FabSwingers.com forum: face piks....?

By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

So sum do and sum don't have a face pik on show....

Sum hide Thar face so no 1 can see them or rekanize them off fab.

Ok that's fine.....

But to Thos hoo do have a face pik on show I have a quesjun.

Y do you have a face pik on show ?

For me its a fue things...

1 I see nuthing rong with it

2 its mor friendly in my vue

3 others can see wot I look like and i hope thay like wot thay see lol

4 if sumone from fab sees me out sumwrar thay mite stop and say hi...I hope lol

So Y do you have a face pik on show ??

And to Thos hoo hide y do you hide ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi yes we hide our faces because we have private lives and especially with the papers enjoying outing people . But of course will happily share if we are going to meet x by the way op I 2 am dyslexic and enjoy reading your posts xxxxxx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Mine is hidden,although I sometimes join in on 'face pic friday'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one up because I don't mind people knowing I'm on here. I can't really be 'outed' as I'm already out

there are no social or professional ramifications for me if I'm seen on here.

I imagine there are for some people though, folk with children etc might not want the local school head seeing them on here or whatever so I can see why it's easier for some to fly below the radar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't have full face pics in public because of our jobs (mostly Marc's). We are already recognizable enough being American.

However, I do sometimes put my half face pic up. I find that its a great way to get fewer messages and less interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine (but send to a select few

) as I don't want to be the one with snot all over my tear-filled face when I'm outed as a fan of liberal free sex by a newspaper, friends, colleagues, friends of my children etc like many on here, sadly and regrettably, have in the past.

This part of my life is relatively private and I want to keep it the way, but kudos to those happy to forego their anonymity in the public gallery of a freely available casual sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"However, I do sometimes put my half face pic up. I find that its a great way to get fewer messages and less interest.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I'll join in face pic Friday and am happy to send my pictures, but I won't make them public because of my job and I also have grown up children xx

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

There'd be no employment worries for me as I'm self employed ... my main concern is being recognised locally. Not about being ashamed as such, more about my privacy being disrespected if I was confronted in Tesco and maybe people not on the scene overhearing and staring. That said, I often do Face Pic Friday and every now and again will get brave and make my face public for a little while.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Hi yes we hide our faces because we have private lives and especially with the papers enjoying outing people . But of course will happily share if we are going to meet x by the way op I 2 am dyslexic and enjoy reading your posts xxxxxx

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

coz my face isn't classically beautiful, it's more like those rich fat peoples faces you see in old paintings from the reubenesque period.

so people might like it or not, if they don't at least there's no embarrassing going quiet at some point later on after chatting coz they won't even message me i reckon.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"We can't have full face pics in public because of our jobs (mostly Marc's). We are already recognizable enough being American.

However, I do sometimes put my half face pic up. I find that its a great way to get fewer messages and less interest.

your half face pic. I too find that I get fewer messages and less interest if I show any if mine. I can't have a face pic up because of my job either; I sometimes wish I could but it's just not common sense to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We can't have full face pics in public because of our jobs (mostly Marc's). We are already recognizable enough being American.

However, I do sometimes put my half face pic up. I find that its a great way to get fewer messages and less interest.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have already been outed to everyone that I know and my ex told my whole family so it makes little difference whether it's up or not. People are unlikely to approach me in costa anyway so I may as well own my 'outing'

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"coz my face isn't classically beautiful, it's more like those rich fat peoples faces you see in old paintings from the reubenesque period.

so people might like it or not, if they don't at least there's no embarrassing going quiet at some point later on after chatting coz they won't even message me i reckon."

Well im 1 that likes your face pik. And you got a loveley smile to.

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre

I keep mine hidden as I like my privacy , have offered to send one for face pic Friday before if anyone wanted so they could stick it to the front door to keep the burglars away tho

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I go through phases of putting mine up and taking it down. I'm not worries about being outed to friends as a few friends of mine are on here after my suggestion to join. As far as work is concerned, as long as I refrain or am discreet about fucking the pilots or CEOs who contact me they couldn't care less. I've sort of managed that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We keep ours hidden because on our previous profile I developed a stalker, "she" told me my neighbours names and where and when I shopped and how she wanted to kiss me or grope down the aisle in the shop!

We're happy to send face pics, and certainly aren't ashamed. I just don't want to be in the position where I'm scared whilst out shopping again.

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"coz my face isn't classically beautiful, it's more like those rich fat peoples faces you see in old paintings from the reubenesque period.

so people might like it or not, if they don't at least there's no embarrassing going quiet at some point later on after chatting coz they won't even message me i reckon.

Well im 1 that likes your face pik. And you got a loveley smile to."

wasn't fishing for compliments but nice of you to say so, thanks.

yeah a smile helps any face too i reckon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face peeps out every now and then but I only have it as my avatar rarely. A face avatar generates extra messages etc and I can't be arsed with the admin.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Ours are up as family know, most friends know, as a pagan and only really having work friends or pagan friends we find them more open and most are interested to hear about how we are doing, Most have the typical "No sex please we're British" or "Keys in the fruitbowl" ideas on swinging though and are quite surprised when we tell them otherwise

Also H's distinctive hair is difficult not to get in pics and before we did put face pics up we were messaged that she'd been spotted. We get at least one message a week most are respectful just the odd crap one from no pic, no veri wank... but we just block them.

Get the odd smile & nod at the shops too, doesn't bother us as said, no one has approached us yet, which is fine by us..

