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"ive been attacked on here for being too skinny (through no fault of my own)xxx " Aww... come err and feast yerself ... | |||
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"ive been attacked on here for being too skinny (through no fault of my own)xxx " ((((((hugs)))))) know the feeling, not very easy to try and put on weight | |||
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"ive been attacked on here for being too skinny (through no fault of my own)xxx ((((((hugs)))))) know the feeling, not very easy to try and put on weight " Ohh come on... i promise you you could easily put on some weight.. I'll go on top for a while Just ask lol.. mwah xxx | |||
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"ive been attacked on here for being too skinny (through no fault of my own)xxx ((((((hugs)))))) know the feeling, not very easy to try and put on weight Ohh come on... i promise you you could easily put on some weight.. I'll go on top for a while Just ask lol.. mwah xxx " Now that's the kind of sandwiches I like!!! | |||
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"ive been attacked on here for being too skinny (through no fault of my own)xxx ((((((hugs)))))) know the feeling, not very easy to try and put on weight Ohh come on... i promise you you could easily put on some weight.. I'll go on top for a while Just ask lol.. mwah xxx Now that's the kind of sandwiches I like!!! " mmm sandwich? sounds like my kinda night xxxx | |||
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"ive been attacked on here for being too skinny (through no fault of my own)xxx ((((((hugs)))))) know the feeling, not very easy to try and put on weight Ohh come on... i promise you you could easily put on some weight.. I'll go on top for a while Just ask lol.. mwah xxx Now that's the kind of sandwiches I like!!! mmm sandwich? sounds like my kinda night xxxx" woohoo triple decker.... okay who's gonna be the filling? | |||
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"ive been attacked on here for being too skinny (through no fault of my own)xxx " Your not to skinny your just built for speed | |||
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"ive been attacked on here for being too skinny (through no fault of my own)xxx Your not to skinny your just built for speed" is that a message of support? | |||
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"ive been attacked on here for being too skinny (through no fault of my own)xxx Your not to skinny your just built for speedis that a message of support? " I just dont concider you skinny theres loads of women out there your size and shape | |||
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"ive been attacked on here for being too skinny (through no fault of my own)xxx Your not to skinny your just built for speedis that a message of support? I just dont concider you skinny theres loads of women out there your size and shape" thankyou hun ....i have had ridicule and abuse about the way i look .... | |||
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"I just dont concider you skinny theres loads of women out there your size and shape thankyou hun ....i have had ridicule and abuse about the way i look ...." What you can't see is the genuinely stunned look on my face. I know its not easy to ignore stuff like that, but you should. They're either an example of the failure of care in the community, or they need pointing towards Specsavers. You look amazing in your photo's, and I think everyone on here would agree with that | |||
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"I just dont concider you skinny theres loads of women out there your size and shape thankyou hun ....i have had ridicule and abuse about the way i look .... What you can't see is the genuinely stunned look on my face. I know its not easy to ignore stuff like that, but you should. They're either an example of the failure of care in the community, or they need pointing towards Specsavers. You look amazing in your photo's, and I think everyone on here would agree with that " and we 2nd that......ridicule??? and abuse??? for what??? looking fantastic!! me thinks its more of the green eyed monster coming out in anyone who wants to criticise your looks and shape hun | |||
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"ive been attacked on here for being too skinny (through no fault of my own)xxx Your not to skinny your just built for speedis that a message of support? I just dont concider you skinny theres loads of women out there your size and shapethankyou hun ....i have had ridicule and abuse about the way i look ...." I have no idea why, and I am genuinely surprised at that, as far as I can see you look pretty damn hot. Jealousy or rejection is all I can think. W | |||
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"To Rob & Kaz - Kaz you look amazing, never listen to anyone who says otherwise. " Agreed lol you look ace x | |||
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"A serious question:- Why is it a woman is never happy with her body (ok there are a few before anyone jumps down my throat) but big women always want to be slim, slim women always want a few extra pounds, women with small boobies whant larger boobies and those with larger boobies want them smaller! Surely if we were all meant to be the same we would be created that way. The only thing in common with all women is their love of shoes! Come on girls variety is the spice of life and all that, sure there has to be an attraction in the first place but its rather shallow if you can't get past the window dressing. Luv ya all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (now I have been told by he boss that when I post I have to identify that its me so its A who has posted this) " and dont forget handbags | |||
