FabSwingers.com forum: Men asking to meet without seeing a face pic?

By *ureTemptation OP Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid

There seems to be a disturbing about of guys that ask to meet without having seen a face pic.

What's that all about then?

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"There seems to be a disturbing about of guys that ask to meet without having seen a face pic.

What's that all about then?

Pure desperation. It beggars belief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/568485

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

We neither show, nor ask to see, face pics.

Maybe we're weird, maybe we're ugly, maybe we just look for other things in a meet.

{shrugs}

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine it is not just men. I have heard men have met women who have never shared a photo

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"There seems to be a disturbing about of guys that ask to meet without having seen a face pic.

What's that all about then?

I think that old line about "you don`t look at the mantelpiece when you`re poking the fire!" actually holds true for some guys. All rather desperate and all rather sad really

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"There seems to be a disturbing about of guys that ask to meet without having seen a face pic.

What's that all about then?

Dunno but all I ever think when I see you post OP is "Bollox she's straight"..

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I do find it odd that they expect me to agree to a meet without knowing what they look like.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I get that a lot and wonder, how on earth can they want to meet based on headless public pics.....I could be a right ugly bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky to get a face picture

Replys back to the effect of you're be happy don't work with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that a lot too. Maybe they just plan to stick to doggy style if it all goes horribly wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a disturbing about of guys that ask to meet without having seen a face pic.

What's that all about then?

Chancers mostly

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

I always take a paper bag...just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We neither show, nor ask to see, face pics.

Maybe we're weird, maybe we're ugly, maybe we just look for other things in a meet.

{shrugs}

Mr ddc "

How do you recognise each other when you meet?

I've got visions of myself wandering round a pub looking for every bloke the right height who looks like he might possibly have a cock that looks like the one I've seen a photo of.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Meh. Different strokes for different folks and all that. I go through phases of having my ugly mug visible for all to see so no need to ask for them.

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By *ureTemptation OP Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"Lucky to get a face picture

Replys back to the effect of you're be happy don't work with me "

Oh dear, do people really say that?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"We neither show, nor ask to see, face pics.

Maybe we're weird, maybe we're ugly, maybe we just look for other things in a meet.

{shrugs}

Mr ddc "

Having perused your pics,

I now know why SANTA goes

HO-HO-HO

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By *ureTemptation OP Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"We neither show, nor ask to see, face pics.

Maybe we're weird, maybe we're ugly, maybe we just look for other things in a meet.

{shrugs}

Mr ddc

How do you recognise each other when you meet?

I've got visions of myself wandering round a pub looking for every bloke the right height who looks like he might possibly have a cock that looks like the one I've seen a photo of."

lol yes this! How does it work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get that a lot too. Maybe they just plan to stick to doggy style if it all goes horribly wrong? "

Thing is, you have a really pretty face, so their gamble would pay off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a disturbing about of guys that ask to meet without having seen a face pic.

What's that all about then?

How you doin'. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat to someone all the time who I've never seen a face pic of. It really doesn't bother me. He's a really sweet and funny guy, and someone I would meet in a heartbeat if I was meeting. I genuinely don't care what he looks like... But like some others, maybe I'm just weird

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By *ureTemptation OP Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"There seems to be a disturbing about of guys that ask to meet without having seen a face pic.

What's that all about then?

Dunno but all I ever think when I see you post OP is "Bollox she's straight"..

But you've never seen a face pic of me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never meet without a face pic... although had plenty of women ask to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lucky to get a face picture

Replys back to the effect of you're be happy don't work with me

Oh dear, do people really say that?

Couples mainly from the Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get that a lot too. Maybe they just plan to stick to doggy style if it all goes horribly wrong?

Thing is, you have a really pretty face, so their gamble would pay off

trying to work out who you are now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is just a fuck, not a relationship

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Oh dear I get this a lot too, mine is plain to see and they are so shocked when I ask for theirs?!?

Yes, if we're gonna play I do care what you look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a disturbing about of guys that ask to meet without having seen a face pic.

What's that all about then?

Peculiar but hardly surprising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get that a lot too. Maybe they just plan to stick to doggy style if it all goes horribly wrong?

Thing is, you have a really pretty face, so their gamble would pay off

trying to work out who you are now..."

I heard that wearing a wet suit helps the thinking process

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By *ureTemptation OP Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"It is just a fuck, not a relationship

What do you look for in a shag then shag?

I need to be attracted to someone and that includes face, and personality.

I'm a bit picky.

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I always send a face pic on an initial

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

maybe they are the guys who picture someone else's face when fucking so that way they win

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"There seems to be a disturbing about of guys that ask to meet without having seen a face pic.

What's that all about then?

Dunno but all I ever think when I see you post OP is "Bollox she's straight"..

But you've never seen a face pic of me!

But your sexuality precludes me to even ask for one

, also by and large we stick to forumites, we like most of them & what they have to say. As some say, secure my mind & the body will follow

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"We neither show, nor ask to see, face pics.

Maybe we're weird, maybe we're ugly, maybe we just look for other things in a meet.

{shrugs}

Mr ddc

How do you recognise each other when you meet?

