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Reasons for being REJECTED..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems like a good reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"seems like a good reason "

nooooo *sobs*

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"seems like a good reason "

Only if it was from Ben or jerry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

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Talk like that could get you a forum ban for offensive language!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Because I'm a fat ugly slag and they wouldn't want to fuck me anyways..... oh wait that was after I said no thanks.

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By *orny-HungMan
over a year ago

preston

There is no way that anybody has rejected you?

They must be mad lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

Talk like that could get you a forum ban for offensive language!"

im a Carte Dor lass... just love their Cherry flavoured Ice Cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

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the angle the picture of my cock was taken lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had sunglasses on on a pic.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Because they thought I just had a very good tan and didn't realise I was actually mixed race...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because I'm a fat ugly slag and they wouldn't want to fuck me anyways..... oh wait that was after I said no thanks."

lol had a few of those in my time.. its always 'my loss' lol

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

Talk like that could get you a forum ban for offensive language!

im a Carte Dor lass... just love their Cherry flavoured Ice Cream "

Blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

Talk like that could get you a forum ban for offensive language!

im a Carte Dor lass... just love their Cherry flavoured Ice Cream "

Stating a preference for other brands is acceptable, we're supposed to be an open minded community after all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I'm a fat ugly slag and they wouldn't want to fuck me anyways..... oh wait that was after I said no thanks."

What a lovely person

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I got a " sorry your not my type" once

Bastards

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Because I'm too polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

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That would just mean more for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

Talk like that could get you a forum ban for offensive language!

im a Carte Dor lass... just love their Cherry flavoured Ice Cream

Stating a preference for other brands is acceptable, we're supposed to be an open minded community after all...."

i know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

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WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!!!

BURN THE FREAK!!

*disclaimer- Sassy full well knows I don't mean this.

(But Choc Fudge Brownie could be my undoing!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

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In my experience ppl who don't like Ben & Jerrys turn out to be evil !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!!!

BURN THE FREAK!!

*disclaimer- Sassy full well knows I don't mean this.

(But Choc Fudge Brownie could be my undoing!) "

lol no i dont..

Admin!! Admin... forum bullying... ban her!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I dont rush out and meet at the drop of a hat.

Because I will not go to some random man"s house alone for a first meet.

Because I am not psychic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because Mrs N is too small and I'm too fat and it makes us look weird together.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

In my experience ppl who don't like Ben & Jerrys turn out to be evil ! "

everyone has a bit of the Devil inside them

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Because they thought I just had a very good tan and didn't realise I was actually mixed race..."

Mrs and I had something similar happen

Guy said he was mixed race when we state only play with bbc

After he left an admitably great meet we thought with his blonde hair n blue eyes we'd been had

Felt violated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I was rejected was a couple of weeks ago in person not on here, he got up and went to the loo and never came back

His reason being?

When I got home I had a e-mail from him that simply said

Sorry but you must have realised as soon as you saw me you wasn't going to be for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!!!

BURN THE FREAK!!

*disclaimer- Sassy full well knows I don't mean this.

(But Choc Fudge Brownie could be my undoing!)

lol no i dont..

Admin!! Admin... forum bullying... ban her!! lol "

Ah c'mon!!! I didn't even use the C word!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't know, nobody would dare reject me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't know, nobody would dare reject me "

Unless they were an Ipswich fan

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

For being a nightmare and he is surprised that no man wants me

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"For being a nightmare and he is surprised that no man wants me "

Then said the next day I'm the nicest woman he has ever met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last time I was rejected was a couple of weeks ago in person not on here, he got up and went to the loo and never came back

His reason being?

When I got home I had a e-mail from him that simply said

Sorry but you must have realised as soon as you saw me you wasn't going to be for me "

Well his grammar alone, should have made you realise what a lucky escape that was for you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For being fat, and not willing to meet at his house. Whatever

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"For being a nightmare and he is surprised that no man wants me

Then said the next day I'm the nicest woman he has ever met "

I'm getting from that that your moody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't know, nobody would dare reject me

Unless they were an Ipswich fan "

Even they wouldn't

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

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Were you going for an MMF then?

;-)

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they thought I just had a very good tan and didn't realise I was actually mixed race..."

