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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would you do if your children found out you swing,

Fem friend I have played with daughter read our sexy texts oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if your children found out you swing,

Fem friend I have played with daughter read our sexy texts oops"

1. Not much you can do.

2. If you friend didn't want her daughter to find out why did she let her get the phone, or deleted the messages or have a lock on the phone x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep bit late now .

Been a while ago now .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is the better part of valour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Answer them thay this is my life choice.. would depend on the age I suppose...

All of mine over 18 know seeing as I got outed.. but wouldn't have opted to tell them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Answer them thay this is my life choice.. would depend on the age I suppose...

All of mine over 18 know seeing as I got outed.. but wouldn't have opted to tell them.

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Just out of interest what was their reaction? If you don't mind me asking of course

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When i had my other television my son was connecting my tablet to it.

And up popped fab in all its glory full screen and as he was talking to me he was reading it all

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid


"When i had my other television my son was connecting my tablet to it.

And up popped fab in all its glory full screen and as he was talking to me he was reading it all "

Fuck, so you've outed ALL of us to him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Answer them thay this is my life choice.. would depend on the age I suppose...

All of mine over 18 know seeing as I got outed.. but wouldn't have opted to tell them.

Just out of interest what was their reaction? If you don't mind me asking of course "

My oldest son was outraged and horrified... My oldest daughter did it herself anyway.. my other older one dont care as long as I am safe. The younger ones thankfully were too young to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Answer them thay this is my life choice.. would depend on the age I suppose...

All of mine over 18 know seeing as I got outed.. but wouldn't have opted to tell them.

Just out of interest what was their reaction? If you don't mind me asking of course

My oldest son was outraged and horrified... My oldest daughter did it herself anyway.. my other older one dont care as long as I am safe. The younger ones thankfully were too young to know.

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Mixed reaction then I guess it's just the shock factor that would kick in initially...can't believe somebody outed you though that's a real sad act that is

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"When i had my other television my son was connecting my tablet to it.

And up popped fab in all its glory full screen and as he was talking to me he was reading it all

Fuck, so you've outed ALL of us to him?"
ha ha, i guess so but not to worry hes not a journalist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughter found out. She didn't even care haha. Just told me to be safe.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

My kids are married with kids of their own...I doubt they'd care...probably think mum's off her flipping trolley!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My kids are married with kids of their own...I doubt they'd care...probably think mum's off her flipping trolley! "

Good for you

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

my oldest kids know..they are in thier twenties, my teen knows i date non exclusively, like my parents and anyone else who asks about my 'love' life. my youngest knows i go out to parties and meet up with friends. i have open and truthful relationship with people because i respect them and i think sex is natural, not some dirty secret...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My daughter found out. She didn't even care haha. Just told me to be safe. "

Fair play to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my oldest kids know..they are in thier twenties, my teen knows i date non exclusively, like my parents and anyone else who asks about my 'love' life. my youngest knows i go out to parties and meet up with friends. i have open and truthful relationship with people because i respect them and i think sex is natural, not some dirty secret..."

Yes, love that reply that's a great outlook to have on the topic

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Our eldest daughter knows - she worked it out for herself (helped by the fact we've been with 2 or 3 of the same women), younger daughter probably knows, we never hid the fact we had girlfriends.

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Flipping it round, my dad knows I do. He just tells me to wrap it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both my sons know, they're adults and they don't have a problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flipping it round, my dad knows I do. He just tells me to wrap it up. "
my dad knows too... He used to pop along to kestrals on occassion.. we know but wouldn't discuss it.

His current gf is only a few years older than me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All our kids know about our alternative lifestyle and that were naturist ! There 19 27 and 31 they thinks it's ok to be honest .

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

My kids are not quite old enough to understand about sexuality but I'm honest with them. They know Dick and I see friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flipping it round, my dad knows I do. He just tells me to wrap it up. my dad knows too... He used to pop along to kestrals on occassion.. we know but wouldn't discuss it.

His current gf is only a few years older than me x "

He sounds legendary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more of the replies I read I can't help thinking what a shame it is that this stuff is still so "taboo"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even flipping it around again have any of you guys bumped into your kids friends while at clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our kids are still both young 13 and 10 so they don't have a clue and nor does anyone else in our family xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even flipping it around again have any of you guys bumped into your kids friends while at clubs? "
yup.. hence we dont go to the attic now... also bumped into a couple that had spoken to my dad at kestrals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughter 17 thinks it's ' skanky'...my son 11 knows I meet men for drinks and company as I don't want a boyfriend. He doesn't say much...my 70 year old mother thinks it's fan fooking tastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My daughter 17 thinks it's ' skanky'...my son 11 knows I meet men for drinks and company as I don't want a boyfriend. He doesn't say much...my 70 year old mother thinks it's fan fooking tastic"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be mortified to be honest. There's some things you just do not want your children to know or find out

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"My daughter 17 thinks it's ' skanky'...my son 11 knows I meet men for drinks and company as I don't want a boyfriend. He doesn't say much...my 70 year old mother thinks it's fan fooking tastic"

Introduce her to Papi...

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Even flipping it around again have any of you guys bumped into your kids friends while at clubs? "

No but have bumped in to family friends. We just stayed clear of each other's play and have a cheeky giggle at parties about it now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 32 and think folks are suspicious as I have a better social life than when I did in my 20's so have to constantly make up excuses/cover stories.

I'd love to be able to say it but don't think it would go down well.

My brothers and sisters are all late 20's up so I know word would get round.

I had been considering telling a friend whom I think is open minded and would keep it to herself but our mum's know each other, so undecided. Ironically, she's been texting mutual friend whom I know swings (he knows I do) and so he might tell her about him first..!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"My daughter 17 thinks it's ' skanky'...my son 11 knows I meet men for drinks and company as I don't want a boyfriend. He doesn't say much...my 70 year old mother thinks it's fan fooking tastic

Introduce her to Papi..."

Nearly choked on my coffee. Quality.

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