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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all this is the 2nd time i have been on this site and now have been on for 10 mouth and not had one meet with a couple or a woman so what do a older guy have to do to get a meet . always send nice messages i am very clean and friendly . Tony x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Did you know you have a photo of a girl on your sitting room wall?

These days on thmy internet, that's not a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Did you know you have a photo of a girl on your sitting room wall?

These days on thmy internet, that's not a good idea. "

Surprised the pic admins let that one through!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Did you know you have a photo of a girl on your sitting room wall?

These days on thmy internet, that's not a good idea.

Surprised the pic admins let that one through!"

I have action man eagle eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The brutal truth that no matter how nice you say you are, how good your messages are, how genuine you are...if the recipient doesn't fancy the look of you then you'll get no response.

A few things in the pics would raise warning flags too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think about your pictures and what they say, maybe more teasing ones?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A) pay attention to the background of photos - photos of other people and children's play equipment isn't appropriate on a swingers/sex site

B) pay attention to spelling, grammar and punctuation

C) don't be receptive (naturist.....naturist)

D) try not to attract everyone and anyone - think about your favourite type, otherwise it makes or sound like you'll shag anyone - maybe you will but how do you think that makes people think?

E) paragraphs

F) what can you offer?

G) go to a social and talk to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mind the picture of the girl, what about that carpet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on here 3mnths and met 6 people that's one every 2wks due to me being busy working.

I have turned down a few meet requests due to them not being compatable with me.

The one girl I now meet 3-4 times a week and she's stunning.

The couple I met we have become good friends and the guy actually drops his wife off at my house once a week and she calls him to pick her back up a few hours later.

What I'm trying to say is I hope I have made you feel better about yourself

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I have been on here 3mnths and met 6 people that's one every 2wks due to me being busy working.

I have turned down a few meet requests due to them not being compatable with me.

The one girl I now meet 3-4 times a week and she's stunning.

The couple I met we have become good friends and the guy actually drops his wife off at my house once a week and she calls him to pick her back up a few hours later.

What I'm trying to say is I hope I have made you feel better about yourself "

If not, are you willing to say it again, just to be even more supportive?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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OP, the last photo is just a no. Your profile text is difficult to decipher - a bit of punctuation and slight variation in sentence length wouldn't go amiss. Socials and clubs are always a good starting point to get mixing with others. You already have a few veris so it's not impossible.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Aside from what others have said OP I'll be totally honest and say your age probably doesn't help you either - know it shouldn't matter but as a 51 year old I've found myself that there a limited number of people whose age preferences allow for over 50s, which limits your options further.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Hi all this is the 2nd time i have been on this site and now have been on for 10 mouth and not had one meet with a couple or a woman so what do a older guy have to do to get a meet . always send nice messages i am very clean and friendly . Tony x "

How does the lady who verified you feel about this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry op but boy, lad etc in a profile name is a huge turn off too.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Never mind the picture of the girl, what about that carpet? "

I think I inherited a very similar one when I bought my house.

Went really well with mint green walls...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Aside from what others have said OP I'll be totally honest and say your age probably doesn't help you either - know it shouldn't matter but as a 51 year old I've found myself that there a limited number of people whose age preferences allow for over 50s, which limits your options further."

Indeed.

My dad is 70.

I do not want to be shagging people the same age as my parents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on here 3mnths and met 6 people that's one every 2wks due to me being busy working.

I have turned down a few meet requests due to them not being compatable with me.

The one girl I now meet 3-4 times a week and she's stunning.

The couple I met we have become good friends and the guy actually drops his wife off at my house once a week and she calls him to pick her back up a few hours later.

What I'm trying to say is I hope I have made you feel better about yourself

If not, are you willing to say it again, just to be even more supportive?"

I might message him the Puctures of what he's missing out on just for support

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all this is the 2nd time i have been on this site and now have been on for 10 mouth and not had one meet with a couple or a woman so what do a older guy have to do to get a meet . always send nice messages i am very clean and friendly . Tony x "

You'd think someone would at least want to come around and have a go on the trampoline.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Someone for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spy with my little eye a Lancent Arch......

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Brass tacks:

You need to have an erection in one or two of your pics. That proves you're able to and we need to see proudly unwrapped...

and maybe pull you stomach in stand up proudly and look like a fun winner; you do look a bit self conscious..

On the other hand you look pretty young for your age so well done.

After that, I dont know. The women on here are pretty fussy - maybe give some details about what you like in a woman..or man and what youre looking for.

But there are lots of old threads here where men have not scored and wonder why. In the end it comes down to knowing your market, making a few messages and being keen.

Good luck. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just me who is confused as to where the veri's have come from???

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft


"Is it just me who is confused as to where the veri's have come from???"

I think he's after a woman or couple. The verifications are from 2 TVs and a TS...not that a TS is not a woman, mind you...I'll get my coat.

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