FabSwingers.com forum: How to spot a swinger

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We need a badge .not a big one saying im a swinger or a couple fucking something simple.if your not a swinger how would you know what it meant .

Or am I nuts lol.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"We need a badge .not a big one saying im a swinger or a couple fucking something simple.if your not a swinger how would you know what it meant .

Or am I nuts lol."

I would hate people randomly in the street to know I am a swinger because I decide when I am one and when I am not ... I don't wear a badge for anything. What could be worse than some nutter coming up to you when you are with friends or family? When I am at a club its pretty obvious I am a swinger, so why would I need a badge?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I assume everyone isn't one until they're naked and entwined.

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

Well I did previously a post about that, but i think I t will never take off thou, not with even a funny hand shake or at least a letter f where you can put it on or off according to your mood

Simple

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Dont think it will take off.. swinging for some people is a "time and place" thing and not to be in your face everywhere and anywhere..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We need a badge .not a big one saying im a swinger or a couple fucking something simple.if your not a swinger how would you know what it meant .

Or am I nuts lol."

I am a swinger. That does not mean that I will swing with anyone or that I wish to be approached by random people.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"We need a badge .not a big one saying im a swinger or a couple fucking something simple.if your not a swinger how would you know what it meant .

Or am I nuts lol.

I am a swinger. That does not mean that I will swing with anyone or that I wish to be approached by random people."

'swinging time' and real world time are completely seperate bubbles for us.

Never shall the two meet.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"We need a badge .not a big one saying im a swinger or a couple fucking something simple.if your not a swinger how would you know what it meant .

Or am I nuts lol."

You're nuts, people don't like to advertise the fact they fuck for fun, and nothing is secret on the internet, bless you for being so naive

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

not so much spotting a swingers but a range batteries in the bathroom is always a good sign of someone enjoys a good time

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Swinging life and real life are 2 seperate things. I would not declare it to the world and as i said only last night you wouldn't want randoms knowing your business.

To the vanilla world swingers are probably just looked on as a guaranteed shag & who would i want to think that of me?

LMP

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Kitty discovered a swinger at an Ann Summers party when a friends sister said she wasn't buying anything for her hubby because "he's far too 'vanilla' for that!" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ankle bracelet with a pampas grass charm, a bowl shape key ring, or for the voter, a copy of the observer

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"Kitty discovered a swinger at an Ann Summers party when a friends sister said she wasn't buying anything for her hubby because "he's far too 'vanilla' for that!" lol

" Vanilla" doesn't mean non-swinger.....

There are plenty of other people ( non swingers) who use the word to refer to " conventional" people

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Kitty discovered a swinger at an Ann Summers party when a friends sister said she wasn't buying anything for her hubby because "he's far too 'vanilla' for that!" lol

" Vanilla" doesn't mean non-swinger.....

There are plenty of other people ( non swingers) who use the word to refer to " conventional" people"

I'm not saying only swingers use the term 'vanilla', I said that was how Kitty found another swinger.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

The last couple we came across was at a friend's wedding. Just chatting, I knew he was so I was brave and asked about 'the lifestyle' .... turned out we had lots in common, but we weren't attracted either way

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

The fish logo;

Usually it's on the back of cars and on lapel pins

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I would hate people randomly in the street to know I am a swinger because I decide when I am one and when I am not ... "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

A swingers badge wouldn't be mandatory though. If people want to advertise to others they could have some sort of signal. I wouldn't want to wear one for all the reasons mentioned but also because it would take about twenty minutes from the badge being created to someone posting it on Facebook..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fish logo;

Usually it's on the back of cars and on lapel pins "
i thought that indicated Christianity

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Have seen it at clubs and I felt it was very good idea sticky name tags with your user name on it felt it helped to find others again if you got on well with some one

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

You need a secret handshake

Apparently Donald Trump knows all about it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We could wear dweely boppers that light up in the dark or on foggy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting argument tho although I'd agree it's a time n place thing but I'd love to know who looks at me n wants me without the curse of either being slapped or them telling my boss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red wooly hats with f on them

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

There was a device made to wear on your penis and it would vibrate if you was near someone else wearing one I think it was made for gay men but I suppose it could be adapted for both sexes.

Heard of it on the radio some inventor died and that was one product he patented.

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