Oh I've had that

I'm originally from Sicily so I'm sort of dark white skinned but sometimes on my pics because of the lighting or flash I look quite pail in some

I've had a few guys ask me where I'm from when we have met most have been ok with the fact I'm not English, I've had a few get a bit funny with me though because I didn't mention this before meeting, I have had one guy who told me he didn't fuck foreigners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also got the SORRY not my/our type

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"For being a nightmare and he is surprised that no man wants me

Then said the next day I'm the nicest woman he has ever met

I'm getting from that that your moody "

Not moody....unless you fucking annoy me...he didn't

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Mike was rejected for being too short and too old....

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Last time I was rejected was a couple of weeks ago in person not on here, he got up and went to the loo and never came back

His reason being?

When I got home I had a e-mail from him that simply said

Sorry but you must have realised as soon as you saw me you wasn't going to be for me "

He was a spineless piece of doggy mess wasn't he!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

In my experience ppl who don't like Ben & Jerrys turn out to be evil ! "

Evil bitch here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

In my experience ppl who don't like Ben & Jerrys turn out to be evil !

Evil bitch here... "

I bloody knew it, yet I still slide my penis in you one day... eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I'm a fat ugly slag and they wouldn't want to fuck me anyways..... oh wait that was after I said no thanks."

I had one similar after a no thanks . Told me I should get to the gym

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just got back here as a couple and we got rejected cos the lady in our face pics was "clearly photoshopped and I need to stop being desperate" x

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By *ourHotSpotMan
over a year ago

Horny Hornchurch

I blooming wish sometimes i did get a reason. Just straight deletes.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Because they thought I just had a very good tan and didn't realise I was actually mixed race...

Oh I've had that

I'm originally from Sicily so I'm sort of dark white skinned but sometimes on my pics because of the lighting or flash I look quite pail in some

I've had a few guys ask me where I'm from when we have met most have been ok with the fact I'm not English, I've had a few get a bit funny with me though because I didn't mention this before meeting, I have had one guy who told me he didn't fuck foreigners "

Throw on a track suit and don't speak properly and you can pretend to be a native

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

In my experience ppl who don't like Ben & Jerrys turn out to be evil !

Evil bitch here...

I bloody knew it, yet I still slide my penis in you one day... eventually "

Just bring the Haagen Dazs

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Too old, when they still have 18-99 on their profile.

Too far away (40 miles) from someone that "Can't meet at the drop of a hat"..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter? And they never tell us, they just diaappear

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Is this that guy you where dating cute?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

In my experience ppl who don't like Ben & Jerrys turn out to be evil !

Evil bitch here...

I bloody knew it, yet I still slide my penis in you one day... eventually

Just bring the Haagen Dazs "

Cookie and creams right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they thought I just had a very good tan and didn't realise I was actually mixed race..."

LOL how funny- I've had similar - I sent a face pic and they said "sorry I didn't realise you weren't white"

So they were either racist or I'm really ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For being a nightmare and he is surprised that no man wants me

Then said the next day I'm the nicest woman he has ever met

I'm getting from that that your moody

Not moody....unless you fucking annoy me...he didn't "

I was rejected recently by a lovely lady I met Sunday who offered to go out for a meal with me but then NEVER CALLED ME

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I went from being sexy to a fool after I sent a polite rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most recent rejection...

im a Carte Dor lass... just love their Cherry flavoured Ice Cream "

'Carte D'Or': Golden Card.

Not trying to be a spelling Nazi, just that if you didn't know the translation, maybe now you'll like it more...?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Because they thought I just had a very good tan and didn't realise I was actually mixed race...

LOL how funny- I've had similar - I sent a face pic and they said "sorry I didn't realise you weren't white"

So they were either racist or I'm really ugly "

Or maybe they needed to go to Specsavers!! Seriously though how insulting, whatever the reason, to even say that!!

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Because they thought I just had a very good tan and didn't realise I was actually mixed race...

LOL how funny- I've had similar - I sent a face pic and they said "sorry I didn't realise you weren't white"

So they were either racist or I'm really ugly "

Iv had similar

"You're suspiciously tanned for February "

Sunbedism the last taboo

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

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Maybe you arranged a threesome with the wrong guys, try Tim & Harry next time perhaps

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Because they thought I just had a very good tan and didn't realise I was actually mixed race...

LOL how funny- I've had similar - I sent a face pic and they said "sorry I didn't realise you weren't white"

So they were either racist or I'm really ugly "

I take the stance that I'm just not as pretty as a white girl with a fake tan.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

For living too far south!!

Offers cute some cherry carte dor ice cream to cheer her up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

In my experience ppl who don't like Ben & Jerrys turn out to be evil !

Evil bitch here...

