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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men can sometimes be selfish that way lol but then there's other that like to satisfy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there wankers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol or just users

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yh that also ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always make sure your intimate partner/partners can 1st before you do not all men are selfish dicks...sex is a 2 way enjoyment role play so all about BOTH getting the most out of a fun experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because there wankers lol "

I hear you lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all guys like him tho me myself works both ways the better the blow job make sure she satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"

Selfish? Maybe.

Wankers is a good analogy. Only pleasuring themselves.

I'd say the majority are not selfish. Or at least that's what they all say on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"

We dont find that at all.

The guys we meet are always keen for all of us to have pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adam loves to see me writhing in pleasure so he is a very attentive lover. I can only hope that any future male playmates have the same disposition. Nothing worse than a selfish lover.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple girls just make sure you get what you want first lol if they diliver then return the favour x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to admit more men i have played with have been selfish that unselfish...

and that goes for couples too.... I just think I've been unlucky cause i know how much effort Si pus into pleasing another woman he plays with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I can relate.

If you want something doing properly do it yourself or go and find a better fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot men tend to give it a good talk saying they do this and that lol but I bet most men don't do what they say lol anyone ever talked the talk and actually perform it

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Some men need to be shown what to do at first, we get pleasure in different ways.

Think of it like being at work, if your staff can't do the job you do some training, if they still can't do it you take them out to the carpark for a good shoeing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've rarely had this luckily. I'm of the 'ladies first' mentality. Get me off, and I'll get you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understood this mentality. For me giving my partner pleasure is one of the biggest turn ons there is. Watching them and lowing it's me that's doing that to them is an amazing feeling.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?

Selfish? Maybe.

Wankers is a good analogy. Only pleasuring themselves.

I'd say the majority are not selfish. Or at least that's what they all say on here.

"

How many times have I read a guy's profile where he states that 'your pleasure is my priority', yet once you have finished the meet, you realise that it was just a line to get you in the sack. You don't have to meet him again, but it's still frustrating at the lies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men are just lazy, lie back and let the woman do it all ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't that rape one sided sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't that rape one sided sex"
dnt understand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men are just lazy, lie back and let the woman do it all ... "

I like to be sucked but after I love to take charge and dominate that ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's sad, I make it my pleasure to see a woman pleasured. There's nothing more thrilling for me than watching a woman's face/body react to what I do.

Lady's first, true gentleman;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men are just lazy, lie back and let the woman do it all ...

I like to be sucked but after I love to take charge and dominate that ass"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk is cheap lol that's for all the men aswel if you can't deliver everything you say basically don't lie lol I love doing everything I say! Always have fun and satisfied first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't that rape one sided sexdnt understand? "

Well it takes two to have sex surely if it's only one sided it's rape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because there wankers lol

I hear you lol!"

I agree with this I'm a wanker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men are just lazy, lie back and let the woman do it all ...

I like to be sucked but after I love to take charge and dominate that ass "

Preston near Manchester?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't that rape one sided sexdnt understand?

Well it takes two to have sex surely if it's only one sided it's rape"

The debate was about men being selfish lol there no raping

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't think it's a majority of men at all. Maybe you should look at the type of men you've been meeting and consider that might be causing it? Women can be just as selfish in bed. If it doesn't look like the other is reciprocal, why would you take it further?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't that rape one sided sexdnt understand?

Well it takes two to have sex surely if it's only one sided it's rape"

Rape is non consensual sex, not selfish sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"

Like to think im the opposite...i like to look for certain reactions and use them to my advantage...if i cum first i dont expect to come again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's a majority of men at all. Maybe you should look at the type of men you've been meeting and consider that might be causing it? Women can be just as selfish in bed. If it doesn't look like the other is reciprocal, why would you take it further? "

Women can be selfish too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just good manners to get the lady off first! Plus then she's happy and more relaxed for everything that follows...

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

We're back to the 'I always make sure the woman cums first' thing again.

Some never cum

Some hate the determination in trying

Some hate the pressure

Some only cum once

Some only come once and are then done

Some are not focused entirely on cumming and want to enjoy the whole thing.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I've rarely had this luckily. I'm of the 'ladies first' mentality. Get me off, and I'll get you off "

With me it goes like this I will get you off again and again because I'm bloody selfish and totally insatiable in my need to find limits during that fun i will be daring you to try and bring me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're back to the 'I always make sure the woman cums first' thing again.