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"A serious question:- Why is it a woman is never happy with her body (ok there are a few before anyone jumps down my throat) but big women always want to be slim, slim women always want a few extra pounds, women with small boobies whant larger boobies and those with larger boobies want them smaller! Surely if we were all meant to be the same we would be created that way. The only thing in common with all women is their love of shoes! Come on girls variety is the spice of life and all that, sure there has to be an attraction in the first place but its rather shallow if you can't get past the window dressing. Luv ya all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (now I have been told by he boss that when I post I have to identify that its me so its A who has posted this) and dont forget handbags " oh yes mustn't forget the handbags, especially the ones that come in another bag to protect them ..... never could get my head round that one A | |||
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"A serious question:- Why is it a woman is never happy with her body (ok there are a few before anyone jumps down my throat) but big women always want to be slim, slim women always want a few extra pounds, women with small boobies whant larger boobies and those with larger boobies want them smaller! Surely if we were all meant to be the same we would be created that way. The only thing in common with all women is their love of shoes! Come on girls variety is the spice of life and all that, sure there has to be an attraction in the first place but its rather shallow if you can't get past the window dressing. Luv ya all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (now I have been told by he boss that when I post I have to identify that its me so its A who has posted this) and dont forget handbags oh yes mustn't forget the handbags, especially the ones that come in another bag to protect them ..... never could get my head round that one A" mmm sounds like radley | |||
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"A serious question:- Why is it a woman is never happy with her body (ok there are a few before anyone jumps down my throat) but big women always want to be slim, slim women always want a few extra pounds, women with small boobies whant larger boobies and those with larger boobies want them smaller! Surely if we were all meant to be the same we would be created that way. The only thing in common with all women is their love of shoes! Come on girls variety is the spice of life and all that, sure there has to be an attraction in the first place but its rather shallow if you can't get past the window dressing. Luv ya all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (now I have been told by he boss that when I post I have to identify that its me so its A who has posted this) and dont forget handbags oh yes mustn't forget the handbags, especially the ones that come in another bag to protect them ..... never could get my head round that one A mmm sounds like radley " i love radley, i have a bit of a fetish for em, got a few to many | |||
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"one thing i have noticed in the forum is that to attack a slim woman/person and call her skinny twiggy and all over names is fine and tolerated, but if u call a large woman/person anything you get shot down in flames!! its something i and many others have noticed, but i am very sure this will be denyed BIG TIME hahaha " Ok here goes....large people are either lazy or have an overactive thyroid problem.......either way they need to shag more to shift those pounds!!! | |||
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"one thing i have noticed in the forum is that to attack a slim woman/person and call her skinny twiggy and all over names is fine and tolerated, but if u call a large woman/person anything you get shot down in flames!! its something i and many others have noticed, but i am very sure this will be denyed BIG TIME hahaha Ok here goes....large people are either lazy or have an overactive thyroid problem.......either way they need to shag more to shift those pounds!!! " im not lazy ! i eat to much lol and shag plenty thanx, and yeah im large , so wot ,???? like nice pair said, if u dont like us the way we are then jog on! | |||
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"one thing i have noticed in the forum is that to attack a slim woman/person and call her skinny twiggy and all over names is fine and tolerated, but if u call a large woman/person anything you get shot down in flames!! its something i and many others have noticed, but i am very sure this will be denyed BIG TIME hahaha Ok here goes....large people are either lazy or have an overactive thyroid problem.......either way they need to shag more to shift those pounds!!! im not lazy ! i eat to much lol and shag plenty thanx, and yeah im large , so wot ,???? like nice pair said, if u dont like us the way we are then jog on! " had no plans on stopping.....as i sprint on past.....merely giving my opinion....as is allowed on forums......gets the debate warmed up....lmao | |||
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"one thing i have noticed in the forum is that to attack a slim woman/person and call her skinny twiggy and all over names is fine and tolerated, but if u call a large woman/person anything you get shot down in flames!! its something i and many others have noticed, but i am very sure this will be denyed BIG TIME hahaha " see the trouble you are causing naughty kitty....ha ha ha | |||
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"one thing i have noticed in the forum is that to attack a slim woman/person and call her skinny twiggy and all over names is fine and tolerated, but if u call a large woman/person anything you get shot down in flames!! its something i and many others have noticed, but i am very sure this will be denyed BIG TIME hahaha see the trouble you are causing naughty kitty....ha ha ha" dont u blame me!!! i did not write that it was my other personailty lol | |||
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" Ok here goes....large people are either lazy or have an overactive thyroid problem.......either way they need to shag more to shift those pounds!!! " An overactive thyroid would cause weight loss. OK it often brings a serious appetite but mostly weight loss (and a lot of other side effects). It's simple maths. Weight gain means more calories consumed than burned. There could be lots of reasons for being unable to burn calories other than laziness. | |||
