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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's been a while - time to do this thread again I think!

What advice would you give your 18 yo self if you could go back in time and meet?

Could be fun, deep, tongue in cheek - anything!

Me? Overcome that awkward shyness you twat! Go ask that girl out that you regretted not asking for years!

Oh, and that second hand VW Golf you're thinking of buying? For the love of God don't!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not going into too personal stuff, have more confidence in yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try eating olives ,,,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try eating olives ,,,, "

god yeah! I was SO late to the delights of olives too! Good call!

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Save your time for people who make time for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try harder. Be better. She doesn't matter.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Try not to fixate on uni grades as much and use that extra energy you find yourself with to fuck and not join all manner of ridiculous societies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do. Not. Get. Married. To. That. Woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Save your time for people who make time for you!"

I like that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Save your time for people who make time for you!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't skive that day first day off school, it's a slippery slope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I make myself 17 instead?

"Don't dare let that blonde tart into your car! You'll regret it for the rest of your life!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put 1000 quid accumulator on leicester to win premiership, brexit to be voted for and trump to win presidential election.

then buy a hottub, some awesome wine.. and post a "meet today" event on fab..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont be so nice to others that didnt deserve it - dont wait so bloody long to lose the virginity - ditch the ex at least 5 years earlier than i did - and think about myself more instead of always putting myself last - and believe in myself more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't settle down young, it's a big wide world, go off and explore, be confident, be adventurous, do what makes you happy instead of trying to please others all the time.

Thankfully my 17yr old son has listened to my advice and is leaving his countryside home and heading for city life.

Life is what you make it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's been a while - time to do this thread again I think!

What advice would you give your 18 yo self if you could go back in time and meet?

"

Shave Pubes ASAP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When two old school friends knock, don't answer the door!

Or when they knock, go out and date him for longer!!!

G x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's been a while - time to do this thread again I think!

What advice would you give your 18 yo self if you could go back in time and meet?

Shave Pubes ASAP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't settle down young, it's a big wide world, go off and explore, be confident, be adventurous, do what makes you happy instead of trying to please others all the time.

Life is what you make it."

This is the advice we've tried to instil in our kids too. Hopefully they'll fuck off to Australia or some other far flung corner of the globe soon and give us some peace!

Can't see it happening though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let a certain man chip away at my confidence so that even now I have hardly any left

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Stop worrying so much about what everyone else thinks and things actually get better the more confident and outgoing you eventually become.

Oh and take more notice of the subtle hints women give you, you dope you could have had way more sex!

Mr Playful

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Be yourself. Always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace the red hair and geeky glasses! Apparently it's a thing when you're a grown up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not as ugly and stupid as you told yourself .

Enjoy your life and live each moment in that moment.

Don't over think and relax it all turns out well.

Ps ,, there will be a pooch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are not as ugly and stupid as you told yourself .

Enjoy your life and live each moment in that moment.

Don't over think and relax it all turns out well.

Ps ,, there will be a pooch "

Hurrah to pooches. Glad you're back Taff! Xx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You're gonna go through hell...but you'll come out the other side even more awesome than you were before. Just ride the wave, you'll learn from it.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Embrace the red hair and geeky glasses! Apparently it's a thing when you're a grown up "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Embrace the red hair and geeky glasses! Apparently it's a thing when you're a grown up "

youre gorgeous and alongside bg i cant message you either as im too old - but was great meeting you xxx

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Don't get married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not marry that arsehole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Embrace the red hair and geeky glasses! Apparently it's a thing when you're a grown up

youre gorgeous and alongside bg i cant message you either as im too old - but was great meeting you xxx"

You too lovely, send me a friend request she filters are on to stop creepy old men

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I don't need to. Sure I made mistakes but each and everyone of them made me the man I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Embrace the red hair and geeky glasses! Apparently it's a thing when you're a grown up

youre gorgeous and alongside bg i cant message you either as im too old - but was great meeting you xxx

You too lovely, send me a friend request she filters are on to stop creepy old men "

i cant - outside range

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Don't waste another second on those people who are supposedly your friends. They're not! Don't waste another second doing things you're only doing because that's what people expect you to do. Do what your heart is telling you to do.

You're not a weirdo. Embrace those things that make you totally different to the people around you. Don't hide them away. Don't fear embarrassment. Don't fear failure. Just be yourself. Only then can you find the true road to happiness.

Only ever be where you're welcome. Spend as much time as you can with the people you love because they can be cruely taken away from you at any moment.

Have more confidence in yourself. You have as much right to be here as anyone else. Don't let yourself be pushed around.

Oh and that beautiful girl you'll meet when you're 19. Don't let her slip away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't need to. Sure I made mistakes but each and everyone of them made me the man I am. "

charachter building X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't waste another second on those people who are supposedly your friends. They're not! Don't waste another second doing things you're only doing because that's what people expect you to do. Do what your heart is telling you to do.