Some never cum

Some hate the determination in trying

Some hate the pressure

Some only cum once

Some only come once and are then done

Some are not focused entirely on cumming and want to enjoy the whole thing.

"

Forplay first always never just rush into it seen few 2 pump heroes

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I'm not joining this white knight-fest, but just did a double take and have to go and check a green arrow...

carry on

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"We're back to the 'I always make sure the woman cums first' thing again.

Some never cum

Some hate the determination in trying

Some hate the pressure

Some only cum once

Some only come once and are then done

Some are not focused entirely on cumming and want to enjoy the whole thing.

Forplay first always never just rush into it seen few 2 pump heroes "

You seem to have been around a huge amount of shagging people to make all those observations. Anyway, my post wasn't about foreplay, it's about some men's perception that women MUST cum first.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm not joining this white knight-fest, but just did a double take and have to go and check a green arrow...

carry on"

It's enlightening, isn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no idea, I enjoy myself but its all about her pleasure and what I can do to her for me, and I can be dominant and still be like that so thats no excuse. Its a huge ego boost why wouldnt you want that, giving her an amazing time and having her tell you how good it was and wanting to see you again, thats all im bothered about

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

I promise nothing , everything else is a bonus ! Win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After giving a lass a good energetic,deep,hard thrusting fuck I do sometimes like to be lazy n one sided,with some nice relaxing sex while lying on our sides spooning!

Has to be the left side though which is what makes it one sided.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can relate.

If you want something doing properly do it yourself or go and find a better fuck "

This was my response too lol ..self addressed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?

Selfish? Maybe.

Wankers is a good analogy. Only pleasuring themselves.

I'd say the majority are not selfish. Or at least that's what they all say on here.

How many times have I read a guy's profile where he states that 'your pleasure is my priority', yet once you have finished the meet, you realise that it was just a line to get you in the sack. You don't have to meet him again, but it's still frustrating at the lies. "

Yes this really is the truth!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think it's a majority of men at all. Maybe you should look at the type of men you've been meeting and consider that might be causing it? Women can be just as selfish in bed. If it doesn't look like the other is reciprocal, why would you take it further? "

To be fair we have met on a number of occasions but this was a first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple girls just make sure you get what you want first lol if they diliver then return the favour x"

I'm going to try this from now on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men need to be shown what to do at first, we get pleasure in different ways.

Think of it like being at work, if your staff can't do the job you do some training, if they still can't do it you take them out to the carpark for a good shoeing."

I'm loving this analogy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's a majority of men at all. Maybe you should look at the type of men you've been meeting and consider that might be causing it? Women can be just as selfish in bed. If it doesn't look like the other is reciprocal, why would you take it further?

To be fair we have met on a number of occasions but this was a first "

Hate it when some become complacent... Just because they have met you more than once, doesn't mean they can start being all out for themselves . I would have thought more often would mean even more exploring and pushing boundaries...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not joining this white knight-fest, but just did a double take and have to go and check a green arrow...

carry on

It's enlightening, isn't it."

I don't understand?

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham

Selfish man by sounds of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think it's a majority of men at all. Maybe you should look at the type of men you've been meeting and consider that might be causing it? Women can be just as selfish in bed. If it doesn't look like the other is reciprocal, why would you take it further?

To be fair we have met on a number of occasions but this was a first

Hate it when some become complacent... Just because they have met you more than once, doesn't mean they can start being all out for themselves . I would have thought more often would mean even more exploring and pushing boundaries... "

Exactly! Was not cool....won't happen again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we let them.

For some men, and I think there's evidence on this thread, it's all about the blow job. Give her a quick orgasm and then I can lay back and enjoy having my cock sucked for ages, seems to be quite common. The trick is to not suck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Selfish man by sounds of it "

Thats the nice way of putting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it."

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have lazy days, so sometimes I do more than my men. If it became a regular occurrence I would say something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving. "

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's a really unfair assessment of the men on here. Certainly it hasn't been my experience that the majority were like that. I can only think of one or two I've met who it even slightly resembles. It takes two to tango, and generally when I've had crap sex I've been equally responsible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think that's a really unfair assessment of the men on here. Certainly it hasn't been my experience that the majority were like that. I can only think of one or two I've met who it even slightly resembles. It takes two to tango, and generally when I've had crap sex I've been equally responsible. "

Apparently I 'turned him on too much' lol.

