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Tips for ladies on top

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now I'm pretty confident when it comes to knowing what to do to make a man feel amazing!

I know that a lot of men enjoy a lady being on top and while I like the control this gives, I can't ever seem to get a good enough rhythm going!

I always feel like I'm shit at it!

So I would appreciate any tips from you lovely people please!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Have you ever been horse riding?

It helps the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start gentle and slow, work up, see what feels good for you both, grind and rock your hips, or bounce up and down when you want harder, but just be careful not to bend something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been horse riding?

It helps the flow "

Ooo can you demonstrate on my dildo please?

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Ride a horse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your thighs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rising trot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I'm pretty confident when it comes to knowing what to do to make a man feel amazing!

I know that a lot of men enjoy a lady being on top and while I like the control this gives, I can't ever seem to get a good enough rhythm going!

I always feel like I'm shit at it!

So I would appreciate any tips from you lovely people please!"

I know how you feel lovely.. My legs always cramp very quickly too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can get caught out when they thrust up unexpectedly. It hits a spot inside me and I crumple.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Have you ever been horse riding?

It helps the flow

Ooo can you demonstrate on my dildo please? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more like riding a horse bareback and doing rising trot-not actually using your legs to rise so much as rocking your hips?

Then you can grind into them and get clit stimulation too!

Try and vary speed otherwise it gets a bit dull and angle by leaning down or sometimes right back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, for us it works best if my wife is leaning forward slightly. And it's more of a grinding/rotating motion than riding that does it for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's more like riding a horse bareback and doing rising trot-not actually using your legs to rise so much as rocking your hips?

Then you can grind into them and get clit stimulation too!

Try and vary speed otherwise it gets a bit dull and angle by leaning down or sometimes right back?"

ohi do miss my horseriding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I love a woman on top. It doesnt have to be the mad bouncing up and down like a porn star.

Gentle ricking and pelvic grinding drives me nuts

Another favourite is when a lady sits on me but then leans forward and lays on my chest bring your legs straight and lay them on mine. Such an intense feeling like that especially when kissing too.

Also when sitting up try small circular motion too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Marvellous...some helpful tips.

I used to horse ride..so rising trot..check..will try that!

Using my hips. OK.

My legs always seem to hurt loaf's straight away!

Just need to find someone to practice on now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't help not something I've ever experienced

If anyone wants feedback on techniques I'm happy to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you on your knees or squatting? I like to be on my knees, leaning forward and kissing lots , rocking my hips. Changing it up a bit by sitting up, even leaning back...that hits the spot for me and if I'm going to cum, it will be like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you on your knees or squatting? I like to be on my knees, leaning forward and kissing lots , rocking my hips. Changing it up a bit by sitting up, even leaning back...that hits the spot for me and if I'm going to cum, it will be like that "

leaning back and gripping his leg, knees, ankles depends how bad my back is love that - fuck im so horny today cos of these bloody forums

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Are you on your knees or squatting? I like to be on my knees, leaning forward and kissing lots , rocking my hips. Changing it up a bit by sitting up, even leaning back...that hits the spot for me and if I'm going to cum, it will be like that

leaning back and gripping his leg, knees, ankles depends how bad my back is love that - fuck im so horny today cos of these bloody forums "

Oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do a warm up before. Get the blood circulating and stretch your leg muscles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do a warm up before. Get the blood circulating and stretch your leg muscles. "

Sounds like a good plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put the guys hands on your hips. if he doesn't like the pace you're going at he now has permission to change that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"put the guys hands on your hips. if he doesn't like the pace you're going at he now has permission to change that."

Yip, I was going to say that, also use the headboard or his hands to give something to push off.

Try it squatting with your feet on the bed/floor/couch. I don't do it this way but my friend is 6ft and that's how she does it.

Try to think of a song if you can't get the rythm right.

Wriggle around and use your pelvic floor to squeeze whilst you are on it.

Ask him if he likes it or tell him to show you how he likes it.

Sex is fun and even when it goes wrong just giggle and move on to the next thing. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marvellous...some helpful tips.

I used to horse ride..so rising trot..check..will try that!

Using my hips. OK.