I bloody knew it, yet I still slide my penis in you one day... eventually

Just bring the Haagen Dazs

Cookie and creams right ? "

Noooo!! Pralines and cream

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"For being a nightmare and he is surprised that no man wants me

Then said the next day I'm the nicest woman he has ever met

I'm getting from that that your moody

Not moody....unless you fucking annoy me...he didn't

I was rejected recently by a lovely lady I met Sunday who offered to go out for a meal with me but then NEVER CALLED ME "

I'm playing it cool don't want to come on too eager

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent a face pic.

That usually does it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sent a face pic.

That usually does it "

I don't believe that for a second!

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By *ercuryMan
over a year ago

Grantham

For being too young...at 53!

Didn't know whether to laugh or cry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Have you got a face pic?' is the question I dread most on here. 9 times out of ten ensures radio silence.

I don't even cry now though. I'm a brave soldier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have better hair.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. THE MOORLANDS. BARMOUTH.

We were told once......" We were really nice couple to chat too, and stunning as Suzi was, with a gorgeous figure, we were not their type because Suzi was too slim "

After I had taken the challenge of , - who could take his cock deepest into their mouth. xxxxx Suzi

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By *enny79TV/TS
over a year ago

chesterfield

Because I'm not a man and then because I'm not a woman then because I'm both can't please anyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have better hair. "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm indie / mod

And that I will remain x

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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"I'm indie / mod

And that I will remain x "

If anyone rejected you for that they'd be a damn fool!

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

Why do people give such specific reasons?

It's not nice. Why don't people say "just not their type"?

Husband gets really pissed off with being turned down specifically on our couples profile. Especially when they the couple then ask to meet me alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

told i was not tall enough

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'm indie / mod

And that I will remain x "

I've told you this many times there is nothing wrong with you...I don't think there are enough mod types around and I have always been attracted to the mod types

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm that fat chick who has a high opinion of herself.

After I'd turned him down...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really doesn't offend me or anything x

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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

I've just had the vile abuse from people who I've politely declined. I've been called a "fucking stupid fat ugly slag cunt". Not one comma.

I also had a conversation yesterday.

Man: I'm going to ruin you.

Me: I'm going to block you.

Man: I'm going to block you back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had the vile abuse from people who I've politely declined. I've been called a "fucking stupid fat ugly slag cunt". Not one comma.

I also had a conversation yesterday.

Man: I'm going to ruin you.

Me: I'm going to block you.

Man: I'm going to block you back.

"

And blokes wonder why they don't get any meets

Maybe fab should set up a fabanyholeagoal site and redirect those fellas to that instead?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"It really doesn't offend me or anything x "

I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have an issue with being rejected, it's part of the game here for men.

What bugs me is when I write a nice thoughtful email to stand out from the crowd and it instantly gets rejected!

I'd rather be told I'm ugly that have that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember getting a message from a couple

Very nice polite message

I simply mailed back saying thank you for your message but I don't meet couples, I even put a x on the end

To which I got the reply

You mean couples won't meet you because your fucking ugly

Ermmm hello you mailed me dick head

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

I just don't get replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I'm a fat ugly slag and they wouldn't want to fuck me anyways..... oh wait that was after I said no thanks."
oh I have had that one.. sure I was a sex goddess before that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

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He probably assumed you're a guy.

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By *laclkguyMan
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Because I'm a fat ugly slag and they wouldn't want to fuck me anyways..... oh wait that was after I said no thanks."

i'd have you no problem there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I'm a fat ugly slag and they wouldn't want to fuck me anyways..... oh wait that was after I said no thanks. oh I have had that one.. sure I was a sex goddess before that x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was my latest rejection

Wow im born here handsome looking but indian. I never knew the british would be so much hate us indian when it came to dating. Always your not my fuckin preference is nothing but sheer racism. You brits would put a dog in your lap but not an indian well the reason is simple first of been cruising for many years for sex in britain like i said i was born here but there is apartheid when it comes to having sex with indians. Lost my virginity to my cousin in marriage back in india thank god at least we indians have a family system else wed be wanker coz you whites are arrogant racist and hate indians but dont forget ww1 and ww2 over 2 million indians defended britain from the germans. Know you hate pakis or indians coz are food is better than your fish n chips. You hate us coz your churches are closed and converted into hindu buddhist temples sikh and muslim temples, we have restaurants, shops taxis most drs in hospitals are us indians. Fine keep this indian white apartheid going and your country britain will be flooded with more immigrants from india bangladesh pakistan sri lanka as we british born indian/ asians have no choice but to marry from these countrys so in 50 years from now half of britain wiuld be indian and smelling indian everywhere. So keep hating us indians online by not talking to us you blank us out online because you hate us probably coz gandhi kicked you out of india but dont worry we will keep on marrying and divircing and marrying from abroad where india and more and more indians will keep on entering britain. If you dont talk to us or marry ys or get into relationships with us we dont care will marry from india so in 50 years from now half of britain would be india. So your loss for not fancying indians.most of You brits are racist nazi scums.

