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By *arol dawn OP   Woman
over a year ago

near margate

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Because you don't have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey, I had to check that it was a lady posing this question as it's usually a gripe by the fellas.

The answer remains the same, no reply = no interest.

Or did you receive abusive replies.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I spoke some get too many message to respond to all.. I take a no response as a polite no thanks..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See site FAQ's on message etiquette.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I can't be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends if it's clear they haven't read our profile. if they can't be bothered to read it why should we be bothered to reply x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nine times out of ten that's what we do OP

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are sent a message by someone that's not your type why can't you just be polite and thanks for looking but your not my type or just a polite massage back???"

You can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

politeness and a reply can sometimes give a wrong signal,then you get bombarded with messages from them as they think they have the right to spark a conversation,so it,s easier to ignore ??

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro


"Blimey, I had to check that it was a lady posing this question as it's usually a gripe by the fellas.

The answer remains the same, no reply = no interest.

Or did you receive abusive replies."

Yes the majority of posts as this are from men, it does say in the FAQ that a no reply IS a polite no thank you. You may or may not agree but thems the facts.

Don't let it worry you, it's not personal and far from unique. Be yourself and be happy and I'm sure you'll be fine looking at your profile.

I do answer all my messages, I say all. All 4 of them and two of them were from guys asking about piercing advice pmsl.

Tc Barry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are sent a message by someone that's not your type why can't you just be polite and thanks for looking but your not my type or just a polite massage back???

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Why should we send a "polite" no thanks,to someone that hasn't had the decency to read our profile or ignored certain aspects,no matter how polite or well worded they believe their message to be?

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro


"If you are sent a message by someone that's not your type why can't you just be polite and thanks for looking but your not my type or just a polite massage back???

Why should we send a "polite" no thanks,to someone that hasn't had the decency to read our profile or ignored certain aspects,no matter how polite or well worded they believe their message to be?"

Yes agree, always read the label. If someone has written a well worded profile, they have done so for a reason. Respect it.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"If you are sent a message by someone that's not your type why can't you just be polite and thanks for looking but your not my type or just a polite massage back???

Why should we send a "polite" no thanks,to someone that hasn't had the decency to read our profile or ignored certain aspects,no matter how polite or well worded they believe their message to be?"

Exactly this !! There's polite and then there's 'polite' .... if your message is 'nicely' written, no text speak, and isn't crude, it still *isn't* polite if it's ALL about you and/or is completely unrelated to my profile - in fact it's damn bloody rude and arrogant and no way will you be getting a reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't reply to anyone unless i like talking to them or want to meet them.

not got the time, or inclination, to mess about telling men i find them unattractive or arseholes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are sent a message by someone that's not your type why can't you just be polite and thanks for looking but your not my type or just a polite massage back???

Why should we send a "polite" no thanks,to someone that hasn't had the decency to read our profile or ignored certain aspects,no matter how polite or well worded they believe their message to be?"

Wow 159 meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are sent a message by someone that's not your type why can't you just be polite and thanks for looking but your not my type or just a polite massage back???

Why should we send a "polite" no thanks,to someone that hasn't had the decency to read our profile or ignored certain aspects,no matter how polite or well worded they believe their message to be?

Wow 159 meets "

Wow,hidden profile

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