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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can Expectations be to high on a swingers site,do you have to be realistic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys have high expections when they first join, after about 4 months they become realists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys have high expections when they first join, after about 4 months they become realists "

haha that's true

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over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Can Expectations be to high on a swingers site,do you have to be realistic?"

Yes they can be too high and wildly, wide of the mark. I think being realistic is a useful skill for life.

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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Unless you're Diamond Joe having a fuck fest then yes.

I expected to meet more people I'd connect with.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

I have high expectations. But my hubby doesn't. That's because I'm not mad keen on swinging like him, unless the person I'm swinging with is pretty sexy to me. I'm not desperate to swing. I can take it or leave it. So if I'm going to take it. I'm going to take the best. The only problem is that with that attitude, you don't get many encounters. This frustrates hubby unfortunately. I'm ok with it.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Great

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

I lowered down my expectations on certain things like expecting ppl to turn up when they say, been honest on profiles/pics, thinking it was easy to find guy matching my wants/needs etc cause it is def not easy here, for guys (who are outnumbered) & gals (for been overwhelmed by d numbers). What I haven't lowered was my dignity or pride, I'm still as choosy to who I fuck/bed.

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

I lowered down my expectations on certain things like expecting ppl to turn up when they say, been honest on profiles/pics, thinking it was easy to find guy matching my wants/needs etc cause it is def not easy here, for guys (who are outnumbered) & gals (for been overwhelmed by d numbers). What I haven't lowered was my dignity or pride, I'm still as choosy to who I fuck/bed.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have great expectation and also Silas Marner. Not first editions though

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Being a realistic does help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on eight months still high expectations gotta be positive about things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys have high expections when they first join, after about 4 months they become realists "

Oh no. I'm due.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Expect nothing

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By *OOM696969Man
over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON


"Expect nothing "

Everything's a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys have high expections when they first join, after about 4 months they become realists "

Probably closer to 4 days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No expectations, no disappointments it's really that easy

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes I think having great expectation is my biggest weakness!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I think unless youre paying for it you arent always going to get exactly what you want. I never expect anything to be perfect or even good, just hope i am a bit lucky sometimes.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I don't expect but I live in hope

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