Lol had he read my veris I have Asian black mixed race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This was my latest rejection

Wow im born here handsome looking but indian. I never knew the british would be so much hate us indian when it came to dating. Always your not my fuckin preference is nothing but sheer racism. You brits would put a dog in your lap but not an indian well the reason is simple first of been cruising for many years for sex in britain like i said i was born here but there is apartheid when it comes to having sex with indians. Lost my virginity to my cousin in marriage back in india thank god at least we indians have a family system else wed be wanker coz you whites are arrogant racist and hate indians but dont forget ww1 and ww2 over 2 million indians defended britain from the germans. Know you hate pakis or indians coz are food is better than your fish n chips. You hate us coz your churches are closed and converted into hindu buddhist temples sikh and muslim temples, we have restaurants, shops taxis most drs in hospitals are us indians. Fine keep this indian white apartheid going and your country britain will be flooded with more immigrants from india bangladesh pakistan sri lanka as we british born indian/ asians have no choice but to marry from these countrys so in 50 years from now half of britain wiuld be indian and smelling indian everywhere. So keep hating us indians online by not talking to us you blank us out online because you hate us probably coz gandhi kicked you out of india but dont worry we will keep on marrying and divircing and marrying from abroad where india and more and more indians will keep on entering britain. If you dont talk to us or marry ys or get into relationships with us we dont care will marry from india so in 50 years from now half of britain would be india. So your loss for not fancying indians.most of You brits are racist nazi scums.

Lol had he read my veris I have Asian black mixed race "

I suppose it would have been a bad time to mention that we're beating them in the cricket....???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this that guy you where dating cute?"

lol no.. things are still progressing slowly :D

It was my attempt at a light hearted jokey thread

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

When we first joined and weren't too sure how to say no to people, we had this couple asking us again and again and again and just couldn't take the hint, or read our profile, or our age preferences, eventually we were just straight with them and told them that we weren't interested, and then Mr said that he didn't like Asian women anyway, and that they were only trying to do us a favour anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat, too tall, too far away, not kinky enough, too old, emotionally constipated, thick, apparently I'm a Troll, I have an over inflated opinion of myself...I could go on

Good job I'm thick skinned.

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

"

Was it actually because you refused to let him lick it off you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I didn't answer his 100th stupid message was asked what the fuck was I doing in this country.ha

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Because I am a mufc fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I am a mufc fan "

Well that's understandable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were rejected once for not being a real couple despite pictures and verifications

Bizarre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we wouldn't meet at the drop of a hat, we have a small army of children (well 4 lol) that we put first.

Mrs Dirty

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Because we wouldn't meet at the drop of a hat, we have a small army of children (well 4 lol) that we put first.

Mrs Dirty"

This too & I forgot the classic

"Dreads are dirty & scummy"

Tell that to the umpteenth hairdrier that goes pop after running for a hour or check the bank statement for the three monthly "tidy up"

Muppets!!

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never rejected.

Never approached so I never get turned away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I am a mufc fan "
actually I once got turned down as I used to have a photo of me naked apart from a rangers flag... and got all sorts of abuse..

Recently stopped talking to someone over there belief I am an idiot for still supporting the people I do in motorsport... it wasn't that they said who I liked was hazbeens.. it was that they felt it was okay to call me stupid... ive been fans for over a decade in one case lol.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Being I'm me not some imaginary version of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some people go by pics alone and dont bother to get to know me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I am a mufc fan actually I once got turned down as I used to have a photo of me naked apart from a rangers flag... and got all sorts of abuse..

Recently stopped talking to someone over there belief I am an idiot for still supporting the people I do in motorsport... it wasn't that they said who I liked was hazbeens.. it was that they felt it was okay to call me stupid... ive been fans for over a decade in one case lol. "

Are you Scottish just a fan of Rangers? WATP haha.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"For being a nightmare and he is surprised that no man wants me

Then said the next day I'm the nicest woman he has ever met "

Someone once told me I was the most infuriating woman he'd never met...... But we did go on to meet....a lot....