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" Ok here goes....large people are either lazy or have an overactive thyroid problem.......either way they need to shag more to shift those pounds!!! An overactive thyroid would cause weight loss. OK it often brings a serious appetite but mostly weight loss (and a lot of other side effects). It's simple maths. Weight gain means more calories consumed than burned. There could be lots of reasons for being unable to burn calories other than laziness." is there a doctor in the house???? | |||
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"A serious question:- Why is it a woman is never happy with her body (ok there are a few before anyone jumps down my throat) but big women always want to be slim, slim women always want a few extra pounds, women with small boobies whant larger boobies and those with larger boobies want them smaller! Surely if we were all meant to be the same we would be created that way. The only thing in common with all women is their love of shoes! Come on girls variety is the spice of life and all that, sure there has to be an attraction in the first place but its rather shallow if you can't get past the window dressing. Luv ya all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (now I have been told by he boss that when I post I have to identify that its me so its A who has posted this) and dont forget handbags oh yes mustn't forget the handbags, especially the ones that come in another bag to protect them ..... never could get my head round that one A mmm sounds like radley " are they the ones with dogs on and come in so called limited editions? | |||
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"one thing i have noticed in the forum is that to attack a slim woman/person and call her skinny twiggy and all over names is fine and tolerated, but if u call a large woman/person anything you get shot down in flames!! its something i and many others have noticed, but i am very sure this will be denyed BIG TIME hahaha " you're dead right kitty...bugs the hell out of me even tho i'm a not a slim woman myself. Its particularly offensive when guys say to a slim women they want a "real woman" ..ie one with curves !! We're all real, and we're all different! | |||
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" Ok here goes....large people are either lazy or have an overactive thyroid problem.......either way they need to shag more to shift those pounds!!! An overactive thyroid would cause weight loss. OK it often brings a serious appetite but mostly weight loss (and a lot of other side effects). It's simple maths. Weight gain means more calories consumed than burned. There could be lots of reasons for being unable to burn calories other than laziness." really!!! i thought u put on weight if u dont wank enough | |||
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"one thing i have noticed in the forum is that to attack a slim woman/person and call her skinny twiggy and all over names is fine and tolerated, but if u call a large woman/person anything you get shot down in flames!! its something i and many others have noticed, but i am very sure this will be denyed BIG TIME hahaha you're dead right kitty...bugs the hell out of me even tho i'm a not a slim woman myself. Its particularly offensive when guys say to a slim women they want a "real woman" ..ie one with curves !! We're all real, and we're all different!" my darling, you are right, we are all real and diffrent thats what makes everyone of us special in our own way!! | |||
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"A serious question:- Why is it a woman is never happy with her body (ok there are a few before anyone jumps down my throat) but big women always want to be slim, slim women always want a few extra pounds, women with small boobies whant larger boobies and those with larger boobies want them smaller! Surely if we were all meant to be the same we would be created that way. The only thing in common with all women is their love of shoes! Come on girls variety is the spice of life and all that, sure there has to be an attraction in the first place but its rather shallow if you can't get past the window dressing. Luv ya all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (now I have been told by he boss that when I post I have to identify that its me so its A who has posted this) and dont forget handbags oh yes mustn't forget the handbags, especially the ones that come in another bag to protect them ..... never could get my head round that one A mmm sounds like radley are they the ones with dogs on and come in so called limited editions?" yep thats the ones...do have regular editions too | |||
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" Ok here goes....large people are either lazy or have an overactive thyroid problem.......either way they need to shag more to shift those pounds!!! An overactive thyroid would cause weight loss. OK it often brings a serious appetite but mostly weight loss (and a lot of other side effects). It's simple maths. Weight gain means more calories consumed than burned. There could be lots of reasons for being unable to burn calories other than laziness. really!!! i thought u put on weight if u dont wank enough" lmfao....no wonder im a skinny runt!! | |||
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"one thing i have noticed in the forum is that to attack a slim woman/person and call her skinny twiggy and all over names is fine and tolerated, but if u call a large woman/person anything you get shot down in flames!! its something i and many others have noticed, but i am very sure this will be denyed BIG TIME hahaha you're dead right kitty...bugs the hell out of me even tho i'm a not a slim woman myself. Its particularly offensive when guys say to a slim women they want a "real woman" ..ie one with curves !! We're all real, and we're all different!" Think this is what I was trying to say in my first response on this topic and we do know about this from more than one point of view K has lost abt 9 stone recently, and boy has her confidence improved, and I've lost about 4. to be honest not sure if we are 'happier' though | |||
