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"She's gorgeous but I won't meet her because she smokes....... " What's about that? I turned down a bigtime hottie a few days ago because he smokes. It's not uncommon. I haven't counted but I'd bet it's in my top 3 reasons for not replying to someone (that I would otherwise reply to). | |||
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" I'd rather meet a smoker. It just feels dirtier, more seedy. " | |||
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"She's gorgeous but I won't meet her because she smokes....... What's about that? I turned down a bigtime hottie a few days ago because he smokes. It's not uncommon. I haven't counted but I'd bet it's in my top 3 reasons for not replying to someone (that I would otherwise reply to). No way. Although I'm against smoking. And I don't smoke. It's their choice, there are other reasons I'd put in my top 3 firbturning somebody down. We're all different I suppose. My smiley choices are my other quirk. Probably in your top 5 reasons too. " Sure, everyone has the choice to smoke or not, although I'd rather they don't do it round me. I'm asthmatic and it makes me ill. Equally it's my choice whether to meet them. | |||
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"I always spray and use chewing gum when meeting sumone who dont smoke but am honest and let them know i smoke past tence " I hate to say it but no matter what you spray or chew non smokers can smell it I gave up smoking last year and I wish I had known sooner how bad it smelled I don't like vaping either those scented clouds of whatever are minging | |||
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"I always spray and use chewing gum when meeting sumone who dont smoke but am honest and let them know i smoke past tence " Spray and chewing gum dont dont mask the smell of fags off someone | |||
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"I always spray and use chewing gum when meeting sumone who dont smoke but am honest and let them know i smoke past tence " That makes not one jot of difference, in fact, it can make the smell worse. Generally, unless someone is far down the line in vaping, they still smoke cigarettes and have nicotine in their vapes and that's an absolute deal breaker for me. | |||
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"Id prefer to only meet smokers. Every meet I've ever had with a non smoker I've felt uncomfortable. Even had a non smoker moan at me when I'm accommodating and in my own home! I make no secret of the fact I'm a smoker and wish that others would be honest. Most say they put non smoker on their profile because so many won't meet if they are honest." Yes some lie and I am really pissed off when they turn up and I find out. | |||
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"I always spray and use chewing gum when meeting sumone who dont smoke but am honest and let them know i smoke past tence I hate to say it but no matter what you spray or chew non smokers can smell it I gave up smoking last year and I wish I had known sooner how bad it smelled I don't like vaping either those scented clouds of whatever are minging " Happened to me too. I was mortified that I stank that badly and what a waste of money on perfumes and nice smelling things. | |||
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"Id prefer to only meet smokers. Every meet I've ever had with a non smoker I've felt uncomfortable. Even had a non smoker moan at me when I'm accommodating and in my own home! I make no secret of the fact I'm a smoker and wish that others would be honest. Most say they put non smoker on their profile because so many won't meet if they are honest. Yes some lie and I am really pissed off when they turn up and I find out." There are two things I ask in a message if I'm considering a meet; are you either attached or a smoker. The truth is hard to hide when directly asked. One bloke drove 100 miles for a meet but he lied about smoking so was sent back home. He thought showering/gum/smellies would mask it. | |||
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"Id prefer to only meet smokers. Every meet I've ever had with a non smoker I've felt uncomfortable. Even had a non smoker moan at me when I'm accommodating and in my own home! I make no secret of the fact I'm a smoker and wish that others would be honest. Most say they put non smoker on their profile because so many won't meet if they are honest. Yes some lie and I am really pissed off when they turn up and I find out. There are two things I ask in a message if I'm considering a meet; are you either attached or a smoker. The truth is hard to hide when directly asked. One bloke drove 100 miles for a meet but he lied about smoking so was sent back home. He thought showering/gum/smellies would mask it." I use to smoke (f) of the couple, if somone who smokes really wants to meet some one dosent like it couldn't they just show a bit of restraint and not smoke?? And turn up clean and smelling nice... as a ex smoker I personally sympathise but folks could allways slip on a invisible nicotine patch?? Just some ideas anyway. Each to their own!! | |||
