FabSwingers.com forum: Can I ask a favour plz?

By *each_Pitt OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Ok I seem to repel the opposite sex ... and the same sex too if am honest.

If I send you a face pic will you give me an honest answer and tell me am I as hideously ugly as I think I am or just generally unattractive. I think its time I knew what is so off putting about me.

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

"Ok I seem to repel the opposite sex ... and the same sex too if am honest.

If I send you a face pic will you give me an honest answer and tell me am I as hideously ugly as I think I am or just generally unattractive. I think its time I knew what is so off putting about me.

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you really want an honest opinion, send me a face pic. I am brutally honest though.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Brave! That's not something I would ever do

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Feel free but your profile say not meeting so this could be the issue.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

This sounds like another look at me thread

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By *rishman75Man
over a year ago

Chessington/epsom

Ok ill give you a honest opinion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can already see some nice features but lets see

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By *each_Pitt OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"This sounds like another look at me thread"

Thats exactly what it is. Lol.

Id appreciate the feedback tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This sounds like another look at me thread"

No harm done

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By *each_Pitt OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Feel free but your profile say not meeting so this could be the issue."

I have been meeting recently but I mean in everyday life I'd like to know how I rate looks wise.

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By *tuart05Man
over a year ago

wallingford

"Ok I seem to repel the opposite sex ... and the same sex too if am honest.

If I send you a face pic will you give me an honest answer and tell me am I as hideously ugly as I think I am or just generally unattractive. I think its time I knew what is so off putting about me.

I'm sure you are more attractive than you think - it's all about personal taste and preference

Send a pic x

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY

"Ok I seem to repel the opposite sex ... and the same sex too if am honest.

If I send you a face pic will you give me an honest answer and tell me am I as hideously ugly as I think I am or just generally unattractive. I think its time I knew what is so off putting about me.

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Yes and I will be totally honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Panic over. She's very attractive.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I will give honest feedback.

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

fylde

Look at me is fair enough.

I'll take a peep op.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Go ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it , honest reply here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Scottish......shakes head emoji..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peach, I sent you a message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes go on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This sounds like another look at me thread

No harm done

Yep! Well spotted there. What with the OP asking to be looked at. I nearly missed it

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

You're very brave OP but will surely get 101 different answers from anyone you send it to. Looks/beauty are completely subjective..."beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and all that.

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By *each_Pitt OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Thankyou so much ... am sending pix now.

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By *otts67Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY

Definitely panic over she is extremely pretty needs to smile more but that's just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is not what people say you are

(how "great" or how "bad" you look ..)

It starts from how you feel, how you go on to ooze confidence , how you showcase your good points .

You might be the perfect peach in the bowl but someone will always prefer an apple .... Beauty starts with your mind Xx

Jo X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

still awaiting your picture x

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

"Definitely panic over she is extremely pretty needs to smile more but that's just my opinion."

I agree with this.

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By *each_Pitt OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Thankyou all so much for the replies.

Will try to lose the resting bitch face and smile more.

Might be how I come across so I'll have to try and work on that too.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Go ahead "

I didn't get sent one.

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By *enny79TV/TS
over a year ago

chesterfield

Go on send it me I'll give u my honest opinion

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Ok I seem to repel the opposite sex ... and the same sex too if am honest.

If I send you a face pic will you give me an honest answer and tell me am I as hideously ugly as I think I am or just generally unattractive. I think its time I knew what is so off putting about me

It's pointless though. Attraction and beauty is in the eye of the beholder so any opinion from anyone here will only reflect if they find you attractive, not if you actually are if you are using media standards to measure it by.

If you are finding yourself rejected, it's more likely to be how you perceive yourself.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"This sounds like another look at me thread"

I so hope that's deliberate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send away x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pic isn't great...

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By *ikeAvalirMan
over a year ago

somewhere different

"Ok I seem to repel the opposite sex ... and the same sex too if am honest.

If I send you a face pic will you give me an honest answer and tell me am I as hideously ugly as I think I am or just generally unattractive. I think its time I knew what is so off putting about me.

Send me a face pic then. I'll give an honest opinion!

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

"You're very brave OP but will surely get 101 different answers from anyone you send it to. Looks/beauty are completely subjective..."beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and all that."

Also. Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel free to send a face pic however I don't think that is the problem, I think it is possible it your profile saying you arent meeting which could be putting people off

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Always happy to add my 2p's worth. Send away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This sounds like another look at me thread

No harm done

Yep! Well spotted there. What with the OP asking to be looked at. I nearly missed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LoL the ego is a terrible thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No Scottish......shakes head emoji.."

why not? folk often set racial preferences on profiles. I've never seen no Scottish before though. It's kinda refreshing and made me smile a bit when I read it.

I was born Scottish though you'd never know to talk to me..wonder if that would be permissable?

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Hey what's wrong with Scottish people.. im lovely! However I respect everyone's preferences.

OP there is someone for everyone and what people find attractive varies so much. Attraction and beauty is so individual.

I think that you come over as a bit angry in your profile text and its quite negative. I think that you're not then going to encourage positive interactions.

I wish you well and hope you find what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send it to me. X

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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

If you're ugly then being told it won't help. Make the most out of the features you like.

Sort the profile out too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No Scottish......shakes head emoji.."

Can't see why that's a problem, it's her preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IMO if you don't think much of yourself personally, then no one else will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're ugly then being told it won't help. Make the most out of the features you like.

Sort the profile out too. "

Careful...OP didn't ask for profile help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"IMO if you don't think much of yourself personally, then no one else will

Agreed. I know i am wonderful. Not too bothered about what others think

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"If I send you a face pic will you give me an honest answer and tell me am I as hideously ugly as I think I am or just generally unattractive. I think its time I knew what is so off putting about me.

Since the general consensus is already that you're fine, perhaps it's something else.

Send me a pic of your foof and I'll happily check that out...

Mr ddc

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

"Ok I seem to repel the opposite sex ... and the same sex too if am honest.

If I send you a face pic will you give me an honest answer and tell me am I as hideously ugly as I think I am or just generally unattractive. I think its time I knew what is so off putting about me.

Be confident in yourself babe ,don't ever put yourself down

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

I'll have a pic please.

I'll be gentle.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

You're gorgeous OP!

Even when you smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I seem to repel the opposite sex ... and the same sex too if am honest.

If I send you a face pic will you give me an honest answer and tell me am I as hideously ugly as I think I am or just generally unattractive. I think its time I knew what is so off putting about me.

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. From your half face pic you look pretty !!

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