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"What's your interpretation of NSA within the swinging community? All it means to me is that I don't want a full time relationship. Nothing more nothing less. I still expect and aim to establish honesty and trust. In saying that, at clubs I might make small talk but have no desire to know anything else about the person, but if chatting to someone regularly, I do expect them to be honest. Is that a "string"? " We don't think so, not into fuck & go, so you need conversation & honesty they are not strings though, just good tools to use to make an experience as good as it can be.. | |||
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"I prefer to call it no hassle! I think to have any relationship requires honesty and integrity? I don't think you necessarily have to have strings however boundaries are acceptable, lots of people are various reasons for being on this site and they should all be respected however to have respect u must have honestly" definitely agree! Honesty & respect go hand in hand. | |||
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"We meet We have sex We may meet again I wish them well if we don't We meet We have sex We meet again No need for regular contact" It's funny coz I kind of agree with this as this pretty much sums up me in clubs. But if I'm looking at having a one to one, I have to be mentally attracted to them as well as physically. Which does involve an element of contact prior to the meet But totally get some people who don't need the mental attraction | |||
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"I keep it pure clinical nsa, fuck n go, connection or a conversation is not needed " that's why paper bags were invented right? Lol | |||
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"I keep it pure clinical nsa, fuck n go, connection or a conversation is not needed that's why paper bags were invented right? Lol " That is right or turn the lights off lol | |||
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"I can't do clinical sex....but don't ask me anything regarding emotions etc or sex (what's that when it's at home ) " sex? What's that? By the time I've spoken to someone for a while I'm usually turned right off lol | |||
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"I can't do clinical sex....but don't ask me anything regarding emotions etc or sex (what's that when it's at home ) sex? What's that? By the time I've spoken to someone for a while I'm usually turned right off lol " I'm scared of having sex with someone in case I burst out crying I cannot subject some poor guy who wants to just have sex to that.. | |||
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"We meet We have sex We may meet again I wish them well if we don't We meet We have sex We meet again No need for regular contact It's funny coz I kind of agree with this as this pretty much sums up me in clubs. But if I'm looking at having a one to one, I have to be mentally attracted to them as well as physically. Which does involve an element of contact prior to the meet But totally get some people who don't need the mental attraction " This. When I meet in clubs it's more immediate though- they say you make your mind up about someone within 10 seconds! V | |||
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"I can't do clinical sex....but don't ask me anything regarding emotions etc or sex (what's that when it's at home ) sex? What's that? By the time I've spoken to someone for a while I'm usually turned right off lol I'm scared of having sex with someone in case I burst out crying I cannot subject some poor guy who wants to just have sex to that.. " i made a topic about that when i properly split with my ex. i met a few guys from it and cried on them...they didn't mind and were really nice about it and affectionate. | |||
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"For me, it can mean friendship, messaging, repeat meets, whatever - but the crucial part is that it's in a little box separate from the rest of my life, and the lid to that box can be opened or closed as I want." i agree with this, plus dont try and tell me what i can or cannot do | |||
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"For me, it can mean friendship, messaging, repeat meets, whatever - but the crucial part is that it's in a little box separate from the rest of my life, and the lid to that box can be opened or closed as I want." I'd say this sums it up for me too. | |||
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"For me, it can mean friendship, messaging, repeat meets, whatever - but the crucial part is that it's in a little box separate from the rest of my life, and the lid to that box can be opened or closed as I want." S | |||
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"For me, it can mean friendship, messaging, repeat meets, whatever - but the crucial part is that it's in a little box separate from the rest of my life, and the lid to that box can be opened or closed as I want." | |||
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"For me, it can mean friendship, messaging, repeat meets, whatever - but the crucial part is that it's in a little box separate from the rest of my life, and the lid to that box can be opened or closed as I want." Who are you ? Pandora? | |||
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"For me, it can mean friendship, messaging, repeat meets, whatever - but the crucial part is that it's in a little box separate from the rest of my life, and the lid to that box can be opened or closed as I want." Nail, head, hit on as usual | |||
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"For me, it can mean friendship, messaging, repeat meets, whatever - but the crucial part is that it's in a little box separate from the rest of my life, and the lid to that box can be opened or closed as I want. Who are you ? Pandora? " There's nothing evil in my box | |||
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"For me, it can mean friendship, messaging, repeat meets, whatever - but the crucial part is that it's in a little box separate from the rest of my life, and the lid to that box can be opened or closed as I want. Who are you ? Pandora? There's nothing evil in my box " nah just a bracelet | |||
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"What's your interpretation of NSA within the swinging community? " . Not into bondage. | |||
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"For me, it can mean friendship, messaging, repeat meets, whatever - but the crucial part is that it's in a little box separate from the rest of my life, and the lid to that box can be opened or closed as I want." | |||
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