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

My face pic is always visible, I have nothing to hide, I'm single with grown up children, if people can't accept that a woman enjoys recreational sex that's their problem not mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers are filthy sexshaggers. I don't want people thinking I am one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kids simples

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Lots of mixed vues .......

And a small patton to.....

Hide pik cos of

Job

Kids

Famley

Show pik cos...

as a filter

try for a random social meet wen out

Wood like mor vues.....

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Plain and simple my job. I have a code of conduct to abide by and being on here breaches that in their eyes.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Lots of mixed vues .......

And a small patton to.....

Hide pik cos of

Job

Kids

Famley

Show pik cos...

as a filter

try for a random social meet wen out

Not worried about hoo nows

Wood like mor vues....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not stolen a good enough pic online that I want to use yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I to am dyslexic find it refeshing to do be able to not have my opinion billitled due to poor spelling or grammar (nice people of fab)

If I was in a differnt job where I had to maintain a proffecional roll I probs wouldn't, but as it is. I'm quite happy to show my face.

I have a pretty cock but it's there eyes thatle getcha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just trolling but as your profile is blocked just wanna say love your profile especially the age range

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I'm just trolling but as your profile is blocked just wanna say love your profile especially the age range

Mine ant blocked is it ????

Can you be a bit mor pursifik.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be talking about me. I think I've blocked dudes

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Could be talking about me. I think I've blocked dudes "

No its not you I just had a look and its not blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And your not blocked! Was that the troll? Lol

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"And your not blocked! Was that the troll? Lol"

No mine is ment to be on show.

Just gon throw evey post and Thar is 1 post hoo had a blocked/hiddon profile.

Anyway back to the tether subject.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Lots of mixed vues .......

And a small patton to.....

Hide pik cos of

Job

Kids

Famley

Show pik cos...

as a filter

try for a random social meet wen out

Not worried about hoo nows

Wood like mor vues....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes spot people off here and I assume I'm quite reconisable . I've never had anyone aproach me about it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just trolling but as your profile is blocked just wanna say love your profile especially the age range

If you use the reply + quote button people will know which post/ person you are referring to.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I'm just trolling but as your profile is blocked just wanna say love your profile especially the age range

If you use the reply + quote button people will know which post/ person you are referring to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am quite shy so I hide it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm one of those girls with a shit body but alright face... Hence having face pictures up. Plus, I'm not too bothered if someone sees me on here. I'm pretty open about it all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal and professional reasons.

But I also quite like the fact I can take and display photos here which I wouldn't get to share anywhere else.

And I don't find it a problem anyway, as my face is better than my body. If I can get them past the body, I'm confident I wouldn't be turned down on the basis of my face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personal and professional reasons.

But I also quite like the fact I can take and display photos here which I wouldn't get to share anywhere else.

And I don't find it a problem anyway, as my face is better than my body. If I can get them past the body, I'm confident I wouldn't be turned down on the basis of my face. "

It's funny how we look at our own bodies. To me, you have a fabulous one.

I always send a full body one to anyone I might meet expecting them to say "no thank you".

I think we're probably way too hard on ourselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just trolling but as your profile is blocked just wanna say love your profile especially the age range

If you use the reply + quote button people will know which post/ person you are referring to.

I should already know that self dick head here I'll edit !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My face pic is always visible, I have nothing to hide, I'm single with grown up children, if people can't accept that a woman enjoys recreational sex that's their problem not mine

I'm just trolling but as your profile is blocked just wanna say love your profile especially the age range

That was meant for you hahahaha sparked a whole mini thread !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told "If I had a face like yours I'd teach my arse to speak" - so I let my arse do the talking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personal and professional reasons.

But I also quite like the fact I can take and display photos here which I wouldn't get to share anywhere else.

And I don't find it a problem anyway, as my face is better than my body. If I can get them past the body, I'm confident I wouldn't be turned down on the basis of my face.

It's funny how we look at our own bodies. To me, you have a fabulous one.

I always send a full body one to anyone I might meet expecting them to say "no thank you".

I think we're probably way too hard on ourselves! "

I was thinking about this the other day about how we feel were supposed to look one way and all not pick at ourselves, but as we know (as swingers etc) better than most people we all come in differnt shapes and sizes. What one considers 4 is someone elses 8. I wish it was easyer for us to accept our flaws then we all might be happier with our lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hide because we are both in very public jobs and it would be frowned upon if we were seen on here. Also fab and swinging to us is a once every so often thing it's not something we want impacting on our lives

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Personal and professional reasons.

But I also quite like the fact I can take and display photos here which I wouldn't get to share anywhere else.

And I don't find it a problem anyway, as my face is better than my body. If I can get them past the body, I'm confident I wouldn't be turned down on the basis of my face.

It's funny how we look at our own bodies. To me, you have a fabulous one.

I always send a full body one to anyone I might meet expecting them to say "no thank you".

I think we're probably way too hard on ourselves!

Well sed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have already been outed to everyone that I know and my ex told my whole family so it makes little difference whether it's up or not. People are unlikely to approach me in costa anyway so I may as well own my 'outing'"

Lol. Sorry about that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have clear face pics on here as we both have jobs we'd rather keep.

And also because you get some abusive and creepy people on fab. Would rather not be harassed by those types whilst out and about in public.

Also because swinging is a small part of our lives so when we aren't meeting we'd rather get on with our normal lives than be spotted by every fab user, and we like our privacy.

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