I agree maybe it was unfair to generalise (this was me at my frustrated stage ) but has happened before with other meets and is off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that's a really unfair assessment of the men on here. Certainly it hasn't been my experience that the majority were like that. I can only think of one or two I've met who it even slightly resembles. It takes two to tango, and generally when I've had crap sex I've been equally responsible.

Apparently I 'turned him on too much' lol.

I agree maybe it was unfair to generalise (this was me at my frustrated stage ) but has happened before with other meets and is off putting "
non of my business but could he not waited a bit till he was ready again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral. "

Because they are gay men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men. "

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight. "

They have no inclination towards licking a woman, so they can't be compared. I believe that some men come here thinking women are here just for their pleasure. They talk a good game, but when it comes to it, they don't play a good game. I actively avoid the talkers, and if someone doesn't give as much as me, I don't see them again. I think I wrote something on my profile about mutual pleasure and equal amounts of giving.

Where regular partners are concerned, either party can become lazy at any time. Me included, when I'm tired.

It's lovely when you do find someone who is compatible with you, sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight. "

It's a lure. If they are messaging a straight guy, they know full well they are not going to get anywhere by asking you to suck their cock .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight. "

Lots of straight men on here like to suck a cock. I have a regular partner, not from here, who loves sucking a cock. In 6 years of seeing him he's never given me oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight.

It's a lure. If they are messaging a straight guy, they know full well they are not going to get anywhere by asking you to suck their cock . "

A lure for what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"

Maybe you havent met the majority?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight.

It's a lure. If they are messaging a straight guy, they know full well they are not going to get anywhere by asking you to suck their cock . "

And possibly want to fuck you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight.

It's a lure. If they are messaging a straight guy, they know full well they are not going to get anywhere by asking you to suck their cock .

A lure for what? "

To get in your butt

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"
Thats quite a sweeping statement claiming the MAJORITY of men only consider their own pleasure .

If this is true in your case perhapse set certain rules before a meet

Sex is a two way thing so communication is important in letting a partner know exactly what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that's a really unfair assessment of the men on here. Certainly it hasn't been my experience that the majority were like that. I can only think of one or two I've met who it even slightly resembles. It takes two to tango, and generally when I've had crap sex I've been equally responsible.

Apparently I 'turned him on too much' lol.

I agree maybe it was unfair to generalise (this was me at my frustrated stage ) but has happened before with other meets and is off putting "

There's myriad of men on here offering ladies oral. I see their threads daily saying "I want to lick pussy" haha. Hook up with those guys, then you can be a little selfish yourself without any guilt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight.

Lots of straight men on here like to suck a cock. I have a regular partner, not from here, who loves sucking a cock. In 6 years of seeing him he's never given me oral. "

Fab straight. l could never envisage sucking a cock but oral on a woman is a turn on, for the most part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight.

Lots of straight men on here like to suck a cock. I have a regular partner, not from here, who loves sucking a cock. In 6 years of seeing him he's never given me oral.

Fab straight. l could never envisage sucking a cock but oral on a woman is a turn on, for the most part."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight.

It's a lure. If they are messaging a straight guy, they know full well they are not going to get anywhere by asking you to suck their cock .

A lure for what?

To get in your butt "

l always thought that if the message a straight guy, they'd be the bottom?

Those pesky horny gays.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"A lot men tend to give it a good talk saying they do this and that lol but I bet most men don't do what they say lol anyone ever talked the talk and actually perform it "

Rarely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight.

It's a lure. If they are messaging a straight guy, they know full well they are not going to get anywhere by asking you to suck their cock .

A lure for what?

To get in your butt

l always thought that if the message a straight guy, they'd be the bottom?

Those pesky horny gays."

They'd rather 'break' you in gently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot men tend to give it a good talk saying they do this and that lol but I bet most men don't do what they say lol anyone ever talked the talk and actually perform it

Rarely!

"

Exactly what I thought reading about all the studs making the girls cum nd. Stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight.