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"We take very little notice of the way people we meet look (everybody is different and we certainly aint gods gift lol) Its all down to a good time with us if we enjoy anothers company and get on have a laugh etc looks or size really dont come into it We have swung for a long time now and over the years have met all kinds shapes and sizes some with wiked outgoing personalities and some not We tend to like like the contents not just ths wrapping And we have sometimes found that the ones with the nicer wrapping dont always contain the nicest things lol And vica versa By no means is that always the case but im sure you know what i mean Some people really miss out by not really getting to look deeper than the looks Craig x" hi craig . you stole my post ....lol...i so agree with what you put,but there has been critiques on threads on our stance before in that we will,"shag anything.." rest assured i wont and it may be based on attraction to me ...but that is not the main criteria...someone meeting the media stereotyp of what is a "beautiful person" can leave me cold when judged against other criterai ...and vice verss pd | |||
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"to get back to the original post ....i was attacked for my shape and size...and recieved pms which were extremely abusive...but because im skinny thats ok? kaz x " no its not ok, and the people who do are wankstains | |||
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"to get back to the original post ....i was attacked for my shape and size...and recieved pms which were extremely abusive...but because im skinny thats ok? kaz x " No it isn't alright whatever your size nobody has the right to be rude about it xxx | |||
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"to get back to the original post ....i was attacked for my shape and size...and recieved pms which were extremely abusive...but because im skinny thats ok? kaz x " absolutely not,, as i and others have said ( even as big women ). It seems to be ok to have a go at slimmer women in a way that you'd be slaughtered for if it was aimed at larger women and its double standards of the worst kind. just remember that messages like that say far more about the sender than they do about you ..block , delete and spend your precious time and energy on those who do love/lust/admire/fancy the pants off you xxxx | |||
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"to get back to the original post ....i was attacked for my shape and size...and recieved pms which were extremely abusive...but because im skinny thats ok? kaz x " Hi Kaz Abuse is never ok It's the person inside | |||
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"to get back to the original post ....i was attacked for my shape and size...and recieved pms which were extremely abusive...but because im skinny thats ok? kaz x no its not ok, and the people who do are wankstains" ooh a new swear word!!! lol xxx | |||
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"to get back to the original post ....i was attacked for my shape and size...and recieved pms which were extremely abusive...but because im skinny thats ok? kaz x " Not okay at all to attack anyone for size shape height etc. You could look like Angelina or Brad and there's always a twat or two who would still pick faults with you, just because they want to not because of your looks, they just want attention.. good or bad.... you have to feel sorry for the saddos who can only gain attention in this way. K and R you have my private thoughts in personal mail too. So remember... haribo, chocolate, booze and fags just because we can! lol Laine xxxxx | |||
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"to get back to the original post ....i was attacked for my shape and size...and recieved pms which were extremely abusive...but because im skinny thats ok? kaz x Not okay at all to attack anyone for size shape height etc. You could look like Angelina or Brad and there's always a twat or two who would still pick faults with you, just because they want to not because of your looks, they just want attention.. good or bad.... you have to feel sorry for the saddos who can only gain attention in this way. K and R you have my private thoughts in personal mail too. So remember... haribo, chocolate, booze and fags just because we can! lol Laine xxxxx" thanx laine....bouncing back up today ...im sure we have all had these idiots ...whatever shape or size we are ....happy swinging!! xxx kaz | |||
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"haribo, chocolate, booze and fags just because we can! lol Laine xxxxx" You tell them girls, wiggles reglarly stuffs her face.. No pack of bickys is safe in this house, she eats the whole pack in one go :P Not to put weight on, but because she can, she has had 2 kids, eats more than me and still is tiny size 6.. Love way she looks and I also love way some of the women we meet look, regardless of size (unless they are large wearing clothes 6 sizes to small or got forbid a basqe with a 12" gap on the lace!!) | |||
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"ok whats big whats skinny? nicepair is 36c boobs waist is 32 inchs and iam a size 14 top half and 16 bottom because iam pear shaped and the guys love it but i think you can be to skinny and it does not look healty at all so there you go nicepair has put the forums to rite....... xxxxxx" the same way looking too big dont look healthy as well i guess ? | |||
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"ok all the guys that come in here let us know what you all like xxxxx but yes i guess being to big is not healthy as well oh well iam at a loss now lol xxxx feck nicepair is lost for words???? xxx" we prefer not too big.....and defo not too skinny............im pushed to choose between one or the other then we would say that we like a little bit of meat that none at all!!! everyone is so different....if you are 5 foot and a size 18 then thats a bit different from someone is 5 foot 10 and the same size....oooohhhhhhhhh its so fecking awkward this one...........people are who they are...some will like it...others wont........if we all liked the same thing we would be bloody boring...so hey a little variety is the spice of life they say...........but like everyone we all have our own preferences | |||
