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By *ackoman71 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tenerife

Question for you. If you saw someone you'd not met on here in the street, would you approach them and say "Hi, I'm on Fab too"?

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

No, I'd respect their privacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for you. If you saw someone you'd not met on here in the street, would you approach them and say "Hi, I'm on Fab too"?"

Given people tend to be wary of strangers asking about their sex lives, I'd probably approach and ask 'don't I know you from somewhere?' and take my time, let them get comfortable talking to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No definitely not. Discretion is required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never let on to anyone in public who I knew was on here, privacy is paramount. Why would you embarrass them like that?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Nope. Would respect privacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no!!!!!

I've had it happen to me when I've been out and was fuming

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By *anmjmosesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. But I did have a message 3 weeks ago, off one half of a couple who said they saw me go into my local hospital, and that they considered approaching, but didn't want to freak me out haha. They just pm'd me later, to tell me.... I was grateful they didn't approach me in public!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Definitely not!

Would you honestly do that?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Never in a million years. Think it's called tact but could be respecting somebody's privacy too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 3 people spot me (luckily didn't approach me) I found a user in the flats next to mine

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By *anmjmosesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Nope. "

Lol that's a slam dunking "nope"... Guess best way to look at it is if you're not out of the closet and frequented gay clubs in another city some distance from yours.... Would you appreciate someone randomly coming to you in your town and saying " I recognise you from that fast club last night ".... So knows who could be within ear shot lol

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Just no, please don't do that to us if you see us out and about, we won't acknowledge you and would expect the same.

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

No way

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No we wouldn't. For one thing I don't think you can ever be 100% sure it's the same person and for another you have no idea if their children/partner/parents/vicar are just round the corner.

But paramount is the need to respect people's privacy.

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By *anmjmosesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

A cheeky wink though.... That is give

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"No. But I did have a message 3 weeks ago, off one half of a couple who said they saw me go into my local hospital, and that they considered approaching, but didn't want to freak me out haha. They just pm'd me later, to tell me.... I was grateful they didn't approach me in public! "

Good for you,im glad they didn't creep you out.x

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"Hell no!!!!!

I've had it happen to me when I've been out and was fuming

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I don't blame you,friggin idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'd have to be bit of a tool if ya did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll just show my shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt because you don't know how people are gonna react.

on the flip side I'd be delighted if someone recognised me..I have no issue with being stopped and asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never approach someone due to 100% respecting their privacy.

I'd have no issue with anyone approaching me though.

So if you see a white van man in lincs come and introduce yourself...its me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell no!!!!!

I've had it happen to me when I've been out and was fuming

I don't blame you,friggin idiots."

Had it happen once when I was out shopping with my daughter

And on a night out with friends

Was not amused on both occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a lady smile at me in asda once. i went out to the car to find a message from her saying i was a cute in real life.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Definately not,wouldn't appreciate someone doing this to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd never approach someone due to 100% respecting their privacy.

I'd have no issue with anyone approaching me though.

So if you see a white van man in lincs come and introduce yourself...its me! "

Is it sign written with your profile name ?

Shit loads of white vans in the area

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Absolutely not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for you. If you saw someone you'd not met on here in the street, would you approach them and say "Hi, I'm on Fab too"?"

Would you like to be recognised?

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By *wo4play69Couple
over a year ago

bicester

No way in hell and if someone approached us in public and mentioned fab they would get a very unfriendly response and blocked. Fab is our outlet, not our life. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope.

Lol that's a slam dunking "nope"... Guess best way to look at it is if you're not out of the closet and frequented gay clubs in another city some distance from yours.... Would you appreciate someone randomly coming to you in your town and saying " I recognise you from that fast club last night ".... So knows who could be within ear shot lol"

Well it's a lazy Sunday so I'm in the mood for one word answers.

Plus I've answered this sort of question before with more detail at least 3 or 4 times before.

And I've lost patience with taking time with posts and being ignored, so I canna be bovvered

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By *aughty neighboursWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley


"No. But I did have a message 3 weeks ago, off one half of a couple who said they saw me go into my local hospital, and that they considered approaching, but didn't want to freak me out haha. They just pm'd me later, to tell me.... I was grateful they didn't approach me in public! "

The same has happened to us in more than one occasion.

One asked if that was us in Asda & another if that was us in the local kids library.

Definitely don't want to be approached in public.

Have given 'the nod' to a couple of people we have met with, when seen in normal surroundings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd never approach someone due to 100% respecting their privacy.

