FabSwingers.com forum: whats your biggest turn off about another fabber?

By *ournemouthbusinessguy OP Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

so i'm fairly new to this but for me the biggest turn off is the constant status updates about how they are gonna leave the site (but they dont!) or the weird attention seeking ones. anyone else find this?

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

being agressive on the forums. i would hate to bump into them in real life.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"being agressive on the forums. i would hate to bump into them in real life."

Oh, I'd absolutely *love* to meet some of the keyboard worriers from here in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"being agressive on the forums. i would hate to bump into them in real life."

Ha.quite few of them.

Hate folk that let ya down last minute.time is precious to me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think the worst is the constant whining from people that wont help themselves

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"so i'm fairly new to this but for me the biggest turn off is the constant status updates about how they are gonna leave the site (but they dont!) or the weird attention seeking ones. anyone else find this? "

Gawwd knows.

There are certainly a lot of repetitive tropes when it comes to people being sad and lonely or just doing it for the attention (as you say).

Turn offs?

People who don't agree with everything I say and do...?

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By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago

Barbados

Yup. Especially if they count down on their status every say.... 21...20..19... etc etc...

-Matt

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

people who moan about others

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By *ournemouthbusinessguy OP Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the lack of seriousness !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sanctimonious behaviour and pack mentality.

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By *ournemouthbusinessguy OP Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"being agressive on the forums. i would hate to bump into them in real life."

yeah i think these ones don't meet very often!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those that think they are better than you

Kinky

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By *ercuryMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Ones that use Fab as an extension to their Facebook

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"being agressive on the forums. i would hate to bump into them in real life.

yeah i think these ones don't meet very often!"

it does make you wonder.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Obvious trolls.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Those who talk in text speak .....how very rude .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pushy and not listening

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By *ods_Perfect_IdiotMan
over a year ago

Manchester

False missing leading pictures !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being asked if i'm a escort and thinking they can buy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those whose 'rant' on their profile is actually longer than their profile

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I'm turned off by unnecessary spite and nastiness (quite different to banter) and misogynists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The insensitive types who lack empathy, on the forum anyway.

I don't bother with chat and I don't look at my feed at status updates.

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

"being agressive on the forums. i would hate to bump into them in real life."

Is that a threat?

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Neediness and the constant craving for validation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of manners..

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By *issPPWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Yup. Especially if they count down on their status every say.... 21...20..19... etc etc...

-Matt"

Yeah. Same for me plus the ones that are critical about other people's pictures or body types on their status updates.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Being asked if i'm a escort and thinking they can buy me."

How much?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Vulgarity quite often....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they have mental (sick)

Photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neediness and the constant craving for validation "

Like most of the thread on the forums?

-Snog, fuck avoid

-Rate the profile above

-Fab pic thread

Etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the sneaky twats on here that dance a round the rules and get people I like a timeout's or banned

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

The moaners and desperados who fill up my local updates.

On the forum the people who seem to revel in negativity. Gets on my funking nerves!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh keyboard warriors, they really piss me off, the once, this bloke had been giving it the big un, so I message him and ask him what his problem is, he started threatening me with all sorts, so I said we should meet up and sort this out, if he's got the balls, he went unlos straight away.

I know violence isn't the answer, but...no sometimes its the answer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the above, although particular pet hate is the attention seekers who seek attention by trying not to, or say they're not, actually seek attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Key board warriors,

People who think they're better than others,

Negative people.

Or even worse people with two or all three of those qualities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mendacious poppycock......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those unnecessarily unpleasant for the sake of it to others.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

People into Nazi porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People into Nazi porn

That's a thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys with no sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those whose fab experience isn't going the way they hoped, so they attempt to ruin it for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People into Nazi porn

That's a thing?

Rule 34

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who cut and paste from google...use your own brains fabbers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums:

Sycophancy

False "niceness"

Hypocrisy

Outside the forums:

Whingeing status updates

Inability to spell where they live

Fake/stolen photos

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By *ournemouthbusinessguy OP Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Yup. Especially if they count down on their status every say.... 21...20..19... etc etc...