It's a lure. If they are messaging a straight guy, they know full well they are not going to get anywhere by asking you to suck their cock .

A lure for what?

To get in your butt

l always thought that if the message a straight guy, they'd be the bottom?

Those pesky horny gays.

They'd rather 'break' you in gently "

l'd be a top!

Seriously though, l think most gays that message me seem to be a bit sub. A guy that l spoke to a lot here told me that some gay guys, rightly or wrongly, feel that straight men are more masculine or 'authenticly male'

Better get back on topic. You forced me to segway by talking about gays and my bum. l blame you. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight.

Lots of straight men on here like to suck a cock. I have a regular partner, not from here, who loves sucking a cock. In 6 years of seeing him he's never given me oral.

Fab straight. l could never envisage sucking a cock but oral on a woman is a turn on, for the most part."

I've heard that so many times, from very forgetful men, who forgot they said it. Or, given the option of doing it or not, they chose or not.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

some are, thats not so good, it does make you apreciate the good ones though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight.

Lots of straight men on here like to suck a cock. I have a regular partner, not from here, who loves sucking a cock. In 6 years of seeing him he's never given me oral.

Fab straight. l could never envisage sucking a cock but oral on a woman is a turn on, for the most part. "

You're agreeing with him but further up you made it sound like you make the woman come quickly so you get your cock sucked. It was a give her this, and I get that attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some are, thats not so good, it does make you apreciate the good ones though."

This is very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life's too short for one sided sex and selfish people. Find yourself someone that wants to satisfy you as much as they want to be satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very attentive

but in so far as your Question, yes some men do consider the lady's pleasure

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not even that into oral, but I can only think of one man I've met that didn't give, without it even being requested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight.

Lots of straight men on here like to suck a cock. I have a regular partner, not from here, who loves sucking a cock. In 6 years of seeing him he's never given me oral.

Fab straight. l could never envisage sucking a cock but oral on a woman is a turn on, for the most part.

I've heard that so many times, from very forgetful men, who forgot they said it. Or, given the option of doing it or not, they chose or not. "

l'm straight. Real straight and not fab straight. The thought of sucking a cock is disgusting to me.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"

Actually I find almost the opposite on here lovely - guys find it tough to get meets and promise almost anything to get in your knickers - when it's very much a mutual thing for me!

I think you were just unlucky lovely! Onwards and upwards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not even that into oral, but I can only think of one man I've met that didn't give, without it even being requested. "

I started to think I was deformed down there, my husband rarely did it either. It doesn't smell, I checked

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

My assumption is, as you were regular, he felt he didn't have to try so hard.. Just being lazy and complacent..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest you ride his face like your coming in third in a two horse race

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Some men are very unselfish and enjoy giving you pleasure and making you cum.

Then you enjoy giving them pleasure in return.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ahhh...familiarity breeds contempt and all that. Time to move on quietly and find someone new that's still trying to impress you *laughs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight.

Lots of straight men on here like to suck a cock. I have a regular partner, not from here, who loves sucking a cock. In 6 years of seeing him he's never given me oral.

Fab straight. l could never envisage sucking a cock but oral on a woman is a turn on, for the most part.

I've heard that so many times, from very forgetful men, who forgot they said it. Or, given the option of doing it or not, they chose or not.

l'm straight. Real straight and not fab straight. The thought of sucking a cock is disgusting to me."

That wasn't the topic though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great many women are also only in it for themselves. I accept there is a numerical balance, but it is hugely exacerbated by the rampant myth that male ejaculation is inextricably linked to orgasm and sexual satisfaction when it frequently happens with neither.

I've always had a theory that hardly anybody is bad at sex, it just comes down to compatibility of interaction between two people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?''

lf we made such a generailsation about women, you'd dislike it.

I have to agree, a lot of men I have met have been less than bothered about my pleasure; with many not giving oral, but expecting to receive. I changed tac and stopped being so giving.

Can't speak about straight men but most messages l get from gay men are offering oral.

Because they are gay men.

Yeah but they are men. l don't think someone is more giving just because they are gay or straight.

Lots of straight men on here like to suck a cock. I have a regular partner, not from here, who loves sucking a cock. In 6 years of seeing him he's never given me oral.

Fab straight. l could never envisage sucking a cock but oral on a woman is a turn on, for the most part.