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"ok all the guys that come in here let us know what you all like xxxxx but yes i guess being to big is not healthy as well oh well iam at a loss now lol xxxx feck nicepair is lost for words???? xxx" As you will see from our verifications we like people (not just girls) of all shapes and sizes - we like to get to know our playmates first (not to sa we don't play on first meet) and it is definately personality that wins every time. | |||
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"to get back to the original post ....i was attacked for my shape and size...and recieved pms which were extremely abusive...but because im skinny thats ok? kaz x Hi Kaz Abuse is never ok It's the person inside " Ain't that the truth and it comes in many different guises in here, certainly changing my outlook on life | |||
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"if we all looked the same life would be so boring , variety is the spice of life i'm 6ft and size 16, and very happy and very confident, for my frame if i was slim id look silly ( i think) and i've never had any complaints , i dont think lol " hey are you cutting and pasting from my message above....lmao....oh and ps totally agree with what you say.... | |||
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"How come there is so many events on the forums,for BBW..women..and non posted for SLIM..women..discrimanatory or what???" You will find that due to past activities and attacks on slim women through forums and PMS (which appears to be still alive and kicking)that the type of party you are looking for tends to be arranged by personal invite only from those you know and recommendation of others. Some advertise parties on their profiles with the added phrase select people only. | |||
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"You will find that due to past activities and attacks on slim women through forums and... " Have to say I have not once noticed any 'attacks' on slim women in the forums (or larger women I might add)... perhaps I just haven't spotted it... Frankly I love slim women, that's just my preference... have nothing against anyone else. Noone on here is too fat or too skinny, we are all just who we are. Unless it actually affects your health, what does it matter?? I'm sure there are plenty of women out there who don't want 25 yr old white guys with average cocks.....SO? None of the people who have mentioned being attacked for being slim are skinny at all... | |||
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"How come there is so many events on the forums,for BBW..women..and non posted for SLIM..women..discrimanatory or what???" to answer the original question... BBW events were started to address the balance and to create an atmosphere in which big women could feel comfortable and beautiful in company that did not seek to judge them for being larger than is considered the 'norm' (as a side note the term bbw was coined as the other terms were derogatory and being fat was always seen as unattractive..and thats not the case at all..just as many fat munters..as thin ones lol) In time it was quickly realised there were many women who fell into the bbw catgagory and even more men who liked them. Popularity grew..so more and more events.. Now the reason there is not the same for very very slim women...society is far more accepting of very thin women that fat women..blunt fact. You need only look at how the 'industry' embraces size zero to see that there is more acceptance. Anyone who is ridiculed for their size..well its not right..none the less there is far more prejudice against bigger than smaller. Everyone has a personal opinion..but those are the facts and answers the original question. As to other points in this thread... im a fat bird..a big girl..a bbw..whatever you want to call me..i dont care lol I like me..and i feel beautiful and have no shortage of admirers. I have had very few insulting emails and if i did..fuck them. They are the idiots not me and frankly if i am soooo important in their lives they need to send me an email to slag me off..then who is the bigger muppet! lmao fat or thin..its all personal preference. if someone doesnt like what they see..who cares..no one asked them to look! Vol xx | |||
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"How come there is so many events on the forums,for BBW..women..and non posted for SLIM..women..discrimanatory or what??? to answer the original question... BBW events were started to address the balance and to create an atmosphere in which big women could feel comfortable and beautiful in company that did not seek to judge them for being larger than is considered the 'norm' (as a side note the term bbw was coined as the other terms were derogatory and being fat was always seen as unattractive..and thats not the case at all..just as many fat munters..as thin ones lol) In time it was quickly realised there were many women who fell into the bbw catgagory and even more men who liked them. Popularity grew..so more and more events.. Now the reason there is not the same for very very slim women...society is far more accepting of very thin women that fat women..blunt fact. You need only look at how the 'industry' embraces size zero to see that there is more acceptance. Anyone who is ridiculed for their size..well its not right..none the less there is far more prejudice against bigger than smaller. Everyone has a personal opinion..but those are the facts and answers the original question. As to other points in this thread... im a fat bird..a big girl..a bbw..whatever you want to call me..i dont care lol I like me..and i feel beautiful and have no shortage of admirers. I have had very few insulting emails and if i did..fuck them. They are the idiots not me and frankly if i am soooo important in their lives they need to send me an email to slag me off..then who is the bigger muppet! lmao fat or thin..its all personal preference. if someone doesnt like what they see..who cares..no one asked them to look! Vol xx" hi guys i didnt mean to harm or hurt people in anyway all i asked is are there any socials for slim women this isnt a dig at any one shape or size its just something i picked up on and as for rob and kaz... they are lovely people met them for drink chat and i cant see a problem with the way she looks .....in fact all the women ive looked at on fab are gorgeous....hope i havent caused too much of a stink-----andy----x | |||