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"I met with a *disgustingly* fit couple this year for sex. Noted on their profile "won't meet smokers". Ok, fine. Shower, don't smoke, meet them for a drink. Mention the smoking thing and he's like, "Oh! I have asthma! It's terrible," whatever whatever. No probs, says I, don't have to smoke. Doesn't say much on my profile but I do smoke. I can go without. Whatever. So we have a few drinks, then dinner... then they're like, "Oh, thanks for the lovely evening. Gotta go now, let's set something up for tomorrow?" And I saw red. I was like, That's not what we agreed. Made them pay for the drinks, the meal and then frog-marched them to a sauna (which they paid for). Fucked them both 'till they came... and then they were like, "Are you gonna cum now?" And I said, I've not smoked on your behalf for the last 5 hrs. I'd rather have a cigarette. And left them to it. " You always manage to make me smile | |||
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"Not really. .. I don't wish to be surrounded by any cloud be it cigarette or favoured vapour! " Better not boil the kettle then | |||
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"Id prefer to only meet smokers. Every meet I've ever had with a non smoker I've felt uncomfortable. Even had a non smoker moan at me when I'm accommodating and in my own home! I make no secret of the fact I'm a smoker and wish that others would be honest. Most say they put non smoker on their profile because so many won't meet if they are honest. Yes some lie and I am really pissed off when they turn up and I find out. There are two things I ask in a message if I'm considering a meet; are you either attached or a smoker. The truth is hard to hide when directly asked. One bloke drove 100 miles for a meet but he lied about smoking so was sent back home. He thought showering/gum/smellies would mask it." This | |||
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"Never understood that. It's ridiculous. I don't smoke but couldn't give a shit about people smoking around me. " I like you *blows smoke in Necrotic's eyes* | |||
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"Never understood that. It's ridiculous. I don't smoke but couldn't give a shit about people smoking around me. I like you *blows smoke in Necrotic's eyes*" * sorry, Neoheretic | |||
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"Never understood that. It's ridiculous. I don't smoke but couldn't give a shit about people smoking around me. I like you *blows smoke in Necrotic's eyes* * sorry, Neoheretic " Third times a charm? | |||
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"Never understood that. It's ridiculous. I don't smoke but couldn't give a shit about people smoking around me. " Maybe that's down to your age. 10 years ago before the ban, you walked into pubs in the evening and the smoke would be hanging in the air. My hair, clothes, everything would stink of smoke within a few minutes. Times have changed in that people now Go outside. But I still remember the stench the next day. When I visit my friend, my clothes always smell after. And she doesn't even smoke around me! | |||
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"Never understood that. It's ridiculous. I don't smoke but couldn't give a shit about people smoking around me. Maybe that's down to your age. 10 years ago before the ban, you walked into pubs in the evening and the smoke would be hanging in the air. My hair, clothes, everything would stink of smoke within a few minutes. Times have changed in that people now Go outside. But I still remember the stench the next day. When I visit my friend, my clothes always smell after. And she doesn't even smoke around me! " | |||
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"Got to be honest, it's something that doesn't bother me. I'd prefer to meet non-smokers and as for vapours, surely you can go the average time of a meet without sucking on it! " Depends how long you want your meets. | |||
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"Never understood that. It's ridiculous. I don't smoke but couldn't give a shit about people smoking around me. Maybe that's down to your age. 10 years ago before the ban, you walked into pubs in the evening and the smoke would be hanging in the air. My hair, clothes, everything would stink of smoke within a few minutes. Times have changed in that people now Go outside. But I still remember the stench the next day. When I visit my friend, my clothes always smell after. And she doesn't even smoke around me! " favourite pic of you | |||
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"I've lost count the amount of non smokers that light up or vale after a good seeing to " Ain't that the truth. I meet smokers, I'm not bothered, but there are a lot of pretend non-smokers out there... | |||
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"I've lost count the amount of non smokers that light up or vale after a good seeing to Ain't that the truth. I meet smokers, I'm not bothered, but there are a lot of pretend non-smokers out there..." lol..very true we call them social smokers..be surprised how many are out there .. | |||
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"Never understood that. It's ridiculous. I don't smoke but couldn't give a shit about people smoking around me. " Hows it ridiculous? The smell can be vile, why should i give up my night to meet someone who stinks?? And i used to be a smoker | |||
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"Never understood that. It's ridiculous. I don't smoke but couldn't give a shit about people smoking around me. Hows it ridiculous? The smell can be vile, why should i give up my night to meet someone who stinks?? And i used to be a smoker" It's called a troll! Pay no notice x | |||