I've got visions of myself wandering round a pub looking for every bloke the right height who looks like he might possibly have a cock that looks like the one I've seen a photo of."

Normally our rucksacks give us away.

Or we just say "we'll meet you by the such-n-such at thingy o'clock.

You'd be surprised how easy it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is just a fuck, not a relationship

What do you look for in a shag then shag?

I need to be attracted to someone and that includes face, and personality.

I'm a bit picky.

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That is good you are. I am not really looking for anything you know as I like to meet all sorts of women, variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is just a fuck, not a relationship

What do you look for in a shag then shag?

I need to be attracted to someone and that includes face, and personality.

I'm a bit picky.

I chased somebody for ages. Because of the way their profile was presented.

The way they are on fab forums.

And then you see their face and 'bam'.

1+1+1= explosive attraction.

That can only lead to great sex.

So no, I don't need a face pic immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I have face pics on my profile.

Actually speaking I would rather see a face pics and a dressed lady on the profile rather than naked pics.

Leavws something to the imagination and adds to the excitement of the meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We neither show, nor ask to see, face pics.

Maybe we're weird, maybe we're ugly, maybe we just look for other things in a meet.

{shrugs}

Mr ddc

How do you recognise each other when you meet?

I've got visions of myself wandering round a pub looking for every bloke the right height who looks like he might possibly have a cock that looks like the one I've seen a photo of.

Normally our rucksacks give us away.

Or we just say "we'll meet you by the such-n-such at thingy o'clock.

You'd be surprised how easy it is

I struggle to recognise people enough even when I *have* seen their face so I think it would be a total disaster for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes wonder if I'm shallow but I couldn't sleep with someone I wasn't physically attracted to..some of my exes aren't the nicest looking so I did eventually become attracted to them as people! But if you're meeting for the sole purpose of having sex I would never meet without seeing a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sometimes wonder if I'm shallow but I couldn't sleep with someone I wasn't physically attracted to..some of my exes aren't the nicest looking so I did eventually become attracted to them as people! But if you're meeting for the sole purpose of having sex I would never meet without seeing a face pic

not shallow at all... you can build a connection with people over time 'in real life' that means they become attractive... not sure the same rules apply in swinging though as you typically dont have the same span of contact

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"We neither show, nor ask to see, face pics.

Maybe we're weird, maybe we're ugly, maybe we just look for other things in a meet.

{shrugs}

Mr ddc

How do you recognise each other when you meet?

I've got visions of myself wandering round a pub looking for every bloke the right height who looks like he might possibly have a cock that looks like the one I've seen a photo of.

Normally our rucksacks give us away.

Or we just say "we'll meet you by the such-n-such at thingy o'clock.

You'd be surprised how easy it is

I struggle to recognise people enough even when I *have* seen their face so I think it would be a total disaster for me

Well obviously in our case you'd have to look downwards or you'd miss us.

Unless I was sat on Mrs ddc's shoulders again.

Let's face it, how many shifty looking people can there be hanging around the Angel of the North early in the morning...

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London&Dublin

"There seems to be a disturbing about of guys that ask to meet without having seen a face pic.

What's that all about then?

Pure desperation. It beggars belief. "

Really?

I never ask for face pics and I don't make my decision to meet based on face.

Desperation??? Shrugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We neither show, nor ask to see, face pics.

Maybe we're weird, maybe we're ugly, maybe we just look for other things in a meet.

{shrugs}

Mr ddc

How do you recognise each other when you meet?

I've got visions of myself wandering round a pub looking for every bloke the right height who looks like he might possibly have a cock that looks like the one I've seen a photo of.

Normally our rucksacks give us away.

Or we just say "we'll meet you by the such-n-such at thingy o'clock.

You'd be surprised how easy it is

we're exactly the same. we never send face pics hence why we insist on a social initially so if you don't like us no harm done.

We've been really lucky and had mostly great meets

Jane x

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

I've met once without seeing a pic but I was very lucky as she was gorgeous. I wouldn't chance it twice! lol

Skype is good. Plus it's a verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a disturbing about of guys that ask to meet without having seen a face pic.

What's that all about then?

Im sure its because most females on here need a bag over their head before being shagged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a disturbing about of guys that ask to meet without having seen a face pic.

What's that all about then?

Im sure its because most females on here need a bag over their head before being shagged

hey, a mate jamp in and typed that when I went to the loo, it wasn't me, I think all girls on here are very pretty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a disturbing about of guys that ask to meet without having seen a face pic.

What's that all about then?

Im sure its because most females on here need a bag over their head before being shagged

hey, a mate jamp in and typed that when I went to the loo, it wasn't me, I think all girls on here are very pretty

Good save!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sometimes wonder if I'm shallow but I couldn't sleep with someone I wasn't physically attracted"

Couldn't agree more. There has to be an attraction. Even if you are meeting them just for sex.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If meeting in a public place, do you have to walk strangely or carry a top hat etc, to enable identification?

I get meet requests without face pics but it is just preliminary banter in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We neither show, nor ask to see, face pics.

