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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So walking into work today I was talking to another employee who is far my superior but I get on well with. We were talking about how she's having problems with her legs and then she looked at me and said she needs a handsome young man to massage her ass....

Am I looking into this too much. Am I just being neive and stupid because I've been thinking about that ass all day

Ps. She's about 20 years older than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So walking into work today I was talking to another employee who is far my superior but I get on well with. We were talking about how she's having problems with her legs and then she looked at me and said she needs a handsome young man to massage her ass....

Am I looking into this too much. Am I just being neive and stupid because I've been thinking about that ass all day

Ps. She's about 20 years older than me "

Get that arse massaged!! Don't hang about she might find someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't read too much into work based banter and flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it certainly fits with your older woman fantasy (green arrow) but my advice? Don't go there - she has the ability to make your work life a misery if things go wrong.

If this was a male senior colleague saying this to a 20 yo female junior employee then imagine the outrage!

Inappropriate and unprofessional of her!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Probably best to not go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The shocker is a good massaging technique

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

go for it, will solve the problem on your other thread about losing your virginity

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

She should know better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go there. No ass is worth the fallout in a workplace environment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha some very mixed opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is not your superior,,,,

No-one is your superior ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha some very mixed opinions"

Think of it this way. Do you like your job or not? If yes, stay away. If not, you have nothing to loose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there's... anything else I can help with, just let me know"

But mixing business and pleasure is always a bad idea IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""If there's... anything else I can help with, just let me know"

But mixing business and pleasure is always a bad idea IMO.

"

That depends on what your job involves I would say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks people. Guess she's just gonna remain one hell of a fantasy for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure you heard right?

She might have said she needs someone to message her lass?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She pointed and said right there

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"So walking into work today I was talking to another employee who is far my superior but I get on well with. We were talking about how she's having problems with her legs and then she looked at me and said she needs a handsome young man to massage her ass....

Am I looking into this too much. Am I just being neive and stupid because I've been thinking about that ass all day

Ps. She's about 20 years older than me "

I'm sorry to be the voice of reason here op but its a work environment and If I was you I'd forget about the whole incident because trust me no good will come out of it .

if you ignore this advice so be it but trust me no good will come on you pissing in your own bed .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She pointed and said right there"

Well if that's true then that's a sexual harassment case you have right there my friend! Get your solicitor on it, imagine the £££ compensation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She pointed and said right there

Well if that's true then that's a sexual harassment case you have right there my friend! Get your solicitor on it, imagine the £££ compensation! "

It's just his word against hers. Nothing would come of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So walking into work today I was talking to another employee who is far my superior but I get on well with. We were talking about how she's having problems with her legs and then she looked at me and said she needs a handsome young man to massage her ass....

Am I looking into this too much. Am I just being neive and stupid because I've been thinking about that ass all day

Ps. She's about 20 years older than me

I'm sorry to be the voice of reason here op but its a work environment and If I was you I'd forget about the whole incident because trust me no good will come out of it .

if you ignore this advice so be it but trust me no good will come on you pissing in your own bed . "

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Can I have her number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She pointed and said right there

Well if that's true then that's a sexual harassment case you have right there my friend! Get your solicitor on it, imagine the £££ compensation!

It's just his word against hers. Nothing would come of it."

Think of all the other young impressionable lads that she might be doing this too as well though! People that may be intimidated by her position and seniority and in fear for their jobs!

Nothing may come of it but it might send a warning shot across the bow of a potential corporate sexual predator! Or is it only men that can abuse their position!?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"So walking into work today I was talking to another employee who is far my superior but I get on well with. We were talking about how she's having problems with her legs and then she looked at me and said she needs a handsome young man to massage her ass....

Am I looking into this too much. Am I just being neive and stupid because I've been thinking about that ass all day

Ps. She's about 20 years older than me "

what was your response to what she said?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I kinda just laughed ot off

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Do you want to keep working there?

If yes then leave her arse alone.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I kinda just laughed ot off"

possibly blown it then..

even now someone could be massaging merrily away..

any of your other colleagues tomorrow have a jaunty air and a spring in their step, could be them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She pointed and said right there

Well if that's true then that's a sexual harassment case you have right there my friend! Get your solicitor on it, imagine the £££ compensation!

It's just his word against hers. Nothing would come of it.

Think of all the other young impressionable lads that she might be doing this too as well though! People that may be intimidated by her position and seniority and in fear for their jobs!

Nothing may come of it but it might send a warning shot across the bow of a potential corporate sexual predator! Or is it only men that can abuse their position!?

"

Margaret Thatcher the milk snatcher

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Trust me.. It always goes sour..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's flirting that's all she's doing , enjoy it for what it is .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's flirting that's all she's doing , enjoy it for what it is . "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never a good idea to mix business and pleasure. It rarely ends well. Ever heard of the saying 'don't shit where you eat' OP? Besides, it could genuinely have been a tongue in cheek comment, not necessarily a come on.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Slip her a double at the Christmas party and see how she reacts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go into her office tomorrow butt-naked except for a spinning bow-tie, carrying a bottle of baby oil.

You'll soon know, one way or another

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"She pointed and said right there

Well if that's true then that's a sexual harassment case you have right there my friend! Get your solicitor on it, imagine the £££ compensation! "

That is interesting though, isn't it? Even I was about to simply tell the OP just to treat it as a bit of fun, and yet, if the sexes were reversed...

It makes one wonder, is it sexist to assume that a 20yr old woman needs the full weight of an Industrial Tribunal behind her, whereas a man is expected just to be able to deal with it himself?

.

OP: I had something similar (though more extreme) when I was 18, with the wife of the couple who took me in. She enjoyed the attention, as did I, and she was safe in the knowledge that I was too shy to ever do anything about it.

I suspect this woman considers you to be the same.

Mr ddc

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Haha some very mixed opinions

Think of it this way. Do you like your job or not? If yes, stay away. If not, you have nothing to loose."

I totally agree with this

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

Christmas is coming up.

Test the waters again when you are both under the influence at the Xmas party

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