I've heard that so many times, from very forgetful men, who forgot they said it. Or, given the option of doing it or not, they chose or not.

l'm straight. Real straight and not fab straight. The thought of sucking a cock is disgusting to me.

That wasn't the topic though. "

lt was a response to your comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all seriousness he should have made oh cum on his fingers and tongue before he even thought of sex and then he should have suggested positions you liked and also touches that gets you going etc then after all that he can think of coming 3:1 is an acceptable ratio I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us guys are all different. My pleasure is all about playing with the lady when I have had a meet. Any additional satisfaction for me is a bonus and is at the end of the meet...

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"Ahhh...familiarity breeds contempt and all that. Time to move on quietly and find someone new that's still trying to impress you *laughs*"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A great many women are also only in it for themselves. I accept there is a numerical balance, but it is hugely exacerbated by the rampant myth that male ejaculation is inextricably linked to orgasm and sexual satisfaction when it frequently happens with neither.

I've always had a theory that hardly anybody is bad at sex, it just comes down to compatibility of interaction between two people."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ahhh...familiarity breeds contempt and all that. Time to move on quietly and find someone new that's still trying to impress you *laughs*"

Haha this is the truth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all seriousness he should have made oh cum on his fingers and tongue before he even thought of sex and then he should have suggested positions you liked and also touches that gets you going etc then after all that he can think of coming 3:1 is an acceptable ratio I think "

Trying to suggest a ratio seems odd. There are women on here who don't orgasm easily, or at all, who would hate the pressure of being expected to manage three for his one. And others who orgasm easily who would be very disappointed with a 3:1 ratio. We're all too different to try to standardise it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have rarely posted on the forums in fear of being torn to pieces.. and have to say you are a lovely bunch and I have thoroughly enjoyed everyone's angle on this. Thankyou lovely fabsters xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have rarely posted on the forums in fear of being torn to pieces.. and have to say you are a lovely bunch and I have thoroughly enjoyed everyone's angle on this. Thankyou lovely fabsters xx "

Hope you keep posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"

I like to think I'm not selfish, I'll always see J orgasm before me, I mean at the end of the day it's pretty easy for us men to get off! If we do have a quickly or J just sees to me, I always feel guilty afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A great many women are also only in it for themselves.

I've always had a theory that hardly anybody is bad at sex, it just comes down to compatibility of interaction between two people."

I would agree with both of these comments. I like to think that my incredibly lengthy selection process is the reason that i can't agree that most men are out for themselves. In my experience most men are extremely attentive. Does that make me lucky or just very good and being able to pick compatible people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"

I like to think I'm not selfish, I'll always see J orgasm before me, I mean at the end of the day it's pretty easy for us men to get off! If we do have a quickly or J just sees to me, I always feel guilty afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all seriousness he should have made oh cum on his fingers and tongue before he even thought of sex and then he should have suggested positions you liked and also touches that gets you going etc then after all that he can think of coming 3:1 is an acceptable ratio I think "

It's not about the amount of orgasms for me. I like the tactile aspect of sex. Kissing and touching during penetration feels better than an orgasm, to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have rarely posted on the forums in fear of being torn to pieces.. and have to say you are a lovely bunch and I have thoroughly enjoyed everyone's angle on this. Thankyou lovely fabsters xx "

Not everyone gets jumped on. ...some of us are even house trained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all of us.... .try not to judge based on one tosser. Block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A great many women are also only in it for themselves.

I've always had a theory that hardly anybody is bad at sex, it just comes down to compatibility of interaction between two people.

I would agree with both of these comments. I like to think that my incredibly lengthy selection process is the reason that i can't agree that most men are out for themselves. In my experience most men are extremely attentive. Does that make me lucky or just very good and being able to pick compatible people? "

I've spent a long time talking to men, I never meet quickly. Some have been really good, some ok. Until you actually get up close and personal, it's guesswork. Or I'm crap at picking men and got lucky a few times. It could possibly be that I'm looking for something that I'm unsure of. So feel something is lacking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much one sided just crap though he was okay at massarges not that i had any1 to compare his with

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"

Simple you are picking the wrong type of guy, the one's you least expect will surprise you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found this too and I just draw a line under it if this happens. Sometimes with a regular not can get like that unfortunately ..they seem to take you for granted. I expect my men to pleasure me first anyway! I'm a selfish sod

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"coming 3:1 is an acceptable ratio I think "

Im crap at maths, Id never get a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A great many women are also only in it for themselves.

