FabSwingers.com forum: Couples looking for single men

By *onorKnees OP Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Hi swingers, I'm sure it's not just me, but I'm having some difficulty in getting past receiving any replies to messages. I am respectful and polite when messaging but seem to be getting nowhere. Looking to meet couples/groups who are looking for some social fun and then who knows. Don't get me wrong I'm not desperate but we are all on here for a reason right? I have been tempted to try a singles night at a club but just not convinced about them......any couples out there happy to chat or give some advice. Thanks for reading

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

However reluctant you are to post photos publicly, you'll restrict your potential if you don't have a good range of public photos.

Public venues, such as clubs and socials, increase your exposure to others and in different ways to just being online. It's your choice but - if you don't venture out - you'll reduce your scope for success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couples profile with the Mrs and if you'd have messaged us, your profile text would put us off, sorry.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"Hi swingers, I'm sure it's not just me, but I'm having some difficulty in getting past receiving any replies to messages. I am respectful and polite when messaging but seem to be getting nowhere. Looking to meet couples/groups who are looking for some social fun and then who knows. Don't get me wrong I'm not desperate but we are all on here for a reason right? I have been tempted to try a singles night at a club but just not convinced about them......any couples out there happy to chat or give some advice. Thanks for reading"

If you were a couple your profile text would put me right off sorry

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By *onorKnees OP Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

change of profile needed me thinks, thanks for the feedback guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile text reads like those negative female profiles. Just make it more neutral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, I'm not part of a couple, but wanted to give a little advice. You reply need to read your profile back to yourself, to see if couples want to hear that. The car bonnet comment is so disrespectful, and the one about your kids not needing another mother? Not sure what your point is there. It's fab, not match.com. Nobody on here is looking to be a mum to your kids. Perhaps a little rewrite and making yourself more approachable to couples would make you more successful OP. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really* not reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'I drive nice cars' comment smacks of being up your own arse a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The 'I drive nice cars' comment smacks of being up your own arse a bit"

I wasn't going to mention that but now you have maybe he'lol realise he's come across as arrogant in his profile.

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By *onorKnees OP Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Agreed, sound a bit of a twat really don't ? last profile wasn't working so tried something completely different and its obviously backfired. Idea/layout was taken from another profile which looked like it was working based on feedback. lesson learned and I shall move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agreed, sound a bit of a twat really don't ? last profile wasn't working so tried something completely different and its obviously backfired. Idea/layout was taken from another profile which looked like it was working based on feedback. lesson learned and I shall move on

Better

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By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago

Barbados

I'm guessing from reading you profile and the comments above that you have changed it in the past hour?

You currently spend half your profile text saying if you like what you read then get in touch with you. But you don't actually say anything for us to make any decision on whether we like it or not. There is literally nothing there.

And yeah, photos. Again nothing there to make us decide if we'd want to meet you or not.

-Matt

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By *onorKnees OP Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Hi Mike, yes, changed in the last hour. profile says 'would prefer to message/chat in the rooms for people to make their honest opinion of me and if you like what you hear then great'

Just trying to keep it simple, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Mike, yes, changed in the last hour. profile says 'would prefer to message/chat in the rooms for people to make their honest opinion of me and if you like what you hear then great'

Just trying to keep it simple, thanks"

There's a lot to be said for simple but I'd say that's not enough. People are meant to seek you out and quiz you? Take a little time and write something that tells us about you, sell yourself, be witty or if not then at least be warm. A good profile will help massively, trust me, I've been there

Beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would send a polite reply back but I wouldn't be interested.

Maybe change your text to reflect your likes and your personality.

We don't cam either (we have been in once) so for us it would be a no.

Public pics are essential too. That doesn't mean 10 pics of your dick though lol, show some personality!

Hope that helps.

Eve. Xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wouldn't bother.

What 'nice car' anyway?

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