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Too old, too podgy, too clever, because I don't seem the 'type' - oh and once because I don't have kids and don't mind if I ever do or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs rejected because of her age, and another time because we refused to let a guy slide his hand up her skirt on a social in a local pub.

We got the full abuse and he stormed off.

I was rejected for having cropped hair, and being too old.

Some people eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I'm too old. Not dirty enough. Too young. Too far away (distance is the most common one) Can't be everyone's cuppa though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they think I'm a twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too old

Too Fat

Don't Swallow

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Because I don't have a vagina..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they thought I just had a very good tan and didn't realise I was actually mixed race..."

I had similar to that but the other way round, guy messaged saying beautiful Asian lady, I said I'm white welsh but tanned, he said oh never mind then!

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By *portsbiker2Man
over a year ago

Rugeley

You are all lucky you get a rejection, I just get ignored

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By *now_wolfCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Too alternative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they think I am too fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

l've never pondered it. l just assume l'm not their type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they think I am too fit "

I actually turned down lad once cos his body was amazing.he was way out of my league.I just wouldn't have felt comfy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are all lucky you get a rejection, I just get ignored "

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they think I am too fit

I actually turned down lad once cos his body was amazing.he was way out of my league.I just wouldn't have felt comfy"
Yes and it depends how someone would feel about it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because we wouldn't meet at the drop of a hat, we have a small army of children (well 4 lol) that we put first.

Mrs Dirty

This too & I forgot the classic

"Dreads are dirty & scummy"

Tell that to the umpteenth hairdrier that goes pop after running for a hour or check the bank statement for the three monthly "tidy up"

Muppets!!

S"

To be fair, the Mrs has had you two on her hotlist for a while and then realised you don't meet couples. She has a thing for dreads on a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never know the reason, message just gets deleted.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Because we wouldn't meet at the drop of a hat, we have a small army of children (well 4 lol) that we put first.

Mrs Dirty

This too & I forgot the classic

"Dreads are dirty & scummy"

Tell that to the umpteenth hairdrier that goes pop after running for a hour or check the bank statement for the three monthly "tidy up"

Muppets!!

S

To be fair, the Mrs has had you two on her hotlist for a while and then realised you don't meet couples. She has a thing for dreads on a lady "

Sorry, but keep us there anyway

S

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Neil liked someones pic once,

So they sent a paragraph on how they don't understand why I would ruin my face with so many piercings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height, size, being married, not meeting at short notice, not wanting to go to a club, all kinds of things. Nothing really weird I don't think. I'm old enough to take rejection on the chin, we can't appeal to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last night some guy..I read his message and then marked it unread (I do that sometimes if I have a mind to reply with more than a thanks but no thanks)

it was followed about thirty seconds later by an arsey message calling me names and a time waster for 'reading then hiding' and informing me I was now blocked.

talk about being obsessive about your sent box

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By *ournemouthbusinessguyMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

wait.... people get rejected??

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I've either never had anything other than "sorry, not my type", or they've bee such subtle versions of "it's not you, it's me" that I haven't even noticed.

I must be the most naiive cynic in history!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Literally everyone that has said 'no thanks' to me has stated it's because I'm too pretty.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Literally everyone that has said 'no thanks' to me has stated it's because I'm too pretty. "

Ahem.,....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we only soft swap at present

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Literally everyone that has said 'no thanks' to me has stated it's because I'm too pretty.

Ahem.,.... "

Thats what you said... don't go lying about me on the forums... that's slander haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being too slow to reply...I must have been flirting elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most recent. Too much facial hair and being uncouth. Who even still uses that word lol. Height is also an issue for a lot of women.

Oh and cock size of coarse.

Kill me now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't normally get a reason but being a bi male couple is usually the one given.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Being too slow to reply...I must have been flirting elsewhere "

Hussy!

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

About the only time anyone has actually bothered to comment it was after a meet and I was told that there was because there was 'no spark there'. Perhaps they were expecting me to have added a violet wand to my toy chest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get rejected just for being me, guess looking like a young Brad Pitt put women off .....nothing to do with my sparkling personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cute is dating someone! I'm heart broken, I'm going to go and sulk for an hour.

Fuck it, I'm going to have a whole tub of BEN 'N' JERRYS!!!!!

there's no point pretending now is there *sob sob*

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"Because they thought I just had a very good tan and didn't realise I was actually mixed race...

