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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Banish anyone who mentioned the 'c'word that refers to a festive period before december..

What would you do if you were a moderator for a day ?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod

over a year ago

My Own Little World

C word?

Christmas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd allow clique threads to run and run because they're hugely entertaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ban for life anyone who mentions the word clique on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What would you do if you were a moderator for a day ?"

I'd be fair and impartial

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

*takes notes*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd shoot myself..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What would you do if you were a moderator for a day ?

I'd be fair and impartial "

lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Banish the word cake on the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a parkka a scooter and listen to the Jam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take on the role of evil dictator, and ban everyone, so I had the forums to myself, and I was the only voice!

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham

For anyone who's status is a variant of: "Free weekend, what shall we do?" I would like the ability to add in different colour letters "How about getting those shelves put up?" or "Cut the grass, it's like a bloody jungle out there."

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod

over a year ago

My Own Little World

I would ban the 'I've been on fab for 5 minutes* why aren't I knee deep in fannnys' threads.

*times vary

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Banish the word cake on the forums!"

Food cake or fab cake?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I would ban the 'I've been on fab for 5 minutes* why aren't I knee deep in fannnys' threads.

*times vary"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd ban for life anyone who mentions the word clique on here "

I'd rather that C word than the bloody Cake one that hijacks threads.

Lemon Drizzle anyone, no, f*ck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd ban for life anyone who mentions the word clique on here

I'd rather that C word than the bloody Cake one that hijacks threads.

Lemon Drizzle anyone, no, f*ck off"

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haribos anyone?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Haribos anyone? "

Sorry I prefer cake.....

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Haribos anyone?

Sorry I prefer cake..... "

Or popcorn?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Banish anyone who mentioned the 'c'word that refers to a festive period before december..

What would you do if you were a moderator for a day ?"

Edit the posts of control freaks so that every noun was 'Christmas '

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I will ban all the female attention seekers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will ban all the female attention seekers "

Oh come on the attention seekers are quite funny

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Banish anyone who mentioned the 'c'word that refers to a festive period before december..

What would you do if you were a moderator for a day ?

Edit the posts of control freaks so that every noun was 'Christmas '"

That reminds my of my old pal Vix... she ran a site we used to use and she changed the C word to automatically change to 'babyjesusbirthday'

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"I'd ban for life anyone who mentions the word clique on here

I'd rather that C word than the bloody Cake one that hijacks threads.

Lemon Drizzle anyone, no, f*ck off"

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Banish anyone who mentioned the 'c'word that refers to a festive period before december..

What would you do if you were a moderator for a day ?

Edit the posts of control freaks so that every noun was 'Christmas '

That reminds my of my old pal Vix... she ran a site we used to use and she changed the C word to automatically change to 'babyjesusbirthday' "

Dpx forum (it's a star sign forum) they automatically change swear words to random words unless you ask a mod to take the swear filters off!

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd ban for life anyone who mentions the word clique on here

I'd rather that C word than the bloody Cake one that hijacks threads.

Lemon Drizzle anyone, no, f*ck off"

But 'popcorn' 'pulls up a chair' 'cake' 'haribo' comments are some of the wittiest and most original seen on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?"

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will ban all the female attention seekers "

and thus endeth the forums....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Banish anyone who mentioned the 'c'word that refers to a festive period before december..

What would you do if you were a moderator for a day ?

Edit the posts of control freaks so that every noun was 'Christmas '

That reminds my of my old pal Vix... she ran a site we used to use and she changed the C word to automatically change to 'babyjesusbirthday' "

Did I imagine her banning talk of Christmas until 1st December too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ban anyone whose name begins with an N and ends in C

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !"

No, definitely ?, i was asking

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Banish anyone who mentioned the 'c'word that refers to a festive period before december..

What would you do if you were a moderator for a day ?

Edit the posts of control freaks so that every noun was 'Christmas '

That reminds my of my old pal Vix... she ran a site we used to use and she changed the C word to automatically change to 'babyjesusbirthday'

Did I imagine her banning talk of Christmas until 1st December too?"

Nope... you got your arse kicked for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking"

To be honest I see no need for them at all.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking

To be honest I see no need for them at all. "

Well I guess that just shows how good a job we do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ban anyone whose name begins with an N and ends in C "

Haha just got that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing.