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"Actually andy this post made me aware of some goings on that i had no idea about. Ive seen name calling but never attacks on slim women. It also seems as though there is some kind of vendetta against them in pm which again i had no knowledge. Ive never seen a slim persons meet advertized ever, they must of got some pretty bad stick for them now to arrange the meets in private instead of on the boards. I do obviously know that many people have private parties that are organized for a select few but didnt realize these where just for slim women. So my eyes have been opened" I've used the meet today on a few occasions and also the meet request forum once | |||
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"slim fat what ever u are we are all the same its peolpe out there that call fat women never call slim women dont know why as im fat and proud and wouldnt change a thing as i used to be in a size ten and hated it slim whats all that about i drink slim fast with chips and think all people should its great mmmmmmmmmm" good to hear you are happy as you are........think i will stick to a cup of tea with my chips though...lmao | |||
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"How come there is so many events on the forums,for BBW..women..and non posted for SLIM..women..discrimanatory or what??? to answer the original question... BBW events were started to address the balance and to create an atmosphere in which big women could feel comfortable and beautiful in company that did not seek to judge them for being larger than is considered the 'norm' (as a side note the term bbw was coined as the other terms were derogatory and being fat was always seen as unattractive..and thats not the case at all..just as many fat munters..as thin ones lol) In time it was quickly realised there were many women who fell into the bbw catgagory and even more men who liked them. Popularity grew..so more and more events.. Now the reason there is not the same for very very slim women...society is far more accepting of very thin women that fat women..blunt fact. You need only look at how the 'industry' embraces size zero to see that there is more acceptance. Anyone who is ridiculed for their size..well its not right..none the less there is far more prejudice against bigger than smaller. Everyone has a personal opinion..but those are the facts and answers the original question. As to other points in this thread... im a fat bird..a big girl..a bbw..whatever you want to call me..i dont care lol I like me..and i feel beautiful and have no shortage of admirers. I have had very few insulting emails and if i did..fuck them. They are the idiots not me and frankly if i am soooo important in their lives they need to send me an email to slag me off..then who is the bigger muppet! lmao fat or thin..its all personal preference. if someone doesnt like what they see..who cares..no one asked them to look! Vol xxhi guys i didnt mean to harm or hurt people in anyway all i asked is are there any socials for slim women this isnt a dig at any one shape or size its just something i picked up on and as for rob and kaz... they are lovely people met them for drink chat and i cant see a problem with the way she looks .....in fact all the women ive looked at on fab are gorgeous....hope i havent caused too much of a stink-----andy----x" Hi andy I think your question was a good one to be honest,i had not thought about it ..but yeah why not have parties for slimmer people ...and why do they generally chose not to have them to date . Mind you really i suppose it would be harder to police ,i mean i am sure the people who organise BBWs would never turn down a slimmer person wishing to attend, as you have to then define slim as opposed to BBW's and who would want that job ...pmsl...suppose its like why dosnt anyone organise Greedy Guy Nights in regualar clubs .. At the end of the day people are people and as someone said thank godd we are all differnt cus life would be so drab otherwise . So Viva the Fatties Viva the slimmies Viva the mediums and Viva to everyone in between ... pd | |||
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"I'm a size 10 and I guess you could say curvy ... the problem is I'm only 5ft 1 and a bit lol .... so an ounch of weight shows up straight away as I don't have the height to carry it off ... but hey! I am who I am and yes I've had a few nasty messages over time but you have to look at who's sending them and why ... do we care? do we fook lol xxx" what a strange world | |||
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"I'm a size 10 and I guess you could say curvy ... the problem is I'm only 5ft 1 and a bit lol .... so an ounch of weight shows up straight away as I don't have the height to carry it off ... but hey! I am who I am and yes I've had a few nasty messages over time but you have to look at who's sending them and why ... do we care? do we fook lol xxx what a strange world " Strange indeed and spiteful sometimes too ... lets just tell the nasties ... build a bridge .. and get over it | |||
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" ...suppose its like why dosnt anyone organise Greedy Guy Nights in regualar clubs ... " Is it because all of the farting and snoring at the end of the night would upset the regulars? | |||