My legs always seem to hurt loaf's straight away!

Just need to find someone to practice on now!"

I tend to mix it up a little between slowly teasing at first (just gliding my pussy along his cock), before sitting on his cock and grinding on him. Then, tightening up gently and slowly start moving up and down before bringing your toes up close to his knees and shifting your weight onto your hands and knees and then going like the clappers. Feel free to repeat as necessary but most guys don't last long if you tease them sufficiently and really get your weight into the 'clappers' bit.

Enjoy!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Marvellous...some helpful tips.

I used to horse ride..so rising trot..check..will try that!

Using my hips. OK.

My legs always seem to hurt loaf's straight away!

Just need to find someone to practice on now!"

Come down to Margate you can practice with me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marvellous...some helpful tips.

I used to horse ride..so rising trot..check..will try that!

Using my hips. OK.

My legs always seem to hurt loaf's straight away!

Just need to find someone to practice on now!

I tend to mix it up a little between slowly teasing at first (just gliding my pussy along his cock), before sitting on his cock and grinding on him. Then, tightening up gently and slowly start moving up and down before bringing your toes up close to his knees and shifting your weight onto your hands and knees and then going like the clappers. Feel free to repeat as necessary but most guys don't last long if you tease them sufficiently and really get your weight into the 'clappers' bit.

Enjoy! "

Wanna bet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not the best on top, sometimes it worries me cos I feel like I can't offer the full experience especially if a guys preference is for girl on top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*faps*

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I get self conscious on top but it feels great so fuck it. Headboard. That's the most useful thing in that position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only really like it leaning forward so I can kiss at the same time. Just sat up straight does nothing for me. So leaning forward, hands on the wall or holding the headboard, smother them with my boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get self conscious on top but it feels great so fuck it. Headboard. That's the most useful thing in that position."

why on earth would you be self concious? You are beautiful!

For me thats a big part of it. Seeing a lady in all her beauty sat on me and enjoying herself

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I get self conscious on top but it feels great so fuck it. Headboard. That's the most useful thing in that position.

why on earth would you be self concious? You are beautiful!

For me thats a big part of it. Seeing a lady in all her beauty sat on me and enjoying herself "

Because I have a gunt, saggy boobs and am klutzy as hell? And in that position all those things are very, very visible maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread, and great tips. I'm not very confident on top!

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

Practice helps build those muscles so you don't cramp.

I always find my muscles turn to jelly just before I cum do I have to work hard to push past the point where my body is screaming to stop cos it's about to get good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty confident on top and just generally do what feels good for me; usually results in the guy enjoying it as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marvellous...some helpful tips.

I used to horse ride..so rising trot..check..will try that!

Using my hips. OK.

My legs always seem to hurt loaf's straight away!

Just need to find someone to practice on now!"

Practice makes perfect....or just loads of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gyrate and move not only up and down but side to side and do slow moves then fast then slow again. Sends them wild

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

If you're enjoying it

I'll be enjoying it

But a slow grind is awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*still fapping*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do a warm up before. Get the blood circulating and stretch your leg muscles. "

Hmmmm you sound like an expert! I could learn from your experience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK...my point of view on this.

Real lady on top is very different from porn lady on top...you don't need to leave room for the cameraman!

As already stated above...on your knees is probably more comfortable. If you are not confident, try 'dry humping' your partner without penetration, rubbing yourself back and forth along his length. This should give you the rocking hip motion (his hands on your hips can also help)

When doing it with penetration, leaning back should help hit your G spot...leaning slightly forward your clit..if there is nothing else to grab onto get him to put his hands out and interlock fingers.. and if you get tired lean forward onto him and let him do some work from underneath!

Don't forget that you can also mix it up and just stay really still and pulse your internal muscles around him..

Same as with any other position it's about finding a rhythm that works for you both and having a few variations you can play around with...from a guys point point of view a single pace unless it hits the spot exactly may be counterproductive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be on your knees not your feet

Face sway from him and hold onto his shind/ ankles..

Comfy for you and a great view for him .

I'm available if you want to practice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be on your knees and dig your high heels into his legs for purchase

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