I would do absolutely nothing and sit back and stroke my cat (not a euphemism) and watch!! Mwahahaha

V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking

To be honest I see no need for them at all.

Well I guess that just shows how good a job we do! "

I think you are a little wide on that one...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking

To be honest I see no need for them at all.

Well I guess that just shows how good a job we do!

I think you are a little wide on that one..."

I'm not sure the size of my arse is relevant!

If there were no mods there would be total chaos. The rules aren't that difficult to stick to. I love a good debate but the personal swipes are unnecessary. You see less of them because there's a good team sorting them out. It's a thankless task generally but I don't know one of you from the next so I try to keep a sense of humour and a little bit of faith that people will learn to follow them there rules!

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

I'd un-ban all the banned people, put them in a separate room together and sit and watch. Survivor wins.

Could even sell tickets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking

To be honest I see no need for them at all.

Well I guess that just shows how good a job we do!

I think you are a little wide on that one...

I'm not sure the size of my arse is relevant!

If there were no mods there would be total chaos. The rules aren't that difficult to stick to. I love a good debate but the personal swipes are unnecessary. You see less of them because there's a good team sorting them out. It's a thankless task generally but I don't know one of you from the next so I try to keep a sense of humour and a little bit of faith that people will learn to follow them there rules! "

Rules are the problem. We live in a free society and freedom of speech is a right we have. Rules restrict the right to free speech. Chaos over censorship anyday...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking

To be honest I see no need for them at all.

Well I guess that just shows how good a job we do!

I think you are a little wide on that one...

I'm not sure the size of my arse is relevant!

If there were no mods there would be total chaos. The rules aren't that difficult to stick to. I love a good debate but the personal swipes are unnecessary. You see less of them because there's a good team sorting them out. It's a thankless task generally but I don't know one of you from the next so I try to keep a sense of humour and a little bit of faith that people will learn to follow them there rules!

Rules are the problem. We live in a free society and freedom of speech is a right we have. Rules restrict the right to free speech. Chaos over censorship anyday...

"

If someone popped into your house, left on their muddy boots and jumped on your bed, you'd rightly be pissed off. Especially since they tramped mud over all your carpets to get to your bedroom and totally ignored the sign you put up on the wall by the door to say all shoes should be removed. Your house = your rules.

This isn't your house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking

To be honest I see no need for them at all.

Well I guess that just shows how good a job we do!

I think you are a little wide on that one...

I'm not sure the size of my arse is relevant!

If there were no mods there would be total chaos. The rules aren't that difficult to stick to. I love a good debate but the personal swipes are unnecessary. You see less of them because there's a good team sorting them out. It's a thankless task generally but I don't know one of you from the next so I try to keep a sense of humour and a little bit of faith that people will learn to follow them there rules!

Rules are the problem. We live in a free society and freedom of speech is a right we have. Rules restrict the right to free speech. Chaos over censorship anyday...

"

It always amazes me when people equate freedom of speech to their right to post what they want on an Internet forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Banish anyone who mentioned the 'c'word that refers to a festive period before december..

What would you do if you were a moderator for a day ?

Edit the posts of control freaks so that every noun was 'Christmas '

That reminds my of my old pal Vix... she ran a site we used to use and she changed the C word to automatically change to 'babyjesusbirthday'

Did I imagine her banning talk of Christmas until 1st December too?

Nope... you got your arse kicked for that! "

I wish we had that rule here. Too many people want to spend 2 or 3 months talking about Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking

To be honest I see no need for them at all.

Well I guess that just shows how good a job we do!

I think you are a little wide on that one...

I'm not sure the size of my arse is relevant!

If there were no mods there would be total chaos. The rules aren't that difficult to stick to. I love a good debate but the personal swipes are unnecessary. You see less of them because there's a good team sorting them out. It's a thankless task generally but I don't know one of you from the next so I try to keep a sense of humour and a little bit of faith that people will learn to follow them there rules!

Rules are the problem. We live in a free society and freedom of speech is a right we have. Rules restrict the right to free speech. Chaos over censorship anyday...

It always amazes me when people equate freedom of speech to their right to post what they want on an Internet forum "

Why?