Oh I've had that

I'm originally from Sicily so I'm sort of dark white skinned but sometimes on my pics because of the lighting or flash I look quite pail in some

I've had a few guys ask me where I'm from when we have met most have been ok with the fact I'm not English, I've had a few get a bit funny with me though because I didn't mention this before meeting, I have had one guy who told me he didn't fuck foreigners "

"I have had one guy who told me he didn't fuck foreigners"

Haha, probably a Brexiteer. Next time check what way they voted before meeting. Lol.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being too slow to reply...I must have been flirting elsewhere

Hussy! "
...I'm just being friendly

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Being too slow to reply...I must have been flirting elsewhere

Hussy! ...I'm just being friendly "

I actually got called a hussy 'cos I didn't pick up during a dance class lol!! Jealous, much......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1000s out there Who will like what you like . Lets hope you find what your looking for and like the same ice cream. x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Too ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I'm a fat ugly slag and they wouldn't want to fuck me anyways..... oh wait that was after I said no thanks."

The reply I got to a no thanks once was,Thought you were a stuck up snob anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too fat and too vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos I keep sending this

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

have had 'your scars creep me out',she could have kept the light off !,but at least she was honest .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm too fat and too vanilla "

Nope definitely nope and a whole bucket of nope.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cute is dating someone! I'm heart broken, I'm going to go and sulk for an hour.

Fuck it, I'm going to have a whole tub of BEN 'N' JERRYS!!!!!

there's no point pretending now is there *sob sob* "

lol you do make me giggle..

enjoy the ice cream x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm too fat and too vanilla "

My favourite type of ice cream.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Because I am a mufc fan

Well that's understandable! "

TBH a few people have turned me down for this though I have still played eventually with them

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Because they thought I just had a very good tan and didn't realise I was actually mixed race...

LOL how funny- I've had similar - I sent a face pic and they said "sorry I didn't realise you weren't white"

So they were either racist or I'm really ugly

I take the stance that I'm just not as pretty as a white girl with a fake tan."

Made me laugh...

Natural exoticness is far sexier! Fuck them

Or rather don't, fuck someone more appreciative

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I can't eat ice cream so I'm doomed

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"I'm too fat and too vanilla "

Rubbish you're a yummy raspberry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just me and no one likes that :0(

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"I'm too fat and too vanilla "

As long as I can lick the vanilla from your boobs all is well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have not yet been rejected on this site .

Unless forum flirting counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having 3 meets in a space of just over a week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having 3 meets in a space of just over a week "

ah but its with the same person so dont count lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To many to list. But sod them! There lost in my eyes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't eat ice cream so I'm doomed "

Not even snowconut?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been given a reason.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Because I said I couldn't meet at that precise time .... I was a fucking liar ... and had a line iof guys waiting to fuck me... further torrents of abuse

I was actually at work ..

And yes I did report .... but he is still on here ... admin seem to favor guys .... keeping a balance ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really get given a reason, have just been blocked without the message even being read before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cute is dating someone! I'm heart broken, I'm going to go and sulk for an hour.

Fuck it, I'm going to have a whole tub of BEN 'N' JERRYS!!!!!

there's no point pretending now is there *sob sob*

lol you do make me giggle..

enjoy the ice cream x x "

Its strawberry cheesecake and man tears flavor, its not the best but it will do

*seriously I hope all goes well for you, I'm chuffed to bits for ya x*

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By *hy-totCouple
over a year ago

Skellow

there is only 1 we get that's were too ugly for fab

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Never had any really nasty ones most just say thank you but no thank you or not their type and I fully under stand that and it's fine

Buuttt

I have had random msges saying iam ugly or a freak or best one is iam not 26 I look about 40 lol

So now you know what fuck it iam going to be even more of a freak and enjoy it iam happy in my own skin

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I was out of their league.... Oh wait that's what I tell myself when I get a no thanks..

I can't remember the Last rejection (I'm old and forget things)...rare I send messages and recently they've just not responded.. see the reason above obviously..

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"most recent rejecection was because i dont like Ben & Jerrys..

"

Nah - if I've been rejected its because I'm not their type - which is fair enough! No-one is everyone's type! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always get told. Oh no offense im just not into asian guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they thought I just had a very good tan and didn't realise I was actually mixed race...

LOL how funny- I've had similar - I sent a face pic and they said "sorry I didn't realise you weren't white"

So they were either racist or I'm really ugly "

Must have been racist because with lips and body like that only a complete shit head Wld say ure ugly. Shits are only fr flushing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The End

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one no thanks and either had my messages deleted or read and no reply

C'est la vie

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