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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a weird juxtaposition.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Swinging every time

Sod the family and their selfish demands on my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family and close friends always come first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family EVERY time for both of us always

Kinky

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

You have to put your family first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Swinging every time

Sod the family and their selfish demands on my time "
swinging come and go .

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well family, friends, lots of things take priority over swinging

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro

Without a doubt friends and family and then my FAB friends, always try to make time for all though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always family first. Then work (small business owner), than any time left is for me.. Or sleep

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

For me.. its not even an option. Would never choose between family or random sex. Family 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me see,family,or some random stranger ?

Family obviously, every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, obviously!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Family and friends...

Luckily we can ask family to look after children when required

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Family, friends, work, Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Football

Cake

Swinging

Family & Friends

In that order ..

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

By family, are we including in-laws?

#justaskin

Mr ddc

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Easy question it has to be family everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a silly question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Family and friends...

Luckily we can ask family to look after children when required "

Oh that's handy!!

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By *ightfall79Man
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

My kids 100 percent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family and friends definitely come first as do the other essentials like work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooh this is a tricky one.

If it's a really good offer then swinging every time.

If it's just the usual shit then I'll settle for a cup of tea in front of the fire.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What a silly question!

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why I get loads of mail asking to meet , I cant right now.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Swinging is mearly an additional extra in my life ,to be fitted in around everything else . It has zero priority in my life and is just a great fun time when life allows

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"Swinging every time

Sod the family and their selfish demands on my time "

Where's the sarcastic smiley ?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Football comes first, then family then swinging

My family knows football comes first !!! Always has done

I know people will say that family should but at the end of the day they know what football means to me, but they know what family means to me also

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Who would put sex with strangers above their nearest and dearest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....family always come first,there will always be other times for us to cum lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who would put sex with strangers above their nearest and dearest? "

To be fair I see them every day.

I don't get to shag a sexy stranger every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a silly question!

why I get loads of mail asking to meet , I cant right now."

Why does people mailing you asking to meet mean they don't put their family first?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who would put sex with strangers above their nearest and dearest?

To be fair I see them every day.

I don't get to shag a sexy stranger every day."
god when I get home from my mum its the last thing I think off , lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time family first always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be shocked if anyone didn't put family before swinging. Xxx

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first . "

Do you really think anyone is going to come on here and confess that they put NSA shagging before their family?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first .

Do you really think anyone is going to come on here and confess that they put NSA shagging before their family? "
some think its not a big thing if your mum has demenica .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always family first. But I know some on here who are the opposite and let their family take a back seat to be on fab and meet constantly

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Offspring before anything, including each other, swinging is some distance behind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Offspring before anything, including each other, swinging is some distance behind."
That's how I see it . xxx

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

My kids yes every time. The rest of my family or at least the majority of them can fuck right off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My kids yes every time. The rest of my family or at least the majority of them can fuck right off"
lol kids first mum and dad second .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything comes before swinging, swinging is a hobby not a lifestyle for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fab is extra fun

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Family and friends...

Luckily we can ask family to look after children when required

Oh that's handy!! "

We don't ask often we try and arrange meets when we dont have the kids but sometimes some ppl are just worth getting a sitter for

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Children and family first....but as they have families of their own they just don't need me as much, but when they do I am there always....as they are there for me.....love them all very much...

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

what do you need to know for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we start one, then obviously, it will always come before anything swinging related.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get out to swing two or three nights a week .

We get a trusted sitter , and pay well .

If that's considered putting swinging first , then we do .

It's a lifestyle choice we have made , and we love it . It isn't a secondary thing to anything. It's an integral part of us . More than just a hobby if you like .

Perhaps this is why we have never bailed on a meet , let anyone down , or just not showed up and blamed family commitments .

Of course family are important too , but more important ... nope . Equally as important ... yes .

