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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok i have had this happen a few times.

I have messaged someone to compliment them on their pics no lewdness or mention of a meet meet,just a wow great pics hope you keep them coming sort of thing. Then blocked why I'm only paying them a compliment just seems daft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok i have had this happen a few times.

I have messaged someone to compliment them on their pics no lewdness or mention of a meet meet,just a wow great pics hope you keep them coming sort of thing. Then blocked why I'm only paying them a compliment just seems daft."

They weren't attracted to you like you were to them.

It stops future disappointed.

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By *ightfall79Man
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

Don't let it get you down OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok i have had this happen a few times.

I have messaged someone to compliment them on their pics no lewdness or mention of a meet meet,just a wow great pics hope you keep them coming sort of thing. Then blocked why I'm only paying them a compliment just seems daft.

They weren't attracted to you like you were to them.

It stops future disappointed. "

This, if they reply some people see this as being interested and turn into pests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might not like you perving them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet they like have pictures on display

Some people so up own arse here

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex


"Ok i have had this happen a few times.

I have messaged someone to compliment them on their pics no lewdness or mention of a meet meet,just a wow great pics hope you keep them coming sort of thing. Then blocked why I'm only paying them a compliment just seems daft."

Fuck em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's some people's way of filtering

Don't get down, someone's trash is another persons treasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I put a new picture up I might get a few messages saying " great picture blah blah " now I appreciate the fact they have fabbed it but I do not wish to start a ping pong conversation about pictures which will then lead to " so what are you doing etc"

I for this reason find it easier to just delete the message without response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's some people's way of filtering

Don't get down, someone's trash is another persons treasure "

That banana looks tasty

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

You might be too close to them. Any number of reasons for blocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's some people's way of filtering

Don't get down, someone's trash is another persons treasure

That banana looks tasty "

Don't like em

Photo op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought one just fabs pics to show appreciation, don't need to send a message really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they didn't like the look/sound of you so they blocked you in order that you didn't embarrass yourself again ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont get me wrong it doesnt get me down it just seems odd

If i go to a wedding and say to the bride that dress looks fantastic she wouldn't blank me for the rest of the night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And can you explain to me how i have embarrassed myself by paying someone a compliment ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok i have had this happen a few times.

I have messaged someone to compliment them on their pics no lewdness or mention of a meet meet,just a wow great pics hope you keep them coming sort of thing. Then blocked why I'm only paying them a compliment just seems daft."

One of the great quandaries of fa

Or just rudeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might be too close to them. Any number of reasons for blocking. "

Politeness does not cost anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok i have had this happen a few times.

I have messaged someone to compliment them on their pics no lewdness or mention of a meet meet,just a wow great pics hope you keep them coming sort of thing. Then blocked why I'm only paying them a compliment just seems daft.

They weren't attracted to you like you were to them.

It stops future disappointed.

This, if they reply some people see this as being interested and turn into pests"

I agree with this, I went onto a profile I thought I'd never seen before tonight, perhaps new public pics and saw we'd messaged 9 months ago but can't remember if it was a polite decline or a positive exchange, either way I felt nothing obviously clicked back then so I didnt bother messaging her for fear of being a pest. Much easier if you're blocked you have a definitive answer.

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

You were outside her preferences. Nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet they like have pictures on display

Some people so up own arse here"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong it doesnt get me down it just seems odd

If i go to a wedding and say to the bride that dress looks fantastic she wouldn't blank me for the rest of the night"

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Ok i have had this happen a few times.

I have messaged someone to compliment them on their pics no lewdness or mention of a meet meet,just a wow great pics hope you keep them coming sort of thing. Then blocked why I'm only paying them a compliment just seems daft."

Don't let it get you down... you're already blocked by default by 80% of couples just for being a single blokes. It's nothing personal.

Cal

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By *otrockloverMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's just how folk roll here. Normal everyday social etiquette doesn't apply. Women have to run a lot of interference here whilst guys generally cast their nets far and wide. Once you view activity here through that filter, most things makes sense

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I prefer people to fab my pics, rather than send a message, because it can lead into a conversation, with someone you wouldn't choose to meet. I wouldn't block them though, unless they became a nuisance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah usually i just fab and forget. But every now an again there is a pic that is just awesome and deserves a little more.

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