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"I'm a size 10 and I guess you could say curvy ... the problem is I'm only 5ft 1 and a bit lol .... so an ounch of weight shows up straight away as I don't have the height to carry it off ... but hey! I am who I am and yes I've had a few nasty messages over time but you have to look at who's sending them and why ... do we care? do we fook lol xxx what a strange world Strange indeed and spiteful sometimes too ... lets just tell the nasties ... build a bridge .. and get over it " you look like a perfect 10 to me hunny | |||
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"Its all down to a good time with us if we enjoy anothers company and get on have a laugh etc looks or size really dont come into it We tend to like like the contents not just ths wrapping And we have sometimes found that the ones with the nicer wrapping dont always contain the nicest things lol And vica versa Craig x" Just snipped that post slightly, but pretty much sums up the way I look at it. Personality is the key, and to me its all about making new friends, and having fun. I've never picked a friend based on looks, I don't see a reason to start now. | |||
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"I'm a size 10 and I guess you could say curvy ... the problem is I'm only 5ft 1 and a bit lol .... so an ounch of weight shows up straight away as I don't have the height to carry it off ... but hey! I am who I am and yes I've had a few nasty messages over time but you have to look at who's sending them and why ... do we care? do we fook lol xxx what a strange world Strange indeed and spiteful sometimes too ... lets just tell the nasties ... build a bridge .. and get over it you look like a perfect 10 to me hunny" Aww | |||
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"How come there is so many events on the forums,for BBW..women..and non posted for SLIM..women..discrimanatory or what??? to answer the original question... BBW events were started to address the balance and to create an atmosphere in which big women could feel comfortable and beautiful in company that did not seek to judge them for being larger than is considered the 'norm' (as a side note the term bbw was coined as the other terms were derogatory and being fat was always seen as unattractive..and thats not the case at all..just as many fat munters..as thin ones lol) In time it was quickly realised there were many women who fell into the bbw catgagory and even more men who liked them. Popularity grew..so more and more events.. Now the reason there is not the same for very very slim women...society is far more accepting of very thin women that fat women..blunt fact. You need only look at how the 'industry' embraces size zero to see that there is more acceptance. Anyone who is ridiculed for their size..well its not right..none the less there is far more prejudice against bigger than smaller. Everyone has a personal opinion..but those are the facts and answers the original question. As to other points in this thread... im a fat bird..a big girl..a bbw..whatever you want to call me..i dont care lol I like me..and i feel beautiful and have no shortage of admirers. I have had very few insulting emails and if i did..fuck them. They are the idiots not me and frankly if i am soooo important in their lives they need to send me an email to slag me off..then who is the bigger muppet! lmao fat or thin..its all personal preference. if someone doesnt like what they see..who cares..no one asked them to look! Vol xxhi guys i didnt mean to harm or hurt people in anyway all i asked is are there any socials for slim women this isnt a dig at any one shape or size its just something i picked up on and as for rob and kaz... they are lovely people met them for drink chat and i cant see a problem with the way she looks .....in fact all the women ive looked at on fab are gorgeous....hope i havent caused too much of a stink-----andy----x" It wasn't a dig at fat or thin..... It was a dig at one person in particular because there is some pure nastiness going on here at the moment. If a slim person wants to organise a slim social....... they should get off their arse and organise one (as said by Diamond) If people want to just meet slim people, that is their right. If people want to meet larger people, that is their right. If people on here want to be drawn into a thread that isn't about the niceties of BBW -vs- slim, but about getting your own back on a certain person, then maybe they should be told that this post was intended to piss off another member. I don't give a flying fart if anyone is fat, thin, blue, white, pink or a she-male............ The forums are a place to have your say, opinionate, debate and have a laugh........ NOT TO TRY TO FUCKING GOAD OTHERS ON PURPOSE! I know who's goading who and it's 6 of one and half a dozen of the other and quite fucking frankly....... I am sick to pissing death of it. FAB at the moment is not a nice place to be and I'm gonna piss off after the Beach Party. That should make a few people happy but I'm sad that the state of affairs on these threads have driven me to that decision! | |||
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"How come there is so many events on the forums,for BBW..women..and non posted for SLIM..women..discrimanatory or what??? to answer the original question... BBW events were started to address the balance and to create an atmosphere in which big women could feel comfortable and beautiful in company that did not seek to judge them for being larger than is considered the 'norm' (as a side note the term bbw was coined as the other terms were derogatory and being fat was always seen as unattractive..and thats not the case at all..just as many fat munters..as thin ones lol) In time it was quickly realised there were many women who fell into the bbw catgagory and even more men who liked them. Popularity grew..so more and more events.. Now the reason there is not the same for very very slim women...society is far more accepting of very thin women that fat women..blunt fact. You need only look at how the 'industry' embraces size zero to see that there is more acceptance. Anyone who is ridiculed for their size..well its not right..none the less there is far more prejudice against bigger than smaller. Everyone has a personal opinion..but those are the facts and answers the original question. As to other points in