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By *ercuryMan
over a year ago

Grantham

I'd ban all the banal status updates:-

"Only 68 more sleeps until we go to Rhodes"

"Mother Nature ruined my week"

You really do have to question why people post such stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Banish the word cake on the forums!"

Did someone mention CAKE

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I'd probably spend the whole day subtly altering people's posts just to liven the place up a bit now and then.

I'd also have a whole rake of my own private emojies that I'd slip in now and then just to wind people up.

I'd also ensure that the "do you really want to do that?" message that comes up when you accidentally press the wink button, came up before certain people tried to post.

Mr ddc

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"As a neo-nazi supporter , I'd probably spend the whole day subtly hiding in a bush, altering people's posts just to liven the place up a bit now and then.

I'd also have a whole tub of my own dead kittens to eat, that I'd slip in now and then just to wind people up.

I'd also ensure that the "do you really want to do that?" message that comes up when you accidentally press the wink button, came up before certain people tried to post.

I'd do all this whilst sat in my favourite frilly knickers.

Mr ddc "

That would be really naughty....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would try and find a way of when a regular topic such as bareback or BBW or, god forbid, Snog, kiss, molest guinea pig comes up a sign automatically flashes up....

"Done to death. Now fuck off and use the search facility or think up something more original. Knob."

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

[Removed by poster at 24/11/16 09:44:55]

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"

That would be really naughty.... "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Id have different flags people could use on their avatars

Flag for

Pmt

Bad mood monday

Havent slept for a week will bite heads

Im just a miserable cunt all the time et al

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"I would try and find a way of when a regular topic such as bareback or BBW or, god forbid, Snog, kiss, molest guinea pig comes up a sign automatically flashes up....

"Done to death. Now fuck off and use the search facility or think up something more original. Knob."

"

If a giant penis emoji also pops up, I'm all for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking

To be honest I see no need for them at all.

Well I guess that just shows how good a job we do!

I think you are a little wide on that one...

I'm not sure the size of my arse is relevant!

If there were no mods there would be total chaos. The rules aren't that difficult to stick to. I love a good debate but the personal swipes are unnecessary. You see less of them because there's a good team sorting them out. It's a thankless task generally but I don't know one of you from the next so I try to keep a sense of humour and a little bit of faith that people will learn to follow them there rules!

Rules are the problem. We live in a free society and freedom of speech is a right we have. Rules restrict the right to free speech. Chaos over censorship anyday...

It always amazes me when people equate freedom of speech to their right to post what they want on an Internet forum

Why?"

Okay I'll put it another way. What would you like to post about that the current forum rules stop you from doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ban people with friends only pics and who say they can't put public pics up because of their jobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking

To be honest I see no need for them at all.

Well I guess that just shows how good a job we do!

I think you are a little wide on that one...

I'm not sure the size of my arse is relevant!

If there were no mods there would be total chaos. The rules aren't that difficult to stick to. I love a good debate but the personal swipes are unnecessary. You see less of them because there's a good team sorting them out. It's a thankless task generally but I don't know one of you from the next so I try to keep a sense of humour and a little bit of faith that people will learn to follow them there rules!

Rules are the problem. We live in a free society and freedom of speech is a right we have. Rules restrict the right to free speech. Chaos over censorship anyday...

It always amazes me when people equate freedom of speech to their right to post what they want on an Internet forum

Why?

Okay I'll put it another way. What would you like to post about that the current forum rules stop you from doing? "

Anything I want. Specifics are not relevant. My question was to you was why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd look into why the fab guys forums have no direct link via a button hence them not being used.

No one can get to the forums without googlifying them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking

To be honest I see no need for them at all.

Well I guess that just shows how good a job we do!

I think you are a little wide on that one...

I'm not sure the size of my arse is relevant!

If there were no mods there would be total chaos. The rules aren't that difficult to stick to. I love a good debate but the personal swipes are unnecessary. You see less of them because there's a good team sorting them out. It's a thankless task generally but I don't know one of you from the next so I try to keep a sense of humour and a little bit of faith that people will learn to follow them there rules!

Rules are the problem. We live in a free society and freedom of speech is a right we have. Rules restrict the right to free speech. Chaos over censorship anyday...