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"Never understood that. It's ridiculous. I don't smoke but couldn't give a shit about people smoking around me. Hows it ridiculous? The smell can be vile, why should i give up my night to meet someone who stinks?? And i used to be a smoker" And we all know there's nothing worse than a reformed smoker | |||
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" If he ex smoker has only just given up .. say last year I can still taste the tar on their breath or maybe it was that they lied about giving up. I just wish guys who show interest are honest with me. Just wasting their time and mine. The same goes for those on Vape I can still taste the tar when kissing." Yeah, I think they lied about giving up. Claiming to still taste tar on someone's breath who gave up a year ago is absolutely preposterous. | |||
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" If he ex smoker has only just given up .. say last year I can still taste the tar on their breath or maybe it was that they lied about giving up. I just wish guys who show interest are honest with me. Just wasting their time and mine. The same goes for those on Vape I can still taste the tar when kissing. Yeah, I think they lied about giving up. Claiming to still taste tar on someone's breath who gave up a year ago is absolutely preposterous. " I agree. Also there is no tar in ecigs. That's the point of them! | |||
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"Well as a smoker i give a big to those that wont meet smoker on their profile. I cannot abide people that say they will meet smokers and expect the smoker not to smoke. It says smoker what do they think they are going to do" That's interesting, usually on these threads there are loads of people who smoke who say they won't smoke while they're with someone who doesn't, out of courtesy. I meet smokers, I don't expect those smokers to lie in bed puffing away next to me or leave me alone while they go out for a fag. Perhaps I should change it to "will meet smokers who can restrain themselves and not smoke for the duration of the time spent with me". | |||
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" If he ex smoker has only just given up .. say last year I can still taste the tar on their breath or maybe it was that they lied about giving up. I just wish guys who show interest are honest with me. Just wasting their time and mine. The same goes for those on Vape I can still taste the tar when kissing. Yeah, I think they lied about giving up. Claiming to still taste tar on someone's breath who gave up a year ago is absolutely preposterous. " This There is NO Tar, and No residual odour. | |||
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"Well its something .. a nasty taste that comes up from the lungs i assume as its not directly from the mouth. I taste it, and its not nice." Perhaps he suffers from halitosis. Whatever it is, it certainly isn't caused by cigarettes smoked a year prior. | |||
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"Well its something .. a nasty taste that comes up from the lungs i assume as its not directly from the mouth. I taste it, and its not nice. Perhaps he suffers from halitosis. Whatever it is, it certainly isn't caused by cigarettes smoked a year prior." How do you know? Are you an expert now? | |||
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"Well its something .. a nasty taste that comes up from the lungs i assume as its not directly from the mouth. I taste it, and its not nice. Perhaps he suffers from halitosis. Whatever it is, it certainly isn't caused by cigarettes smoked a year prior. How do you know? Are you an expert now?" | |||
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"I beg to differ. I know what halitosis smells like and I wouldnt even get close to someone with that let alone kiss them. Its definitely smoke related. Im talking guys who have smoked for many years. Anyway ..tell me how would you know what i can or cannot taste? " No need to get defensive. It's an absolutely absurd claim to make, as any one with half a brain reading would agree with. Can't be bothered to argue though, so OK, I'll pretend to believe that you can smell/taste cigarettes on people that were smoked a year prior to you kissing them. | |||
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"Well its something .. a nasty taste that comes up from the lungs i assume as its not directly from the mouth. I taste it, and its not nice. Perhaps he suffers from halitosis. Whatever it is, it certainly isn't caused by cigarettes smoked a year prior. How do you know? Are you an expert now? " He called one post pathetic then one preposterous now absurd | |||
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"I beg to differ. I know what halitosis smells like and I wouldnt even get close to someone with that let alone kiss them. Its definitely smoke related. Im talking guys who have smoked for many years. Anyway ..tell me how would you know what i can or cannot taste? No need to get defensive. It's an absolutely absurd claim to make, as any one with half a brain reading would agree with. Can't be bothered to argue though, so OK, I'll pretend to believe that you can smell/taste cigarettes on people that were smoked a year prior to you kissing them. " It can take years for tar to leave the lungs completely, if you've been a heavy smoker. Oh, and I say this as someone who works in our healthcare system! | |||