this thread... im a fat bird..a big girl..a bbw..whatever you want to call me..i dont care lol I like me..and i feel beautiful and have no shortage of admirers. I have had very few insulting emails and if i did..fuck them. They are the idiots not me and frankly if i am soooo important in their lives they need to send me an email to slag me off..then who is the bigger muppet! lmao fat or thin..its all personal preference. if someone doesnt like what they see..who cares..no one asked them to look! Vol xxhi guys i didnt mean to harm or hurt people in anyway all i asked is are there any socials for slim women this isnt a dig at any one shape or size its just something i picked up on and as for rob and kaz... they are lovely people met them for drink chat and i cant see a problem with the way she looks .....in fact all the women ive looked at on fab are gorgeous....hope i havent caused too much of a stink-----andy----x It wasn't a dig at fat or thin..... It was a dig at one person in particular because there is some pure nastiness going on here at the moment. If a slim person wants to organise a slim social....... they should get off their arse and organise one (as said by Diamond) If people want to just meet slim people, that is their right. If people want to meet larger people, that is their right. If people on here want to be drawn into a thread that isn't about the niceties of BBW -vs- slim, but about getting your own back on a certain person, then maybe they should be told that this post was intended to piss off another member. I don't give a flying fart if anyone is fat, thin, blue, white, pink or a she-male............ The forums are a place to have your say, opinionate, debate and have a laugh........ NOT TO TRY TO FUCKING GOAD OTHERS ON PURPOSE! I know who's goading who and it's 6 of one and half a dozen of the other and quite fucking frankly....... I am sick to pissing death of it. FAB at the moment is not a nice place to be and I'm gonna piss off after the Beach Party. That should make a few people happy but I'm sad that the state of affairs on these threads have driven me to that decision!" Thought everyone was having a nice chat on subject tbh, any underlaying reson for post or skull duggery is kinda moot, if the other people chating have no knowledge of it... But guess least one major rant was due to arive :P | |||
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"OH MY GOD!!! How some are so willing to forget when it's to their advantage. Stick insects. Plastic models. Barbie dolls. Twigs. Skinny posers. Bags of bones. Skinny bitches. All frequently posted on the old forums and by those that have already posted above. Oh to be able to read the old forums huh, there would be some hypocrites exposed here that's a fact." I agree.....and I've been guilty in the past and I apologise if year old posts have upset people.... But as people who have met me know...... I changed my tune a fair while ago and now take everyone at face value! I know alot of slender women and most of them are lovely..... some are down right horrible but that is also the way for the larger lady. But the forums are NOT the place for personal vendetta's! | |||
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"This thread was put up to deliberately goad another member. Ergo, it makes a mockery of the sensible people who have posted! Luckily a thread often evolves past the opening posters intent, ironicaly this one not only ignored any backstabbing but even stayed on topic :P" ffs this all is completly lost on me and i was just going to post. still going to do it tho kaz your georgous hun, i love each and every pic of you. was going to pinch me daughter tutu but patrick reckons i will look like a nellyphant god all that luv for kaz .... wot about a thread for us giant women...we cant do a feck about our height, cant eat to get smaller. most men are smaller than me and thats when i have me flats on. | |||
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"This thread was put up to deliberately goad another member. Ergo, it makes a mockery of the sensible people who have posted! Luckily a thread often evolves past the opening posters intent, ironicaly this one not only ignored any backstabbing but even stayed on topic :P ffs this all is completly lost on me and i was just going to post. still going to do it tho kaz your georgous hun, i love each and every pic of you. was going to pinch me daughter tutu but patrick reckons i will look like a nellyphant god all that luv for kaz .... wot about a thread for us giant women...we cant do a feck about our height, cant eat to get smaller. most men are smaller than me and thats when i have me flats on. " Bang you on the head with a rubber mallet until you shrink? | |||
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" most men are smaller than me and thats when i have me flats on. " Most everyone is taller than me even if im standing on a box lol Craig xx | |||
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" most men are smaller than me and thats when i have me flats on. Most everyone is taller than me even if im standing on a box lol Craig xx" yeah but men dont like big birds... out of curiosity do you travel with your box | |||
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"OH MY GOD!!! How some are so willing to forget when it's to their advantage. Stick insects. Plastic models. Barbie dolls. Twigs. Skinny posers. Bags of bones. Skinny bitches. All frequently posted on the old forums and by those that have already posted above. Oh to be able to read the old forums huh, there would be some hypocrites exposed here that's a fact. I agree.....and I've been guilty in the past and I apologise if year old posts have upset people.... But as people who have met me know...... I changed my tune a fair while ago and now take everyone at face value! I know alot of slender women and most of them are lovely..... some are down right horrible but that is also the way for the larger lady. But the forums are NOT the place for personal vendetta's!" I hope that you are not implying that we have anything to do with this personal vendetta ? | |||
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