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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So there's an old saying that women want bad boys that will be good just for them, and men want good girls that will be bad just for them!

Sweeping generalisation for sure - but is there any truth in this?

Ladies - do you prefer a bad boy type (as long as he's good to you)?

Guys - do you prefer a good girl (as long as she's bad with you)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define bad boy

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

You just had your coffee didn't you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You just had your coffee didn't you?

"

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define bad boy"

Pokes fun at nerdy kids...wears black leather jacket. Prone to stealing apples from fruit stalls-then throwing them away after one bute. Hangs round with groups of similarly dressed but uglier males. Hot rod cars may be involved. Likely to break into 'doo-wap' numbers at any point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good girl with a bit of tomboy who ain't afraid of breaking a nail and getting her hands dirty, no princess or im so special personalities!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Define bad boy"

I'll leave that subjective to the individual posters - my definition of bad boy might not be theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define bad boy

Pokes fun at nerdy kids...wears black leather jacket. Prone to stealing apples from fruit stalls-then throwing them away after one bute. Hangs round with groups of similarly dressed but uglier males. Hot rod cars may be involved. Likely to break into 'doo-wap' numbers at any point."

**bite. Not bute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh how delicious is it to be such a lady for everyone else and to be sooooooo bad just for him or perhaps her!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

[Removed by poster at 07/11/16 07:57:40]

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm a good girl in a messed up bubble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define bad boy

Pokes fun at nerdy kids...wears black leather jacket. Prone to stealing apples from fruit stalls-then throwing them away after one bute. Hangs round with groups of similarly dressed but uglier males. Hot rod cars may be involved. Likely to break into 'doo-wap' numbers at any point."

Right... yeah I think I'll pass.

With my definition of a 'bad boy', or the wannabes that also fall into the category, it's not something for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?

Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?

White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.

And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not into bad boys and a lot of my girlfriends aren't either. We just like a guy with confidence who isn't a dick.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?

Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?

White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.

And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks. "

Not 100% a dick

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Define bad boy"

Bad Boys Running Wild - Scorpions

www.youtube.com/watch?v=8h3Gg7Z791M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well im told im a good girl - whatever that means

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"well im told im a good girl - whatever that means "

They lied

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By *.TaylorMan
over a year ago

london


"Define bad boy

Pokes fun at nerdy kids...wears black leather jacket. Prone to stealing apples from fruit stalls-then throwing them away after one bute. Hangs round with groups of similarly dressed but uglier males. Hot rod cars may be involved. Likely to break into 'doo-wap' numbers at any point."

This defines a bad boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well im told im a good girl - whatever that means

They lied "

shhhhhhhhhhhh

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I have never been into "lad" types or men that treat women badly. I do like a stable, strong slightly dominant man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?

Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?

White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.

And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks. "

There's a big difference between being nice and polite, and what I personally see as "white knighting" which is when a guy will say how gorgeous a woman is when all they can see is a pair of boobs for example.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"well im told im a good girl - whatever that means

They lied

shhhhhhhhhhhh"

Make me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well im told im a good girl - whatever that means

They lied

shhhhhhhhhhhh

Make me "

i have to stretch

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?

Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?

White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.

And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks.

There's a big difference between being nice and polite, and what I personally see as "white knighting" which is when a guy will say how gorgeous a woman is when all they can see is a pair of boobs for example.

"

I always when I get a message saying this. How can you know?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"well im told im a good girl - whatever that means

They lied

shhhhhhhhhhhh

Make me

i have to stretch "

Only a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well im told im a good girl - whatever that means

They lied

shhhhhhhhhhhh

Make me

i have to stretch

Only a little "

ok i can manage that - i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm good when I'm bad

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

if enjoying the company of a submissive fern with all the possibilities for naughty fun she offers a guy like me makes me a bad boy then so be it .

and if a submissive fern gives me all I desire endlessly she can only ever be my naughty little good girl despite what others may think of her and her actions .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think thats pretty much how we work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a 'bad boy'. I like a man who is a tart, as long as I am his favourite and he doesn't mess me about or play nasty games.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm love a bad boy but that never ends well

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmm is the description of a bad boy more like school playground stuff,if this is a bad boy I should of been locked up years ago

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I like a 'bad boy'. I like a man who is a tart, as long as I am his favourite and he doesn't mess me about or play nasty games.

Mrs"

His favourite? Are these your lovers or husband? Not meant sarkily, just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I look a bad boy a few times, I like to look rough n ready but that's about it .. pure gent really

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

for relationships i go for the out of the box thinkers, comfortable in their skin, practical and artistic, with filthy imaginations, who don't embarrass me in public. i like to drag out the wild side and them and for them to match me with self awareness

a rebel in the cause of consciousness. not a society sheep.. that's my kind of bad boy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a 'bad boy'. I like a man who is a tart, as long as I am his favourite and he doesn't mess me about or play nasty games.

Mrs

His favourite? Are these your lovers or husband? Not meant sarkily, just curious."