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"My kids yes every time. The rest of my family or at least the majority of them can fuck right offlol kids first mum and dad second . "

I've no idea if mine are even drawing breath still. We are a close lot

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Who would you miss most a person you have sex with or a family member?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who would you miss most a person you have sex with or a family member?"
family ... x

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"Who would you miss most a person you have sex with or a family member?family ... x"

Yes because you have a bond with them even if you havnt always got on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 06/11/16 21:23:15]"
swinging to nothing more then a bit on the side it family first .

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"[Removed by poster at 06/11/16 21:23:15]swinging to nothing more then a bit on the side it family first ."

You dont know how much you will miss them until they are gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which would you rather do?

BREATHE or gargle a pint of piss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who would you miss most a person you have sex with or a family member?"

That's gonna really confuse people in the south west.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first . "

Kids first. The main reason why I'll never accommodate. I don't think it's fair and it's not right. This is my kids home too and it's my duty to keep them safe under their own roof.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"Which would you rather do?

BREATHE or gargle a pint of piss? "

Thats interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who would you miss most a person you have sex with or a family member?

That's gonna really confuse people in the south west. "

The Isle of Sheppey more like lol

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

No cos I don't have any.

But my job comes 1st thow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get out to swing two or three nights a week .

We get a trusted sitter , and pay well .

If that's considered putting swinging first , then we do .

It's a lifestyle choice we have made , and we love it . It isn't a secondary thing to anything. It's an integral part of us . More than just a hobby if you like .

Perhaps this is why we have never bailed on a meet , let anyone down , or just not showed up and blamed family commitments .

Of course family are important too , but more important ... nope . Equally as important ... yes ."

Every parent is entitled to a night out. Where you choose to spend that night out and who with, is entirely up to you.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What a weird thread.

Of course people are going to say family first.

Unsure as to what the OP is trying to achieve here o.O

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What a weird thread.

Of course people are going to say family first.

Unsure as to what the OP is trying to achieve here o.O"
I get a lot of mail asking me to meet when I say my mum not well they go on and on ...

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"What a weird thread.

Of course people are going to say family first.

Unsure as to what the OP is trying to achieve here o.OI get a lot of mail asking me to meet when I say my mum not well they go on and on ..."

Sorry to hear that.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Which would you rather do?

BREATHE or gargle a pint of piss? "

Would you rather fuck a duck-sized woman, or...

Oh, hang on, that one doesn't work

Mr ddc

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first .

Do you really think anyone is going to come on here and confess that they put NSA shagging before their family? some think its not a big thing if your mum has demenica ."

Of course it's a big thing - but I still don't understand the wording/point of the thread!

Are we really all to congratulate ourselves because we put our kids (or in your case mum's) needs before an NSA shag with a stranger?

The whole point of fab, surely, is that it's something we can pick up and put down when time/work/family commitments permit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first .

Do you really think anyone is going to come on here and confess that they put NSA shagging before their family? some think its not a big thing if your mum has demenica .

Of course it's a big thing - but I still don't understand the wording/point of the thread!

Are we really all to congratulate ourselves because we put our kids (or in your case mum's) needs before an NSA shag with a stranger?

The whole point of fab, surely, is that it's something we can pick up and put down when time/work/family commitments permit! "

Noooo the whole point of Fab is to convince strangers that you love your family.

Get with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging is mearly an additional extra in my life ,to be fitted in around everything else . It has zero priority in my life and is just a great fun time when life allows "

I agree xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first .

Do you really think anyone is going to come on here and confess that they put NSA shagging before their family? some think its not a big thing if your mum has demenica .

Of course it's a big thing - but I still don't understand the wording/point of the thread!

Are we really all to congratulate ourselves because we put our kids (or in your case mum's) needs before an NSA shag with a stranger?

The whole point of fab, surely, is that it's something we can pick up and put down when time/work/family commitments permit! "
years I have been here so I come and go and people get up set . I ask as like me some must put all this on hold .

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"What a weird thread.

Of course people are going to say family first.

"

Only because they feel they should.

We have kids, does that mean we can never swing without "putting them second"? No.