You're not a weirdo. Embrace those things that make you totally different to the people around you. Don't hide them away. Don't fear embarrassment. Don't fear failure. Just be yourself. Only then can you find the true road to happiness.

Only ever be where you're welcome. Spend as much time as you can with the people you love because they can be cruely taken away from you at any moment.

Have more confidence in yourself. You have as much right to be here as anyone else. Don't let yourself be pushed around.

Oh and that beautiful girl you'll meet when you're 19. Don't let her slip away."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have my children at a younger age. I wasn't so jaded back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To my 18 year old self - whatever your parents are telling you, do the exact opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to your parents and wear a bra every single day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't need to. Sure I made mistakes but each and everyone of them made me the man I am. "

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don't need to. Sure I made mistakes but each and everyone of them made me the man I am.

charachter building X"

And I lot do comment on what a character I am. I'm just not sure if that's good or bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To my 18 year old self - whatever your parents are telling you, do the exact opposite. "

interesting as I look back now and think 'you know, my Mum was mostly right!'

But I wouldn't be who I am today if I hadn't made my own journey through life and made all my own mistakes (and successes )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't need to. Sure I made mistakes but each and everyone of them made me the man I am. "

I absolutely agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To my 18 year old self - whatever your parents are telling you, do the exact opposite.

interesting as I look back now and think 'you know, my Mum was mostly right!'

But I wouldn't be who I am today if I hadn't made my own journey through life and made all my own mistakes (and successes )"

Which is pretty much what Fireblade said! Ha sorry dude!

My advice to me if I could go back 10 minutes would be to read up the thread and all the new posts first!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don't need to. Sure I made mistakes but each and everyone of them made me the man I am.

I absolutely agree with this."

OMG your a man

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Be happy with the way you are.

You are a unique caring person.

And never drink Pernod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell myself to just relax and take my time. Mostly in the bedroom, but applies to life in general too I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't need to. Sure I made mistakes but each and everyone of them made me the man I am.

I absolutely agree with this.

OMG your a man "

Oh shit. Am I??

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"To my 18 year old self - whatever your parents are telling you, do the exact opposite. "

And that's what I still do today especially where my kids are concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're going to have some good times and some bad times but you'll end up being me so it will definitely be worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't need to. Sure I made mistakes but each and everyone of them made me the man I am. "

That's also very true.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Blimey where to start..actually can I go back to my 17 year old self and tell him not to leave the Navy for starters...will leave it at that as there's not enough space for the rest!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There would be loads I'll settle for;

"Do not worry so much! You really do have worth. And don't have to prove it!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pick Cambridge.

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Dont worry if you don't do well in 'RE in school lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To my 18 year old self - whatever your parents are telling you, do the exact opposite.

interesting as I look back now and think 'you know, my Mum was mostly right!'

But I wouldn't be who I am today if I hadn't made my own journey through life and made all my own mistakes (and successes )

Which is pretty much what Fireblade said! Ha sorry dude!

My advice to me if I could go back 10 minutes would be to read up the thread and all the new posts first! "

I suppose it sounds very disrespectful - I do get on with my parents, I'm looking forward to seeing them tonight.

But 18 was a funny time for me.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"To my 18 year old self - whatever your parents are telling you, do the exact opposite.

interesting as I look back now and think 'you know, my Mum was mostly right!'

But I wouldn't be who I am today if I hadn't made my own journey through life and made all my own mistakes (and successes )

Which is pretty much what Fireblade said! Ha sorry dude!

My advice to me if I could go back 10 minutes would be to read up the thread and all the new posts first!

I suppose it sounds very disrespectful - I do get on with my parents, I'm looking forward to seeing them tonight.

But 18 was a funny time for me. "

Respect has to be earned. Personally I've no idea if they are even drawing breath and that just the way I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I'd say would be 'keep running then you won't get fat and have to work your arse off to lose the weight in 18 years time'

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"The only thing I'd say would be 'keep running then you won't get fat and have to work your arse off to lose the weight in 18 years time'"

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By *icndaveCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield

Drink less, shag more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about getting laid, it will happen when you least expect it. Go partying for the fun, not in the hope of getting lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen to your parents and wear a bra every single day! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dodge the bullet and you will still be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a way I wouldn't change a thing. Yes I've made mistakes but I've also learned valuable lessons. All the 'past years' have shaped and molded me into the person I am today.......

I kinda like the 'me' I've become and I'm loving my life at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing..It might fuck with my time line and I wouldn't be precisely who I am now. I like who I am now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Embrace the red hair and geeky glasses! Apparently it's a thing when you're a grown up "

Only if you are super hot with a great rack

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Don't marry her no matter how gorgeous you think she is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing..It might fuck with my time line and I wouldn't be precisely who I am now. I like who I am now.

