full english)reply. I then went to the bathroom, when I came back after 10 minutes she had written me a text to say 'stuff off', that I was logged into fab and to have a nice life....am I missing something??? I tried to call her and she blanked it....so when did shorthand texting become an intimate thing or an alternative to a conversation? I feel better now!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Twenty minutes left for a Thursday rant so here goes....Strange thing happened to me recently on here. Was happily messaging away with a lady on this site when she requested my mobile number, which I obliged with. She sent a shorthand text to say hello and I immediately texted a (full english)reply. I then went to the bathroom, when I came back after 10 minutes she had written me a text to say 'stuff off', that I was logged into fab and to have a nice life....am I missing something??? I tried to call her and she blanked it....so when did shorthand texting become an intimate thing or an alternative to a conversation? I feel better now! "

Don't give out your mobile number I have learnt the hard way with that one lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twenty minutes left for a Thursday rant so here goes....Strange thing happened to me recently on here. Was happily messaging away with a lady on this site when she requested my mobile number, which I obliged with. She sent a shorthand text to say hello and I immediately texted a (full english)reply. I then went to the bathroom, when I came back after 10 minutes she had written me a text to say 'stuff off', that I was logged into fab and to have a nice life....am I missing something??? I tried to call her and she blanked it....so when did shorthand texting become an intimate thing or an alternative to a conversation? I feel better now! "

Theres nowt so queer as folk

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"Twenty minutes left for a Thursday rant so here goes....Strange thing happened to me recently on here. Was happily messaging away with a lady on this site when she requested my mobile number, which I obliged with. She sent a shorthand text to say hello and I immediately texted a (full english)reply. I then went to the bathroom, when I came back after 10 minutes she had written me a text to say 'stuff off', that I was logged into fab and to have a nice life....am I missing something??? I tried to call her and she blanked it....so when did shorthand texting become an intimate thing or an alternative to a conversation? I feel better now! "

Perhaps you ordered a full english.

And she thought Fuck. That. I'm not a cafe.

Just wonderin'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folks are just strange!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"Some folks are just strange!"

Different, dear, different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

... I was just getting rid of the full English!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... I was just getting rid of the full English! "

Thats a lovely visual picture!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

methinks impatience. she did not like waiting 10 mins for your reply and she thought you were chatting on fab. sounds like, i think ..... well outa that one I should say.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Its funny how you can offend people sometimes without even realising what the fuck you have done

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yeah but think what might have happened if you met her, always best to know as early as possible

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Think u had a lucky escape,if she is clingy by text just imagine what she would be like if u met!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Yeah, tell me about it. A manic woman with a good text plan. Yikes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That thought did occur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Don't give out your mobile number I have learnt the hard way with that one lol... "

That would lead to me not having any meets as I won't even meet for a social till I've spoken on the phone...

I just have a playphone...

But to the op... just laugh about it and count it as a lucky escape.

Katie x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

10 minutes, ffs, do you know what that would feel like when he was tugging away at his cock waiting for you to reply..

oops sorry,

she was tugging her cock..

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and only be concerned if you ever wake up and she is sitting on your bed, stroking your hair and she has a fixed stare and says 'you sleep a long time'..

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


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Don't give out your mobile number I have learnt the hard way with that one lol...

That would lead to me not having any meets as I won't even meet for a social till I've spoken on the phone...

I just have a playphone...

But to the op... just laugh about it and count it as a lucky escape.

Katie x "

I do give it out once I have established that they are not under any mental health act... or they seem genuine.. Just my pereference. Like you I don't meet unless we have spoken on the phone a couple of times. x

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


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I do give it out once I have established that they are not under any mental health act... "

Damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So she sent you a text message, saw you logged on Fab and waited 10 mins for you to text back... and all the while she could see you on Fab while she sat there quietly fuming, plotting, scissor sharpening, alibi-forming?

Is that what you're saying?

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Similarly I've had guys who text 3 times in the time it had taken me to type a proper reply (not in texteez). So impatient saying have you fallen asleep!

Gives you a bit of an indication of the person though don't you think?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"So she sent you a text message, saw you logged on Fab and waited 10 mins for you to text back... and all the while she could see you on Fab while she sat there quietly fuming, plotting, scissor sharpening, alibi-forming?

Is that what you're saying? "

Her loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So she sent you a text message, saw you logged on Fab and waited 10 mins for you to text back... and all the while she could see you on Fab while she sat there quietly fuming, plotting, scissor sharpening, alibi-forming?

Is that what you're saying?

Her loss "

Apparently so. Still, they'll be another potential victi.. er... playmate along in a few mins.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"So she sent you a text message, saw you logged on Fab and waited 10 mins for you to text back... and all the while she could see you on Fab while she sat there quietly fuming, plotting, scissor sharpening, alibi-forming?

Is that what you're saying?

Her loss

Apparently so. Still, they'll be another potential victi.. er... playmate along in a few mins. "

I've always wanted to say that.

You can borrow one of my axes if you like.

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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!

Bunny Boiler sounds right to us lol

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I saw a ladies profile once that demanded anyone who PM's her be there to continue any 'conversation' and not log off and reply hours later..

I had visions of loads of sad single blokes desperately trying to stay awake after sending her innumerable messages and waiting for permission to log off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was messaged by a newbie here on fab....she wanted me to come down ad fuck her!...I asked her to call my number...she said she was too shy to call LOLOLOL!!!......in fact i wanna check "she" is still on the site lolol

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I was messaged by a newbie here on fab....she wanted me to come down ad fuck her!...I asked her to call my number...she said she was too shy to call LOLOLOL!!!......in fact i wanna check "she" is still on the site lolol"

Yeah she is... oh shite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi that's a fair summation of the facts, she thought we were having a 1 on 1 conversation in real time and I kind of missed it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol You need to Katch a goo goo!

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond


"Its funny how you can offend people sometimes without even realising what the fuck you have done "

Seems that I have lived my whole life that way at times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The lady in question has many verified meets so she is quite real. I think she may have been messed about a bit in the past and has therefore developed ultra strict criteria for reciprocal behaviour during the vetting process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twenty minutes left for a Thursday rant so here goes....Strange thing happened to me recently on here. Was happily messaging away with a lady on this site when she requested my mobile number, which I obliged with. She sent a shorthand text to say hello and I immediately texted a (full english)reply. I then went to the bathroom, when I came back after 10 minutes she had written me a text to say 'stuff off', that I was logged into fab and to have a nice life....am I missing something??? I tried to call her and she blanked it....so when did shorthand texting become an intimate thing or an alternative to a conversation? I feel better now! "

I hate text messages as a form of conversation - I just don't see the point! They take so bloody long to type, it is far quicker:-

~ to chat in Fab chat (if you're both logged on)

~ to exchange inbox messages in Fab (if you're both logged on)

~ to pick up the bloody phone, dial the number and talk with your MOUTH!

I've dumped guys before now, if they've gone into a hissy fit about not getting a reply to a text message.

To me, text messages are not useful for conversation, only for practical information (e.g. I'll be there at 8).

Right, rant over!

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