"

I've always understood freedom of speech to mean that the government can't restrict what you say.

This is a privately owned website, their site, their rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd ban people with friends only pics and who say they can't put public pics up because of their jobs "

Oooh naughty. I think I'd ban hidden profiles from commenting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Won't lie: I would be a Dictator lol just for the fun of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking

To be honest I see no need for them at all.

Well I guess that just shows how good a job we do!

I think you are a little wide on that one...

I'm not sure the size of my arse is relevant!

If there were no mods there would be total chaos. The rules aren't that difficult to stick to. I love a good debate but the personal swipes are unnecessary. You see less of them because there's a good team sorting them out. It's a thankless task generally but I don't know one of you from the next so I try to keep a sense of humour and a little bit of faith that people will learn to follow them there rules!

Rules are the problem. We live in a free society and freedom of speech is a right we have. Rules restrict the right to free speech. Chaos over censorship anyday...

It always amazes me when people equate freedom of speech to their right to post what they want on an Internet forum

Why?

Okay I'll put it another way. What would you like to post about that the current forum rules stop you from doing?

Anything I want. Specifics are not relevant. My question was to you was why?"

You said rules ate the problem? So how do those rules restrict you.

Freedom of speech is not about your right to discuss illegal acts or abuse people (in broadterms pretty much the only things we can't do here) on a privately owned swingers forum. Freedom of speech is about the government not restricting us

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I'd look into why the fab guys forums have no direct link via a button hence them not being used.

No one can get to the forums without googlifying them! "

Agreed!!

(not that I use them, or am even a bloke, but then nor is Rachael)

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking

To be honest I see no need for them at all.

Well I guess that just shows how good a job we do!

I think you are a little wide on that one...

I'm not sure the size of my arse is relevant!

If there were no mods there would be total chaos. The rules aren't that difficult to stick to. I love a good debate but the personal swipes are unnecessary. You see less of them because there's a good team sorting them out. It's a thankless task generally but I don't know one of you from the next so I try to keep a sense of humour and a little bit of faith that people will learn to follow them there rules!

Rules are the problem. We live in a free society and freedom of speech is a right we have. Rules restrict the right to free speech. Chaos over censorship anyday...

If someone popped into your house, left on their muddy boots and jumped on your bed, you'd rightly be pissed off. Especially since they tramped mud over all your carpets to get to your bedroom and totally ignored the sign you put up on the wall by the door to say all shoes should be removed. Your house = your rules.

This isn't your house. "

Excellent analogy, although for them to post their comment it'll probably go way over their head.

That said, if I were Mod for a day I'd start threads on immigration, bbw versus slim, brexit, Trump, cheating, bareback to name a few...and watch from afar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was I'd chat incessant shit..& do fuck all apart from ban anything I personally didn't like in the forums to make myself feel good

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking

To be honest I see no need for them at all.

Well I guess that just shows how good a job we do!

I think you are a little wide on that one...

I'm not sure the size of my arse is relevant!

If there were no mods there would be total chaos. The rules aren't that difficult to stick to. I love a good debate but the personal swipes are unnecessary. You see less of them because there's a good team sorting them out. It's a thankless task generally but I don't know one of you from the next so I try to keep a sense of humour and a little bit of faith that people will learn to follow them there rules!

Rules are the problem. We live in a free society and freedom of speech is a right we have. Rules restrict the right to free speech. Chaos over censorship anyday...

It always amazes me when people equate freedom of speech to their right to post what they want on an Internet forum

Why?

Okay I'll put it another way. What would you like to post about that the current forum rules stop you from doing?

Anything I want. Specifics are not relevant. My question was to you was why?

You said rules ate the problem? So how do those rules restrict you.

Freedom of speech is not about your right to discuss illegal acts or abuse people (in broadterms pretty much the only things we can't do here) on a privately owned swingers forum. Freedom of speech is about the government not restricting us"

As in all things it's about perspective. I believe that freedom of speech should be open to everyone in every medium. Be it online or anywhere else. As for rules they are implemented by people in order to try and control or influence the flow information and or opinions. Surely on a site such as this which many would consider to be liberated its only right that people shouldn't be regulated by someone else's rules and that free speech should be paramount?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

If I was a mod,

I would be AMAZED by the stupidity of some people

OVERWHELMED by the weight of complaints about trivial matters

BORED by the he said/she said BS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking

To be honest I see no need for them at all.