"

It's like that science fiction trope - if you go back in time to when your grandfather was a child and kill him, you will have never existed. But if you never existed, how can you kill your grandfather?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing..It might fuck with my time line and I wouldn't be precisely who I am now. I like who I am now.

It's like that science fiction trope - if you go back in time to when your grandfather was a child and kill him, you will have never existed. But if you never existed, how can you kill your grandfather? "

time travels very own catch 22 I'm gonna not think about it now though because I'm starting to and it's confuddling me already

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I have done everything at my own pace and i'm happy with my life.

Regrets are a waste of time. I'D rather be better now than wish I was 15 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take every opportunity you fancy and go for it!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say fuck off more often

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The bullies won't win and in years to come, you will see them and laugh. Never change who you are because of others. Only you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get out there and live.

Get out there and see

Get out there and explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont shag the blonde you meet in the red lion when you are 19

Dont get married give it a couple more years and you will realize it ain't gonna last

Tell kelly that you love her instead of trying to play it cool as she looks awesome as she gets older

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Sometimes things will get hard to the point of not seeing the light, but you will make it through all

MrsSB

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Don't buy that air pistol, it will cost you a navy career.

Stop giving up on things you are good at, just cause the fun stops.

Don't be guilty for enjoying the feeling of lingerie against your skin, you actually look good in it during your late teens.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've thought of something I'd definitely change. No matter what you have to do even if she never talks to you again don't let her go to France. if she does you won't ever see her again and you'll never get over the loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only 19 so I haven't had much time to reflect on being 18. Give me a few years yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I new this at 18. We are the ones in control of our life and what we think become true to us . No one have the power over me and how I think only me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only 19 so I haven't had much time to reflect on being 18. Give me a few years yet. "

Now you're just showing off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I new this at 18. We are the ones in control of our life and what we think become true to us . No one have the power over me and how I think only me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only 19 so I haven't had much time to reflect on being 18. Give me a few years yet. "

Shouldn't be as hard to remember as it is for some of us though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't run away from who you are.

Just be yourself rather than what you think you should be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Embrace the red hair and geeky glasses! Apparently it's a thing when you're a grown up

Only if you are super hot with a great rack "

Obviously! Don't forget to mention my hilarious-ness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join fab a lot sooner.....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to advice, but let it go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because that person doesn't like you, doesn't mean you are worthless or wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't get married EVER

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be true to yourself .

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By *aughtypair555Couple
over a year ago

north west

I wouldn't - if I haven't lived the life I did then I wouldn't be where I am now and I wouldn't want to change a single thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take more chances, and don't believe the people who make you feel you're not good enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take more chances, and don't believe the people who make you feel you're not good enough."

Pretty much this!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Tell the people on your life how you feel about them.. You never know how long you have with them.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Tell the people on your life how you feel about them.. You never know how long you have with them."

Never a truer word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoking is not cool and football isn't everything .......(it's important bit not everything )

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It'll get much better... and then it'll get sooo good you'll forget all about it.

Well, not the good bits

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By *edylogosMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Erm there's a fair bit

Firstly you know fuck all, you think you do but you're clueless

Work harder than just coasting

Be less of a dick

You don't have to spunk all your money on payday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Travel more.. And by more I mean just a little bit further than Bognor Regis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 18year old self needs a good telling off - don't settle, aim for the best you can get. Concentrate on career and don't let men get in the way.

Now in my 30s I'm starting my life again the proper way but it's hard giving up everything you had come to know but I'm looking forward to doing things the proper way this time

Mrs

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Erm there's a fair bit

Firstly you know fuck all, you think you do but you're clueless

Work harder than just coasting

Be less of a dick

You don't have to spunk all your money on payday

"

kinky fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time, jump head first the van dosent kill you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to go back to around 14 years old to stop myself from making the biggest mistake of my life tbh, so 18 wouldn't make that much of a difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd have to go back to around 14 years old to stop myself from making the biggest mistake of my life tbh, so 18 wouldn't make that much of a difference."

I lied, Apply for Cambridge not Canterbury ! That is all.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Either don't join the armed forces or take cover..

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Don't join the army and chill the fuck out you loon

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

18 is too late. I need to speak to 10 or 11 year old me!

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

Be wild & live life in the fast lane while you can.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Communicate better and try harder

Have the courage to speak up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get that credit card when you turn 18!

Don't have that fling!

Tell her you love her before it's too late!

You will get over it in time don't worry.

Don't give the keys to your son before he passes his test!

Get over your wife and move on, marry the girl who truly loved you all along.

Hindsight is a lovely thing and youth is wasted on the young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell the people on your life how you feel about them.. You never know how long you have with them.

Never a truer word "

Amen to that

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Be open what you want from your job role and if your fed up or want to move on then say!!!!

