FabSwingers.com forum: Help with verification?

By *itmanAndHerr OP Couple
over a year ago

st helens

Hi we've been on the site and couple of months now and not having much luck.

It's not easy getting to the clubs for us so wondered if anyone would want to have a social cam session with us to build up our verifications?

I suppose the question is do verifications help?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Meet verifications help a lot more than cam ones, unless all you intend to do is cam.

Get your name down for a social or two (York social is Dec 2nd) and you'll get loads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can help....and I'd be happy to oblige if you want. But cam verifications don't tend to help much. People normally look for meet verified if they are looking for anything along those lines.

PM me if you want to Skype.

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By *itmanAndHerr OP Couple
over a year ago

st helens

Too far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but lol..

Are you seriously telling me..looking as you do (the female) you're struggling to get a meet?..

Come the fuck on...seriously?...

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

Plus you're basically looking for a unicorn (single bi female) and they are the most sought after, and the most rare individuals on Fab.

But you are a hot couple, so I'm sure you'll find what you are looking for sooner or later.

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"Sorry but lol..

Are you seriously telling me..looking as you do (the female) you're struggling to get a meet?..

Come the fuck on...seriously?..."

They don't want to meet men. Stop being distracted by the pretty pictures and look at the words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't want to meet men. Stop being distracted by the pretty pictures and look at the words.

No....

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By *itmanAndHerr OP Couple
over a year ago

st helens

Yes seriously.

Coming across either fakes and timewasters. But we'll persevere. All good things come to those who wait.

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By *itmanAndHerr OP Couple
over a year ago

st helens

Thankyou for the compliment.

If you think there's something wrong with our profile write up then we'd happily take any constructive critique x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Two months on Fab is a relatively short time when you are looking for single ladies.

I would also think the fact you want them to come to you, but seem not to want to spend much time getting to know them, may be an issue.

If I were to meet as a single I would want to get to know a couple well and have a social meet before contemplating anything sexual. It's a big step to go to the home of someone you met on the Internet for sex. Being meet verified is definitely important as it shows you are who you say you are.

Nita

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By *itmanAndHerr OP Couple
over a year ago

st helens

No not expecting anyone to come to us. We would always be happy to travel or meet on neutral ground. And we are in conversations with people. We're certainly not pushy and are very respectful of anyone we talk to. Totally appreciate how big a thing it is for a single female to get involved with a couple. Thanks again. Any advice is appreciated. Maybe we need to add some reassuring words to our profile.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"No not expecting anyone to come to us. We would always be happy to travel or meet on neutral ground. And we are in conversations with people. We're certainly not pushy and are very respectful of anyone we talk to. Totally appreciate how big a thing it is for a single female to get involved with a couple. Thanks again. Any advice is appreciated. Maybe we need to add some reassuring words to our profile. "

That's the sort of thing you need to say in your profile.

Make it as friendly and positive as you can.

I don't think there's a need to say who you aren't looking for, just block them. Any list of negatives is off putting for me ... But that's a personal thing.

The fact you don't live together and that the male is likely to be the phone contact may ring alarm bells for some, so explaining this might help too.

At the end of the day though it's your profile and what single ladies look for will vary.

Best of luck

Nita

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By *itmanAndHerr OP Couple
over a year ago

st helens

That's the sort of thing you need to say in your profile.

Make it as friendly and positive as you can.

I don't think there's a need to say who you aren't looking for, just block them. Any list of negatives is off putting for me ... But that's a personal thing.

The fact you don't live together and that the male is likely to be the phone contact may ring alarm bells for some, so explaining this might help too.

At the end of the day though it's your profile and what single ladies look for will vary.

Best of luck

Nita"

Thankyou for the advice.

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By *itmanAndHerr OP Couple
over a year ago

st helens

"Plus you're basically looking for a unicorn (single bi female) and they are the most sought after, and the most rare individuals on Fab.

But you are a hot couple, so I'm sure you'll find what you are looking for sooner or later."

We've made some changes to our profile write up. The changes are how we both genuinely feel. I'd appreciate any feedback on what we've stated x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"We've made some changes to our profile write up. The changes are how we both genuinely feel. I'd appreciate any feedback on what we've stated x"

I reckon that should help

If I met as a single I'd certainly consider you.

Nita

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Plus you're basically looking for a unicorn (single bi female) and they are the most sought after, and the most rare individuals on Fab.

But you are a hot couple, so I'm sure you'll find what you are looking for sooner or later.

We've made some changes to our profile write up. The changes are how we both genuinely feel. I'd appreciate any feedback on what we've stated x"

It's an informative and well written profile with a good selection of photos.

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By *itmanAndHerr OP Couple
over a year ago

st helens

Thanks guys. Sounds like we're getting it right now as far as our profile is concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too far

Went on a 5hr round trip for a social couple of Saturdays ago, sometimes it's got to be done!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Looks good to me but im not your target audience sadly for you your target isn't called a unicorn for no reason. Give it time and while your waiting have a few laughs on here. What will happen will happen so don't stress over it. Life my friends will always go on

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