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By *pforfun1234562016 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Why do some people send a wink but no message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shyness?

Maybe they hope you'll make the first move?

A slip of the finger?

Many many more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shows interest, and maybe seeing if that interest is mutual before sending a long message?

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"Shyness?

Maybe they hope you'll make the first move?

A slip of the finger?

Many many more..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shows interest, and maybe seeing if that interest is mutual before sending a long message?"
(Kat) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shows interest, and maybe seeing if that interest is mutual before sending a long message?"

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Why do some people send a wink but no message"

Laziness....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people send a wink but no message"

Lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *tevelizCouple
over a year ago

northampton


"Why do some people send a wink but no message"

sometimes send to friends just to say am on line

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think some see it as a way to catch your eye, kinda like smiling across a room.

Except guys, here the room is really crowded, and we can't see you past the thronging multitudes. I don't have time to check my winks - I don't have time to reply to all the messages, never mind see who's winked at me.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Why do some people send a wink but no message"

because they can partition the site to take away that ability if you want or just learn to live with the odd wink the choice is yours ether way I think you will find winks are here to stay .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes do, just to see if that person will check out my profile. If they do, I might follow up with a message. Just sucks to get a message deleted and no reply

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By *oodbuddy 51Man
over a year ago

Puerto Rico, Gran Canaria


"I sometimes do, just to see if that person will check out my profile. If they do, I might follow up with a message. Just sucks to get a message deleted and no reply"

Agree if wink is returned I follow up with a message

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I ignore most winks, they just confuse me. Would much rather have a short message. Especially if it's from a couple xxxxx xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only got wink from blank profile so its bit odd what they expect me to do.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Testing the waters. I don't see a problem with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Showing an interest without being intrusive or sending a message to get no reply ?? If I get a wink back I'll usually make the effort to send a message

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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

When I wink it's because I'm looking and I'm liking so I'll send a quick "ey up" wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually delete winks without even looking through them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend not to wink.

We respond to winks with a wink back if we are interested and then wait to see of its followed up with a message. Mostly it isn't so I don't see the point.

If we are interested in a couple we will message them.

Mr

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Why do some people send a wink but no message"

Mabey cos thay like the look of a profile/pik or both but are to shy and nervures to send a private message. Mabey ????

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Testing the waters. I don't see a problem with it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like a profile I'll send them a wink it's not been lazy. Just think it's a way to catch someone's attention without sending a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont even look at winks ...normally clear them but havent done in a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send a wink to save the hours spent refreshing my sent messages so that the second my message is read or deleted I can bombard them with insults for not replying...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winking is not lazy. Copying and pasting messages is lazy. Hand crafting a whitty tailoured message is pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people send a wink but no message"

I read under the lines and will message you now love

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