No point doing a role that your unhappy with

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

The girl you know the 1 yes she's funding stunning on the outside but by fucked she's 1 minger inside so don't fucking marry her you thick fuck

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

Ask for that guy's phone number. It was so obvious he wanted it but didn't know how to ask.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Don't let a certain man chip away at my confidence so that even now I have hardly any left "

Same for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rewind to six years ago.. Almost to the date. I'd tell myself not to accept the drink of the guy who'd end up breaking my heart in a million ways

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Rewind to six years ago.. Almost to the date. I'd tell myself not to accept the drink of the guy who'd end up breaking my heart in a million ways "

As much as it hurt and I know it did it was a lesson you had to learn and it won't ever happen again

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By *ightfall79Man
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

Do not take that drink as it leads to a 3 year downward spiral.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Don't be a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only 19 so I haven't had much time to reflect on being 18. Give me a few years yet.

Now you're just showing off "

Jealous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never change ever for anyone

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

Never forget dreams....take that leap before you are pushed... Oh and get your bloody driving licence!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only 19 so I haven't had much time to reflect on being 18. Give me a few years yet.

Shouldn't be as hard to remember as it is for some of us though "

Not hard to remember at all

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By *odestyB007Woman
over a year ago

Winchester

Be yourself, enjoy life. Later in life you'll regret what you didn't do, not what you've done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax. Most stuff doesn't really matter that much. That said, I wouldn't be too hard on me as most of it turned out pretty good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only 19 so I haven't had much time to reflect on being 18. Give me a few years yet.

Now you're just showing off

Jealous? "

... No.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Have more confidence. That would be the main one. I think my lack of self confidence set me back years. I suppose I could have done a lot more instead of ending up in an office. I should have written and gone travelling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toughen up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stay strong, you will get through this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress like a princess and adopt that life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What people told you or you thought was difficult or tough. So so isn't you've done tougher. Just do it.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Sort it out...

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Don't go near that man he will ruin you and not in that sexual way men seem to think sounds good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her out now, don't find out years later that you've both wanted each other all this time

That lad that says he'll finish your career if you do that again isn't joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are not as ugly and stupid as you told yourself .

Enjoy your life and live each moment in that moment.

Don't over think and relax it all turns out well.

Ps ,, there will be a pooch

Hurrah to pooches. Glad you're back Taff! Xx"

Hello you we must have that walkies soon

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

Stay away from that lunatic woman and dont come back to england once you have left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your time young man.

Don't you rush to get old.

Take it in your stride.

Uh oh. Uh oh oh oh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fight your demons. They don't define you

When you meet HIM walk away.... actually no - run!

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Stop giving up on stuff and select better people to associate with!

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Fuck and fuck off.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"You are not as ugly and stupid as you told yourself .

Enjoy your life and live each moment in that moment.

Don't over think and relax it all turns out well.

Ps ,, there will be a pooch

Hurrah to pooches. Glad you're back Taff! Xx

Hello you we must have that walkies soon "

Taff! You're back! X

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
over a year ago

on the naughty side of the street

Buy the heels

Drink the wine

Eat that piece of cake

Laugh a lot

Embra your imperfection and never take yourself too seriously

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Ha look at this web site

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

I would say trust your instinct, go with what feels right, think twice act once and never be afraid to fail

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Be kind, humble and laugh a lot and....if you ever fall into following fashion, burn all photographic evidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GROW UP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go skiing again before you are 54. It really is the best sport ever like you thought and play more tennis when they bring out fibre glass tennis rackets.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Treat others as they treat you and not how you'd like to be treated,bcz if their a c#@t they'll always treat you like a c@#t no matter how nice you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go out and grab it and don't worry so much about what other people think because they're probably not thinking about you at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say trust your instinct, go with what feels right, think twice act once and never be afraid to fail"

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

If I could do it all over again - I'd probably just make the same mistakes, but even earlier than I did the first time around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't expect any great love affair or anything awesome to happen to you because it won't.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Don't expect any great love affair or anything awesome to happen to you because it won't.

"

And when or if it does it will sooner or later turn to shit

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

Stop letting men treat you like shit and be all in denial about it.

Have driving lessons.

Buy a house.

Dye your hair.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Kiss, fuck, avoid, don't marry, dont do rebound sex shes like a limpit, fuck, dont marry she'll try & kill you, avoid, fuck, marry (oh I did)..

Think that covers it.

S

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Go for it!

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By *errysMan
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

In four years time When your wife moves in with the bloke next door follow your instinct it's called swinging you will be doing it with her 30 years from now anyhow. True story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't be shy and be a little more selfish. good guys get nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be yourself, enjoy life. Later in life you'll regret what you didn't do, not what you've done. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choose a different career, dump that bf, and save your £!

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