Maybe we're weird, maybe we're ugly, maybe we just look for other things in a meet.

{shrugs}

Mr ddc

How do you recognise each other when you meet?

I've got visions of myself wandering round a pub looking for every bloke the right height who looks like he might possibly have a cock that looks like the one I've seen a photo of."

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's far too much of a risk not seeing a picture of them. I don't think it's shallow that you need a spark of attraction to sleep with a person

And I totally agree with you about people becoming more attractive as you get to know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to read some comments several times to beleive what I was reading!! Disturbing that men ask for a face pic before meeting? Thought you women would feel pleased that someone wanted to meet you just because of your profile/talking...doesn't that mean they're not superficial and they didn't make you feel like it's a cattle market?

This site never fails to amaze me, some people are just not happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had to read some comments several times to beleive what I was reading!! Disturbing that men ask for a face pic before meeting? Thought you women would feel pleased that someone wanted to meet you just because of your profile/talking...doesn't that mean they're not superficial and they didn't make you feel like it's a cattle market?

This site never fails to amaze me, some people are just not happy!"

You may find this difficult to understand but it's a swinger site ... not blind date

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"It is just a fuck, not a relationship

What do you look for in a shag then shag?

I need to be attracted to someone and that includes face, and personality.

I'm a bit picky.

Totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some people attraction isn't just based on looks. There's a lot worse things I find about agreeing to a meet before not having seen their face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually chat for a while beforehand anyway. If it is looking like a meet, I'm happy to send a face pic and would expect one back. Only on here do I send a face pic on initial contact, otherwise most just delete straight away..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hardly ever send a face pic. Hasn't caused us any problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We very rarely send face pics. We are happy to meet socially first but rarely send face pics. Nor do we ask for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is just a fuck, not a relationship

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By *40 maleMan
over a year ago

chesterfield

I know you don't necessarily need to look at the mantle piece while poking the fire, but I need to know what the mantle piece looks like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never ever meet without a face pic and I wouldn't expect not to show mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye it's weird, I get a lot wanting to meet me.. but what I don't get is how one can say I am gorgeous and beautiful without seeing my face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aye it's weird, I get a lot wanting to meet me.. but what I don't get is how one can say I am gorgeous and beautiful without seeing my face? "

Always tried to put a face to that body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aye it's weird, I get a lot wanting to meet me.. but what I don't get is how one can say I am gorgeous and beautiful without seeing my face? "

If your face was on show with your profile pic I doubt most blokes would notice it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aye it's weird, I get a lot wanting to meet me.. but what I don't get is how one can say I am gorgeous and beautiful without seeing my face?

Always tried to put a face to that body

Now I am officially offended. You Mr have seen a pic

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/568485

It's a question not a complaint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aye it's weird, I get a lot wanting to meet me.. but what I don't get is how one can say I am gorgeous and beautiful without seeing my face?

If your face was on show with your profile pic I doubt most blokes would notice it

That is probably a good thing

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"maybe they are the guys who picture someone else's face when fucking so that way they win

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It is just a fuck, not a relationship

What do you look for in a shag then shag?

I need to be attracted to someone and that includes face, and personality.

I'm a bit picky.

That is good you are. I am not really looking for anything you know as I like to meet all sorts of women, variety is the spice of life

But you don't meet I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe they are the guys who picture someone else's face when fucking so that way they win

I laughed too much at this ... I wouldn't put it past some guys though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it.

I want to see a face pic in the first few messages to be honest.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Im sure its because most females on here need a bag over their head before being shagged

hey, a mate jamp in and typed that when I went to the loo, it wasn't me, I think all girls on here are very pretty

Not falling for that

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Of course it's only ever males that make first contact with the no real convo other than 'pics please' approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a disturbing about of guys that ask to meet without having seen a face pic.

What's that all about then?

it's what paper bags are for sweetheart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is just a fuck, not a relationship

Many people don't just fuck for the sake of it. We need to be attracted to that person so face pics are essential before meeting.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I don't get it.

I want to see a face pic in the first few messages to be honest."

Me too, there's not point chatting and then realising that person isn't fanciable.

That's going on inbox messages. I've met guys at socials who aren't my 'type' but their personality made them attractive to me.

But that's a very different scenario from the inbox on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't exchange face pics. Make sure you're just a little late to wherever you agree to meet (make sure it's reasonably busy). Message them to check where they are. Then:

1. You get the excitement of checking to see what they actually look like.

2. They don't know who you are yet, therefore if they're mingers you can do a runner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't go to meet someone without knowing what they look like. Yes it is only sex but attraction is important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember the first woman i met on here jeez she was rough asf when i first saw her the small talk too holy fuck it was all about her problems and the stuff she done to herself i dont even know why but i still shagged her and regreted it when i got home.

Went straight to the shower afterwards tbh she was actually a nice person wasnt bad at giving a blowjob either.

Remember another 1 to i met another roughian should have smelt her flat the place smelt like a brothel.

Was straight to the play part prob had a few other men lined up that night she went to kiss me jeezas her breath smelt like some guys spunky cock i was like sorry love im bailing here

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