-Matt

Yeah. Same for me plus the ones that are critical about other people's pictures or body types on their status updates. "

quite, like their opinion is of any use! we all like different things, thats the beauty of the human body

- ps, yours is amazing!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Falsity - forced incessant flirting and joviality and keyboard warriors. Racism and misogyny. People who put down others with no real need. Fabbers with the belief that using a word with more than two syllables is an indicator of superiority. No, fuckwit, that's just a chip on your shoulder. Other than that, everyone is grand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mendacious poppycock......

Bugger - that's my specialty. 50% of what I post isn't true and the other 50% is bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"being agressive on the forums. i would hate to bump into them in real life.

Oh, I'd absolutely *love* to meet some of the keyboard worriers from here in real life

They'd be the most pleasant person you'd ever meet.

We all know people like to have a persona on forums like this and it's clear a few in the forums play up to it.

Maybe it's the only place they feel accepted and respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Falsity - forced incessant flirting and joviality and keyboard warriors. Racism and misogyny. People who put down others with no real need. Fabbers with the belief that using a word with more than two syllables is an indicator of superiority. No, fuckwit, that's just a chip on your shoulder. Other than that, everyone is grand. "

Yeah both of them are grand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guys who don't respect a couples profile. Know your audience before sending the usual "you are stunning!" Or "fancy a fuck "message

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pushy- oh yeh bob I can see you've messaged me 12 times today, go on then, I'll fuck you.

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FB statuses- took kids to school, having some toast, best go t'asda

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Stalkers- I've seen you in the village, I'm your postman, I'm your husband

Shit like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manipulators and academic arrogance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The guys who don't respect a couples profile. Know your audience before sending the usual "you are stunning!" Or "fancy a fuck "message"

No!! They're the best! I normally reply with a thank you and flirty message. They are always so disappointed when they realise they're not talking to the landlord of the boobs, merely the temant!

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I think nastiness for the sake of is just sad and a poor reflection on their own character. This is supposed to be fun and not everyone is going to agree or have the same tastes that's the wonderful thing about life. The forums are a great place for observing social diversity lol

Live and let live and most importantly try not to be a dick, most of the time

Dudes that post constantly; how can you help me and what do you think of my profile threads make me just think man the fck up and put in the graft to look around and talk to people see what works, stop looking for short cuts or sympathy fucks. Haven't met a woman yet that is turned on by a man of weak character and is clearly lazy.

Oh and people who repost the same pictures to stay up on update feeds, doesn't bother me as such just makes me laugh at the desperado attention seeking. Mostly ladies I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The guys who don't respect a couples profile. Know your audience before sending the usual "you are stunning!" Or "fancy a fuck "message

No!! They're the best! I normally reply with a thank you and flirty message. They are always so disappointed when they realise they're not talking to the landlord of the boobs, merely the temant!

Mr"

Ha ha me too but it wears thin after a while!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Incrediblely hypocritical

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Increediblubble flubblle

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"the sneaky twats on here that dance a round the rules and get people I like a timeout's or banned

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Being asked if i'm a escort and thinking they can buy me."

Those that generally feel sorry for themselves, the sob stories, can't get a meet, no one wants to meet, can you veri me please via.....Not much time for that, and we do meet newbies, just wanted to add that.

Oh! And he cake eaters! Stop bragging about eating cake ffs!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was pretty easy going until someone royally fucked me over on here.

Now it's the guys who think that once they get you naked anything goes. The gals who show thinly veiled mean girlness and petty one uppers. Meh. Ain't nobody got time for that!

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

Yes!! You just said everything I wanted to. But better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being asked if i'm a escort and thinking they can buy me.

Oh! And he cake eaters! Stop bragging about eating cake ffs!!!

Sounds like someone has missed out on cake

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By *aspasherMan
over a year ago

South shields

Have to say the people who post sob story updates

"not meeing not talking hartbroken again " then why in gods name are they on here this is a place to find like minded people and maby some fun its not FB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indirect jibes or potshots.

Would much prefer if someone has a problem with something I've said or done that they behave like an adult instead of stooping to childish playground antics. (Oddly that seems to happen more on the Scottish Forum than in the Lounge)

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Neediness and the constant craving for validation "

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

General tosspottery. It comes in many guises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"General tosspottery. It comes in many guises."

There's a gameshow in that somewhere

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Somebody that's not into hygiene.....yuk!! Have to smell nice and have good breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sycophantic white knights

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