But if we had a meet planned and one of them was taken seriously ill, or needed us, would we cancel? Of course.

Surely the question depends on "need", "priority" and many other factors.

To pretend it doesn't, and that there is "one" answer is fatuous.

Isn't it?

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to put your family first."

No you don't mine have never put me first, now my friends that's a different matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have to put your family first.

No you don't mine have never put me first, now my friends that's a different matter"
See I under stand that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel it goes without saying, my family come before anything. Would anyone do otherwise?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel it goes without saying, my family come before anything. Would anyone do otherwise? "
Some would here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In what scenario would it be a choice you'd have to make?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first . "

Family. I gave up Swinging for years when my son was younger, he was ill with an un-diagnosed heart condition and then needed an op once it was found. No way was I going to be miles away in some hotel room with a stranger, however good the sex promised to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family and close friends first always xx

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Real life always comes first, this is just a bit extra.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"In what scenario would it be a choice you'd have to make? "

Personally I'm now considering "Shag me or the kid gets it" as our PM de choix

Mr ddc

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I don't have kids and still see family and close friends but then my close friends are in the scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging of course

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By *enny79TV/TS
over a year ago

chesterfield

Family every time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In what scenario would it be a choice you'd have to make?

Personally I'm now considering "Shag me or the kid gets it" as our PM de choix

Mr ddc"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always put family first before anything, nevermind swinging... that comes way down on the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to put your family first.

No you don't mine have never put me first, now my friends that's a different matterSee I under stand that x"

Yeah I got my back up a bit but the scenario is stupid really fi we are talking death bed situation its obvious but if we are talking going for a pint with my best mate or getting to meet a lovely woman on here I'd pick the woman then sort another date out for the pint. As they say on "friends" you can cancel plans with friends if there's a possibility of sex!

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Not much choice really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no choice here family 100%everytime

Fab is a very tiny part of life and will always be in background

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Do I have to give an honest answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first . "

Definitely family!!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without a doubt - Family will always come first x

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Family first I'm not fucking that up for anyone.

I say keep your money in your pocket and your cock in your pants to stay out of trouble unless your on cam then its ok to give it a little wiggle lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family first, swinging is just a part of our lives and family comes first everytime

Beard

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Our swinging life is restricted because we care for my elderly parents. It wasn't something either of us gave any thought to, it's just something you do. Isn't it?

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

My mum and family always come first.

I'm not selfish!!

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Family comes first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine anyone not putting family first to be honest.mine will always be priority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for most people swinging must surely be quite low down their list of priorities. I'd find it a bit sad if it wasn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always family then work then swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family first x

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Do I have to give an honest answer?"

Fab's middle name is 'honesty' so yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Football

Cake

Swinging

Family & Friends

In that order .. "

I like the way you think.

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the family member most of them I'd prioritise a slug before them but my siblings and close family/friends I'd put first always.

Work comes first though.

Then swinging is just something I do on the side not an essential or necessity in my life.

~Mia

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

If it was my older sister and oldest brother i wouldnt bother about them.

Anyway they live in norfolk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That question is in the same category as 'would you like a brew'

Not needed.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"That question is in the same category as 'would you like a brew'

Not needed."

Like a lot of other questions then.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Do I have to give an honest answer?"

Errmmm...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Do I have to give an honest answer?

Errmmm..."

Can I let you into a little secret?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Do I have to give an honest answer?

Errmmm...

Can I let you into a little secret?"

Was busy shagging when the telephone went - it was a mother inquiring as to whether someone would be down to school to collect the child.

Ooops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family all the way x

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By *ntriguedcouple7Couple
over a year ago

Surrey

To me, it seems the OP's question is actually:

Would you prioritise other swinger's families above swinging?

The people asking to meet her aren't (as far as we know) having important family issues.

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Always my family and has stopped me meeting many times as I always will

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Family and or work commitments have caused several cancellations or postponements of meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first . "

Single mum to 4 children, they have always come first!

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