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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Evening what if you had a meet and they turned up and did not look like the pics you had been shown? But still the nice person they have always been and good to get on with?

Would you walk?

Ask them about it?

Carry on?

I once met a girl from a dating site and did not look as good as her pics led me on but have to say I carryed on and maybe did not fancy her as much but still had a nice day out and a laugh and even to this day still talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think photos are slot different to real life.. photos can be altered i.e. Filters , photoshop and at what angle they took the photo.

I wouldn't walk out but if they were completely different and you wasn't sexually attracted to them then just make it a social meet.

MrsP

Xxx

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Its really not on peeps pulling stunts like this...not sure i would want i stay around..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet only and i'd ask about why the pics looked nothing like them. Happened to me years ago. I had a coffee and chat then called it a day. To me, its a barefaced lie to post pics that don't match their face.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

You never know though til you get there - I think you are far more 'sparkley' than your pics OP (or maybe that was just the lighting in the setting) as an example.....

I have stayed and chatted when this has happened to me previously - although once I did drive off on someone when he waved without even getting out my car as his pics must have been 20yrs out of date!! Lol

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"I personally think photos are slot different to real life.. photos can be altered i.e. Filters , photoshop and at what angle they took the photo.

I wouldn't walk out but if they were completely different and you wasn't sexually attracted to them then just make it a social meet.

MrsP

Xxx"

True I would just be polite and get on with them not kick off a fuss maybe this sound cheesey but I know iam brad pitt so ied be willing to give them a chance if I got on with them by chatting then there has to of been some thing we clicked on

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I hope I have better screening than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here, I'd be more upset if they turned up and did look the same.

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Its really not on peeps pulling stunts like this...not sure i would want i stay around.."

I don know I think iam too soft and give it a go

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Social meet only and i'd ask about why the pics looked nothing like them. Happened to me years ago. I had a coffee and chat then called it a day. To me, its a barefaced lie to post pics that don't match their face. "

True i mean in this day and age how hard is it to do a pic and send it to them

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"On here, I'd be more upset if they turned up and did look the same. "

Really?

There are some stunning people on fabs if you look.

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"You never know though til you get there - I think you are far more 'sparkley' than your pics OP (or maybe that was just the lighting in the setting) as an example.....

I have stayed and chatted when this has happened to me previously - although once I did drive off on someone when he waved without even getting out my car as his pics must have been 20yrs out of date!! Lol"

Well with me it's hard for me to lie about my look lol

Well if it's that out of date I under stand think that's one of th worst things I could have done on the meet I wave at them then they just drive off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social meet only and i'd ask about why the pics looked nothing like them. Happened to me years ago. I had a coffee and chat then called it a day. To me, its a barefaced lie to post pics that don't match their face.

True i mean in this day and age how hard is it to do a pic and send it to them"

Agree.

I go by no pic no meet. No webcam chat or webcam. No meet.

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"On here, I'd be more upset if they turned up and did look the same.

Really?

There are some stunning people on fabs if you look.

"

Was just thinking the same lol

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Social meet only and i'd ask about why the pics looked nothing like them. Happened to me years ago. I had a coffee and chat then called it a day. To me, its a barefaced lie to post pics that don't match their face.

True i mean in this day and age how hard is it to do a pic and send it to them

Agree.

I go by no pic no meet. No webcam chat or webcam. No meet. "

Ah iam not big on webcam as my lap top sucks but more pics and phone calls (yet a phone call won't tell you what they look like lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see them on webcam. Even a smile is a huge turn on to me so you know if you click sexually before you meet.

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"I like to see them on webcam. Even a smile is a huge turn on to me so you know if you click sexually before you meet. "

Ahh very well I mostly do fab on my phone so can't cam but when I have done I never look my best mostly me in a dressing gown with a brew needing a shave looking rough after a night of work lol

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"You never know though til you get there - I think you are far more 'sparkley' than your pics OP (or maybe that was just the lighting in the setting) as an example.....

I have stayed and chatted when this has happened to me previously - although once I did drive off on someone when he waved without even getting out my car as his pics must have been 20yrs out of date!! Lol

Well with me it's hard for me to lie about my look lol

Well if it's that out of date I under stand think that's one of th worst things I could have done on the meet I wave at them then they just drive off "

If he hadn't have waved I'd never have known it was him! He even had the balls to ask where I'd gone in a message - I told him straight - he apologised and said he needed some more pics and then asked if I'd take them!!!!

Dream on mate!!

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"You never know though til you get there - I think you are far more 'sparkley' than your pics OP (or maybe that was just the lighting in the setting) as an example.....

I have stayed and chatted when this has happened to me previously - although once I did drive off on someone when he waved without even getting out my car as his pics must have been 20yrs out of date!! Lol

Well with me it's hard for me to lie about my look lol

Well if it's that out of date I under stand think that's one of th worst things I could have done on the meet I wave at them then they just drive off

If he hadn't have waved I'd never have known it was him! He even had the balls to ask where I'd gone in a message - I told him straight - he apologised and said he needed some more pics and then asked if I'd take them!!!!

Dream on mate!! "

Well I guess you was straight with him it's the one thing that we should do more of I mean even more so on fab I mean you like tall guys

Some girls only like black guys or guys with beards and tattoos some guys only like slim ladies and so on

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"You never know though til you get there - I think you are far more 'sparkley' than your pics OP (or maybe that was just the lighting in the setting) as an example.....

I have stayed and chatted when this has happened to me previously - although once I did drive off on someone when he waved without even getting out my car as his pics must have been 20yrs out of date!! Lol

Well with me it's hard for me to lie about my look lol

Well if it's that out of date I under stand think that's one of th worst things I could have done on the meet I wave at them then they just drive off

If he hadn't have waved I'd never have known it was him! He even had the balls to ask where I'd gone in a message - I told him straight - he apologised and said he needed some more pics and then asked if I'd take them!!!!

Dream on mate!!

Well I guess you was straight with him it's the one thing that we should do more of I mean even more so on fab I mean you like tall guys

Some girls only like black guys or guys with beards and tattoos some guys only like slim ladies and so on "

Oh I know..... And take it from me, men on here seem to lie about their height more than anything else - do they think I am never going to notice?! Lol

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"You never know though til you get there - I think you are far more 'sparkley' than your pics OP (or maybe that was just the lighting in the setting) as an example.....

I have stayed and chatted when this has happened to me previously - although once I did drive off on someone when he waved without even getting out my car as his pics must have been 20yrs out of date!! Lol

Well with me it's hard for me to lie about my look lol

Well if it's that out of date I under stand think that's one of th worst things I could have done on the meet I wave at them then they just drive off

If he hadn't have waved I'd never have known it was him! He even had the balls to ask where I'd gone in a message - I told him straight - he apologised and said he needed some more pics and then asked if I'd take them!!!!

Dream on mate!!

Well I guess you was straight with him it's the one thing that we should do more of I mean even more so on fab I mean you like tall guys

Some girls only like black guys or guys with beards and tattoos some guys only like slim ladies and so on

Oh I know..... And take it from me, men on here seem to lie about their height more than anything else - do they think I am never going to notice?! Lol"

You can change a lot about your self your looks your size your clothes but hight your stuck with and for me if iam to short for a lady fair do its up to her but she's missing out

But that is part of fab you are going to go for what you like

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