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By *abat40x OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Lincolnshire

I know this is a sex site after all but when looking at some profiles do their verification puts you off them? ( or is it just me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its true but not having none is the dame as having many..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use all the resources available to me on the site to decide if I like the look of someone - their profile text, pictures, veris, the way they are on the forums (if applicable) etc.

So in a way, yes. eg if I see they've done things I don't approve of personally it might have an influence.

I don't necessarily get put off by WHO they've seen (this is a swingers site after all and who knows anyone's history in that respect in terms of the people they've met but you can't see) but more by WHAT they've done.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends on the content of the veri's.

Amount, not so much, as these could be from socials (especially when attending clubs) I got 4 in one night and never touched a soul!

However, "turned up on time" does nothing for me. To me that almost looks like a sympathy veri. Could just be me, I don't want all the details but if turned up on time is the best you can say about a meet.....

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By *ilfy85Woman
over a year ago

Beckwithshaw

Some veries do sort of scare you a bit if I'm honest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really,

People may have been on this site 10 years and so will have many veris, some may have been on the site a while but not have many due to meeting the same couples or not having much time.

We have a few now but only one of those was one in which we played.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah.

the amount wouldn't put me off, but who has verified them might.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the content of the veri's.

Amount, not so much, as these could be from socials (especially when attending clubs) I got 4 in one night and never touched a soul!

However, "turned up on time" does nothing for me. To me that almost looks like a sympathy veri. Could just be me, I don't want all the details but if turned up on time is the best you can say about a meet.....

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A verification to me just says that the person is real, gratuitous content means nothing as that is just context and chemistry. If it says something about their personality then I may pay more attention but not a huge amount. Personally i much prefer to leave funny or bad veris, those are far more entertaining

Beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because they have chosen to show them, so I'm not going to judge people because of them, as there are plenty that choose not to show them or only show a select few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show my veris because they are very misleading. None of them say I'm a twat

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Depends on the content of the veri's.

Amount, not so much, as these could be from socials (especially when attending clubs) I got 4 in one night and never touched a soul!

However, "turned up on time" does nothing for me. To me that almost looks like a sympathy veri. Could just be me, I don't want all the details but if turned up on time is the best you can say about a meet.....

A verification to me just says that the person is real, gratuitous content means nothing as that is just context and chemistry. If it says something about their personality then I may pay more attention but not a huge amount. Personally i much prefer to leave funny or bad veris, those are far more entertaining

Beard"

Snap. I'm a funny little creature and like to have a laugh, I always leave something a little personal in the veri's I leave for others. I think it shows a little personality and that counts for a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A verification often says more about the person who left it rather than those it was for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a person's free choice.I hate them.Makes you look so cheap.!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this is a sex site after all but when looking at some profiles do their verification puts you off them? ( or is it just me) "

No. it's not just you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more inclined to believe what someone leaves in a verification than what someone says about themselves.

It's often what is NOT said that tells you the most!

I love the verification system. I think it's the best part of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been turned down (so to speak) cause off the amount off vertifatctions we have by 3couples over about 4-5 years but we don't take it heart. We just Laugh it off and say happy swinging xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the..genuine guy,looked and smelt great etc but hate the ones that talk about how great people were..amazing tongue skills or suckable cock...makes me cringe!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the..genuine guy,looked and smelt great etc but hate the ones that talk about how great people were..amazing tongue skills or suckable cock...makes me cringe!!!"

How about the blow by blow account of everything that went on.... when I get to..."left her with cum dripping out her pussy" .... I look for something good on TV..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the..genuine guy,looked and smelt great etc but hate the ones that talk about how great people were..amazing tongue skills or suckable cock...makes me cringe!!!

How about the blow by blow account of everything that went on.... when I get to..."left her with cum dripping out her pussy" .... I look for something good on TV.. "

Absolutely. .there's no need! I wouldn't publish a veri like that..would make me feel like a piece of meat being advertised! !

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton


"I know this is a sex site after all but when looking at some profiles do their verification puts you off them? ( or is it just me) "

Take a look. I don't know??

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