Husband definately. Our main playmate, who we've seeing for a year and half, sees other women and couples, but does so in a way that never put my nose out of joint and always makes me feel special. There have been others that haven't me quite so well. But I totally get off on them playing around and encourage it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you Dan?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are you Dan?"

Well I know I'm no bad girl ... other than that I dunno? I'd say I was a good boy but then I'm on here aren't I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?

Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?

White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.

And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks.

There's a big difference between being nice and polite, and what I personally see as "white knighting" which is when a guy will say how gorgeous a woman is when all they can see is a pair of boobs for example.

"

Oh, sorry. I do mean when they know you.

They know what you look like. They speak to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the girl to be herself, rather than pretend someone she's not just for my enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?

Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?

White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.

And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks. "

For me chivalry is very very important, and something I find an incredible turn-on. I'd taken 'bad boy' to mean a guy who had a number of sexual partners, a bit of a ladies man, someone I have with others.

Mrs

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

The problem with most bad boys is they are complete assholes so I'd rather have a nice guy who can play at being bad.

I'm most definitely a good girl and a lady in public

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By *idan31Man
over a year ago

ashby

When she was good, she was very very good, but when she was bad, she was fantastic !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?

Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?

White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.

And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks.

There's a big difference between being nice and polite, and what I personally see as "white knighting" which is when a guy will say how gorgeous a woman is when all they can see is a pair of boobs for example.

I always when I get a message saying this. How can you know?"

You obviously haven't found the hidden cameras or the ladder up near your bedroom window then..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Whats the definition of a bad girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I consider a bad boy type has never been good for me. So I avoid them.

I'm not sure they're so easy to categorise nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ads isn't a bad boy at all but in looks he is everything I ever wanted!! Tattoos, jewellery, a twang to his voice, plus he is bloody fit and good looking, he's not naughty but he's my bad boy xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Oh it says good girls not bad girls.

Well im not sure but i do know how to behave and there is a time and place for everything.

Im not overtly sexual in my day to day life, in fact im not sexual at all, i dont wear revealing clothing, i dont flirt. You could take me home to meet your mother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was younger i always went for the bad boys and i married one

now give me a good boy they are the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a goody two shoes who married a bad boy. Having a family calmed him down quickly and he behaved himself.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"So there's an old saying that women want bad boys that will be good just for them, and men want good girls that will be bad just for them!

"

That kind of is how it often plays out for me....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Id had enough of bad boys by the time i was 22. Actually this thread has made me laugh as jay is as far removed from a bad boy as you could get

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whats the definition of a bad girl"

I deliberately haven't given a definition as everybody will have their own take on what a good or bad boy / girl would be.

My take on it (although it's only my take and certainly not the definitive answer) is a "bad boy" would be a bit of a lad, a player, likes the ladies and likes the "treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" approach, plays the field a bit etc, and the ladies want to be the "one" to tame them.

Whereas a "good girl" would be the innocent "butter wouldn't melt in their mouth" type - outwardly very sweet and proper - but the guys want them to be a bit of the minx in private in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the definition of a bad girl

I deliberately haven't given a definition as everybody will have their own take on what a good or bad boy / girl would be.

My take on it (although it's only my take and certainly not the definitive answer) is a "bad boy" would be a bit of a lad, a player, likes the ladies and likes the "treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" approach, plays the field a bit etc, and the ladies want to be the "one" to tame them.

Whereas a "good girl" would be the innocent "butter wouldn't melt in their mouth" type - outwardly very sweet and proper - but the guys want them to be a bit of the minx in private in the bedroom. "

i'm very much the good girl

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Whats the definition of a bad girl

I deliberately haven't given a definition as everybody will have their own take on what a good or bad boy / girl would be.

My take on it (although it's only my take and certainly not the definitive answer) is a "bad boy" would be a bit of a lad, a player, likes the ladies and likes the "treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" approach, plays the field a bit etc, and the ladies want to be the "one" to tame them.

Whereas a "good girl" would be the innocent "butter wouldn't melt in their mouth" type - outwardly very sweet and proper - but the guys want them to be a bit of the minx in private in the bedroom. "
mmm not sure where i fit in as my day to day life and my sex life have alwayz naturally been the polar opposites of each other.

Maybe im neither, im just me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I do recall a very surreal moment, id had an 18 man gangbang in the morning, gone to an adult cinema in the afternoon and shagged around another 25/30 guys and sat on the train coming home and a woman about 50 came and sat with me and we where chatting away about normal womens stuff, family ect and remember thinking never in her wildest dreams would she know what id done that day

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?

Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?

White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.

And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks.

There's a big difference between being nice and polite, and what I personally see as "white knighting" which is when a guy will say how gorgeous a woman is when all they can see is a pair of boobs for example.

Oh, sorry. I do mean when they know you.

They know what you look like. They speak to you. "

Sorry all I saw here was that white knights get pounded the fuck out of.

Never wanted to be a white knight so much

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