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By *ureTemptation OP   Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid

Why is it insults are often easier to believe than compliments?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont find that if honest i do kinda shy away from compliments i get that but insults water off a ducks back this is a good quote "If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself. What isn't part of ourselves doesn't disturb us."

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

The frailty of the human ego.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it insults are often easier to believe than compliments?"

Because you're probably being inundated with compliments, from guys that you know are only trying to get into your knickers. It's like the word love. If it's thrown around, it becomes meaningless.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't find they are. Both I take with a pinch of salt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it insults are often easier to believe than compliments?"

When you find the answer to this. Let me know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insults are just people lashing out because of their own insecurities! Compliments are given from those who are able to empithize with others and express how they feel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true OP

Kinky

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Good question and prob as Joe said earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we are all lying egotistic narcissistic sycophants. Dies this answer or am I lying because some are nice just the ing out that takes time on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly insults don't bother me anymore cos I'm in a better place emotionally now.

Compliments I smile and gratfully receive but mostly they are ten a penny especially on here. Compliments from my family are a different thing altogether and are cherished. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Compliments are given from those who are able to empithize with others and express how they feel!"

Or who want to get into your knickers...

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By *ureTemptation OP   Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid

I actually found this more before I joined Fab. Now both merge into meaningless noise most of the time.

But pre-Fab, I struggled with this a lot more.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Do ladies see compliments from couples as different to those from single males, it just popped onto my head reading these responses. Just curious..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

confidence and honesty for who you are works for me others opinions are not so prevelent then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do ladies see compliments from couples as different to those from single males, it just popped onto my head reading these responses. Just curious..

S"

Yes, and also if I'm complimented by other women.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Do ladies see compliments from couples as different to those from single males, it just popped onto my head reading these responses. Just curious..

S"

No, I don't take compliments from either too seriously. If it's to comment on my witty repartee, I'm dripping regardless of it being from a couple, woman, man...

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Good question op and I've wondered the same. I know I personally feel uncomfortable when complemented but an insult just rolls off my back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Compliments are given from those who are able to empithize with others and express how they feel!

Or who want to get into your knickers..."

So not right.

.okay....sometimes. Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Compliments are given from those who are able to empithize with others and express how they feel!

Or who want to get into your knickers...

So not right.

.okay....sometimes. Haha. "

Hahaha not trusting you again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it insults are often easier to believe than compliments?"

Because we're conditioned to do so by some very messed up elders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, I've spent so much being insulted I'm now perplexed by compliments.

I find it hard to accept compliments as I have the immediate defense mechanism of thinking the person giving them has an agenda - I'm wary of neurotypical insincerity.

-Mr

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


" Compliments are given from those who are able to empithize with others and express how they feel!

Or who want to get into your knickers...

So not right.

.okay....sometimes. Haha.

Hahaha not trusting you again! "

Sin I'd just like to make it clear I've never complemented you trying to get into your knickers. Mainly because in my mind you aren't wearing any

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Why is it insults are often easier to believe than compliments?

Because we're conditioned to do so by some very messed up elders. "

You've possibly just twated a nail right on its head there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it insults are often easier to believe than compliments?

Because we're conditioned to do so by some very messed up elders. "

Who were in turn fucked up by their own elders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it insults are often easier to believe than compliments?

Because we're conditioned to do so by some very messed up elders.

Who were in turn fucked up by their own elders."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, I've spent so much being insulted I'm now perplexed by compliments.

I find it hard to accept compliments as I have the immediate defense mechanism of thinking the person giving them has an agenda - I'm wary of neurotypical insincerity.

-Mr "

All human interaction involves manipulation at some level - I've messed with your head simply by suggesting this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it insults are often easier to believe than compliments?

Because we're conditioned to do so by some very messed up elders.

You've possibly just twated a nail right on its head there "

Twat.

I meant ah hello lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Compliments are given from those who are able to empithize with others and express how they feel!

Or who want to get into your knickers...

So not right.

.okay....sometimes. Haha.

Hahaha not trusting you again!

Sin I'd just like to make it clear I've never complemented you trying to get into your knickers. Mainly because in my mind you aren't wearing any "

That did make me laugh! Wearing granny ones now... Very comfy! Picture that!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


" Compliments are given from those who are able to empithize with others and express how they feel!

Or who want to get into your knickers...

So not right.

.okay....sometimes. Haha.

Hahaha not trusting you again!

Sin I'd just like to make it clear I've never complemented you trying to get into your knickers. Mainly because in my mind you aren't wearing any

That did make me laugh! Wearing granny ones now... Very comfy! Picture that! "

Awwwww sin you know not what you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Compliments are given from those who are able to empithize with others and express how they feel!

Or who want to get into your knickers...

So not right.

.okay....sometimes. Haha.

Hahaha not trusting you again! "

I'm always honest to a beautiful woman like yourself.

*wait a minute.....damn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, I've spent so much being insulted I'm now perplexed by compliments.

I find it hard to accept compliments as I have the immediate defense mechanism of thinking the person giving them has an agenda - I'm wary of neurotypical insincerity.

-Mr

All human interaction involves manipulation at some level - I've messed with your head simply by suggesting this "

You really haven't, trust me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

There not for me. Guess it depends on your mindset.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Why is it insults are often easier to believe than compliments?

Because we're conditioned to do so by some very messed up elders.

You've possibly just twated a nail right on its head there

Twat.

I meant ah hello lovely.

"

Did you know twat is a well used engineering term. I enjoy go on give it a good twating.... I'm full of useless shit me.

I should possibly refrase that

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Only one person has pissed me of on here with an insult, not really the insult itself but the fact he was being a knob and couldnt back up what he said. But was trying to win favour with the women he fancied only it backfired on him

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Only one person has pissed me of on here with an insult, not really the insult itself but the fact he was being a knob and couldnt back up what he said. But was trying to win favour with the women he fancied only it backfired on him"

What people do that on here

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