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By *eshz OP   Man
over a year ago

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I'm interested in knowing if there are guys in this lifestyle that ever have issues with their body image?

I know I have issues with how I look and sometimes makes me feel like I'd be turning people off during playtime.

Just thought of asking this question and would like to hear other peoples opinion on this matter.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Know where you're coming from although personally have always taken the "this is the body I was given and there's not a lot I can do about it" view...although about 18 months ago I did get a kick up the backside that led to me losing three and a half stone since then...but that wasn't so much about body image as realising I needed to lose weight (which I know sounds skewed but isn't in my head!!)...

...if anything since entering into *this* world I've come to realise that body image isn't necessarily as important as other attributes.

Looking at your profile, pictures and veris I wouldn't say it's something you should be worried about either OP although DO know it's a mental perception thing as much as anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being unhappy with the way you look is a good thing and an evolutionary trait designed to make you strive to be better. I don't think any of us will ever look exactly how we want to, because as we improve, our aims will move.

It's one of the reasons I don't agree with the current glorification of obesity that the lefty media is currently pushing. Believing you are beautiful just how you are is a regressive trait.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Probably the majority of people have thing's they don't like about themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure everyone has bits they aren't confident about.

Unless a lady specifically says she likes smooth guys, I do wonder if it's an issue since I'm naturally hair free. I've heard a lot of women say they love hairy men and I always think we'll, you won't like me then

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

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"Probably the majority of people have thing's they don't like about themselves "

Yep very true

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"I'm sure everyone has bits they aren't confident about.

Unless a lady specifically says she likes smooth guys, I do wonder if it's an issue since I'm naturally hair free. I've heard a lot of women say they love hairy men and I always think we'll, you won't like me then

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My ex had smoother legs than me. He was the same. But I don't generally go for any type of man. If I fancy someone then I fancy them regardless of body type shape etc.

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