FabSwingers.com forum: How bad does it get for woman on here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it true that women receive hundreds of messages a day, and that's why most don't respond?

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Yeah it is lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Sometimes.

It's not the only reason for not responding.

Women who get photos on page 1 of hot pics can get over 1000 messages in 24 hrs.

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Is it true that women receive hundreds of messages a day, and that's why most don't respond?

I don't get hundreds maybe about 10 a day. I got my filters on

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Some, yes, I know one that gets anywhere between 100-300 PD. Depending whether she puts new pics up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it is, it is a buyers market lol.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Meet one and ask to see in her box...

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By *orthern_LaD96Man
over a year ago

BARROW-IN-FURNESS

Bet it can get really annoying at times, wouldn't mind it myself like haha

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Most women recieve between 5-10000 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it true that women receive hundreds of messages a day, and that's why most don't respond?

Some do, others may look at a profile then delete the message unread........

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Nope. I get 1 or 2 from whats left of the site I haven't blocked. I don't reply to most because I can't be arsed.

Next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get many messages to be fair. Even when I'm not filtered up to the eyeballs. But some women get 100's of messages.

It gets overwhelming. You reply to messages and then more come in and you reply to them but next thing you know you get stroppy messages for not replying.... vicious circle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can imagine it does get quite busy sometimes...there's always the message filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I got triple figures when I first joined. Now it's more Iike 5. I'm old news now and no one is interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i certainly dont receive hundreds a day,im old and fat..so its not the reason i dont reply to 99% of the ones i do receive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a lot of people don't believe us but it honestly gets crazy at times. Im still getting through mine after having enough putting my filters up this morning.

Most of the messages are repeated abuse messages off people that I've not spoken too

It does take the fun out of it sometimes

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink

343 unread messages. I usually hide my profile for this reason. Don't have my filters too strict as I chat to a variation of people from the forums on PM.

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By *orthern_LaD96Man
over a year ago

BARROW-IN-FURNESS

"Think I got triple figures when I first joined. Now it's more Iike 5. I'm old news now and no one is interested

Awe your not old, 27 isn't old and you've got a really good figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I got triple figures when I first joined. Now it's more Iike 5. I'm old news now and no one is interested

Awe your not old, 27 isn't old and you've got a really good figure "

Yeah but become part the furniture now. People want fresh meat lol

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

Been there so thought I'd block everyone this time so much better

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I can imagine it does get quite busy sometimes...there's always the message filters.

Yes, but bear in mind that if a woman replies to guys to say no thanks, she can't then use filters against them at a later date. Filters can cut down on new people messaging but will let anyone previously told no, continue to pester.

Blocking is the only sure way not to hear from people again.

And guys complain about being blocked "for no reason" too.

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By *orthern_LaD96Man
over a year ago

BARROW-IN-FURNESS

"Think I got triple figures when I first joined. Now it's more Iike 5. I'm old news now and no one is interested

Awe your not old, 27 isn't old and you've got a really good figure

Yeah but become part the furniture now. People want fresh meat lol "

Don't be silly, you're still fresh meat, 27 is young!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I got triple figures when I first joined. Now it's more Iike 5. I'm old news now and no one is interested

Awe your not old, 27 isn't old and you've got a really good figure

Yeah but become part the furniture now. People want fresh meat lol

Don't be silly, you're still fresh meat, 27 is young!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It gets overwhelming. You reply to messages and then more come in and you reply to them but next thing you know you get stroppy messages for not replying.... vicious circle."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message while the football is on fellas. Your chances of a reply go up by 0.33 of 1%

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Think I got triple figures when I first joined. Now it's more Iike 5. I'm old news now and no one is interested

Awe your not old, 27 isn't old and you've got a really good figure

Yeah but become part the furniture now. People want fresh meat lol

Don't be silly, you're still fresh meat, 27 is young!"

Fresh meat as in new on here, not as in young.

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By *orthern_LaD96Man
over a year ago

BARROW-IN-FURNESS

"Think I got triple figures when I first joined. Now it's more Iike 5. I'm old news now and no one is interested

Awe your not old, 27 isn't old and you've got a really good figure

Yeah but become part the furniture now. People want fresh meat lol

Don't be silly, you're still fresh meat, 27 is young!

Fresh meat as in new on here, not as in young."

Ah I get it now, sorry thought she meant young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been given control of two women's accounts in the past.....made me glad I have a cock and balls!