Well I guess that just shows how good a job we do!

I think you are a little wide on that one...

I'm not sure the size of my arse is relevant!

If there were no mods there would be total chaos. The rules aren't that difficult to stick to. I love a good debate but the personal swipes are unnecessary. You see less of them because there's a good team sorting them out. It's a thankless task generally but I don't know one of you from the next so I try to keep a sense of humour and a little bit of faith that people will learn to follow them there rules!

Rules are the problem. We live in a free society and freedom of speech is a right we have. Rules restrict the right to free speech. Chaos over censorship anyday...

If someone popped into your house, left on their muddy boots and jumped on your bed, you'd rightly be pissed off. Especially since they tramped mud over all your carpets to get to your bedroom and totally ignored the sign you put up on the wall by the door to say all shoes should be removed. Your house = your rules.

This isn't your house.

Excellent analogy, although for them to post their comment it'll probably go way over their head.

That said, if I were Mod for a day I'd start threads on immigration, bbw versus slim, brexit, Trump, cheating, bareback to name a few...and watch from afar! "

Then they should make the forum private and not public. Its an open house and anyone can be here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd look into why the fab guys forums have no direct link via a button hence them not being used.

No one can get to the forums without googlifying them!

Agreed!!

(not that I use them, or am even a bloke, but then nor is Rachael) "

It'd be really interesting to see what would be discussed on the forums there.

The forums exist. It'd be great to have access to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assist forumites, remove posts when appropriate and intervene in threads when necessary?

Are you sure the ? Shouldn't be a !

No, definitely ?, i was asking

To be honest I see no need for them at all.

Well I guess that just shows how good a job we do!

I think you are a little wide on that one...

I'm not sure the size of my arse is relevant!

If there were no mods there would be total chaos. The rules aren't that difficult to stick to. I love a good debate but the personal swipes are unnecessary. You see less of them because there's a good team sorting them out. It's a thankless task generally but I don't know one of you from the next so I try to keep a sense of humour and a little bit of faith that people will learn to follow them there rules!

Rules are the problem. We live in a free society and freedom of speech is a right we have. Rules restrict the right to free speech. Chaos over censorship anyday...

It always amazes me when people equate freedom of speech to their right to post what they want on an Internet forum

Why?

Okay I'll put it another way. What would you like to post about that the current forum rules stop you from doing?

Anything I want. Specifics are not relevant. My question was to you was why?

You said rules ate the problem? So how do those rules restrict you.

Freedom of speech is not about your right to discuss illegal acts or abuse people (in broadterms pretty much the only things we can't do here) on a privately owned swingers forum. Freedom of speech is about the government not restricting us

As in all things it's about perspective. I believe that freedom of speech should be open to everyone in every medium. Be it online or anywhere else. As for rules they are implemented by people in order to try and control or influence the flow information and or opinions. Surely on a site such as this which many would consider to be liberated its only right that people shouldn't be regulated by someone else's rules and that free speech should be paramount?"

Again I ask can you give a single example of a topic that you thibk should be discussed on here but the rules prevent it?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"

That said, if I were Mod for a day I'd start threads on immigration, bbw versus slim, brexit, Trump, cheating, bareback to name a few...and watch from afar! "

The lovely HPC that was started a thread once on why BBW women are said to be all woman ,does that mean slimmer women are not ( or something along those lines ) once, I was like what the hell are you going to do for an encore.

Needless to say, it went as expected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone wanna join the Christmas cake clique answers on a postcard send to the trolls

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

Don't talk about bans people.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"I'd un-ban all the banned people, put them in a separate room together and sit and watch. Survivor wins.

Could even sell tickets."

I like this idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't talk about bans people."

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ban all single male profiles except mine

Actually I would give the women a break and have a day where males can't send the first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing I would do would be to get the site owners to keep the forums private . That's to say that the only people able to see them would be fab members , not the whole of the internet .

This would allow a bit more freedom of expression without fear of offending non swingers who look at them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The first thing I would do would be to get the site owners to keep the forums private . That's to say that the only people able to see them would be fab members , not the whole of the internet .

