FabSwingers.com forum: Talking dirty whilst fucking

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He loves talking dirty to me whilst doing the deed,me on the other hand finds it a bit uncomfortable

What's everyone elses view on dirty talk?

Should I just overcome the shyness an give it a go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just puts me off.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mrs) absolutely love it . Can't keep quiet

Mr likes it too but not as much as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on the mood, but go on, give it a go, you might find it a big turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be incredibly horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it awkward.

I never know what to say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It just puts me off.....

I think it puts me off a little

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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A select few words into their ear usually does the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like listening to it but don't feel confident i'm good at doing it back.

yeah give it a go, maybe do some dirty texting to get a feel for the kind of things he likes to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A select few words into their ear usually does the trick

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find it awkward.

I never know what to say."

I always say the wrong thing so I might be best gagged lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slowly whispers in a woman's ear show her what she means to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't do it. I really, really can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately give it a go he loves it when I talk dirty to him especially when I talk about meets or things ive done in the past. Yes it does make me a little uncomfortable sometimes because I feel like im being repetative and not sure what to say sometimes but he doesnt think that and he loves hearing my stories over and over especially all the little details that you dont usualy think about. It takes practice and good communication you have to know what the other wants from it to make it horny but when I do it right ot really turns him on and makes for great sex. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a wee bit, to much can be a bit overkill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A select few words into their ear usually does the trick

What like, fancy a cuppa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Muddy wellingtons.....

Mentioning that the oven needs cleaning doesn't count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Oooo hello, I'm gonna come up behind you and........push you in this puddle of mud'

That kinda dirty enough?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

Does saying "is the bin out" count for dirty talk during sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"'Oooo hello, I'm gonna come up behind you and........push you in this puddle of mud'

That kinda dirty enough?

Lol, well that kind of comment will stop him shooting his load.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am too fucking shy to talk dirty !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a lady friend once who when in the process the dirty talk just slipped out and she loved it

Lucky me lol

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By *irstTime4everythingCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty talk in a well spoken, pronounced accent just isn't the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live it such a turn on my man does it so well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A select few words into their ear usually does the trick

Gimme your curly wurlys...?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does saying "is the bin out" count for dirty talk during sex?"

edging - be a better orgasm in the end

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I can't do it I never know what to say.. I feel silly doing it.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We absolutely love it, especially when all your inhibitions have gone and you're both in absolute sex mode.

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

"I find it awkward.

I never know what to say."

I can give you a few hints!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"We absolutely love it, especially when all your inhibitions have gone and you're both in absolute sex mode. "

I'm not saying a word

Till later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love it and my man is VERY good at it when he is slow teasing me

Kinky

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Not really dirty talk, but those little comments whispered in my ear.....yowser!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore it.

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

She loves it, he is getting used to it.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Listening to it from the right person is a huge turn on,I personally can't do for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He does it to me....and when the mood is right and we're both in super horny mood....I love it!!!!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I find it amusing and quite often end up laughing to the point of snorting. It rarely turns me on and my accent just sounds weird saying things like that.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"A select few words into their ear usually does the trick

Gimme your curly wurlys...?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose regional accents play a part in this form of arousal. I was on holiday in Torquay once and got chatting to this lovely Geordie lass and ended up having dinner in the hotel we were both staying in.

Over dinner the conversation was flirty and suggestive I went to the loo and as I rose the lady touched my hand and whispered Torquay ........succulent breast with a nice tasty stuffing"

I thought I was in for a rampant session. Turns out she was just advising she was going to have Turkey for mains!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope...hate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't over think it. If it doesn't come naturally then it might seem/feel forced.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I suppose it depends, we often share what we are thinking whilst having sex. Which can be hot when it's imagining fucking some of our favourite meets from fab.

Can be a little off putting if its asking about when to go do the shopping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its a bit uncomfortable for me, dirty talk doesn't come naturally to me but I've got better at it over time. I love him doing it to me though.

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, depends really on who I'm with, circumstances and mood

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I prefer more animalistic noises lol

Talking puts me off, I think when I got really excited last time I growled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been told i like to talk far too much before.I think the women I've known are less verbal bed.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Some people like it, others don't.

I'm easy.

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I love people telling me what a dirty, filthy, sexy slut I am and telling them how slutty and sexy I want to be in my lingerie and nylons.

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it amusing and quite often end up laughing to the point of snorting. It rarely turns me on and my accent just sounds weird saying things like that. "

'I love it when a posh bird talks dirty!'

-Dog Soldiers (2002)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends...

I can do it...but..depends on who it is.

I like to just talk pure dirt sometimes and do nothing. I just sit there doing it. That's the ultimate tease.

It just depends...not everybody likes it as proved by this thread.

But I know I'm shit hot at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, we do struggle though sometimes as we aren't very good at it!

G x

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

It's really horny but can understand its not for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just mutter the usual guff I have picked up from porn over the years. Usually in the final furlong.

Nothing too loud or shouty though. I'm not a screamer.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"I am too fucking shy to talk dirty ! "

I just don't believe that.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Not something I've ever done whilst swinging though.

Sometimes I do think swinging can be less adventurous as you don't know the other party as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I do think swinging can be less adventurous as you don't know the other party as well."

^ THIS.

I definitely agree with this.

That's why I don't like one-off fuck and go meets.

They're 9/10 fucking boring.

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