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"I vape, and I'll vape when on a meet. I am still down as a smoker so its up to the guy whether they want to meet, although I've not met anyone yet who has turned me down for being a vaper. I'll ask if I can vape in the car or their house but, to be honest, my vape smells a lot better than their socks." I'll have you know my feet don't smell, so neither do my socks! | |||
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"I vape, and I'll vape when on a meet. I am still down as a smoker so its up to the guy whether they want to meet, although I've not met anyone yet who has turned me down for being a vaper. I'll ask if I can vape in the car or their house but, to be honest, my vape smells a lot better than their socks. I'll have you know my feet don't smell, so neither do my socks! " Yeah yeah yeah... | |||
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"Nope both are as bad as each other. " They really aren't. | |||
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"Ive met ex smokers and those who said in their profile they are non smokers but who turned up smelling of nicotine. I have found it repulsive kissing an ex smoker as much as a smoker. sorry smokers but its true. If he ex smoker has only just given up .. say last year I can still taste the tar on their breath or maybe it was that they lied about giving up. I just wish guys who show interest are honest with me. Just wasting their time and mine. The same goes for those on Vape I can still taste the tar when kissing." There's no tar in vapour, so your claim is ridiculous from the start. It's also been scientifically proven that there is no harmful residues from second hand vapour inhalation and vapers inhale a fraction of the nicotine that smokers do and without the thousands of other chemicals contained in cigarette smoke. Both PHE and the Royal College of Physician's have stated that vaping is 95% safer than smoking. | |||
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"Ive met ex smokers and those who said in their profile they are non smokers but who turned up smelling of nicotine. I have found it repulsive kissing an ex smoker as much as a smoker. sorry smokers but its true. If he ex smoker has only just given up .. say last year I can still taste the tar on their breath or maybe it was that they lied about giving up. I just wish guys who show interest are honest with me. Just wasting their time and mine. The same goes for those on Vape I can still taste the tar when kissing. There's no tar in vapour, so your claim is ridiculous from the start. It's also been scientifically proven that there is no harmful residues from second hand vapour inhalation and vapers inhale a fraction of the nicotine that smokers do and without the thousands of other chemicals contained in cigarette smoke. Both PHE and the Royal College of Physician's have stated that vaping is 95% safer than smoking." I never said it was a guy who smoked vapour. He had been a heavy smoker for many years and said he had given up several months earlier. Keep up!! | |||
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"Thanks for your comments people i am giving up smoking .and vaping has helped a lot will shortley be giving up vaping aswell " That's brill op! Well done you!! I Don't meet smokers (unless they refrain from smoking all day on the day of our meet) but I'll occasionally meet vapers! X | |||
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"if you had read the other posts you would have seen that i mentioned there was still an awful taste, i am not saying tar, but thats what i assumed it was but certainly the smell/taste of an ex smoker. " You're totally right... it takes years to leave the lungs completely! | |||
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"if you had read the other posts you would have seen that i mentioned there was still an awful taste, i am not saying tar, but thats what i assumed it was but certainly the smell/taste of an ex smoker. " But you did say it was tar and you also included people who vape. I read all the comments and found yours interesting and odd as its the first time I've heard of such a thing and I'm a member of several vape forums and make my own liquids. Could have been something they'd eaten prior to your meet rather than the fact they were a smoker 12 months(ish) ago? | |||
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"if you had read the other posts you would have seen that i mentioned there was still an awful taste, i am not saying tar, but thats what i assumed it was but certainly the smell/taste of an ex smoker. You're totally right... it takes years to leave the lungs completely! " 5 - 8 years from what I've read recently. | |||
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"if you had read the other posts you would have seen that i mentioned there was still an awful taste, i am not saying tar, but thats what i assumed it was but certainly the smell/taste of an ex smoker. You're totally right... it takes years to leave the lungs completely! " I think this is why I am tasting it .. its the same taste in anyone who has smoked for many years. Anyway the thread has digressed and Im not trying to upset anyone .. just my opinion as I have experienced it so noone can tell me its not the effect of long term smoking. I just cannot believe it. | |||
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