This would allow a bit more freedom of expression without fear of offending non swingers who look at them .

"

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"The first thing I would do would be to get the site owners to keep the forums private . That's to say that the only people able to see them would be fab members , not the whole of the internet .

This would allow a bit more freedom of expression without fear of offending non swingers who look at them .

"

It makes no odds, surely?

Any malefactors/journos can still join and read...

?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The first thing I would do would be to get the site owners to keep the forums private . That's to say that the only people able to see them would be fab members , not the whole of the internet .

This would allow a bit more freedom of expression without fear of offending non swingers who look at them .

It makes no odds, surely?

Any malefactors/journos can still join and read...

?"

The fact that they chose to join would by default mean they couldn't complain of being offended though .

It's not so much the wanting to keep journalists away , it's the fact that anyone on the net can see what we have written , and if one uses names , places etc.... in a post , the whole web sees it .

Same applies to profile names , where we live and so on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would put up a sticky post saying that patience is the key lol.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"

This would allow a bit more freedom of expression without fear of offending non swingers who look at them .

"

I am puzzled as to why you think or how you found out that people were offended on reading the forums when not a member?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would put up a sticky post saying that patience is the key lol."

Make this man a leader right away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This would allow a bit more freedom of expression without fear of offending non swingers who look at them .

I am puzzled as to why you think or how you found out that people were offended on reading the forums when not a member?

"

Certain subject matter is frowned upon as I understand it . The site owners don't want it seen on a public forum ?

I'm just guessing that if it wasn't on a public forum it wouldn't be so contentious .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would put up a sticky post saying that patience is the key lol.

Make this man a leader right away. "

Yes and it would be a good idea to have for the site too

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

I'd spend my bank holidays in brighton

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Ban everyone for a few day's

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

On a forum I used to run, the software gave the ability to make someone silent. Effectively they could still post but no-one but them could read their posts.

Hours of amusement!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

If I were a mod I'd change back to being a northern soul boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id delete every profile that has less than one sentence on their page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a forum I used to run, the software gave the ability to make someone silent. Effectively they could still post but no-one but them could read their posts.

Hours of amusement! "

That's a brilliant idea (so long as it wasn't used on me )

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"On a forum I used to run, the software gave the ability to make someone silent. Effectively they could still post but no-one but them could read their posts.

Hours of amusement!

That's a brilliant idea (so long as it wasn't used on me ) "

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

couldn't do it like

am a man of the people not someone that needs a wee bit of power

women love me for it

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By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley

require men to under go an IQ test.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a forum I used to run, the software gave the ability to make someone silent. Effectively they could still post but no-one but them could read their posts.

Hours of amusement!

That's a brilliant idea (so long as it wasn't used on me )

Who said that? "

So you can hear me just not see me? Damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be overwelmed at the power n prob faint. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"require men to under go an IQ test."

So men have to have a set level of intelligence but a woman can be as thick to short planks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"require men to under go an IQ test.

So men have to have a set level of intelligence but a woman can be as thick to short planks?

"

*two* short planks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"require men to under go an IQ test.

So men have to have a set level of intelligence but a woman can be as thick to short planks?

"

Yeah. Because boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ban myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"require men to under go an IQ test.

So men have to have a set level of intelligence but a woman can be as thick to short planks?

Yeah. Because boobs."

I'm trying to work out if it's a slight against men or simply reducing women to boobs and a foo foo!

Think I've failed the IQ test!

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By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley


"require men to under go an IQ test.

So men have to have a set level of intelligence but a woman can be as thick to short planks?

*two* short planks"

yes as there's too many men on here anyway it just gets rid if the dim ones

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"On a forum I used to run, the software gave the ability to make someone silent. Effectively they could still post but no-one but them could read their posts.

Hours of amusement!

That's a brilliant idea (so long as it wasn't used on me )

Who said that?

So you can hear me just not see me? Damn "

That explains why my brilliantly worded and well thought out points languish in fab forum obscurity then. That and my avatar not being one of the 'sexy' ones. Apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"require men to under go an IQ test.

So men have to have a set level of intelligence but a woman can be as thick to short planks?

