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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To meet a guy who wants to come to mine straight after he has finished work? I like to meet men who has been freshly showered and smell nice and clean not sweaty and dirty from a days hard graft and still in their work clothes

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"To meet a guy who wants to come to mine straight after he has finished work? I like to meet men who has been freshly showered and smell nice and clean not sweaty and dirty from a days hard graft and still in their work clothes "

I would say yes and no, why don't you suggest he get a shower and then join him in it

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not at all. Not sure why you wouldnt want to freshen up first before meeting somebody? Jack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry if this sound brutal but I'd be telling him to fuck right off....

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I've met guys that come straight in and have a shower, nothing wrong with that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as he showered when he got to your place i don't think it matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't expect others others to meet us straight from worn ,showered and clean always

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"I've met guys that come straight in and have a shower, nothing wrong with that lol"

Polly I have had that done to me by women it's fine some people are self conious

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Id charge him to use the shower

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Id charge him to use the shower "

Sends a tenner in the post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't mind him showering at your place then go for it. I'm sure he hasn't suggested he gets to yours and you get down to it.........or has he ?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

If sweet and fresh is what you like.. why lower your expectations.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive had guys ask if its ok to have a shower when they get here because of work/distance.

Anyone who comes here knows they can have a shower when they like.

But if you dont want that your not wrong just something you dont want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's absolutely fine to expect a meet to be showered and fresh. I've had showers at the meets house before (not first time though!)

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"To meet a guy who wants to come to mine straight after he has finished work? I like to meet men who has been freshly showered and smell nice and clean not sweaty and dirty from a days hard graft and still in their work clothes "

As with all these types of questions it depends on the full picture or your history with him.

If for instance he has been attempting to meet but you are strictly controlling the timing then it may be acceptable to suggest the above.

If however he has simply said he can meet you at such and such a time then it would be expected he hand showered and changed first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id charge him to use the shower "

Do you accept payment in kind?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"To meet a guy who wants to come to mine straight after he has finished work? I like to meet men who has been freshly showered and smell nice and clean not sweaty and dirty from a days hard graft and still in their work clothes "

What a strange thing to ask! YOUR house, YOUR body! Why I only meet locals, I don't want men rocking up at mine all sweaty.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Not at all. Not sure why you wouldnt want to freshen up first before meeting somebody? Jack."

Don't know why anybody would feel the need to ask!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Yes definitely unless you don't mind him using your shower.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Yes definitely unless you don't mind him using your shower."

Oh I did't mean you're wrong to refuse by the way,I didn't word that right!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Not at all. Not sure why you wouldnt want to freshen up first before meeting somebody? Jack.

Don't know why anybody would feel the need to ask!"

Yep.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Oh dear, I think I'm against the flow again.

I asked a guy to jog to my place and then work out in front of me.

I want him sweaty

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield


"To meet a guy who wants to come to mine straight after he has finished work? I like to meet men who has been freshly showered and smell nice and clean not sweaty and dirty from a days hard graft and still in their work clothes "

You are never wrong to refuse anything you don't like, think is appropriate or just annoys you x

Although you could share a shower, great ice breaker xx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It depends. Have you met him before or not? I don't see the problem if you have but if it's your first meet with him I'd be telling him to do one!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done a few socials straight from work but we're lucky here that we have shower and washing facilities so I'll always have a freshen up first.

I guess it's your choice if you're prepared to let him shower beforehand at your place or whether he's not showing you enough due respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To meet a guy who wants to come to mine straight after he has finished work? I like to meet men who has been freshly showered and smell nice and clean not sweaty and dirty from a days hard graft and still in their work clothes "
i have had that before also.it not nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not wrong for wanting things how you want them. Your Fab journey OP no one else's

Kinky

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"To meet a guy who wants to come to mine straight after he has finished work? I like to meet men who has been freshly showered and smell nice and clean not sweaty and dirty from a days hard graft and still in their work clothes "

My first thought is: If the majority on here say "you are wrong, you should meet him regardless", will you? Because unless you do, the question seems somewhat redundant.

My second thought is: doesn't it depend whether he has spent the day gutting fish down Grimsby docks, or something more salubrious?

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just let him shower before play. The loose towel and beads of water dripping down his body afterwards will be worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree more with you Gary. Completely depend on the circumstances and of course your Own personal preferences. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love it if a guy came to me all sweaty from work but I like to wash men in the bath anyway so it would be a treat to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met lad stright from his work once.fuck he looked great in his dirty old work clothes!

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Get one of them pressure cleaner things and attend to him on front lawn before you let him in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your meet, your choice.

We don't meet at home anyway x

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By *ason 3Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Your so right to refuse you don't know what kind of dirt he's attracted that could cause infection to you out of curtsey he should make every effort to smell nice and fresh for you you deserve it what I see in your photos I would bring you flowers xx

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