It's amazing how they keep up at all!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Think I got triple figures when I first joined. Now it's more Iike 5. I'm old news now and no one is interested

Awe your not old, 27 isn't old and you've got a really good figure

Yeah but become part the furniture now. People want fresh meat lol "

Some don't, some avoid them like the plague, we do..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been given control of two women's accounts in the past.....made me glad I have a cock and balls!

It's amazing how they keep up at all!

Do you have problems keeping it up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can imagine it does get quite busy sometimes...there's always the message filters.

Blocking is the only sure way not to hear from people again.

And guys complain about being blocked "for no reason" too."

Personally I think it's a massive flaw in the way the filters work. Should be an option to set to previously contacted too so it's stops this. But allow you past if you're friends.

It's our main reason for not replying to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been given control of two women's accounts in the past.....made me glad I have a cock and balls!

It's amazing how they keep up at all!

Do you have problems keeping it up?

You are insatiable today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been given control of two women's accounts in the past.....made me glad I have a cock and balls!

It's amazing how they keep up at all!

Do you have problems keeping it up?

I have a problem keeping it down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been given control of two women's accounts in the past.....made me glad I have a cock and balls!

It's amazing how they keep up at all!

Do you have problems keeping it up?

You are insatiable today

Just today?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been given control of two women's accounts in the past.....made me glad I have a cock and balls!

It's amazing how they keep up at all!

Do you have problems keeping it up?

I have a problem keeping it down "

Hehe -- need a helping hand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been given control of two women's accounts in the past.....made me glad I have a cock and balls!

It's amazing how they keep up at all!

Do you have problems keeping it up?

You are insatiable today

Just today?! "

Ok you are insatiable this year

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham

"343 unread messages. I usually hide my profile for this reason. Don't have my filters too strict as I chat to a variation of people from the forums on PM. "

I'm with you on this one Lady... I hide my profile most of the time for this reason and put on filters. It's nice to have a rest at times from all the constant messaging.

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham

"I've been given control of two women's accounts in the past.....made me glad I have a cock and balls!

It's amazing how they keep up at all!

It's most certainly mental

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Having seen first hand the differences between solo ladies and mens accounts after we recently set up separate solo profiles, I can only sympathise with the ladies for the amount of unsolicited (and in most cases rubbish) messages they receive, even with filters and blocks etc.

In the time since we've had the solo accounts (about 3 weeks) I think I've maybe had between 5 and 10 unsolicited messages in total - my partner gets around 40 or 50 a day (and I know that's relatively low compared to some).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been given control of two women's accounts in the past.....made me glad I have a cock and balls!

It's amazing how they keep up at all!

Do you have problems keeping it up?

I have a problem keeping it down

Hehe -- need a helping hand?"
m

Just a hand?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I can imagine it does get quite busy sometimes...there's always the message filters.

Blocking is the only sure way not to hear from people again.

And guys complain about being blocked "for no reason" too.

Personally I think it's a massive flaw in the way the filters work. Should be an option to set to previously contacted too so it's stops this. But allow you past if you're friends.

It's our main reason for not replying to people. "

Agreed, agreed and agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, it is, it is a buyers market lol."

Patience is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good filters, no unwanted messages, easier to perve undisturbed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think it's a massive flaw in the way the filters work. Should be an option to set to previously contacted too so it's stops this. But allow you past if you're friends.

It's our main reason for not replying to people. "

Exactly this

the site would be so much more enjoyable that way. Maybe allowing people that you've hotlisted to contact you too

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By *imky69Woman
over a year ago

heath hays

500 messages a day.

That consist of

250 d*ck pics a day

Hundreds of do you fancy a f*ck

50 will you suprise my bf by having sex with him

25 my husband wants to f*ck you but I won't be there

400 I want to do vile things to you

20 meet now for f*ck

50 were a couple but he wants others but I only do it to keep him happy

10 I just cum over your pics

20 I'm setting up a suprise for my bf where you suduce him

200 can I sit on your face

15 you do sex now or what

Welcome to my day on here lol and I'm sure it's the same for all the other girls X

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By *imky69Woman
over a year ago

heath hays

Personally I think it's a massive flaw in the way the filters work. Should be an option to set to previously contacted too so it's stops this. But allow you past if you're friends.

It's our main reason for not replying to people.

Exactly this

the site would be so much more enjoyable that way. Maybe allowing people that you've hotlisted to contact you too "

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