*two* short planks

yes as there's too many men on here anyway it just gets rid if the dim ones "

you go for brains rather than looks then lovely

don't get me wrong like but am a little surprised

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I'd issue a five day ban to all single fems and couples - and have all the single guys to myself for almost a week!!

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop


"Ban myself "

Mmm! Might not work! I was bored and reported myself once! They ignored me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd issue a five day ban to all single fems and couples - and have all the single guys to myself for almost a week!! "

Bad move. You'd have 2,632 fancy a fuck emails within an hour!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"require men to under go an IQ test.

So men have to have a set level of intelligence but a woman can be as thick to short planks?

*two* short planks

yes as there's too many men on here anyway it just gets rid if the dim ones "

Well if the post at the top is yours - it's undergo - one word! Perhaps you'd fail your own test! Good job you don't have a penis!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I'd issue a five day ban to all single fems and couples - and have all the single guys to myself for almost a week!! "

Greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a forum I used to run, the software gave the ability to make someone silent. Effectively they could still post but no-one but them could read their posts.

Hours of amusement!

That's a brilliant idea (so long as it wasn't used on me )

Who said that?

So you can hear me just not see me? Damn

That explains why my brilliantly worded and well thought out points languish in fab forum obscurity then. That and my avatar not being one of the 'sexy' ones. Apparently."

I'm going to nick your theory. No one will notice

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester


"Banish anyone who mentioned the 'c'word that refers to a festive period before december..

What would you do if you were a moderator for a day ?

Edit the posts of control freaks so that every noun was 'Christmas '

That reminds my of my old pal Vix... she ran a site we used to use and she changed the C word to automatically change to 'babyjesusbirthday' "

I remember that wonder how she is

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

create a moaning a whinging sub forum and direct threads and people to it, so people can wallow in their own self pity somewhere designated for the purpose..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"create a moaning a whinging sub forum and direct threads and people to it, so people can wallow in their own self pity somewhere designated for the purpose.."

That means no would would ever see my post or talk to me, Oh that happens already

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"

This would allow a bit more freedom of expression without fear of offending non swingers who look at them .

I am puzzled as to why you think or how you found out that people were offended on reading the forums when not a member?

Certain subject matter is frowned upon as I understand it . The site owners don't want it seen on a public forum ?

I'm just guessing that if it wasn't on a public forum it wouldn't be so contentious .

"

No they don't want certain things spoken about at all, not just because the forum is open

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Oh I love mod looking guys saw a gorgeous one busking today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a forum I used to run, the software gave the ability to make someone silent. Effectively they could still post but no-one but them could read their posts.

Hours of amusement! "

I sometimes think this has been applied to me. Especially on a fuck or pass thread

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I'd issue a five day ban to all single fems and couples - and have all the single guys to myself for almost a week!!

Greedy "

Oh yeah!!

You could have the following five days? I'd be exhausted by then!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I'd issue a five day ban to all single fems and couples - and have all the single guys to myself for almost a week!!

Greedy

Oh yeah!!

You could have the following five days? I'd be exhausted by then! "

Go on then who we having first

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I'd issue a five day ban to all single fems and couples - and have all the single guys to myself for almost a week!!

Greedy

Oh yeah!!

You could have the following five days? I'd be exhausted by then!

Go on then who we having first "

I can think of a few!

Think we need a shortlist!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I'd issue a five day ban to all single fems and couples - and have all the single guys to myself for almost a week!!

Greedy

Oh yeah!!

You could have the following five days? I'd be exhausted by then!

Go on then who we having first

I can think of a few!

Think we need a shortlist! "

Indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd issue a five day ban to all single fems and couples - and have all the single guys to myself for almost a week!!

Greedy

Oh yeah!!

You could have the following five days? I'd be exhausted by then!

Go on then who we having first

I can think of a few!

Think we need a shortlist!

Indeed. "

Can I be on yours

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By *hobos46Man
over a year ago

Royston

I'm a mod on BN. It's not as much fun as you might think.

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"Banish anyone who mentioned the 'c'word that refers to a festive period before december..

What would you do if you were a moderator for a day ?"

Ban those squirting / pissing threads

Fuck, pass, kill, drink threads

And bbw threads

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