I'd have no issue with anyone approaching me though.

So if you see a white van man in lincs come and introduce yourself...its me!

Is it sign written with your profile name ?

Shit loads of white vans in the area "

It isn't...but it's an idea!

I'm sure that if you got the wrong white van man they wouldn't complain....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck no, I'd find it incredibly creepy if someone did that to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I literally had my first encounter the other day. I looked at her. She looked at me. We definitely recognised each other from here even though I used to talk to her, I wouldn't go up to her and say anything though. That shit's awkward and wierd

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Question for you. If you saw someone you'd not met on here in the street, would you approach them and say "Hi, I'm on Fab too"?"

That would depend on whether they were alone, what time it was, and similar circumstances.

It has nothing to do with privacy and totally to do with tactfully approacing another person with causing distress

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

No, and I'd find it incredibly rude if somebody did it to me.

What would you be hoping for anyway? "Oh, really? Let's go back to mine and shag like rabbits then!".

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Question for you. If you saw someone you'd not met on here in the street, would you approach them and say "Hi, I'm on Fab too"?"

No way. Keep schtum. Walls have ears.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Definitely not!

Would you honestly do that? "

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Definitely not!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not. We both like to keep our fab life and real life separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no! And would be horrified if someone did that

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Question for you. If you saw someone you'd not met on here in the street, would you approach them and say "Hi, I'm on Fab too"?"

I asked this a cupall of days agow and most wos a no.

I can see Thar vue to.

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By *rince Charming 69Man
over a year ago

Loughborough

It has happened to me 3 times........

First a girl in McDonalds, with her hubby and 3 kids, standing right behind me in the queue.

Second at a car boot sale she was standing behind a stall with her hubby,

And third in a restaurant a girl eating dinner with all of her family.

All 3 had been in my bed just days before.

All 3 occasions I just blanked them and walked away as quickly as possible to avoid embarrassment.

Discretion is the key!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Question for you. If you saw someone you'd not met on here in the street, would you approach them and say "Hi, I'm on Fab too"?

I asked this a cupall of days agow and most wos a no.

I can see Thar vue to."

I thought I'd answered this question recently

It would depend on the circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not! They may think I'm stalking them!

Betty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wouldn't dream of it

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I wouldn't approach another, but I think I'd be rather flattered if someone actually recognised and remembered me lol.

If it's someone I'd spoken to then I don't think I'd mind, providing I wasn't out with my son or anything.

In fact I may very well piss my pants if someone approached me and literally said "fancy a fuck" then wandered off.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Just have to be careful.

Several times I've had messages saying I was seen in a particular place or asking if I worked in a particular place. Each time they were wrong. They could've approached an innocent person.

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By *ackoman71 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tenerife


"i had a lady smile at me in asda once. i went out to the car to find a message from her saying i was a cute in real life. "

Really? I'd like that if that happened to me

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By *sexDanMan
over a year ago

Romford

Nope, just a wry smile

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By *ackoman71 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tenerife

I think I'd prefer not to be approached but nice sexy knowing wink would be good

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By *ackoman71 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tenerife


"Question for you. If you saw someone you'd not met on here in the street, would you approach them and say "Hi, I'm on Fab too"?

Would you like to be recognised?"

Depends on what she said lol

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"i had a lady smile at me in asda once. i went out to the car to find a message from her saying i was a cute in real life. "

How did she know what car was yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a lady smile at me in asda once. i went out to the car to find a message from her saying i was a cute in real life.

How did she know what car was yours "

That is a GREAT question!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nope... it's happened recently but the other party has either maintained discretion, as I have, or just hasn't twigged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to find someone I know so if anyone knows me say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I'd respect their privacy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably be oblivious. But I'd be too shy to approach anyone anyway. I'd not appreciate being approached either.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Absolutely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy come up to me in asda and said hi lynne when i asked how he knew ne said in a clear voice " off fab "

I was a bit taken aback must admit xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone message me on here saying you're the woman that works on reception in the gym aren't you!

Sadly it wasn't the gym guy that I fancy, had he actually said that to me whilst I was in work I would've been very embarrassed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no.

I'd say fancy a fuck like I do everyone else I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AINT NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THAT!!!

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By *ackoman71 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tenerife


"i had a lady smile at me in asda once. i went out to the car to find a message from her saying i was a cute in real life.

How did she know what car was yours

That is a GREAT question! "

Stalker lol

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