FabSwingers.com forum: Non replies

By *he creamer OP Man
over a year ago

Alcester

Just a simple no thanks is all it takes

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By *ilfy85Woman
over a year ago

Beckwithshaw

It's hard to say no thanks to 50 or 60 messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://m.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ#noreply

Just leaving this here...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Just a simple no thanks is all it takes"

It's even more simpler not to say anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I received one that said,,,

I'm disinclined to acquiesce to your request.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a simple no thanks is all it takes

It's even more simpler not to say anything. "

Nice butt

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Just a simple no thanks is all it takes

It's even more simpler not to say anything.

Nice butt

Not many people have seen that pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"https://m.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ#noreply

Just leaving this here..."

Well said that person.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

thats why i have my filters on, i couldnt possibly respond to everyone when i have them off..if you saw a woman's inbox, you'd understand..for every message there is a 2 min reply...start multiplying it by 40 or 50 or 100 + and you cant do it..so prefer not to treat good guys like it, as well as the 'faf' messages...too stressful x

try not to take it personally, no one is being rude on purpose x

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

We used to respond to every message we received but as many single men seem unable to read our profile we just delete the ones that are obviously cut and paste, totally ignore that we are a couple or are just plain ignorant. We have even change our profile to make it simpler to understand - doesnt seem to have worked...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's hard to say no thanks to 50 or 60 messages

Saw a top fab pic girl who apparently had 5000 imagine that no thanks time!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Well TBH I know people are busy and I am the same I don't always have time to message people but I do get round to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up replying to men who haven't bothered reading my profile ....it's all there in black and white....the worst are men who say they have read yet don't meet what I'm looking for in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or, a simple acceptance that , in most cases, a non reply probably means 'no thanks' anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a simple no thanks is all it takes"

No it isn't, men then reply why not? If I say too far, they then reply they can drive to me....I don't host.

A simple block is all it takes.

Or maybe members should just get that if they get no reply, it means not interested.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Just a simple no thanks is all it takes"

Just a simple no thanks is all YOU want.

You didn't get it.

Just a simple 'oh well on to the next one' is all it takes.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Well TBH I know people are busy and I am the same I don't always have time to message people but I do get round to it

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do you also get the second round of 'did you see my message' or why haven't you responded yet, i see you are online' messages..often sent only a couple of hours after the first?

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By *ilfy85Woman
over a year ago

Beckwithshaw

"Well TBH I know people are busy and I am the same I don't always have time to message people but I do get round to it

do you also get the second round of 'did you see my message' or why haven't you responded yet, i see you are online' messages..often sent only a couple of hours after the first?

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I get this all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Nah, I can't be arsed with the abusive messages afterwards, so I just leave them as unread

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

We can't win. If I say no thanks I get abusive messages back. If I ignore I get abusive messages. If I reply in kind just because I'm nice like that then it automatically means for some that I MUST have sex with them....it never ends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why doesn't the site make people read the FAQ before they can message/post in the forums? That could reduce the number of these why not reply blah blah shite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares if some one dosent reply, it still means the same thing just use your common sense as to come up with the awnser

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Just a simple no thanks is all it takes"

Stop looking at your sent messages!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Well to be honest some messages don't even deserve a no thanks.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

"Why doesn't the site make people read the FAQ before they can message/post in the forums? That could reduce the number of these why not reply blah blah shite!"

A most noble amotion, but sadly often overlooked.

I've been arguing for some "Sticky" threads for some time

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

From the site FAQ

"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well TBH I know people are busy and I am the same I don't always have time to message people but I do get round to it

I have this trouble all the time

Fighting them off with a ten foot barge pole I tell ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We mostly do this but if we are just too busy we do sometimes delete now

Kinky

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro

"From the site FAQ

"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Exactly this, no one has a divine right to expect. Be respectful people, I always make an effort to the one or two messages I get a week lol. However, for popular amongst us the math doesn't work for one and for two if you stand out enough in your message or profile they will or they will find you. No one is entitled or better than the next. If we all fancied the same thing it would be a dull world.

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