I've always had a theory that hardly anybody is bad at sex, it just comes down to compatibility of interaction between two people.

I would agree with both of these comments. I like to think that my incredibly lengthy selection process is the reason that i can't agree that most men are out for themselves. In my experience most men are extremely attentive. Does that make me lucky or just very good and being able to pick compatible people?

I've spent a long time talking to men, I never meet quickly. Some have been really good, some ok. Until you actually get up close and personal, it's guesswork. Or I'm crap at picking men and got lucky a few times. It could possibly be that I'm looking for something that I'm unsure of. So feel something is lacking. "

See, i never feel like it's guesswork. If I'm not sure about someone i won't meet them. I think it's just something I'm incredibly good at as i know that others struggle to know just from messaging. ...it also helps that i know exactly what i want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A great many women are also only in it for themselves.

I've always had a theory that hardly anybody is bad at sex, it just comes down to compatibility of interaction between two people.

I would agree with both of these comments. I like to think that my incredibly lengthy selection process is the reason that i can't agree that most men are out for themselves. In my experience most men are extremely attentive. Does that make me lucky or just very good and being able to pick compatible people?

I've spent a long time talking to men, I never meet quickly. Some have been really good, some ok. Until you actually get up close and personal, it's guesswork. Or I'm crap at picking men and got lucky a few times. It could possibly be that I'm looking for something that I'm unsure of. So feel something is lacking.

See, i never feel like it's guesswork. If I'm not sure about someone i won't meet them. I think it's just something I'm incredibly good at as i know that others struggle to know just from messaging. ...it also helps that i know exactly what i want."

I get a feeling with some men and right up until we get down to it it's fine. But then it's not what I expected. The passion wasn't there. It's one of the reasons I have left a couple of times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say I'm all about pleasing the lady and have the tongue to prove it ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't understand this behaviour, if your only interested in pleasing yourself why not just have a wank?! I do think it's a bit harsh to single out men because there are women and couples who have a one sided approach to sex.

For me mutual satisfaction is something that I hope for with meets but accept that it's not always going to happen.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"

In the interest of accuracy I think you need to have sex with at least a thousand guys and then post your findings to see if 501 or more only think of there pleasure

I must be one of the minority that get more pleasure from giving pleasure

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Made me smile this thread, because I remember too well a lady who had as much energy as a sack of cement "put my nightie down" type.

It's not only men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"

Oh yay another "aren't men shit" thread

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Ahhh...familiarity breeds contempt and all that. Time to move on quietly and find someone new that's still trying to impress you *laughs*

Haha this is the truth!"

Yes it is - but probably on both sides!

How many of us honestly put the same effort into sex with a (previous) long term relationship as we do with meets on here? I've had the best sex of my life on fab - and this is probably why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've generally been lucky and met guys who definitely put my pleasure before their own. We chat for a while though to suss out what we all like etc.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"

And regular that now takes you for granted that's all. Just need to find a regular who treats every meet like the first and last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've generally been lucky and met guys who definitely put my pleasure before their own. We chat for a while though to suss out what we all like etc.

"

The best times are when both sides do that.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"

To be fair it's not our fault It's in our genes, our ancestors couldn't afford to think of the ladies pleasure as we had to wam bam thank you man then run off to kill a dinosaur to feed you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?

To be fair it's not our fault It's in our genes, our ancestors couldn't afford to think of the ladies pleasure as we had to wam bam thank you man then run off to kill a dinosaur to feed you "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do that got to make the women feel speacial n satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?

To be fair it's not our fault It's in our genes, our ancestors couldn't afford to think of the ladies pleasure as we had to wam bam thank you man then run off to kill a dinosaur to feed you

Haha "

I kinda can't, I friggin hate the fact I feel sooo bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?

To be fair it's not our fault It's in our genes, our ancestors couldn't afford to think of the ladies pleasure as we had to wam bam thank you man then run off to kill a dinosaur to feed you "

Where's me fucking dinner then??

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?

