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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been invited to spend a night with a married man. Hes wife will be away he has told me. Am wondering what to do as i dont want to go and worry in case she returns. Advice please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your life , your choice.

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Dont go then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't relax it won't go well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choose a colour TV.. choose life!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

If you don't feel comfortable with it then go with your instinct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you worried because you may get caught facilitating said cheating man or do you not like the idea of meeting a married man?

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham


"I have been invited to spend a night with a married man. Hes wife will be away he has told me. Am wondering what to do as i dont want to go and worry in case she returns. Advice please."

Think you may have answered it yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet him personally, but wow that's low, inviting another woman into his home he shares with his wife. Tell him to book a hotel.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Choose a colour TV.. choose life!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ultimately your choice but will you enjoy yourself if you're worrying she could come in at anytime?

Tease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you can't relax it won't go well. "

This.

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you will worry, or feel guilty, or get any kind of negative emotion from doing it, I'd suggest not doing it.

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Choose a colour TV.. choose life!"

Genius!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you will worry, or feel guilty, or get any kind of negative emotion from doing it, I'd suggest not doing it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with your gut instinct, OP. Maybe meet at a hotel if your only worry is his wife returning. That way you can relax...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe he aint got a wife

single male pretending to be a couple

if you fancy him and vice versa geta hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go with your gut instinct, OP. Maybe meet at a hotel if your only worry is his wife returning. That way you can relax..."

I'd go with this advice. Hope it works out for you.

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro


"I have been invited to spend a night with a married man. Hes wife will be away he has told me. Am wondering what to do as i dont want to go and worry in case she returns. Advice please."

Any doubts you won't feel comfortable and whilst some may find that thrilling, it's a personal choice. Just devils advocate for a sec, it may be worse for the wife to find out that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's a couple and she's going to be hiding in the wardrobe

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro


"Go with your gut instinct, OP. Maybe meet at a hotel if your only worry is his wife returning. That way you can relax...

I'd go with this advice. Hope it works out for you."

Or this ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe he aint got a wife

single male pretending to be a couple

if you fancy him and vice versa geta hotel"

I'd really doubt that in this instance.

He's admitting he has a wife..MOST blokes would never have the balls to admit that...or would even WANT to admit that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you worried because you may get caught facilitating said cheating man or do you not like the idea of meeting a married man? "
in case i get caught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you worried because you may get caught facilitating said cheating man or do you not like the idea of meeting a married man? in case i get caught "

Then suggest a hotel meet as that will be playing on your mind the entire time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What kind of advice are you looking for?

If you should go or not..only you can make that decision

Her x

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By *pforfun124Man
over a year ago

hitchin

Would not meeting in a public place for a drink first be better? And yeah agree with the hotel idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you worried because you may get caught facilitating said cheating man or do you not like the idea of meeting a married man? in case i get caught "

In that case meet him somewhere else. As others have said; nervous excitement on a meet should come from the anticipation of ripping each others clothes off not from the wife kicking in the door and bursting into tears/cheers (depending on their relationship).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you worried because you may get caught facilitating said cheating man or do you not like the idea of meeting a married man? in case i get caught "

I'm single.

But that's the risk you take.

But seriously, can you not find another guy?..the ratio of M:F is like 40:1 at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can make the decision, likelihood of her returning probably is not high if he has said she is away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you worried because you may get caught facilitating said cheating man or do you not like the idea of meeting a married man? in case i get caught

I'm single.

But that's the risk you take.

But seriously, can you not find another guy?..the ratio of M:F is like 40:1 at least."

Yes you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh o.p.

Such a dramatic web you weave.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Follow your own interests, morals and considerations of the details for others' lives, as well as your own.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Disrespectful in another women's home. Maybe meet in a hotel if you have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex is not going to be good if you cant relax - id be overthinking it all - maybe he wants to get caught to end the marriage ( i have heard this been done)- if hes free why not go splits on a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's pretty scummy him inviting you into his marital home in honesty to me that shows what type of man he is, and one I wouldn't want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been invited to spend a night with a married man. Hes wife will be away he has told me. Am wondering what to do as i dont want to go and worry in case she returns. Advice please."

Well since you have many morals about so many different things surely you wouldn't even consider doing this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how did it go Denise ?

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough


"So how did it go Denise ? "

She's still hiding in the wardrobe.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Is he bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how did it go Denise ?

She's still hiding in the wardrobe."

Hahaha

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I was told once, If there is only one path, you have no choice. If there are two paths, you have a dilemma.

Only if there are three paths do you truly have choice.

So book into a hotel, get rid of the dilemma.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I think it's pretty scummy him inviting you into his marital home in honesty to me that shows what type of man he is, and one I wouldn't want to meet.

"

Me too. Horrible!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think it's pretty scummy him inviting you into his marital home in honesty to me that shows what type of man he is, and one I wouldn't want to meet.

"

Like attracts like.

Will probably "forget" her knickers so the wife can find them.

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

I was chatting to a guy (who swore blind he was single!) on kik and his fiancée found all our messages and my pics on his phone and sent me all sorts of abuse.

I hadn't even met the guy at that point. but it was still very scary.

You don't have to meet for her to catch you. Partners tend to know when something's going on and start digging for evidence. Is it really worth it?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

No.

You've clearly got doubts, no point.

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