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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's best planning it or getting that meet now occasion ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned, I have too much going on with work and family to just drop everything and meet someone, plus I prefer socials first so they have to be planned to a time that suits all parties involved.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Spontaneous for us...very busy lives so to ensure play we head for the club.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned- not looking for lots of meets just that special lady or 2 for occasional mutual planned fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned never seems to work for us.. plus for me at least it can lose the edge too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spontaneous for us...very busy lives so to ensure play we head for the club."

Same here. Socials take up a lot time when you don't have much going spare.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Planned..

Hotels don't just book themselves..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned. 12 weeks in advance once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.

Planned for meeting locally for one on one meets.

Spontaneous at a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer spontaneous as we both work full time and planned can be a hassle sometimes.

But we can do planned.

But when it comes to single males we tend to spontaneous as there seems to be no shortage of them. Things tend to be planned when it comes to meeting other couples or single females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous is exciting, Not many people just happen to be close by on the canal though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spontaneous, but with someone who i know the sex is gonna be good.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I can't plan a meet in advance.

How do I know if I will feel like shagging someone 2 weeks on Friday. I could have had a shit day and want a book and blanket evening. So do I cancel or go through with something I have no real interest in.

Better not to make plans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both is good but spur of the moment is very good

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..


"I can't plan a meet in advance.

How do I know if I will feel like shagging someone 2 weeks on Friday. I could have had a shit day and want a book and blanket evening. So do I cancel or go through with something I have no real interest in.

Better not to make plans."

A book and a blanket evening....

Finally, someone that know someone what I want..

All this shagging was really starting to get me down..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both, but I prefer the spontaneous ones as I got lots of free time.

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire

Spontaneous is always best, increased excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't plan a meet in advance.

How do I know if I will feel like shagging someone 2 weeks on Friday. I could have had a shit day and want a book and blanket evening. So do I cancel or go through with something I have no real interest in.

Better not to make plans."

Exactly the same for me - I can't even say how I'll feel in 2 day's time, never mind 2 weeks!

I've tried the "planned" stuff - and it feels on par with a planned meeting with my Bank Manager, or booking the car in for an MOT - no fun in it at all!

But a spontaneous meet, at short notice, when I'm feeling as horny as a horny thing, then the more I get ravished, the happier I am..!!!

Some of the best meets I've had have been within hours (or even minutes!) of first contact -

- well it just goes to show that we're all different, with different needs and desires!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned - I don't have the sort of lifestyle where I can have random, spontaneous meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned for sure. If I want spontaneous, I head to a club

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By *BW star and DocCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Love a bit of spontaneity as planned meets tend to go balls up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned. I don't do spontaneous for anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous with Fab friends is great fun! Otherwise it is planned. I've only ever had an off the cuff social that led to a bit of gentle play once, and that was out of character for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somethings are worth the wait

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Planned as jacks away with work alot.

Miss

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