To be fair it's not our fault It's in our genes, our ancestors couldn't afford to think of the ladies pleasure as we had to wam bam thank you man then run off to kill a dinosaur to feed you

Where's me fucking dinner then?? "

Shag first dinner later

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"My assumption is, as you were regular, he felt he didn't have to try so hard.. Just being lazy and complacent.."

Exactly - new balls please!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?

To be fair it's not our fault It's in our genes, our ancestors couldn't afford to think of the ladies pleasure as we had to wam bam thank you man then run off to kill a dinosaur to feed you "

Get the dinnersaur in first!!!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?

To be fair it's not our fault It's in our genes, our ancestors couldn't afford to think of the ladies pleasure as we had to wam bam thank you man then run off to kill a dinosaur to feed you

Get the dinnersaur in first!!!"

Will Donald trump do ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had sex where the guys have thought about me. The most he's done is stopped when I've asked but even then that isn't always guaranteed.

It worries me that I'm bored of sex because I could be asexual but part of me wants it to just be that I've not been with the right guys. I want sex too much to believe I'm asexual!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Chose your play partners more wisely. I dont go for the who should cum first or who should do what i let it flow naturally.

One of my main filters is when a guy starts talking the talk. If your sexually confident and know what your doing you dont have to big yourself up

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I've not had sex where the guys have thought about me. The most he's done is stopped when I've asked but even then that isn't always guaranteed.

It worries me that I'm bored of sex because I could be asexual but part of me wants it to just be that I've not been with the right guys. I want sex too much to believe I'm asexual! "

I would say you've definitely not been with the right guys if some haven't stopped when you've told them to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not had sex where the guys have thought about me. The most he's done is stopped when I've asked but even then that isn't always guaranteed.

It worries me that I'm bored of sex because I could be asexual but part of me wants it to just be that I've not been with the right guys. I want sex too much to believe I'm asexual! "

What you have just described is rape, stopping should be guaranteed if asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not had sex where the guys have thought about me. The most he's done is stopped when I've asked but even then that isn't always guaranteed.

It worries me that I'm bored of sex because I could be asexual but part of me wants it to just be that I've not been with the right guys. I want sex too much to believe I'm asexual!

What you have just described is rape, stopping should be guaranteed if asked.

"

Apparently they don't hear or were just in the moment

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm generally a top but can be frustrating when folk just suck the energy out of you for themselves. An ideal meet would be everyone putting their all into it but after too many selfish twerps, my house rule is I come first.

Just had a FB clear out and on a Fab break too. Feels good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not had sex where the guys have thought about me. The most he's done is stopped when I've asked but even then that isn't always guaranteed.

It worries me that I'm bored of sex because I could be asexual but part of me wants it to just be that I've not been with the right guys. I want sex too much to believe I'm asexual!

What you have just described is rape, stopping should be guaranteed if asked.

Apparently they don't hear or were just in the moment "

Nice guys... I'm not great with anatomy, but anecdotally my hearing works during intercourse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"

There are some of us who enjoy seeing the girl wriggle and squirm in ecstasy you know

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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago

walsall

Sex is a 2 way thing respect for each And each other's needs should play a inportant role xx

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

I'm selfish .

Thats why I like ffm , they can both help me ......

Jo x

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"Chose your play partners more wisely. I dont go for the who should cum first or who should do what i let it flow naturally.

One of my main filters is when a guy starts talking the talk. If your sexually confident and know what your doing you dont have to big yourself up"

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?

To be fair it's not our fault It's in our genes, our ancestors couldn't afford to think of the ladies pleasure as we had to wam bam thank you man then run off to kill a dinosaur to feed you

Get the dinnersaur in first!!!

Will Donald trump do ?"

Never!!!!

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"

I have met several women over the years who only wanted to receive, never touched my cock, never sucked me either. I met them more than once too, so it wasn't a one off. It frustrated me but I have always been more about giving and if I am lucky enough to meet a fellow giver the sex is better and more balanced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?"

There are some of us that think the pleasure of the lady is more important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to please the lady first by touching kissing her all over undress her slowly and saying naughty things to her .Give her plenty of oral and fingering still she s wanting to feel you inside her .When the lady is satisfied she can return the favour ..Some guys just don't know how to be a lady special .I hope ur next partner is not all me me .So good luck my dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?

To be fair it's not our fault It's in our genes, our ancestors couldn't afford to think of the ladies pleasure as we had to wam bam thank you man then run off to kill a dinosaur to feed you

Where's me fucking dinner then??

Shag first dinner later "

A mars bar does not constitute dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?

There are some of us that think the pleasure of the lady is more important."

It's as important as my man's, to me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I like to please the lady first by touching kissing her all over undress her slowly and saying naughty things to her .Give her plenty of oral and fingering still she s wanting to feel you inside her .When the lady is satisfied she can return the favour ..Some guys just don't know how to be a lady special .I hope ur next partner is not all me me .So good luck my dear "
so its all about you and what you want to do to a lady regardless of what they do want. Your way or no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some very generous guys/women out there but yes some women and some men are quite selfish or maybe they intially plan on teasing and taking control to please their partner but the partner then takes control. Ive done this before where the guy literally has to wait for me to finish what I do to him before he considers me but usually by that time he has cum and often feels sleepy. It happens alot. But if it happens a second time and you have discussed it then still no improvement maybe its time to consider someone you can click with sexually.

I cant help but want to suck a guys cock as soon as his cock is out and its almost like they expect that before anything else. Its just the way I am but maybe I should let him take control?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men are very unselfish and enjoy giving you pleasure and making you cum.

Then you enjoy giving them pleasure in return."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always make sure your intimate partner/partners can 1st before you do not all men are selfish dicks...sex is a 2 way enjoyment role play so all about BOTH getting the most out of a fun experience."
see thats a typical response but if a guy tried to make me cum first Id rarely if ever cum.... as my pleasure comes from making a guy cum..

As to Op question. DONT know.. some are like that.. and some arent.. x women can be like that too x

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?

To be fair it's not our fault It's in our genes, our ancestors couldn't afford to think of the ladies pleasure as we had to wam bam thank you man then run off to kill a dinosaur to feed you

Get the dinnersaur in first!!!

Will Donald trump do ?

Never!!!! "

Think of the money you could make selling your story to the Sunday newspapers

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Just had a meet with a regular and seems he is only interested in his own pleasure....no longer a regular meet....why do the majority of men still only consider their own pleasure?

To be fair it's not our fault It's in our genes, our ancestors couldn't afford to think of the ladies pleasure as we had to wam bam thank you man then run off to kill a dinosaur to feed you

Where's me fucking dinner then??

Shag first dinner later

A mars bar does not constitute dinner "

What if I throw in a twix with two fingers of fudge, two fingers should be just enough to fill you

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Rabbi Schlomo Slatkin describes sex without love as nothing more than friction that gets the job done.

While I don't quite accept that there are times when you know that we each approach this as scratching an itch. Mutual scratching works well but if you're itch has gone and the other person's hasn't then it's not great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get off on seeing a woman enjoying sex, that's what makes it enjoyable for me.The more obviously she is enjoying herself, the better it is for me too.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I do like spoons

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I educate and select the guys, depending upon his well they respond. If they remain a selfish prick, then I send them packing - as I did someone recently after a couple of years. Porn may influence them to want a porn experience, as they do the equivalent of wanking inside your body, whilst getting turned on visually.

Send them off - let them become solitary tossers. There are many more guys who are capable and great lovers out there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I educate and select the guys, depending upon his well they respond. If they remain a selfish prick, then I send them packing - as I did someone recently after a couple of years. Porn may influence them to want a porn experience, as they do the equivalent of wanking inside your body, whilst getting turned on visually.

Send them off - let them become solitary tossers. There are many more guys who are capable and great lovers out there."

Well said!

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"Isn't that rape one sided sexdnt understand?

Well it takes two to have sex surely if it's only one sided it's rape

The debate was about men being selfish lol there no raping "

Not rape if it's consensual

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"I do like spoons "

Have your tried forks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was he always that way ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do like spoons

Have your tried forks "

Oh for fork sake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is partly why I can't be arsed with one offs anymore!

Shit sex where I felt like a watermelon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is partly why I can't be arsed with one offs anymore!

Shit sex where I felt like a watermelon

"

That's so true! It's can be unsatisfactory that way.

Unfortunately this one was a bit more regular so further disappointing

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"This is partly why I can't be arsed with one offs anymore!

Shit sex where I felt like a watermelon

"

Watermelon?

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